FabSwingers.com forum: Worst Fab experience

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Without naming and shaming, what's been your worst experience on here. I have two..

1. Being humiliated by a couple on my first ever meet. We met for a social in a bar/resteraunt in a holiday resort with children and families around. They then spoke very loudly with no concern of who could hear them and went into gory detail. When the young, attractive waitress came over, it turned out she knew all about them and had spurned many an unwanted advance from the female half of the couple. I was mortified.

2. Arranging a meet with a local couple and their female friend. Spoke all week to them, they were taking me to Chams. Went to place they had told me to wait to be picked up. Saw their car drive by and park 100m down the road. As I stepped off to meet them. I got a phone call saying I wasn't dressed right.. For Chams?.. Seriously?

I'd been drive-byed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to a guys house that was like the house of horrors (actually I didn’t meet him here it was on a diet dating site).

Crap up the walls of the bathroom (no light in the bathroom and only took a torch on my second visit) cat shit everywhere, his family were like something from Texas chainsaw massacre (no word of a lie), if I hadn’t of drove over to north London and had a drink before I entered the house I would have left immediately.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going to a guys house that was like the house of horrors (actually I didn’t meet him here it was on a diet dating site).

Geeky x"

DODGY not diet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Going to a guys house that was like the house of horrors (actually I didn’t meet him here it was on a diet dating site).

Geeky x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting with someone who had got himself d*unk because he was nervous....

He absolutely reeked of it. Then to see her put another bottle and two glasses out... although I'd driven...so I wasn't drinking.

Had a coffee , made my excuses and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting with someone who had got himself d*unk because he was nervous....

He absolutely reeked of it. Then to see her put another bottle and two glasses out... although I'd driven...so I wasn't drinking.

Had a coffee , made my excuses and left.

*He'd

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meeting with someone who had got himself d*unk because he was nervous....

He absolutely reeked of it. Then to see her put another bottle and two glasses out... although I'd driven...so I wasn't drinking.

Had a coffee , made my excuses and left.

*He'd"

I agree, that's not attractive to me either. I prefer being on the same level.. sober to begin with and getting a little tipsy together.. IF I'm invited to stay longer or offer that she can if she'd like to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a 'drive-by' incident, where we actually saw the couple drive past us with a look of confusion on their face. When asked, the answer was 'we didn't expect the height difference between you to look so weird'

We burst out laughing at that point, before hanging up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a 'drive-by' incident, where we actually saw the couple drive past us with a look of confusion on their face. When asked, the answer was 'we didn't expect the height difference between you to look so weird'

We burst out laughing at that point, before hanging up."

Just when you think fab has peaked... lol

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here before a few years ago. 1st time used scatter gun approach and only got one reply. Had a meet set up and she pulled out about 24 hours before.

Not off fab: speaking to someone on another site, skyped with her a few times and sorted a meet on Boxingday. She wanted me to sort a hotel. When I get that organised and go down, she wants the room number, Once I send the info to her, She doesn't turn up and I'm blocked on her phone.

Last Fri/Sat: Got a message from someone asking to meet. No profile pic and didn't want to meet for a coffee or anything before. When she told me where about she lived it really put me off. So I told her I wouldn't meet without a social first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We burst out laughing at that point, before hanging up."

What a crap excuse!

I'd rather be told.. "Sorry you're too much of a munter for me" At least it's honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also had a drive by. On the phone with him when I asked are you in that taxi in front of me, no was the reply and the taxi drove off as he hung up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My worst experience happened on another site similar to this site.

I'd been chatting to a man via message then proceeding to skype and text. He seemed like a fun normal bloke.

Had an overnight meet, and suddenly discovered a few pecularities about him. He started banging on about "saving me" from being single, that he'd love to date me, maybe even marry me. Alarm bells started clapping away in my head. At first light i got up and said he had to go as my children would be back soon. He then straddled me and said he'd like to hang around and meet them if we were going to be an item. He tried to push me backwards onto the bed. I resisted, tried pushing him off my lap as i was starting to get a panicky feeling but he wouldn't budge, so i more forcefully pushed him off and told him to get out, he had to leave and leave now. I was quite shitty with him, his reluctance to go was starting to unnerve me.

