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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We receive the odd message where the profile picture looks okay but then look at their profile name and think, sorry not on the right page so don't bother replying.

Some are amusing but others are just .

Do some put you off too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. I'm not going to be meeting Mr Minge Marauder

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes

Oh yes...also good ones attract us

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

They should choose with more thought.

Mr Pussy Pumper 2000 (made up btw) is not really inviting.

Then they wonder why no one replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. The choice of name is a reflexion of the type of person they are!

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Oh goodness yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely. I can't lie. Some are horrendous!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Most definitely.

Am bemused when looking at some appealing avatar pictures and then after looking at the profile name, it doesn’t always ‘add up’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my username is very sexy (please look at my profile) LOL

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"We receive the odd message where the profile picture looks okay but then look at their profile name and think, sorry not on the right page so don't bother replying.

Some are amusing but others are just ."

Exactly this

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

*Decides against using ‘Clunge Plunger’ after all*

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By *hrisANtifCouple
over a year ago

Napoli, Italy

100% yes lol!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"I think my username is very sexy "

What part?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely see the name on occasion and just move on by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We receive the odd message where the profile picture looks okay but then look at their profile name and think, sorry not on the right page so don't bother replying.

Some are amusing but others are just .

Do some put you off too?"
of course but mainly guys names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Decides against using ‘Clunge Plunger’ after all* "

You saw this thread just in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah... if a username says its going to destroy any part of my anatomy then its a big no no... i want to be ruined...not destroyed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We receive the odd message where the profile picture looks okay but then look at their profile name and think, sorry not on the right page so don't bother replying.

Some are amusing but others are just .

Do some put you off too?"

Yep definitely, I’ve seen several that I use think really...you think that’s enticing?

Probably could be missing out but hey ho

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Half the time I never remember them, I usually remember people from their features or profile picture, Sometimes it does take me awhile to figure out who it is when they change their avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ChocolateStarfishPenetrator

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By *llfoursWoman
over a year ago

north east


"Yes definitely see the name on occasion and just move on by "

This is me also

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I often wonder what on earth the owner was thinking when they chose some of the more graphic usernames - did they really think it was going to be appealing to write to someone unsolicited with a name like Back Door Destroyer?!

Or are users that choose those names never planning on meeting and just here to perv pics and troll people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm put off names that have anything to do with things I don't like, for instance I'm not a big fan of race play, (nothing to do with the 100m) So I tend to stay away from any username that has "4black, 4BBC, or the like in it, this is my personal preference after all

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means? "

I'm guessing it's when someone alludes to a racial preference in their username

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Im a man, how can i afford to be so shallow on here as to be put off by cock crusher or such like

Serious though there is some whoppers that make the swerve button so very useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means? "

Interracial sex where the focus is on the race of the participants, and phrases like big black cock, and black dick are used in reference to a human being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means?

Interracial sex where the focus is on the race of the participants, and phrases like big black cock, and black dick are used in reference to a human being "

Ahhh my mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na means nawt to me mine for example was just first thing popped in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means?

Interracial sex where the focus is on the race of the participants, and phrases like big black cock, and black dick are used in reference to a human being

Ahhh my mistake "

That's the definition as I see it, I'm not saying you are wrong, that is my explanation of it, you explained it well

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

Oooooh yes, said churchill

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means?

Interracial sex where the focus is on the race of the participants, and phrases like big black cock, and black dick are used in reference to a human being "

Completely agree. Be more human.

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District

Decided not use this profile name on a fanzine forum site.

We have other profile names on a different site as the names are appropriate for that place and do not relate well here.

Some profile names can put us off. Also something about it taking seven seconds for someone to make up their mind about you upon meeting is worth remembering for a first social . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally anything that includes pussy, clit, licker, cock, etc etc etc just looked through my friends list and none include any such references, intelligent witty innuendo will always win over crass for me

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Tv's with names like "wet hole", just makes me think they're suffering from anal discharge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes...also good ones attract us "

Funnily enough, yours would put me off

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

100% yes.

Anyone calling themselves something that makes me cringe get the swerve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a guy who posts in the forums who’s profile name I don’t like but I agree with most things he posts and I find him to be very intelligent so I would meet him regardless of his name.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"We receive the odd message where the profile picture looks okay but then look at their profile name and think, sorry not on the right page so don't bother replying.

