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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you into only what you are yourself? Or open to other races?

Maybe some your into and not into and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you into only what you are yourself? Or open to other races?

Maybe some your into and not into and why? "

Really don't think skin colour makes any difference it's what's inside that makes the difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I totally agree...I’m with you on that one...but everyone has there own opinion...some are sexually attracted to all and some not so just wanted different peoples opinions ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is that out of preference because there’s not an attraction or ?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Am open to all races.. contrast is erotic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am open to all races.. contrast is erotic."

???? I have the same opinion...some can be afraid of change...but until you’ve tried you don’t if you like it

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

We are all the same inside so I have no preference whatsoever just because our backgrounds may be different should it be a barrier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s right but is that really the reality in today’s world...a sexual attraction can be to anyone but I see a large number prefer there only there own colour which is not necessarily a bad thing, I just want to know peoples opinion on why that is...what’s there reasons behind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not entirely sure most prefer to be with same as themselves especially on here lots of ladies only want BBC many people have big cocks it's the black side they prefer

As I said before I don't have any preference it's inside that counts but tanned or darker skin does look healthier and reminds people of happy times usually on holiday

As a contrast to this I do remember reading somewhere that people are more attracted to others with similar facial appearance nose eyes shape etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just never tried is all always had white girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no preference. As long as someone doesn't fetishsise themselves to me by their skin colour or cock size, or my skin colour for them, then I'm open to all.

Not knocking those who do have a fetish for skin colours or cock sizes, I don't and just find it cringey when someone tries to use either like it would make any difference to me wanting to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say we're more likely to marry people that look like our parents let alone other races

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I can remember finding it incredibly awful many years ago when someone I knew set out to sleep with a black girl purely so he could say he had "had one". Unfortunately he was a bully and a loudmouth and the type that would swing his fists if anyone dared tell him he was wrong too.

For me it's all about attraction and personality regardless of skin colour etc - understand and respect that people have "types" though and as others have said so long as that doesn't come through as some sort of fetishisation or is grounded in bigotry then I don't see why it would be any different with preferring someone with blonde hair and green eyes

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I was married to a black man, he is the father of my children. My current partner is white.

The colour of my current partner's skin paid no part in us getting together.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We are all the same inside so I have no preference whatsoever just because our backgrounds may be different should it be a barrier "

I would probably not have much in common with a Jamaican my age arriving in the UK today. The ones I know who have been here years have little in common with me.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Like it or but as much as attraction includes personality it will boil down to physical attractiveness more so than anything else. Skin colour is something that will be a factor in this regard for some, a few or most.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Outside white and black...it’s a big world out there...I met a girl originally from Ukraine , a lovely girl an to be honest she stands out to me as the nicest person I’ve met in here an the best sex I’ve had on here too...

For me personally, I’m sexual attraction is to those who have good manners, someone I click with and have common ground with...over talking and getting to know someone better for me it builds a better sexual attraction knowing I’m attracted to them physically yes, but also attracted to there inside...an it makes sex that much better

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Like it or not*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Physical attraction I agree is most the foremost, but once you’ve spoken freely with another person if your personalities are very different from the offset the attraction physically might still be there but not mentally... when I’m mentally and physically attracted to someone sex is so much better whether that be a lady of any origin

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By *sian_coupleukCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We have no problem playing with people from different backgrounds.

One of our very 1st meets in the world of swinging was a very polite and sexy black couple who actually made us feel relaxed and let us get deeper into this lifestyle.

We have played with white couples, single white men, asian couples, single asian men. We haven’t played with a single black Male yet so that could be something next on our list.

But for us it’s all about the personality and attitude of people, we are non pushy and discrete and expect the same. We also have certain rules (for safety and pleasure of female) that we expect to be adhere too, it’s not a free for all shag, we have some standards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all the same inside so I have no preference whatsoever just because our backgrounds may be different should it be a barrier "

we are not all the same inside that’s actually a myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am open to meeting people of all races but I find very few black and Indian people physically attractive (much as I very rarely find baby faced Caucasians or body builder types attractive).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please "

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice..."

To specifucally answer your question. There are certain races that I find sexually attractive and some I don't. There are also exceptions to all of course. As to why, I simply don't know. I am just along for the ride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice..."

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think there is psychologically something in many peoples mind that there natural preference is someone of there own race... is it that some people are afraid to try something different ... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there is psychologically something in many peoples mind that there natural preference is someone of there own race... is it that some people are afraid to try something different ... ?"

It’s probably a host of things to be fair, ignorance, uninformed, preference. Naturally if your raised in a place dominated by one race you may be more inclined to go with that race

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Do you think there is psychologically something in many peoples mind that there natural preference is someone of there own race... is it that some people are afraid to try something different ... ?"

Yes. To both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?"

Me personally I agree with you. Every person has there own uniqueness, people from different backgrounds, different cultures...different upbringing, and different places in the world where they have spent time...so opinions will vary from person to person, not all will think alike... but in today’s modern multicultural society , there is much diversity ... and everyone’s entitled to there own opinion and have there own preferences on what they like an what they want...

For me it’s as simple as...intelligence and common ground is a huge attraction...a mental connection and a physical attraction whether this be someone of any ethnicity...but that’s me

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

We fuck anything with a pulse

Apologies for my crudeness, but that's just how it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We fuck anything with a pulse

Apologies for my crudeness, but that's just how it is "

I like your style

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"

We fuck anything with a pulse

Apologies for my crudeness, but that's just how it is "

I'm in finally!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

We fuck anything with a pulse

Apologies for my crudeness, but that's just how it is "

I hope that doesn’t include sheep ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a massive fan of IR, love the contrast of white skin next to mine.

The problem lies when you get guys who only want to meet you because they've never been with a black woman and are under the impression it's some how different/better than being with a white woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?"

I'm the same, I happily meet white men but would probably not date/be in a relationship with one in 'Real life's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't give two hoots about the colour of anyone's skin. If I find someone attractive then I find them attractive.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Skin is skin, and skin on skin is delicious between human beings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skin is skin, and skin on skin is delicious between human beings."

Huh

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

My wife and i would love to swap with a black couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Asian (Thai) and most of men who's contacting us alway said my partner is a lucky man no idea why ?

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Why should the colour of anyone's skin matter a jot!! I find that black and asian ladies ignore me equally as much as white ladies do on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the colour of anyone's skin matter a jot!! I find that black and asian ladies ignore me equally as much as white ladies do on here. "

Haha snap

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm Asian (Thai) and most of men who's contacting us alway said my partner is a lucky man no idea why ?

"

What car does he drive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Asian (Thai) and most of men who's contacting us alway said my partner is a lucky man no idea why ?

What car does he drive?"