He then proceeds to text me later that day asking for another meet. I say no and ask him not to contact me again.

He then says that everyone deserves a second chance and to remember that he knows where i live.

I told him if be ever contacted me again i'd contact the Police and he should remember that i knew where he worked. I then had him stalk me on the site we met, until he was removed by the site admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My worst experience happened on another site similar to this site.

Yikes, that's a bit heavy.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I love reading these...hilarious. I haven't had a bad experience yet but keep them coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worst fab experience? Some days in the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been here before a few years ago. 1st time used scatter gun approach and only got one reply. Had a meet set up and she pulled out about 24 hours before.

The hotel thing is awful.. I wish it were a crime to do things like that to people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also had a drive by. On the phone with him when I asked are you in that taxi in front of me, no was the reply and the taxi drove off as he hung up.

Three drive bys in one thread

Pathetic eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My worst experience happened on another site similar to this site.

I'd been chatting to a man via message then proceeding to skype and text. He seemed like a fun normal bloke.

He then proceeds to text me later that day asking for another meet. I say no and ask him not to contact me again.

He then says that everyone deserves a second chance and to remember that he knows where i live.

I told him if be ever contacted me again i'd contact the Police and he should remember that i knew where he worked. I then had him stalk me on the site we met, until he was removed by the site admin.

Oh goodness

That's just awful. Glad you managed to get out . God forbid to think if you hadn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My worst experience happened on another site similar to this site.

I'd been chatting to a man via message then proceeding to skype and text. He seemed like a fun normal bloke.

He then proceeds to text me later that day asking for another meet. I say no and ask him not to contact me again.

He then says that everyone deserves a second chance and to remember that he knows where i live.

I told him if be ever contacted me again i'd contact the Police and he should remember that i knew where he worked. I then had him stalk me on the site we met, until he was removed by the site admin.

That's horrendous!!! What is wrong with people?

It's not sexual, but it reminds me of a friend of a friend of mine. He is bi-polar. He's come between me and the other friend. He doesn't respect boundaries at all. Started messaging me non-stop at 11.30pm.. I have to be up at 4am on school days so need an early night.

Claimed he was here to save me, whilst in the same breath claiming to cure me of my PTSD from my time in the army (I don't have PTSD). Neither do I have Aspergers or Autism, which he also claimed to help me with. When I told him to back off.. He accused me of being manipulative and put all his other behaviour onto me.

I've since had to wipe both of them from my life completely. As my other friend seems to have taken his side and ignored my warnings about how dangerous this guy could be. My original mate also pulled the same trick of projecting his behaviour onto me.

Maybe not physically dangerous, but to accuse another of having mental health concerns, is dangerous, if you do it to someone not as mentally strong as I'd like to believe I am.

I worry that Fab attracts these personalities and that not a lot is being done to recognise them when they pop up from time to time to time. It's not Fabs responsibility to help these people. It is ours, if we care about Fab and people who are struggling with reality. I try.. but it's hard work.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I could write a book. I honestly could lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I could write a book. I honestly could lol. "

I am

More autobiography.. that focuses on childhood and Army life.. but I may touch on my sexual side.. carefully, as it's driven a few funny stories..

like almost getting arrested at Norwich airport in 1997 aged 17 for smuggling hardcore porn magazines into the country illegally... I had no idea it was a crime at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all the years I've been around the scene I cam only think of 2 bad experiences both so years as part of a couple. one in a club when a couple had a huge row mid 4sum and the female ran off and locked herself in a toilet and tge other when a couple looking to only meet bifemales convinced us that they were looking for couples and just hadn't updated their profile. Met them at a club amd they quite seriously tried to convince me to watch them have a 3sum with my then partner and we're genuinely put out that we weren't keen on that idea, that one still amuses me+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three drive bys in one thread

Pathetic eh?"