Some are amusing but others are just .

Do some put you off too?"
yes very much

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"Oh yes...also good ones attract us

Funnily enough, yours would put me off "

Well that’s OK, each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes...also good ones attract us

Funnily enough, yours would put me off

Well that’s OK, each to their own "

But, having seen your posts in the forums I know it’s just a joke and you come across as lovely people so names I take with a pinch of salt on here

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"Oh yes...also good ones attract us

Funnily enough, yours would put me off

Well that’s OK, each to their own

But, having seen your posts in the forums I know it’s just a joke and you come across as lovely people so names I take with a pinch of salt on here "

Thank you, we try not to provoke and to help move debates on...or (attempt to) be amusing x

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

Never really thought about meeting due to a profile name.

As long as it isn’t Cock-Chopper then I’m ok with most names

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I have to admit I've been put off replying to mail because I've found someone's profile name distasteful (needless to say a meet was never going to happen).

A person's choice in profile name is a reflection of their personality. If its something really vulgar and cheap... Well... Enough said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes...also good ones attract us

Funnily enough, yours would put me off

Well that’s OK, each to their own

But, having seen your posts in the forums I know it’s just a joke and you come across as lovely people so names I take with a pinch of salt on here

Thank you, we try not to provoke and to help move debates on...or (attempt to) be amusing x"

I do find it amusing when you reply and quote on the forums and sign your name and the other person thinks you’re calling them a twat or bitch

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"*Decides against using ‘Clunge Plunger’ after all* "

Go with 'Minge Binger' instead. It's far classier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Careful not to overthink the irrelevant

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Its all about first impressions really I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its all about first impressions really I suppose."
yes example M&M they make me think of chocolate........drillafrommanilla makes me think of a philippino sweat shop

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Definitely

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Its all about first impressions really I suppose.yes example M&M they make me think of chocolate........drillafrommanilla makes me think of a philippino sweat shop "

Ah, but are we nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its all about first impressions really I suppose.yes example M&M they make me think of chocolate........drillafrommanilla makes me think of a philippino sweat shop

Ah, but are we nuts "
oooooooo Cadburys bake em and they cover them with chocolate

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Its all about first impressions really I suppose.yes example M&M they make me think of chocolate........drillafrommanilla makes me think of a philippino sweat shop

Ah, but are we nuts oooooooo Cadburys bake em and they cover them with chocolate "

Wrong thread, ads you loved from the past, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its all about first impressions really I suppose.yes example M&M they make me think of chocolate........drillafrommanilla makes me think of a philippino sweat shop

Ah, but are we nuts oooooooo Cadburys bake em and they cover them with chocolate

Wrong thread, ads you loved from the past, lol "
lol did a few .......get in the bowl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means?

Interracial sex where the focus is on the race of the participants, and phrases like big black cock, and black dick are used in reference to a human being "

That kind of stuff puts me off as well. Not that I'm usually the focus of their attention, but I've had a couple try to contact me. They don't like it when I explain why either

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely, but it works both ways.

Sometimes a usernames gives a better insight that the actual profile

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Some names definitely put me off.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Yes, crass or crude user names put me off. One of my hotlist recently changed his to one that made me go , so I ditched him off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do

Some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some do

Some don't "
jo omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought long an hard about my user name, had several on the shortlist, used twitter polls to judge public perception, here is the final top 5 which led to me picking my current username

1. steblue

2. its_a_hard_cock_life

3. cum_mac_ine_3000

4. dirtyshagmiester_2018

5. skankshagger

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I thought long an hard about my user name, had several on the shortlist, used twitter polls to judge public perception, here is the final top 5 which led to me picking my current username

1. steblue

2. its_a_hard_cock_life

3. cum_mac_ine_3000

4. dirtyshagmiester_2018

5. skankshagger"

Um.....do you mind if I borrow the last one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought long an hard about my user name, had several on the shortlist, used twitter polls to judge public perception, here is the final top 5 which led to me picking my current username

1. steblue

2. its_a_hard_cock_life

3. cum_mac_ine_3000

4. dirtyshagmiester_2018

5. skankshagger

Um.....do you mind if I borrow the last one ? "

Mate its all yours, only just scraped 5th position ahead of felcher

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"Oh yes...also good ones attract us

Funnily enough, yours would put me off

Well that’s OK, each to their own

But, having seen your posts in the forums I know it’s just a joke and you come across as lovely people so names I take with a pinch of salt on here

Thank you, we try not to provoke and to help move debates on...or (attempt to) be amusing x

I do find it amusing when you reply and quote on the forums and sign your name and the other person thinks you’re calling them a twat or bitch "

Ah yes, I was sent to the naughty step for that once...hmm...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Names... Some often make me wonder about the person's mentality.