He used public transport Lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the colour of anyone's skin matter a jot!! I find that black and asian ladies ignore me equally as much as white ladies do on here. "

Because as much as people like to pretend race doesn’t come into play it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife and i would love to swap with a black couple. "
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Whu

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why should the colour of anyone's skin matter a jot!! I find that black and asian ladies ignore me equally as much as white ladies do on here.

Because as much as people like to pretend race doesn’t come into play it does"

I agree ...it does...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm Asian (Thai) and most of men who's contacting us alway said my partner is a lucky man no idea why ?

"

He sure is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll fuck any colour skin. From the blackest of black, to the whitest of white and every shade in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Asian (Thai) and most of men who's contacting us alway said my partner is a lucky man no idea why ?

What car does he drive?"

Oh my God Clem, you're being car-ist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately in Ireland there are virtually no Asian or very few black ladies for fun but there is a few fine black and white guys

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I am seeing someone at the moment who is half Jamaican, he is the first non white person I have been with, not for any other reason than I just had not met anyone of another origin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the colour of anyone's skin matter a jot!! I find that black and asian ladies ignore me equally as much as white ladies do on here.

Because as much as people like to pretend race doesn’t come into play it does"

Only have to look at the 100s of threads accusing people of being racist because they don't want to play with certain races to understand why people act like that though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone has a right to what they like and dislike...if there’s a sexual preference of a certain race that’s there opinion, but any person should be judged upon there characteristics not there colour...there’s nice people and horrible people, that’s my outlook on this but in today’s society it’s a very mixed and different opinion...

If someone is a nice genuine person,an there is a form of mutual attraction...that does it for me

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Sometimes these threads make my head hurt

I’m going for a lie down.

Kinky

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We prefer to take each and every person by their own merit regardless of who they are or where they come from.

I have to confess to having a bit of a thing for interracial porn... Bang Bros etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't see why this should even be a consideration in the 21st century!?!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Daily life for us and we've never really thought about it in that way, we just get on and have a lot in common. As far as fab goes; for us it's irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the colour of anyone's skin matter a jot!! I find that black and asian ladies ignore me equally as much as white ladies do on here.

Because as much as people like to pretend race doesn’t come into play it does

I agree ...it does... "

It may do for some, not for others.

It makes no difference to me as I want to connect with people, not a Dulux chart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the colour of anyone's skin matter a jot!! I find that black and asian ladies ignore me equally as much as white ladies do on here.

Because as much as people like to pretend race doesn’t come into play it does

I agree ...it does...

It may do for some, not for others.

It makes no difference to me as I want to connect with people, not a Dulux chart."

“I want to connect with people” Jesus Christ I imagine you having boring sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the colour of anyone's skin matter a jot!! I find that black and asian ladies ignore me equally as much as white ladies do on here.

Because as much as people like to pretend race doesn’t come into play it does

I agree ...it does...

It may do for some, not for others.

It makes no difference to me as I want to connect with people, not a Dulux chart.

“I want to connect with people” Jesus Christ I imagine you having boring sex "

As I'm not into men you don't need to concern yourself about it.

What would you have preferred I said?

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Am open to all races.. contrast is erotic."

+1

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Anyone that passes the smell test will do for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still wondering what my answer should have been...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still wondering what my answer should have been..."

Let it go mate. He just wanted to advertise himself and I doubt it had anything to do with your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still wondering what my answer should have been...

Let it go mate. He just wanted to advertise himself and I doubt it had anything to do with your post. "

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By *akingTheClungeMan
over a year ago

Havant

I'd try oriental any time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still wondering what my answer should have been...

Let it go mate. He just wanted to advertise himself and I doubt it had anything to do with your post.

"

Keep wondering and no I wasn’t advertising myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should the colour of anyone's skin matter a jot!! I find that black and asian ladies ignore me equally as much as white ladies do on here.

Because as much as people like to pretend race doesn’t come into play it does

I agree ...it does...

It may do for some, not for others.

It makes no difference to me as I want to connect with people, not a Dulux chart.

“I want to connect with people” Jesus Christ I imagine you having boring sex "

That was bang out of order. Some people prefer a connection to have good fulfilling sex. To criticise his preference was rude.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Why should the colour of anyone's skin matter a jot!! I find that black and asian ladies ignore me equally as much as white ladies do on here.

Because as much as people like to pretend race doesn’t come into play it does"

Not with everyone. Fact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?"

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?"

Hoping to preserve my lineage

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

I'm physically attracted to certain ethnicities more than white people for some reason.

Skin hue is definitely part of it. Opposites most definitely attract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage"

Those are the kind of things I'd expect a white plantation owner to have said back in sadder days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's still baffling me in 2018 people are thinking like this and not just looking at the other person's personally likes dislikes sense of humour etc etc we are all just humans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage

Those are the kind of things I'd expect a white plantation owner to have said back in sadder days."

Catch up people are the same in 2018

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage

Those are the kind of things I'd expect a white plantation owner to have said back in sadder days.

Catch up people are the same in 2018"

Some maybe, but most people have changed. Education and awareness have shined a light on our prejudices, ignorance and bigotry.

You can take a horse to water but you can't make it drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage

Those are the kind of things I'd expect a white plantation owner to have said back in sadder days.

Catch up"

some
" people are the same in 2018"

Ftfy.

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over a year ago

We're an interracial couple so it would be odd for us if we have a problem with it but we have to admit we dislike people who tend to fetishize it or assume over it, e.g. White and Asian guys messaging us with "I've always wanted a black girl" etc or the Black guys who message us assuming because she's black then she must want a bbc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage

Those are the kind of things I'd expect a white plantation owner to have said back in sadder days.

Catch up people are the same in 2018

Some maybe, but most people have changed. Education and awareness have shined a light on our prejudices, ignorance and bigotry.

You can take a horse to water but you can't make it drink."

If you teach a man to fish ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage

Those are the kind of things I'd expect a white plantation owner to have said back in sadder days."

There are ALOT of black and Asian people who still feel like this, it's not a 'white' or plantation thing. If people don't choose to mix when having children that's their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage

Those are the kind of things I'd expect a white plantation owner to have said back in sadder days.

There are ALOT of black and Asian people who still feel like this, it's not a 'white' or plantation thing. If people don't choose to mix when having children that's their choice "

That is my point.

When a member of one race, any race, thinks that all women from another race 'are hot' and good enough to have sex with, but has predetermined that none of the women (or men) in that race are good enough to have children with.....thats racism.

Just because 'ALOT' of people want to call it a preference doesn't change the fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage"

Is that some form of racism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage

Those are the kind of things I'd expect a white plantation owner to have said back in sadder days.

There are ALOT of black and Asian people who still feel like this, it's not a 'white' or plantation thing. If people don't choose to mix when having children that's their choice

That is my point.

