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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I have never posted a thread before but this is something I've been thinking about for quite a while. I would never be able to be in a vanilla relationship... but would be with a swinger.. how do you actually meet other swingers other than this site as many say.. it's not a dating site.. but I don't know how else to meet people?.

Any input would be great thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry about this. But what's this vanilla saying?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Means.

A traditional relationship of 2 people....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aim for men on here who meet your mental needs rather than the physical ones.

I much prefer meeting single women who share a sense of humour and level of intellect if I can spot them.. hard though.. Most I find who match those needs live bloody miles away.. or are married.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I get that alot haha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Means.

A traditional relationship of 2 people...."

Thank you for that I now know. Just be open I think. You will definitely find someone on here for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not that easy but it seems many fall into those kinda relationships! Look for people who want similar things or maybe even include in your profile that you’re open to dating! No harm in honesty! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are quite a few on here looking for similar,how genuine they are when it comes to it I couldn't say. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your input peeps yeah I guess honesty is good... at first I was happy swinging no commitment etc... but I'm looking at couples who swing... and think that would be the perfect relationship!!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not actively looking but if i met someone and matched why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not that easy but it seems many fall into those kinda relationships! Look for people who want similar things or maybe even include in your profile that you’re open to dating! No harm in honesty! Xx"

Everytime I've tried including that phrase.. my sex life dries up instantly.. I guess women assume I'm desperate and will fall for them at the drop of a hat, that I'm not mature enough to manage my emotions.

In reality it'd take a lot of time and someone pretty damn incredible.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I would like to find a regular guy so we can play together but get no interest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not that easy but it seems many fall into those kinda relationships! Look for people who want similar things or maybe even include in your profile that you’re open to dating! No harm in honesty! Xx

Everytime I've tried including that phrase.. my sex life dries up instantly.. I guess women assume I'm desperate and will fall for them at the drop of a hat, that I'm not mature enough to manage my emotions.

In reality it'd take a lot of time and someone pretty damn incredible."

Would you like to move to Scotland?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not that easy but it seems many fall into those kinda relationships! Look for people who want similar things or maybe even include in your profile that you’re open to dating! No harm in honesty! Xx

Everytime I've tried including that phrase.. my sex life dries up instantly.. I guess women assume I'm desperate and will fall for them at the drop of a hat, that I'm not mature enough to manage my emotions.

In reality it'd take a lot of time and someone pretty damn incredible.

Would you like to move to Scotland? "

I'm part Scottish, though I've never lived there. Skye is where my Clan hail from.

Perhaps in time, when my boys are older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could find somewhere anywhere. I also think until you’ve got into an established relationship you don’t know where swinging will fit into it. I’ve known people from here who’ve fallen for each other and stopped swinging altogether. Others have carried on, but maybe tweaked their wants etc.

I guess it’ll depend on the type of swinging relationship you’re looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are quite a few on here looking for similar,how genuine they are when it comes to it I couldn't say. X"

I think this site is as good a place as any to look, OP. Lots of people have met their partners on here.

Just be wary as some people will say anything for a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone here, wasn't planned and we never actually had a meet on here. We kept in touch after we both left and it went from there

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