FabSwingers.com forum: Cheating Stories

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my ex when he finally confessed wanted to stay in the house and still see his young girlfriend and keep all the benefits of having a wife and children. He lost it all as I kicked him out after that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories? "

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was casually dating a women a few years ago, once a week we would meet for drinks/cinema nothing out of the ordinary, things progressed she would stay over some nites and i in hers,

one day walking to pick up a coffee i see to men walk toward me in an aggressive manner, one guy started shouting at me ur fucking my gf, i responded, got punched in the face and kicked by the other guy,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i was casually dating a women a few years ago, once a week we would meet for drinks/cinema nothing out of the ordinary, things progressed she would stay over some nites and i in hers,

Another thing people don't think about when they cheat. If you did so knowingly, I'd say you deserved it. It sounds like you didn't have a clue though.. must have wondered what the Hell was going on

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By *urlesque!Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

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Completely agree with you

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

My fiance kicked me out of our (brand new, jointly owned) house, saying he no longer wanted to get married.

I found out later that he had another family in Edinburgh all the time. Kids and all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you not doing it for her in the bedroom? Were you not giving her the attention she deserves?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Were you not doing it for her in the bedroom? Were you not giving her the attention she deserves? "

Apparently not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband cheated on me. I was hoping he would fuck off with her, but he clung on like a baby on a breast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Were you not doing it for her in the bedroom? Were you not giving her the attention she deserves?

Apparently not

Have you learnt from your mistakes?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

An ex of mine cheated on me with his ex, who he had a child with. While he was in the Midlands with me, buying a house, he was traveling to the NW to visit/collect his son and telling her he was coming back to me when this was done, when that was done. We travelled to NYC together and eh said he wanted to go out for a walk but he knew how I liked my afternoon naps (??) so he'd leave me in the hotel room.

I'm not a total idiot so knew something was going on It was only when I found my laptop had this site and a number of others in the history when I'd been away for the weekend that I really snapped. I was lucky enough to guess his passwords, spend a few days reading through all his veris, emails, messages and sent messages etc to get the full picture.

I then packed up all his stuff while he was away for a weekend and took a week's worth of clothes to his mum's, texting on the way home. He thought I had just had a tip off from his ex so maintains, probably still to this day, that he was totally innocent but his online accounts didn't lie

I never told him how much I knew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ex cheated on me and dumped me over the phone for a guy twice her age. I can still remember crying my eyes out when that happened

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Were you not doing it for her in the bedroom? Were you not giving her the attention she deserves?

Apparently not

Have you learnt from your mistakes?"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"My fiance kicked me out of our (brand new, jointly owned) house, saying he no longer wanted to get married.

I found out later that he had another family in Edinburgh all the time. Kids and all"

That's awful. Could you not have stayed there if it was jointly owned?

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Luckily for us we are swingers so never felt the need to cheat.

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"My fiance kicked me out of our (brand new, jointly owned) house, saying he no longer wanted to get married.

I found out later that he had another family in Edinburgh all the time. Kids and all

That's awful. Could you not have stayed there if it was jointly owned?"

It was almost 20 years ago, we weren't married so I had no rights

Lesson learned though...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My fiance kicked me out of our (brand new, jointly owned) house, saying he no longer wanted to get married.

I found out later that he had another family in Edinburgh all the time. Kids and all

That's awful. Could you not have stayed there if it was jointly owned?

It was almost 20 years ago, we weren't married so I had no rights

Lesson learned though..."

Joint ownership is a right

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"My fiance kicked me out of our (brand new, jointly owned) house, saying he no longer wanted to get married.

I found out later that he had another family in Edinburgh all the time. Kids and all

That's awful. Could you not have stayed there if it was jointly owned?

It was almost 20 years ago, we weren't married so I had no rights

Lesson learned though...

Joint ownership is a right"

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories? "

My first husband cheated with my best friend....needless to say he is now my ex husband.

I won't stand for cheating, had an issue with my current partner doing it (while we are both swingers) but we sorted it. It won't happen again, but if it did my ass wouldn't hit the door on the way out....

LMP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

My first husband cheated with my best friend....needless to say he is now my ex husband.

LMP"

That’s terrible! Husband and your best friend!!

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"My fiance kicked me out of our (brand new, jointly owned) house, saying he no longer wanted to get married.

I found out later that he had another family in Edinburgh all the time. Kids and all

That's awful. Could you not have stayed there if it was jointly owned?

It was almost 20 years ago, we weren't married so I had no rights

Lesson learned though...

Joint ownership is a right"

I was so humiliated at the per time I just wanted out. I didn't know I had any rights

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My fiance kicked me out of our (brand new, jointly owned) house, saying he no longer wanted to get married.

I found out later that he had another family in Edinburgh all the time. Kids and all

That's awful. Could you not have stayed there if it was jointly owned?