When a member of one race, any race, thinks that all women from another race 'are hot' and good enough to have sex with, but has predetermined that none of the women (or men) in that race are good enough to have children with.....thats racism.

Just because 'ALOT' of people want to call it a preference doesn't change the fact."

That's what I was thinking.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage

Those are the kind of things I'd expect a white plantation owner to have said back in sadder days.

There are ALOT of black and Asian people who still feel like this, it's not a 'white' or plantation thing. If people don't choose to mix when having children that's their choice

That is my point.

When a member of one race, any race, thinks that all women from another race 'are hot' and good enough to have sex with, but has predetermined that none of the women (or men) in that race are good enough to have children with.....thats racism.

Just because 'ALOT' of people want to call it a preference doesn't change the fact.

That's what I was thinking. "

It's almost the textbook definition of racism. You think your own ethnicity is so important that you don't want it "mixed" in any way.

Obviously it's all bollocks. No one has a "pure" ethnicity, we are all mixed to a greater or lesser degree.

It's equally obviously your choice as to who you parent with but if you talk about preserving your lineage and such like expect to be called out for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many threads do we need on this in one weekend?

I'd have sex with anyone I'm attracted to.. which doesn't exclude any ethnicity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's all about connection with the person that counts and has too be an attraction .Got too have something's in common .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

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over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views "

You fucking what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

You fucking what? "

exactly what I said !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

You fucking what? exactly what I said !"

You've got black and Asian friends, but you don't think any of them belong with a white woman.. even if that's what they wanted and they found one who wanted them?

You're not racist? I'd argue that you most definately are and I'd add you're a hypocrite for denying it.

Unless you can give us all a decent explanation as to how your "Old school views" Aren't racist.

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By *ettitsWoman
over a year ago

- side you

Any Portuguese men?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views "

can i ask you why?

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over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why?"

probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views "

Is old skool a euphemism for

Racist idiot ?

You are right your view is exceptionally simple fortunately good humans of any skin tone or origin do not need your agreement to be with one another

What is frightening is you dare state such a distorted opinion openly and that you may perpetuate your abhorrent racist view point

Btw what is it you find so disgusting about white women that you don't think non so called white men should be protected from ?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits "

Being racist is not moral xxx

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I totally agree...I’m with you on that one...but everyone has there own opinion...some are sexually attracted to all and some not so just wanted different peoples opinions ??"

Sexually men of colour don't physically attract me yet i can enjoy looking at a good looking man of colour...

Also men with light hair/gingers don't sexually attract me nor do perfectly toned men either. I like looking at David Beckham but i wouldn't want to shag him!

LMP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits "

yes, but im asking for the reason for those views? what is the moral reason, for instance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx"

read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views! "

I think people understand you’ve friends of ethnicity different to yours. But you’re being asked what your reasoning is for the certain views you say you hold?

You don’t have to answer, of course. But you’re simply being asked what your thinking is after posting an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views! "

yes, that is what im asking...what is the reason for those views? if someone has a particular view on something, surely they why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

yes, that is what im asking...what is the reason for those views? if someone has a particular view on something, surely they why?"

*know why..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

yes, that is what im asking...what is the reason for those views? if someone has a particular view on something, surely they why?

*know why.."

I'd like to know what he thinks of people like me (Not me specifically, bit feel free to add that as well) who do have sex with people of different ethnicity than myself.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views! "

You have mates ? Real mates or you just know them

I'm not sure there is a friend I would ever say , I don't think you should go with her because

And the only reason I give is her skin tone ?

The view that ethnicities should not mix , is indeed old skool , just as slavery is and men feeling women up at work

The basis for thinking they should not mix is tribal which is generally Racist and pure unashamed racism a negative judgment towards all members of a particular group

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views "

Well you’re an easy block. What a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

You have mates ? Real mates or you just know them

I'm not sure there is a friend I would ever say , I don't think you should go with her because

And the only reason I give is her skin tone ?

The view that ethnicities should not mix , is indeed old skool , just as slavery is and men feeling women up at work

The basis for thinking they should not mix is tribal which is generally Racist and pure unashamed racism a negative judgment towards all members of a particular group

"

Woh! Tribal does not mean racist.. you can have a Tribe of football fans or villages of various ethnicity. Tribal is a social structure and a mentality.. nothing to do with racism.. but it can be attached to a racist Tribe of people.

Everything else was good though.

Sorry.. I'm quite pro and passionate about Tribalism.

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over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

Well you’re an easy block. What a cunt "

I know right!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

You have mates ? Real mates or you just know them

I'm not sure there is a friend I would ever say , I don't think you should go with her because

And the only reason I give is her skin tone ?

The view that ethnicities should not mix , is indeed old skool , just as slavery is and men feeling women up at work

The basis for thinking they should not mix is tribal which is generally Racist and pure unashamed racism a negative judgment towards all members of a particular group

Woh! Tribal does not mean racist.. you can have a Tribe of football fans or villages of various ethnicity. Tribal is a social structure and a mentality.. nothing to do with racism.. but it can be attached to a racist Tribe of people.

Everything else was good though.

Sorry.. I'm quite pro and passionate about Tribalism. "

I did hesitate , I'd suggest that tribalism is indeed a precursor to racism although not all tribalism is racist it is certainly discriminatory prejudgmental and loves to make decisions based upon generalisations or simplistic made up arbitrary lines that in reality are meaningless and divisive xxx

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

You have mates ? Real mates or you just know them

I'm not sure there is a friend I would ever say , I don't think you should go with her because

And the only reason I give is her skin tone ?

The view that ethnicities should not mix , is indeed old skool , just as slavery is and men feeling women up at work

The basis for thinking they should not mix is tribal which is generally Racist and pure unashamed racism a negative judgment towards all members of a particular group

Woh! Tribal does not mean racist.. you can have a Tribe of football fans or villages of various ethnicity. Tribal is a social structure and a mentality.. nothing to do with racism.. but it can be attached to a racist Tribe of people.

Everything else was good though.

Sorry.. I'm quite pro and passionate about Tribalism. "

From my perspective, tribalism looks for small differences to divide humanity by

Where as I prefer to look at the attributes that unite us

I'd suggest all racism is an extension of tribalism x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skin colour means as much as hair colour to me - nada, all that matters is there is an attraction there.

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over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

You have mates ? Real mates or you just know them

I'm not sure there is a friend I would ever say , I don't think you should go with her because

And the only reason I give is her skin tone ?

The view that ethnicities should not mix , is indeed old skool , just as slavery is and men feeling women up at work

The basis for thinking they should not mix is tribal which is generally Racist and pure unashamed racism a negative judgment towards all members of a particular group

Woh! Tribal does not mean racist.. you can have a Tribe of football fans or villages of various ethnicity. Tribal is a social structure and a mentality.. nothing to do with racism.. but it can be attached to a racist Tribe of people.