I'll admit, I get messages, one look at the username & it's an instant delete, don't even check profile or read message.

I got told I was shallow for pre judging people this way, maybe I am, but I really have no interest in interacting with Mr* gonna destroy you, big load, hardfucker, mingemauler, pussy slayer.

*names may have been changed to protect the uninnocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Names... Some often make me wonder about the person's mentality.

I'll admit, I get messages, one look at the username & it's an instant delete, don't even check profile or read message.

I got told I was shallow for pre judging people this way, maybe I am, but I really have no interest in interacting with Mr* gonna destroy you, big load, hardfucker, mingemauler, pussy slayer.

*names may have been changed to protect the uninnocent "

Wholeheartedly agree plus any women with "slut" or similar in their name also.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Hmmm......what about, ‘Fanny Fiddler’? It has a sort of innocent ring to it without being overly vulgar.

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Absolutely, some round our way with things like 'massive cummer' or 'willmakeyousquirt' etc. Instant turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to go with Analnugget but my other half thought that was a piece of sh@t !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm......what about, ‘Fanny Fiddler’? It has a sort of innocent ring to it without being overly vulgar. "

Innocent?? Really??

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means? "

Who cums quickest?!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Hmmm......what about, ‘Fanny Fiddler’? It has a sort of innocent ring to it without being overly vulgar.

Innocent?? Really?? "

Hmmmm.....‘Vag Grabber’ maybe?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hmmm......what about, ‘Fanny Fiddler’? It has a sort of innocent ring to it without being overly vulgar.

Innocent?? Really??

Hmmmm.....‘Vag Grabber’ maybe? "

You have a very nice bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, doesn't really bother me. It's more about the behaviour and attitude of the person(s). I try not to judge a book etc...

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Hmmm......what about, ‘Fanny Fiddler’? It has a sort of innocent ring to it without being overly vulgar.

Innocent?? Really??

Hmmmm.....‘Vag Grabber’ maybe?

You have a very nice bottom. "

Ah ha! That’s inspired me - ‘Bottom Feeder’ it is then

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hmmm......what about, ‘Fanny Fiddler’? It has a sort of innocent ring to it without being overly vulgar.

Innocent?? Really??

Hmmmm.....‘Vag Grabber’ maybe?

You have a very nice bottom.

Ah ha! That’s inspired me - ‘Bottom Feeder’ it is then "

*stands out of the way of the stampede*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm......what about, ‘Fanny Fiddler’? It has a sort of innocent ring to it without being overly vulgar.

Innocent?? Really??

Hmmmm.....‘Vag Grabber’ maybe? "

Could make a couples profile Vag+Veg grabber

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Slips out of thread quietly...

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes totally ! All hard cock , pussy feeder ,want your pussy ,fuck now etc ! This are examples put me off alone !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Little miss blue waffle might put me off for a name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge usernames unless it's something I find disgusting. Even then, I won't judge the person negatively based on their name alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I tend to ignore usernames with the likes of destroyer or wrecker in them lol

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to "

More than any profile name in our case along with action shots.

Just our preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to

More than any profile name in our case along with action shots.

Just our preference."
your pics are very nicely done

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to

More than any profile name in our case along with action shots.

Just our preference.your pics are very nicely done "

Mr is a dab hand with his Nikon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to "

Are you sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile name puts some people off but it’s not a bad thing as far as we are concerned , it immediately tells people our type of relationship so those that don’t understand our dynamics or haven’t any interests in our type of play don’t need to waste their time reading our profile because they will already know we aren’t a suitable match we are not by any means into full on bdsm or anything too extreme but we do like people who have an interest or at least understanding of d/s play trying to keep explaining to people who have no idea can get tedious !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile name puts some people off but it’s not a bad thing as far as we are concerned , it immediately tells people our type of relationship so those that don’t understand our dynamics or haven’t any interests in our type of play don’t need to waste their time reading our profile because they will already know we aren’t a suitable match we are not by any means into full on bdsm or anything too extreme but we do like people who have an interest or at least understanding of d/s play trying to keep explaining to people who have no idea can get tedious !

