FabSwingers.com forum: Abuse

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Amazing the amount of abuse from men on Fab I've received recently.

Does everyone who gets to the top of page 1 get as much?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Just ignore and block . There's always assholes who ruin the site for everyone else !!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Amazing the amount of abuse from men on Fab I've received recently.

Does everyone who gets to the top of page 1 get as much?"

Wouldn't know, I've only ever got as far as page 2

But sending hugs, you don't deserve abuse just some sad twats around with nothing between their ears xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wingers is all they are just not worth the worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some chapsare just silly sausages .The expect reply and meets right now.

My female chums get hundreds of messages a day . And have shown me it would take all day to answer.

So guys be patient and play nicely. Rember negativity is unsexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trolls on t’internet? Who’s have thunk it!

Sorry to hear about the abuse, some people really are pathetic! I know you’re wise enough to let it all wash over you and ignore it.

I guess it’s the downside of putting yourself ‘out there’ and getting attention : console yourself that for every abusive email I’m sure you also get many, many flattering ones too otherwise I guess people wouldn’t allow Fabbing on their pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to change how harsh my profile was....I was getting l abuse daily! I try let it slide but some people are just twisted!

Your pictures are beautiful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing the amount of abuse from men on Fab I've received recently.

Does everyone who gets to the top of page 1 get as much?"

I'm afraid i just don't get it -as they're men it can't be jealousy. Don't pay any attention to it, you look fantastic and it's a well deserved placing.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Just ignore them , they are just narrow minded keyboard gangsters who have nothing better to do and will go for anyone who has a high profile like yourself as in being top of hot photos. If they really are that rude and abusive also report them.

It’s unfortunate that we ge them but that’s life on here.

And by the way. That photo was stunning so well deserved the top spot

Take care xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd have filters set to maximum if I was you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing the amount of abuse from men on Fab I've received recently.

Does everyone who gets to the top of page 1 get as much?"

I have a friend who suffered a lot. Have you reported the swines?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'd have filters set to maximum if I was you!"

good call, it’ll stop the nutters! I note the OP isn’t interacting with anyone anyway from her profile and, if so, filters seems a sensible option to block the trolls!

Good luck, OP. And ignore them!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Depends who’s at the top I guess, Miss Red is regularly on page one and gets lovely feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no reason for unsolicited abuse on here to anyone for any reason.

I guess though for every sad no life abuser there must have been 50 that fabbed the pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the compliments. Pink, I'll ignore that dig.

I suppose I'm just frustrated, I've tried to reply to everyone who's messaged me to thank them, which is no small task even with filters. So getting nasty messages totally out of the blue is so weird. They're all blocked and reported, although I have a suspicion it's not as many people as it would seem....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely no reason for unsolicited abuse on here to anyone for any reason.

I guess though for every sad no life abuser there must have been 50 that fabbed the pic.

6 abusive messages, over 8000 fabs. So no.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I feel your pain, it is tough being visually popular.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Congratulations on getting to page one.

Ignore the idiots

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel your pain, it is tough being visually popular. "

Again, that's a snide comment, ignore my posts as you've been told to do over and over.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I feel your pain, it is tough being visually popular.

Again, that's a snide comment, ignore my posts as you've been told to do over and over."

It actually wasn't.

It seems to be a common occurrence getting abuse when you make hot pics.

By which I don't mean you individually but in general.

But sure if you want to think I meant it negatively then sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely get abusive messages...but there again I very rarely get on page one. Oh tell a lie in never get on page one....blessing in disguise eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been many posts by women saying they get abusive replies when they turn men down. I don't know whether many get out of the blue messages, or if it's connected to the hot pics pages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel your pain, it is tough being visually popular.

Again, that's a snide comment, ignore my posts as you've been told to do over and over.

It actually wasn't.

It seems to be a common occurrence getting abuse when you make hot pics.

By which I don't mean you individually but in general.

But sure if you want to think I meant it negatively then sorry "

'visually popular ' meaning not popular in any other way. Come on. We all know you have a problem with me. You've been told to ignore me time and time again.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I feel your pain, it is tough being visually popular.