Everything else was good though.

Sorry.. I'm quite pro and passionate about Tribalism.

From my perspective, tribalism looks for small differences to divide humanity by

Where as I prefer to look at the attributes that unite us

I'd suggest all racism is an extension of tribalism x"

ok.. I'd say Tribalism is the maintenance of strong family and local people. People who live interdependent lives and rely on their strong social bonds to support one another.

The Forums are a Tribe of a sort. There are also Tribes within the Forum Tribe. Some are negative, some positive, some neutral.

Historically most Tribes of people have been divided by ethnicity, so I do see where you are coming from and you make a good point.

It doesn't have to be that way and isn't always that way, now we live in a multicultural society.

A cricket club in Birmingham could have a strong team based sense of Tribalism. With members who have roots in Trinidad, the Bahamas, Poland, India, Pakistan, English, Welsh, Scotland etc. It's the love of Cricket that brings them together and forms a sense of Tribalism. They compete against other Tribes, but with a sense of fair play and a belonging to the wider Tribal Culture of Cricket as a whole.

It doesn't have to be racist or involve racism or division in any way.. not now.

Maybe we're both right?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits "

Oh dear - I am afraid that is totally racist lol!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

You have mates ? Real mates or you just know them

I'm not sure there is a friend I would ever say , I don't think you should go with her because

And the only reason I give is her skin tone ?

The view that ethnicities should not mix , is indeed old skool , just as slavery is and men feeling women up at work

The basis for thinking they should not mix is tribal which is generally Racist and pure unashamed racism a negative judgment towards all members of a particular group

Woh! Tribal does not mean racist.. you can have a Tribe of football fans or villages of various ethnicity. Tribal is a social structure and a mentality.. nothing to do with racism.. but it can be attached to a racist Tribe of people.

Everything else was good though.

Sorry.. I'm quite pro and passionate about Tribalism.

From my perspective, tribalism looks for small differences to divide humanity by

Where as I prefer to look at the attributes that unite us

I'd suggest all racism is an extension of tribalism x"

I think it is an extrapolation of it. I do believe the human race is tribal by nature, and that can be a force for good or evil.

(see what i did there..... )

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Are you into only what you are yourself? Or open to other races?

Maybe some your into and not into and why? "

We're attracted to people ... A person's skin colour, or country of origin, doesn't make them more or less attractive to us.

We have had more meets with those who are white British, simply because that is the largest percentage of club goers.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

You have mates ? Real mates or you just know them

I'm not sure there is a friend I would ever say , I don't think you should go with her because

And the only reason I give is her skin tone ?

The view that ethnicities should not mix , is indeed old skool , just as slavery is and men feeling women up at work

The basis for thinking they should not mix is tribal which is generally Racist and pure unashamed racism a negative judgment towards all members of a particular group

Woh! Tribal does not mean racist.. you can have a Tribe of football fans or villages of various ethnicity. Tribal is a social structure and a mentality.. nothing to do with racism.. but it can be attached to a racist Tribe of people.

Everything else was good though.

Sorry.. I'm quite pro and passionate about Tribalism.

From my perspective, tribalism looks for small differences to divide humanity by

Where as I prefer to look at the attributes that unite us

I'd suggest all racism is an extension of tribalism x

I think it is an extrapolation of it. I do believe the human race is tribal by nature, and that can be a force for good or evil.

(see what i did there..... )"

I did.. made me go all funny in my groin

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"How many threads do we need on this in one weekend?

I'd have sex with anyone I'm attracted to.. which doesn't exclude any ethnicity. "

Exactly this.

Racism seems to be the theme of the weekend.

On a plus point, it's great for filters

Nita

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

You have mates ? Real mates or you just know them

I'm not sure there is a friend I would ever say , I don't think you should go with her because

And the only reason I give is her skin tone ?

The view that ethnicities should not mix , is indeed old skool , just as slavery is and men feeling women up at work

The basis for thinking they should not mix is tribal which is generally Racist and pure unashamed racism a negative judgment towards all members of a particular group

Woh! Tribal does not mean racist.. you can have a Tribe of football fans or villages of various ethnicity. Tribal is a social structure and a mentality.. nothing to do with racism.. but it can be attached to a racist Tribe of people.

Everything else was good though.

Sorry.. I'm quite pro and passionate about Tribalism.

From my perspective, tribalism looks for small differences to divide humanity by

Where as I prefer to look at the attributes that unite us

I'd suggest all racism is an extension of tribalism x

I think it is an extrapolation of it. I do believe the human race is tribal by nature, and that can be a force for good or evil.

(see what i did there..... )

I did.. made me go all funny in my groin "

I often have that effect....

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

This thread is an eye opener. Apparently there are people in the UK in 2018 who think that people of different ethnicities having sex or having children together is somehow wrong.

I'm astounded.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

This thread is an eye opener. Apparently there are people in the UK in 2018 who think that people of different ethnicities having sex or having children together is somehow wrong.

I'm astounded.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"This thread is an eye opener. Apparently there are people in the UK in 2018 who think that people of different ethnicities having sex or having children together is somehow wrong.

I'm astounded. "

They will be well truly disgusted by me then, I do both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many threads do we need on this in one weekend?

I'd have sex with anyone I'm attracted to.. which doesn't exclude any ethnicity.

Exactly this.

Racism seems to be the theme of the weekend.

On a plus point, it's great for filters

Nita"

Oh yes isn't it just My list of potentials drops dramatically with every thread on the subject. Not saying they ever saw any potential in me ofcourse.

It's one of the very few things that earns an instant block if I encounter it. Whether they are openly racist like matey boy here. Or through ignorance and not realising what they're doing is indeed racist behaviour (according to my interpretation of the word).

I'd rather it was something I never have to encounter. I've been on the receiving end of open racism directed at me when I lived in Nigeria and the Middle East. Simply for just being White and/or British. In Venezuela it was because they thought I was American, but were fine when they realised I was British. In Spain because I was British. I'm not sure if picking on me due to my Nationality, not my skin colour counts as racist.. but it's a discrimination and treatment I didn't like, felt intimidated and bullied because of, been physically hurt over it.

I'd know how hard it is living your life in a country where the majority of the society is based on values, customs and a belief system different to that of your own. Where there is an indirect racist undercurrent. Where youre only viewed as attractive for the benefit you can bring to them and nothing else. Where you are viewed as a different kind of person, lower or outright ignored altogether. However, I've had the advantage of living a priveledged childhood and my parents could afford the lifestyle that kept us away from the majority of the worst of what an indirectly racist society can throw at you. Like openly racist slurs like matey boys utter dribble.

I don't know what it must feel like to live in a society where people of my skin colour or ethnicity have been treated like animals and commodities to be bought, sold, tortured and used like their lives meant nothing.