"

Fab definately needs some "Sticky posts" Or a glossary of terms.. I'm fed up of having to explain the difference between BDSM and D/S as well.. lovley when I bump into someone who already understands and is on my wavelength.. maybe it's good to have the bad? So we can appreciate the awesome for what it is?

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By *othrockercplCouple
over a year ago

Halloween Town

Would a rose by any other name really smell as sweet?

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"Would a rose by any other name really smell as sweet?

"

“What is love?” ...also the first earworm of the day (Howard Jones early 80s for the youngsters on here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like vulgar names, like my own. It's easily remembered.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"They should choose with more thought.

Mr Pussy Pumper 2000 (made up btw) is not really inviting.

Then they wonder why no one replies "

Or cumdumpwhore69 type names who start threads complaining men treat them like erm cum dump whores. ..go figure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile name puts some people off but it’s not a bad thing as far as we are concerned , it immediately tells people our type of relationship so those that don’t understand our dynamics or haven’t any interests in our type of play don’t need to waste their time reading our profile because they will already know we aren’t a suitable match we are not by any means into full on bdsm or anything too extreme but we do like people who have an interest or at least understanding of d/s play trying to keep explaining to people who have no idea can get tedious !

Fab definately needs some "Sticky posts" Or a glossary of terms.. I'm fed up of having to explain the difference between BDSM and D/S as well.. lovley when I bump into someone who already understands and is on my wavelength.. maybe it's good to have the bad? So we can appreciate the awesome for what it is?"

We can appreciate the awesome regardless but you’re right it’s so great when we chat and people already understand or are genuinely keen to learn rather than dismiss it or worse .. they watch 50 shades and assume they know it all

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Absolutely!! I hate cheesy names so much that I just chose to give myself a serial number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile name puts some people off but it’s not a bad thing as far as we are concerned , it immediately tells people our type of relationship so those that don’t understand our dynamics or haven’t any interests in our type of play don’t need to waste their time reading our profile because they will already know we aren’t a suitable match we are not by any means into full on bdsm or anything too extreme but we do like people who have an interest or at least understanding of d/s play trying to keep explaining to people who have no idea can get tedious !

Fab definately needs some "Sticky posts" Or a glossary of terms.. I'm fed up of having to explain the difference between BDSM and D/S as well.. lovley when I bump into someone who already understands and is on my wavelength.. maybe it's good to have the bad? So we can appreciate the awesome for what it is?

We can appreciate the awesome regardless but you’re right it’s so great when we chat and people already understand or are genuinely keen to learn rather than dismiss it or worse .. they watch 50 shades and assume they know it all "
That book needs destroying

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes


"Our profile name puts some people off but it’s not a bad thing as far as we are concerned , it immediately tells people our type of relationship so those that don’t understand our dynamics or haven’t any interests in our type of play don’t need to waste their time reading our profile because they will already know we aren’t a suitable match we are not by any means into full on bdsm or anything too extreme but we do like people who have an interest or at least understanding of d/s play trying to keep explaining to people who have no idea can get tedious !

Fab definately needs some "Sticky posts" Or a glossary of terms.. I'm fed up of having to explain the difference between BDSM and D/S as well.. lovley when I bump into someone who already understands and is on my wavelength.. maybe it's good to have the bad? So we can appreciate the awesome for what it is?

We can appreciate the awesome regardless but you’re right it’s so great when we chat and people already understand or are genuinely keen to learn rather than dismiss it or worse .. they watch 50 shades and assume they know it all That book needs destroying "

But then it would be Pulp Fiction

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Don't mind these usernames. Very quick filter to know we're not compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to

More than any profile name in our case along with action shots.

Just our preference.your pics are very nicely done

Mr is a dab hand with his Nikon "
I bet he is

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I see some cringe worthy user names and some oxymorons too, ie little# hot# etc but some of these are subjective to. Some might use my name as a block reason along with my profile.

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