Where are we? is this thread Fab's equivalent of south central LA?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In all the years I've been around the scene I cam only think of 2 bad experiences both so years as part of a couple. one in a club when a couple had a huge row mid 4sum and the female ran off and locked herself in a toilet and tge other when a couple looking to only meet bifemales convinced us that they were looking for couples and just hadn't updated their profile. Met them at a club amd they quite seriously tried to convince me to watch them have a 3sum with my then partner and we're genuinely put out that we weren't keen on that idea, that one still amuses me+"

I'd have been pretty pissed off.. not amused. Mind you, in a club there are other options I guess, which eases the annoyance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"like almost getting arrested at Norwich airport in 1997 aged 17 for smuggling hardcore porn magazines into the country illegally... I had no idea it was a crime at the time

Were you flying back from Schiphol?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Three drive bys in one thread

Pathetic eh?

Where are we? is this thread Fab's equivalent of south central LA?"

"When something happens in South central Los Angeles, nothing happens, just another ----- dead!"

To quote NWA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have been pretty pissed off.. not amused. Mind you, in a club there are other options I guess, which eases the annoyance."

Exactly. It's why I only ever play and meet in clubs, it goes wrong then plenty of other options. If that had been a private meet it would have pissed me off

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"My worst experience happened on another site similar to this site.

I'd been chatting to a man via message then proceeding to skype and text. He seemed like a fun normal bloke.

He then proceeds to text me later that day asking for another meet. I say no and ask him not to contact me again.

He then says that everyone deserves a second chance and to remember that he knows where i live.

I told him if be ever contacted me again i'd contact the Police and he should remember that i knew where he worked. I then had him stalk me on the site we met, until he was removed by the site admin.

Bloody hell that's scary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a bad one yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"like almost getting arrested at Norwich airport in 1997 aged 17 for smuggling hardcore porn magazines into the country illegally... I had no idea it was a crime at the time

Were you flying back from Schiphol?"

Yes.. how'd you guess lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined, I did a hotel meet. We'd been chatting for ages and got on really well. It's a long story but basically he had taken a bag of toys, ropes, handcuffs with him and asked me to put his ex's pink latex catsuit that he'd bought along. She must have been about 5' and I'm 5'10. It wouldn't fit and was embarrassing trying to get it on. Then the toys came out which unnerved me as we hadn't discussed anything like that for a first meet. The sex was awful, in between his swigs of JD and then he started snorting white stuff. I was so scared of him, I literally ran out of the room half dressed and cried all the way home. What a nutter! Plus he looked nothing like his pics and his manhood was manky.

I have had a couple more terrible meets since then, despite all the vetting!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I first joined, I did a hotel meet. We'd been chatting for ages and got on really well. It's a long story but basically he had taken a bag of toys, ropes, handcuffs with him and asked me to put his ex's pink latex catsuit that he'd bought along. She must have been about 5' and I'm 5'10. It wouldn't fit and was embarrassing trying to get it on. Then the toys came out which unnerved me as we hadn't discussed anything like that for a first meet. The sex was awful, in between his swigs of JD and then he started snorting white stuff. I was so scared of him, I literally ran out of the room half dressed and cried all the way home. What a nutter! Plus he looked nothing like his pics and his manhood was manky.

I have had a couple more terrible meets since then, despite all the vetting!

Urgghh that's pretty gross.. and a bit wierd to get all the equipment out on a first meet if you'd not spoken about it.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

As a single i met a lovely local guy for a coffee... got along well and went back to his place.... few days later he messaged did i fancy a rematch? Went along had a great evening. Next morning his Fab status read something along the lines of "met the woman of my dreams no longer meeting"... i txt him and asked what that was all about only to find he didnt have a clue what i was on about. His account had been hacked by some other lady he had met a few times...