I have empathy by the bucketloads, but I don't think that's a position you can imagine yourself to be in, it's something you've either grown up experiencing, or you haven't.

How fuck face can turn around and say what he just did and not bat an eyelid appalled me. I don't usually chuck the R word at someone, even if they do deserve it, it doesn't usually help much. In this instance I was quite happy to make the assumption immediately and not wait for his explanation, I've heard that shit before. I don't give it the time, it doesn't deserve to be listened to.

Saying people of different ethnicities shouldn't mix in this way boils my piss! You have your own bigoted preferences as to who you'd rather or rather not sleep with.. you'd rather not be thought of a racist for thinking like that.. fine.. I'll keep a lid on my own views for the sake of not getting banned again. You try and tell me I'm a wrong un for finding a black woman attractive and that I shouldn't be sleeping with her..

Stand by your beds arseholes..

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"How many threads do we need on this in one weekend?

I'd have sex with anyone I'm attracted to.. which doesn't exclude any ethnicity.

Exactly this.

Racism seems to be the theme of the weekend.

On a plus point, it's great for filters

Nita

Oh yes isn't it just My list of potentials drops dramatically with every thread on the subject. Not saying they ever saw any potential in me ofcourse.

It's one of the very few things that earns an instant block if I encounter it. Whether they are openly racist like matey boy here. Or through ignorance and not realising what they're doing is indeed racist behaviour (according to my interpretation of the word).

I'd rather it was something I never have to encounter. I've been on the receiving end of open racism directed at me when I lived in Nigeria and the Middle East. Simply for just being White and/or British. In Venezuela it was because they thought I was American, but were fine when they realised I was British. In Spain because I was British. I'm not sure if picking on me due to my Nationality, not my skin colour counts as racist.. but it's a discrimination and treatment I didn't like, felt intimidated and bullied because of, been physically hurt over it.

I'd know how hard it is living your life in a country where the majority of the society is based on values, customs and a belief system different to that of your own. Where there is an indirect racist undercurrent. Where youre only viewed as attractive for the benefit you can bring to them and nothing else. Where you are viewed as a different kind of person, lower or outright ignored altogether. However, I've had the advantage of living a priveledged childhood and my parents could afford the lifestyle that kept us away from the majority of the worst of what an indirectly racist society can throw at you. Like openly racist slurs like matey boys utter dribble.

I don't know what it must feel like to live in a society where people of my skin colour or ethnicity have been treated like animals and commodities to be bought, sold, tortured and used like their lives meant nothing.

I have empathy by the bucketloads, but I don't think that's a position you can imagine yourself to be in, it's something you've either grown up experiencing, or you haven't.

How fuck face can turn around and say what he just did and not bat an eyelid appalled me. I don't usually chuck the R word at someone, even if they do deserve it, it doesn't usually help much. In this instance I was quite happy to make the assumption immediately and not wait for his explanation, I've heard that shit before. I don't give it the time, it doesn't deserve to be listened to.

Saying people of different ethnicities shouldn't mix in this way boils my piss! You have your own bigoted preferences as to who you'd rather or rather not sleep with.. you'd rather not be thought of a racist for thinking like that.. fine.. I'll keep a lid on my own views for the sake of not getting banned again. You try and tell me I'm a wrong un for finding a black woman attractive and that I shouldn't be sleeping with her..

Stand by your beds arseholes.. "

Brilliant.

I'm with you. If there's one thing I can't stand its explicit racism. For fucks state didn't Hitler, the holocaust and so on kill that stone dead for anyone with half a brain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you into only what you are yourself? Or open to other races?

Maybe some your into and not into and why? "

Not racial or colour biased but I'd say due to "memory imprinting" draw very much to the Celtic look.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"How many threads do we need on this in one weekend?

I'd have sex with anyone I'm attracted to.. which doesn't exclude any ethnicity.

Exactly this.

Racism seems to be the theme of the weekend.

On a plus point, it's great for filters

Nita

Oh yes isn't it just My list of potentials drops dramatically with every thread on the subject. Not saying they ever saw any potential in me ofcourse.

It's one of the very few things that earns an instant block if I encounter it. Whether they are openly racist like matey boy here. Or through ignorance and not realising what they're doing is indeed racist behaviour (according to my interpretation of the word).

I'd rather it was something I never have to encounter. I've been on the receiving end of open racism directed at me when I lived in Nigeria and the Middle East. Simply for just being White and/or British. In Venezuela it was because they thought I was American, but were fine when they realised I was British. In Spain because I was British. I'm not sure if picking on me due to my Nationality, not my skin colour counts as racist.. but it's a discrimination and treatment I didn't like, felt intimidated and bullied because of, been physically hurt over it.

I'd know how hard it is living your life in a country where the majority of the society is based on values, customs and a belief system different to that of your own. Where there is an indirect racist undercurrent. Where youre only viewed as attractive for the benefit you can bring to them and nothing else. Where you are viewed as a different kind of person, lower or outright ignored altogether. However, I've had the advantage of living a priveledged childhood and my parents could afford the lifestyle that kept us away from the majority of the worst of what an indirectly racist society can throw at you. Like openly racist slurs like matey boys utter dribble.

I don't know what it must feel like to live in a society where people of my skin colour or ethnicity have been treated like animals and commodities to be bought, sold, tortured and used like their lives meant nothing.

I have empathy by the bucketloads, but I don't think that's a position you can imagine yourself to be in, it's something you've either grown up experiencing, or you haven't.

How fuck face can turn around and say what he just did and not bat an eyelid appalled me. I don't usually chuck the R word at someone, even if they do deserve it, it doesn't usually help much. In this instance I was quite happy to make the assumption immediately and not wait for his explanation, I've heard that shit before. I don't give it the time, it doesn't deserve to be listened to.

Saying people of different ethnicities shouldn't mix in this way boils my piss! You have your own bigoted preferences as to who you'd rather or rather not sleep with.. you'd rather not be thought of a racist for thinking like that.. fine.. I'll keep a lid on my own views for the sake of not getting banned again. You try and tell me I'm a wrong un for finding a black woman attractive and that I shouldn't be sleeping with her..

Stand by your beds arseholes.. "

Sadly, bigotry of all kinds remains rife and I have friends and acquaintances who have experienced some really vile behaviour towards them, purely due to the colour of their skin.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views "

Old school? I'm 52 and I don't think like that. What is the reasoning behind your thinking that black/Asian men can be your friend but not have a relationship with white women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views! "

You're too young to be old school.

Incidentally, I have a black friend, who is a few years older than me, who talks about being old school. He's married to a white woman and has mixed race children.

You aren't old school, you're racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old school!!!.. I've got black/ Asian mates!.. not racist by any means... but don't agree with white woman with black men ! As simple as that! Old school views

can i ask you why? probably due to the fact of having morals/views/limits

Being racist is not moral xxx read what I said.. have black/Asian mates.. get along with everyone, but with certain views!