It was almost 20 years ago, we weren't married so I had no rights

Lesson learned though...

Joint ownership is a right

I was so humiliated at the per time I just wanted out. I didn't know I had any rights "

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

My first husband cheated with my best friend....needless to say he is now my ex husband.

LMP

That’s terrible! Husband and your best friend!! "

It was we'd been together 22 years and mine and my ex mates kids were best friends.... so sad for the kids

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

My first husband cheated with my best friend....needless to say he is now my ex husband.

LMP

That’s terrible! Husband and your best friend!!

It was we'd been together 22 years and mine and my ex mates kids were best friends.... so sad for the kids"

Does it get worst? Did they marry each other?

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

My first husband cheated with my best friend....needless to say he is now my ex husband.

LMP

That’s terrible! Husband and your best friend!!

It was we'd been together 22 years and mine and my ex mates kids were best friends.... so sad for the kids

Does it get worst? Did they marry each other? "

No marriage, but a child....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once lived in the jungle attracted by the exotic women, but there were too many cheetahs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I once lived in the jungle attracted by the exotic women, but there were too many cheetahs!"

Sorry to hear

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

My first husband cheated with my best friend....needless to say he is now my ex husband.

LMP

That’s terrible! Husband and your best friend!!

It was we'd been together 22 years and mine and my ex mates kids were best friends.... so sad for the kids

Does it get worst? Did they marry each other?

No marriage, but a child...."

That’s peak!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

Oh dear I bet it taught you not to cheat on a woman ever again?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

Oh dear I bet it taught you not to cheat on a woman ever again?!?! "

I never had until that moment. Never will again. It's taught me to live honestly, with that comes quiet confidence.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

Oh dear I bet it taught you not to cheat on a woman ever again?!?!

I never had until that moment. Never will again. It's taught me to live honestly, with that comes quiet confidence."

I presume you still feel guilty about cheating on her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

Oh dear I bet it taught you not to cheat on a woman ever again?!?!

I never had until that moment. Never will again. It's taught me to live honestly, with that comes quiet confidence.

I presume you still feel guilty about cheating on her? "

Yes. Not sad the relationship ended. But guilty over the pain I caused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not cheating as such but towards the end of a 3 year relationship my ex was getting very controlling- gaslighting- so much so when I called into a female friend’s for a brew I had to sneak around and build in an hour into my drive where she wouldn’t guess to avoid an argument

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Not cheating as such but towards the end of a 3 year relationship my ex was getting very controlling- gaslighting- so much so when I called into a female friend’s for a brew I had to sneak around and build in an hour into my drive where she wouldn’t guess to avoid an argument "

Sorry but what is ‘gaslighting’ ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subtle manipulation- too many things to write out but read recent bbc articles on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slowly cutting you off from friends and relatives, that type of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My fiance kicked me out of our (brand new, jointly owned) house, saying he no longer wanted to get married.

I found out later that he had another family in Edinburgh all the time. Kids and all"

That's horrible!!!!!

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

No cheating story ..but repay my honesty and respect in a relationship and suffer the consequences x storm x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

Oh dear I bet it taught you not to cheat on a woman ever again?!?!

I never had until that moment. Never will again. It's taught me to live honestly, with that comes quiet confidence.

I presume you still feel guilty about cheating on her?

Yes. Not sad the relationship ended. But guilty over the pain I caused."

So has her life moved on now or has it affected her?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Due to health & serious medical issues, I couldn't have sex for a long time.

I found out my ex was shagging round & confronted him, he twisted it back on me - of course it was all my fault as I hadn't been able to satisfy his needs.

Our vows said "in sickness & in health" not "screw anything that moves while your wife is fighting for her life"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy on here a few years ago and he popped up on my Facebook feed as someone I might know. Beautiful wife and 3 children. I almost vomited. I confronted him and he was remorseful and hid his profile - for about 24 hours. It's still there with multiple veris from men, women, couples and tvs. Can you imagine seeing that ! My heart would shatter. Almost stopped me meeting but I'm extra cautious now.

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"My fiance kicked me out of our (brand new, jointly owned) house, saying he no longer wanted to get married.

I found out later that he had another family in Edinburgh all the time. Kids and all

That's horrible!!!!!"

His parents didn't know about the other family, they were horrified when they found out how he'd treated me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

Oh dear I bet it taught you not to cheat on a woman ever again?!?!

I never had until that moment. Never will again. It's taught me to live honestly, with that comes quiet confidence.

I presume you still feel guilty about cheating on her?

Yes. Not sad the relationship ended. But guilty over the pain I caused.