Again, that's a snide comment, ignore my posts as you've been told to do over and over."

I did try message you privately but you have filters which is good to see. I get abusive messages everyday and now it’s like water off a ducks back but back in the beginning it did get to me. People on here were great and I got some great advise so I know look upon them as sad individuals who have nothing better to do than abuse others.

At the end of the day we know who we are and once we try and protect ourselves from this abuse and to be honest ignore it we will be just fine. I can see it’s frustrating for you as to wanting to know why but don’t get caught up in it. Block report and enjoy your time on here. Take care x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing the amount of abuse from men on Fab I've received recently.

Does everyone who gets to the top of page 1 get as much?"

the price of fame i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel your pain, it is tough being visually popular.

Again, that's a snide comment, ignore my posts as you've been told to do over and over.

It actually wasn't.

It seems to be a common occurrence getting abuse when you make hot pics.

By which I don't mean you individually but in general.

But sure if you want to think I meant it negatively then sorry "

Is it that common? I've seen women say they received abuse because of who they met or when replying to men. I've not noticed anything about being on hot pics before. I suppose, being up there gets you noticed more, and makes you more of a target.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they do it as a way of getting attention. Then, once they get your attention they say it was a ploy to get your attention and pretend to be all nicey nicey. It's too late then, because you've seen their true arsehole colours!

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Marlon Brando once said ' When I walk into a bar and 99 people out of 100 like me,my attention/mind will be totally on the one who doesnt'

Let it go.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I feel your pain, it is tough being visually popular.

Again, that's a snide comment, ignore my posts as you've been told to do over and over.

It actually wasn't.

It seems to be a common occurrence getting abuse when you make hot pics.

By which I don't mean you individually but in general.

But sure if you want to think I meant it negatively then sorry

'visually popular ' meaning not popular in any other way. Come on. We all know you have a problem with me. You've been told to ignore me time and time again."

I get fabs and no messages...therefore I am visually popular. Maybe take a step back and read it again before jumping to conclusions.

I was simply agreeing with your comment and you are right, there is no need to get abuse for posting photos.

Furthermore I have no problem with anyone on here.

It's a nice photo and I am sorry you got shitty messages, no one deserves that.

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By *unninglinguist600Man
over a year ago

belfast

Unfortunatly internet attracts all sorts of pond life. You ladies have a lot to put up with and makes it so much harder for genuine polite guys to get a look in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations on getting to page one.

Abuse is all to often a common currency on here by some about anything and everything. For a site whose ultimate purpose is mutual pleasure many seem to have missed the point.

But then the haters will always hate the complainers will always complain the miserable will never understand another's happiness.

Hope you simply ignore the negativity that lives here so much of the time and just enjoy the good stuff wherever you find it OP x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel your pain, it is tough being visually popular.

Again, that's a snide comment, ignore my posts as you've been told to do over and over.

It actually wasn't.

It seems to be a common occurrence getting abuse when you make hot pics.

By which I don't mean you individually but in general.

But sure if you want to think I meant it negatively then sorry

'visually popular ' meaning not popular in any other way. Come on. We all know you have a problem with me. You've been told to ignore me time and time again.

I get fabs and no messages...therefore I am visually popular. Maybe take a step back and read it again before jumping to conclusions.

I was simply agreeing with your comment and you are right, there is no need to get abuse for posting photos.

Furthermore I have no problem with anyone on here.

Past experience of you tells me differently.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Amazing the amount of abuse from men on Fab I've received recently.

Does everyone who gets to the top of page 1 get as much?"

Sorry to hear that lovely - it’s a great picture so I can’t see what there could be to criticise/abuse at all!

I get very little abuse from men - more from other women sadly. However - I only get to read about 10% of my messages when I’m on page 1 - so the abusive ones may be in the other 90% I guess.

Seen you post on here enough to know that you have the confidence and strength of personality to rise above it my lovely!

Big hugs xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As always report and block

It is a bit ironic that people answering on this thread saying how bad it is and then go on to abuse people too

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