You're too young to be old school.

Incidentally, I have a black friend, who is a few years older than me, who talks about being old school. He's married to a white woman and has mixed race children.

You aren't old school, you're racist."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the point where "each to their own" develops distasteful overtones?

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

As an Indian guy I had only really been with Indian women.

After joining fab, I've met a lot more Caucasian women and enjoyed it!!

Who cares about the age or skin colour, it's all just the mutual chemistry and fun to be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy race play/role play and think interracial sex is great. I mean have you seen BLACKED on p.hub ? Great stuff

More blondes on blacks please

The topic is not as narrow as just white and black as there’s many other ethnicities in the world...as a wider topic the question is would you mix with any other race or just certain races ...an what’s the reason behind your choice...

For me all women from all races are hot, but the differences between races all have there own uniqueness that could attract me, I’m not gonna list them though as could be viewed in the wrong way haha.

But yeah I’d have sex with other races, would I procreate with them? Yes. But tbh I do have preferences of who I’d mix my lineage with. You?

Why the preference over mixing your lineage? What are you hoping to preserve?

Hoping to preserve my lineage

Those are the kind of things I'd expect a white plantation owner to have said back in sadder days.

There are ALOT of black and Asian people who still feel like this, it's not a 'white' or plantation thing. If people don't choose to mix when having children that's their choice

That is my point.

When a member of one race, any race, thinks that all women from another race 'are hot' and good enough to have sex with, but has predetermined that none of the women (or men) in that race are good enough to have children with.....thats racism.

Just because 'ALOT' of people want to call it a preference doesn't change the fact.

That's what I was thinking.

It's almost the textbook definition of racism. You think your own ethnicity is so important that you don't want it "mixed" in any way.

Obviously it's all bollocks. No one has a "pure" ethnicity, we are all mixed to a greater or lesser degree.

It's equally obviously your choice as to who you parent with but if you talk about preserving your lineage and such like expect to be called out for it. "

My take from this thread is a reminder that racism is not racist.

What I mean is that all races unfortunately have their bigots and racists. Many don't accept or realise their behaviour and beliefs are racist.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

Have no preference when it comes to race or colour.

Women of all complexions are beautiful in my eyes.

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By *ruman77Man
over a year ago

London

I see a lot of people stating an outright preference to people of a certain colour, or reluctance to meeting people of a particular race or colour. I think it's a real shame really for everyone involved. The most common example of racial preference I see on here currently is female profiles insisting on black men only. To be fair though I do not look at many men's profiles, so I apologise if I'm being biased in any way.

I have no doubt that this preference may not be their concern when choosing a partner for a serious relationship, but rather they may have a fantasy they want to live out. But it's employing a stereotype about black people that is discriminative and insulting.

I'm only talking about this in a sexual context, as Fab is mainly used for sex hook ups. But you can be black, and have a small dick, and be absolutely crap in bed, just like anybody else. And you can get with someone who is not your type aesthetically, who totally surprises you.

I wonder how much porn contributes to this type of situation. But do we really want to recreate what we watch on youporn?

I don't think people realise that by stating racial or colour preferences, they are in fact supporting the concept of racial segregation, though not to the extent of which you see in Mississippi Burning. Plus they may be missing out on some fab experiences.

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By *ruman77Man
over a year ago

London


"This thread is an eye opener. Apparently there are people in the UK in 2018 who think that people of different ethnicities having sex or having children together is somehow wrong.

I'm astounded. "

Unfortunately there is still a lot of intolerance, and a need for better education. Although saying that, how hard is it to reach the natural conclusion that most people just want to love and be loved, and that race or background have absolutely nothing to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of people stating an outright preference to people of a certain colour, or reluctance to meeting people of a particular race or colour. I think it's a real shame really for everyone involved. The most common example of racial preference I see on here currently is female profiles insisting on black men only. To be fair though I do not look at many men's profiles, so I apologise if I'm being biased in any way.

I have no doubt that this preference may not be their concern when choosing a partner for a serious relationship, but rather they may have a fantasy they want to live out. But it's employing a stereotype about black people that is discriminative and insulting.

I'm only talking about this in a sexual context, as Fab is mainly used for sex hook ups. But you can be black, and have a small dick, and be absolutely crap in bed, just like anybody else. And you can get with someone who is not your type aesthetically, who totally surprises you.

I wonder how much porn contributes to this type of situation. But do we really want to recreate what we watch on youporn?

I don't think people realise that by stating racial or colour preferences, they are in fact supporting the concept of racial segregation, though not to the extent of which you see in Mississippi Burning. Plus they may be missing out on some fab experiences."

I understand what you are saying. However you've got to be careful.

Some women simply have a preference for Black men. It's not always the case that they are having Gangbangs because they like the feeling of being used and degraded.

Dome women have very high, demanding sex drives and the energy required to take on a load of men. In some cases there is zero degradadation involved in their choice of how they play.

IF there IS.. and they ONLY want Black/White Men specifically to feel that EXTRA level of degradation.. because interracial sex is something they view as adding another level of taboo.. an extra mile in the degrading factor.

I'd argue yes it's racist behaviour.

Then you have to ask.. Are they aware of this? That even though they feel that they can't be a racist, because they have sex with another ethnicity and are friendly and polite before and after.. it is still a kind of racism. If they can understand the point, yet continue to behave this way... then I'd feel they were racist people.

But what if they changed after you explain it.. start allowing huge cocked guys of every ethnicity to join them.. instead of only black men.

Are they.. Or were they ever racists.. Or just hadn't thought it through in depth? We're all guilty of making mistakes through ignorance. We've all hurt someone else's feelings without realising we were being offensive, or acting innapropriately.

I try to avoid accusing someone, unless I feel it's clearly racist, like matey boys comments above. It doesn't help anyone learn anything new and usually descends into aggression.

I won't communicate or meet women with the Queen of Spades tattoo, I think it's vile. Yet, black guys do frequently. If you want to know if that's wierd, strange or ignorant for them to do that. I suggest you ask them politely.. they may give you an answer, chances are each guy will feel differently to some degree.

Try not to judge others too quickly without first getting to know the opinions of those involved, especially if you're not partaking in that behaviour yourself. I've gone down this rabbit hole many times and I learn something new everytime I do.

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By *ruman77Man
over a year ago

London


"I see a lot of people stating an outright preference to people of a certain colour, or reluctance to meeting people of a particular race or colour. I think it's a real shame really for everyone involved. The most common example of racial preference I see on here currently is female profiles insisting on black men only. To be fair though I do not look at many men's profiles, so I apologise if I'm being biased in any way.

I have no doubt that this preference may not be their concern when choosing a partner for a serious relationship, but rather they may have a fantasy they want to live out. But it's employing a stereotype about black people that is discriminative and insulting.