So has her life moved on now or has it affected her? "

We don't talk unless it involves the kids.. she's been pretty horrid to me since.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I met a guy on here a few years ago and he popped up on my Facebook feed as someone I might know. Beautiful wife and 3 children. I almost vomited. I confronted him and he was remorseful and hid his profile - for about 24 hours. It's still there with multiple veris from men, women, couples and tvs. Can you imagine seeing that ! My heart would shatter. Almost stopped me meeting but I'm extra cautious now. "

Sickening isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once lived in the jungle attracted by the exotic women, but there were too many cheetahs!"

Stop lion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a cheat always a cheat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Incorrect.. but if you want to believe that.. go ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice. "

Would never trust anyone who did it once in my opinion .

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice. "

Well they obviously didn't learn if they did it twice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice. "

You didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

Well they obviously didn't learn if they did it twice!

They don't even learn to not get caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

You didn't.

Once for me. Most important life lesson I've learnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Luckily for us we are swingers so never felt the need to cheat.

You’d be surprised!! Trust me on this! Including some ‘forum famous’ so-say “loved-up” couples!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

Well they obviously didn't learn if they did it twice!

They don't even learn to not get caught."

Well I suppose practice makes perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

You didn't.

I did, I was being ironic. It was when I was 22 and very ladish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

Well they obviously didn't learn if they did it twice!

Haha.. yes and no.. but different people you know. Some learn others don’t.

Don’t tell me you have never cheated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Luckily for us we are swingers so never felt the need to cheat.

You’d be surprised!! Trust me on this! Including some ‘forum famous’ so-say “loved-up” couples!

Yep one of my swinger friends just found out his fiance has been messing about with a whole host of people so it's not gonna stop it just because you swing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

Well they obviously didn't learn if they did it twice!

They don't even learn to not get caught."

Look at all you judges! Never ever cheated in your life?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Once a cheat always a cheat

I prefer not to believe that.

I met my partner on here and he was married (but fab single). A year later he left his wife to be with me and 3 years on we are very happy.

If you are in the wrong place of course its asy to chat, sometimes easier that getting yourself out of that wrong place.

If is right it works.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Once a cheat always a cheat

I prefer not to believe that.

I met my partner on here and he was married (but fab single). A year later he left his wife to be with me and 3 years on we are very happy.

If you are in the wrong place of course its asy to chat, sometimes easier that getting yourself out of that wrong place.

If is right it works."

*easy to cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

You didn't.

I did, I was being ironic. It was when I was 22 and very ladish. "

Oh you little fibber.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

You didn't.

I did, I was being ironic. It was when I was 22 and very ladish.

Oh you little fibber. "

If you change your username to BananaLady.. I’ll take you out for a friendly coffee and full on fab gossips.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

Well they obviously didn't learn if they did it twice!

Haha.. yes and no.. but different people you know. Some learn others don’t.

Don’t tell me you have never cheated?

No never!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once a cheat always a cheat

Na na na na.. stop with your sweeping statements.

People learn from their mistakes.. you don’t label them just because they did something wrong once or twice.

Well they obviously didn't learn if they did it twice!

Haha.. yes and no.. but different people you know. Some learn others don’t.

Don’t tell me you have never cheated?

No never!"

never ever in your entire life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

Yep.

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over a year ago

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"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

Oh dear I bet it taught you not to cheat on a woman ever again?!?!

I never had until that moment. Never will again. It's taught me to live honestly, with that comes quiet confidence.

I presume you still feel guilty about cheating on her?

Yes. Not sad the relationship ended. But guilty over the pain I caused.

So has her life moved on now or has it affected her?

We don't talk unless it involves the kids.. she's been pretty horrid to me since."

A woman scorned! She is obviously very bitter!!

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over a year ago

Funniest thing about my ex confessing to cheating was that there no reason other than that someone else attractive gave her attention. My only response was "well you're a cunt then" still rebuilding from it, but happy at the same time.

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over a year ago

"Last year my ex cheated on me and when I found out and confronted her, she said we should go couples councling.. I was in fits!

Any interesting cheating stories?

I cheated on my wife. We had fallen out of love for some time. I was too cowardly to admit it, too in love with my children to want to leave.

Honesty on both our parts, common decency and me not lying and cheating would have saved her and I a lot of unessercary heart ache, paranoia, upset, pain and lack of confidence.

I wouldn't reccomend it to anyone, which is why I won't meet cheaters.

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this sounds exactly like what happened to me in my marriage He’s a good bloke,just fell out of love with me after 20 years and didn’t want to tell me as didn’t want to upset me

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over a year ago

"Due to health & serious medical issues, I couldn't have sex for a long time.

I found out my ex was shagging round & confronted him, he twisted it back on me - of course it was all my fault as I hadn't been able to satisfy his needs.

Our vows said "in sickness & in health" not "screw anything that moves while your wife is fighting for her life" "
i was getting over cancer when my ex was having an affair. Total twunt

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