I'm only talking about this in a sexual context, as Fab is mainly used for sex hook ups. But you can be black, and have a small dick, and be absolutely crap in bed, just like anybody else. And you can get with someone who is not your type aesthetically, who totally surprises you.

I wonder how much porn contributes to this type of situation. But do we really want to recreate what we watch on youporn?

I don't think people realise that by stating racial or colour preferences, they are in fact supporting the concept of racial segregation, though not to the extent of which you see in Mississippi Burning. Plus they may be missing out on some fab experiences.

I understand what you are saying. However you've got to be careful.

Some women simply have a preference for Black men. It's not always the case that they are having Gangbangs because they like the feeling of being used and degraded.

Dome women have very high, demanding sex drives and the energy required to take on a load of men. In some cases there is zero degradadation involved in their choice of how they play.

IF there IS.. and they ONLY want Black/White Men specifically to feel that EXTRA level of degradation.. because interracial sex is something they view as adding another level of taboo.. an extra mile in the degrading factor.

I'd argue yes it's racist behaviour.

Then you have to ask.. Are they aware of this? That even though they feel that they can't be a racist, because they have sex with another ethnicity and are friendly and polite before and after.. it is still a kind of racism. If they can understand the point, yet continue to behave this way... then I'd feel they were racist people.

But what if they changed after you explain it.. start allowing huge cocked guys of every ethnicity to join them.. instead of only black men.

Are they.. Or were they ever racists.. Or just hadn't thought it through in depth? We're all guilty of making mistakes through ignorance. We've all hurt someone else's feelings without realising we were being offensive, or acting innapropriately.

I try to avoid accusing someone, unless I feel it's clearly racist, like matey boys comments above. It doesn't help anyone learn anything new and usually descends into aggression.

I won't communicate or meet women with the Queen of Spades tattoo, I think it's vile. Yet, black guys do frequently. If you want to know if that's wierd, strange or ignorant for them to do that. I suggest you ask them politely.. they may give you an answer, chances are each guy will feel differently to some degree.

Try not to judge others too quickly without first getting to know the opinions of those involved, especially if you're not partaking in that behaviour yourself. I've gone down this rabbit hole many times and I learn something new everytime I do. "

Hey Jamie,

Thanks for the response. There were some good points made. I tried hard to word my comments diplomatic and impartial way.

I certainly don't accuse people of 'being racist' by having a strict preference. At the end of the day, sexual desire and fantasy is separate from everyday life and doesn't mean that you would treat people of different races or colours differently. However I think sexual attraction goes far beyond colour and nationality, and you could find yourself having completely false expectations based on race/colour profiling, and ultimately be very disappointed, while potentially missing out on something great with somebody who doesn't fit the criteria.

I think you're absolutely right that some may be completely unaware that their attitudes and preferences can constitute positive racial discrimination. There's a scene in The Office where David Brent is told off for making a joke about a black man's cock, after a black employee took offence, and his response was "well it's a compliment", to which the counter argument was that it's wrong to think that all black men have a large penis and never ending libido.

I totally get that people can have a natural attraction to people of particular nationalities. I myself have a weakness for Spanish and South American women. I don't think that's even the problem. It's when putting on your profile 'sorry no Asians' that you are prepared to judge a person based on something they have no control over, rather than the attribute and characteristics that makes them who they are.

I do think that porn has a lot to answer for in this. It's clear that internet porn has really diversified people sexual interests. And I suspect that little has been done to prevent racial sexual profiling in an unfair and unjustified manor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of people stating an outright preference to people of a certain colour, or reluctance to meeting people of a particular race or colour. I think it's a real shame really for everyone involved. The most common example of racial preference I see on here currently is female profiles insisting on black men only. To be fair though I do not look at many men's profiles, so I apologise if I'm being biased in any way.

I have no doubt that this preference may not be their concern when choosing a partner for a serious relationship, but rather they may have a fantasy they want to live out. But it's employing a stereotype about black people that is discriminative and insulting.

I'm only talking about this in a sexual context, as Fab is mainly used for sex hook ups. But you can be black, and have a small dick, and be absolutely crap in bed, just like anybody else. And you can get with someone who is not your type aesthetically, who totally surprises you.

I wonder how much porn contributes to this type of situation. But do we really want to recreate what we watch on youporn?

I don't think people realise that by stating racial or colour preferences, they are in fact supporting the concept of racial segregation, though not to the extent of which you see in Mississippi Burning. Plus they may be missing out on some fab experiences.

I understand what you are saying. However you've got to be careful.

Some women simply have a preference for Black men. It's not always the case that they are having Gangbangs because they like the feeling of being used and degraded.

Dome women have very high, demanding sex drives and the energy required to take on a load of men. In some cases there is zero degradadation involved in their choice of how they play.

IF there IS.. and they ONLY want Black/White Men specifically to feel that EXTRA level of degradation.. because interracial sex is something they view as adding another level of taboo.. an extra mile in the degrading factor.

I'd argue yes it's racist behaviour.

Then you have to ask.. Are they aware of this? That even though they feel that they can't be a racist, because they have sex with another ethnicity and are friendly and polite before and after.. it is still a kind of racism. If they can understand the point, yet continue to behave this way... then I'd feel they were racist people.

But what if they changed after you explain it.. start allowing huge cocked guys of every ethnicity to join them.. instead of only black men.

Are they.. Or were they ever racists.. Or just hadn't thought it through in depth? We're all guilty of making mistakes through ignorance. We've all hurt someone else's feelings without realising we were being offensive, or acting innapropriately.

I try to avoid accusing someone, unless I feel it's clearly racist, like matey boys comments above. It doesn't help anyone learn anything new and usually descends into aggression.

I won't communicate or meet women with the Queen of Spades tattoo, I think it's vile. Yet, black guys do frequently. If you want to know if that's wierd, strange or ignorant for them to do that. I suggest you ask them politely.. they may give you an answer, chances are each guy will feel differently to some degree.

Try not to judge others too quickly without first getting to know the opinions of those involved, especially if you're not partaking in that behaviour yourself. I've gone down this rabbit hole many times and I learn something new everytime I do.

Hey Jamie,

Thanks for the response. There were some good points made. I tried hard to word my comments diplomatic and impartial way.

I certainly don't accuse people of 'being racist' by having a strict preference. At the end of the day, sexual desire and fantasy is separate from everyday life and doesn't mean that you would treat people of different races or colours differently. However I think sexual attraction goes far beyond colour and nationality, and you could find yourself having completely false expectations based on race/colour profiling, and ultimately be very disappointed, while potentially missing out on something great with somebody who doesn't fit the criteria.

I think you're absolutely right that some may be completely unaware that their attitudes and preferences can constitute positive racial discrimination. There's a scene in The Office where David Brent is told off for making a joke about a black man's cock, after a black employee took offence, and his response was "well it's a compliment", to which the counter argument was that it's wrong to think that all black men have a large penis and never ending libido.

I totally get that people can have a natural attraction to people of particular nationalities. I myself have a weakness for Spanish and South American women. I don't think that's even the problem. It's when putting on your profile 'sorry no Asians' that you are prepared to judge a person based on something they have no control over, rather than the attribute and characteristics that makes them who they are.

I do think that porn has a lot to answer for in this. It's clear that internet porn has really diversified people sexual interests. And I suspect that little has been done to prevent racial sexual profiling in an unfair and unjustified manor. "

Ooooh answered by my real name.. lol, first time that has happened in public on here Fair play.

I think we share the same views and there isn't much I can add to what you've said.

I have seen that scene.. and yes it's correct. I think I'd take offence if Brent said it to me and I were a black man. Only because I hate Brent and Gervais. Anyone else and I'd probably play on it to get sex.. but that's me being a pervert. There's an argument to be made that if I did, would I be letting people down by doing so?

I don't think I'm qualified to answer that though. Only partially through the rabbit Warren myself.

Ask me when I'm in my 80s. I'll probably have figured it out, but be too grouchy to answer.

You made some good points and took what I said in the way it was meant to come across..

I tip my hat to you Sir

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By *ruman77Man
over a year ago

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"I see a lot of people stating an outright preference to people of a certain colour, or reluctance to meeting people of a particular race or colour. I think it's a real shame really for everyone involved. The most common example of racial preference I see on here currently is female profiles insisting on black men only. To be fair though I do not look at many men's profiles, so I apologise if I'm being biased in any way.

I have no doubt that this preference may not be their concern when choosing a partner for a serious relationship, but rather they may have a fantasy they want to live out. But it's employing a stereotype about black people that is discriminative and insulting.

I'm only talking about this in a sexual context, as Fab is mainly used for sex hook ups. But you can be black, and have a small dick, and be absolutely crap in bed, just like anybody else. And you can get with someone who is not your type aesthetically, who totally surprises you.

I wonder how much porn contributes to this type of situation. But do we really want to recreate what we watch on youporn?

I don't think people realise that by stating racial or colour preferences, they are in fact supporting the concept of racial segregation, though not to the extent of which you see in Mississippi Burning. Plus they may be missing out on some fab experiences.

I understand what you are saying. However you've got to be careful.

Some women simply have a preference for Black men. It's not always the case that they are having Gangbangs because they like the feeling of being used and degraded.

Dome women have very high, demanding sex drives and the energy required to take on a load of men. In some cases there is zero degradadation involved in their choice of how they play.

IF there IS.. and they ONLY want Black/White Men specifically to feel that EXTRA level of degradation.. because interracial sex is something they view as adding another level of taboo.. an extra mile in the degrading factor.

I'd argue yes it's racist behaviour.

Then you have to ask.. Are they aware of this? That even though they feel that they can't be a racist, because they have sex with another ethnicity and are friendly and polite before and after.. it is still a kind of racism. If they can understand the point, yet continue to behave this way... then I'd feel they were racist people.

But what if they changed after you explain it.. start allowing huge cocked guys of every ethnicity to join them.. instead of only black men.

Are they.. Or were they ever racists.. Or just hadn't thought it through in depth? We're all guilty of making mistakes through ignorance. We've all hurt someone else's feelings without realising we were being offensive, or acting innapropriately.

I try to avoid accusing someone, unless I feel it's clearly racist, like matey boys comments above. It doesn't help anyone learn anything new and usually descends into aggression.

I won't communicate or meet women with the Queen of Spades tattoo, I think it's vile. Yet, black guys do frequently. If you want to know if that's wierd, strange or ignorant for them to do that. I suggest you ask them politely.. they may give you an answer, chances are each guy will feel differently to some degree.

Try not to judge others too quickly without first getting to know the opinions of those involved, especially if you're not partaking in that behaviour yourself. I've gone down this rabbit hole many times and I learn something new everytime I do.

Hey Jamie,

Thanks for the response. There were some good points made. I tried hard to word my comments diplomatic and impartial way.

I certainly don't accuse people of 'being racist' by having a strict preference. At the end of the day, sexual desire and fantasy is separate from everyday life and doesn't mean that you would treat people of different races or colours differently. However I think sexual attraction goes far beyond colour and nationality, and you could find yourself having completely false expectations based on race/colour profiling, and ultimately be very disappointed, while potentially missing out on something great with somebody who doesn't fit the criteria.

I think you're absolutely right that some may be completely unaware that their attitudes and preferences can constitute positive racial discrimination. There's a scene in The Office where David Brent is told off for making a joke about a black man's cock, after a black employee took offence, and his response was "well it's a compliment", to which the counter argument was that it's wrong to think that all black men have a large penis and never ending libido.

I totally get that people can have a natural attraction to people of particular nationalities. I myself have a weakness for Spanish and South American women. I don't think that's even the problem. It's when putting on your profile 'sorry no Asians' that you are prepared to judge a person based on something they have no control over, rather than the attribute and characteristics that makes them who they are.

I do think that porn has a lot to answer for in this. It's clear that internet porn has really diversified people sexual interests. And I suspect that little has been done to prevent racial sexual profiling in an unfair and unjustified manor.

Ooooh answered by my real name.. lol, first time that has happened in public on here Fair play.

I think we share the same views and there isn't much I can add to what you've said.

I have seen that scene.. and yes it's correct. I think I'd take offence if Brent said it to me and I were a black man. Only because I hate Brent and Gervais. Anyone else and I'd probably play on it to get sex.. but that's me being a pervert. There's an argument to be made that if I did, would I be letting people down by doing so?

I don't think I'm qualified to answer that though. Only partially through the rabbit Warren myself.

Ask me when I'm in my 80s. I'll probably have figured it out, but be too grouchy to answer.

You made some good points and took what I said in the way it was meant to come across..

I tip my hat to you Sir "

As I do with you sir. It's a very touchy subject I think, and I know we all have preferences. In the past I've found myself being attracted to people that I didn't previously think were 'my type'. My conclusion is that attraction including sexual attraction has very little to do with what you see, and all about what you feel. That's my two cents on the matter. It was nice chatting with you.

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By *exyajmalMan
over a year ago

oxford

Personally I feel turn on by white girl or couple than my skin colour people

My future partner should be white as well

I am very much attracted towards interracial sex from my teenage

So for some people colour matters lot

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

If you fancy someone you fancy someone... what does race have to do with anything? Unless you have a problem with a particular race or culture...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares what colour anyone is?

Why is this an issue?

It’s surely all about attraction and how you love your partner!

Not race, religion, creed or colour

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