Later that day i went to go out and found my tyres had been slashed and every panel on my car keyed....(coincidence?! It couldnt be proven she had followed me from his home to mine)but then i started getting messages from other fwb asking what i was playing at? Confused!

Found out this other lady had used my verifications to contact friends telling them i had all sorts of STIs and was pregnant with their child etc.

Blocking and reporting her didnt help as she was a chat admin!

Finished up shutting my account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Were you flying back from Schiphol?

Yes.. how'd you guess lol"

Been through there a few times, flying to other destinations. Got pulled over, coming back from Canada after my cousins birthday. Cause of my long her and travelling alone, they thought I was selling .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a single i met a lovely local guy for a coffee... got along well and went back to his place.... few days later he messaged did i fancy a rematch? Went along had a great evening. Next morning his Fab status read something along the lines of "met the woman of my dreams no longer meeting"... i txt him and asked what that was all about only to find he didnt have a clue what i was on about. His account had been hacked by some other lady he had met a few times...

Found out this other lady had used my verifications to contact friends telling them i had all sorts of STIs and was pregnant with their child etc.

Blocking and reporting her didnt help as she was a chat admin!

Finished up shutting my account."

Saaaaaaay whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a couple more terrible meets since then, despite all the vetting!

Eeeeeew, not good. Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ages ago I arranged a meet with another guy to join me and my fb for a mmf. He turned up too sniffed up on because he was nervous so couldn't even get a hard on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Blocking and reporting her didnt help as she was a chat admin!

Finished up shutting my account."

WTF!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He turned up too sniffed up on because he was nervous so couldn't even get a hard on.

Drugs are bad mkay.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Found out this other lady had used my verifications to contact friends telling them i had all sorts of STIs and was pregnant with their child etc.

Blocking and reporting her didnt help as she was a chat admin!

Finished up shutting my account.

Saaaaaaay whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?

Reporting the damage to the car and my suspicions to the police was fun

NOT! Had to show them my fab account and his profile etc They took statements from a couple of my FWBs too.... nothing ever came of it. Insurance wrote the car offut since i couldnt afford to replace it i ended up driving round in it all beat up and scratched for a further 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went on a last minute meet with a guy I'd met once before. New flat so parked and made sure space was ok to leave car. Went upstairs, it was about 930. He was in a hurry. Didn't really get hard or fuck me but managed to cum (unexpectedly) in my mouth !!! Just as his flatmate came back. He said he wasn't due back until 10 (it was 10 to) Stood in the dark until he ushered me out. Went downstairs to find a 60 quid parking ticket !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Went on a last minute meet with a guy I'd met once before. New flat so parked and made sure space was ok to leave car. Went upstairs, it was about 930. He was in a hurry. Didn't really get hard or fuck me but managed to cum (unexpectedly) in my mouth !!! Just as his flatmate came back. He said he wasn't due back until 10 (it was 10 to) Stood in the dark until he ushered me out. Went downstairs to find a 60 quid parking ticket !"

Ooooh.. I bet that taught you to pay attention to parking meters more carefully

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By *erfect pineappleWoman
over a year ago

neath

took a guy shopping to farm foods .first meet

took him home . filled his freezer . fucked off .. tara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been here seven months, luckily haven’t had any bad meets yet. Although most of these stories are really terrifying!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh.. I bet that taught you to pay attention to parking meters more carefully

It was a residential shared space and he assured me it would be OK. Twat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ooooh.. I bet that taught you to pay attention to parking meters more carefully

It was a residential shared space and he assured me it would be OK. Twat"

He most definately was.. coming the way he did is unforgivable if you told him it's not something you enjoy.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Went to a meet where some Cpls and a few single guys there.

Tiny tiny house meant us guys stripped off in utility room at back of kitchen! Then 1 guy and I realised we were sticking to the floor. Gawd knows when floor last mopped! Three Cpls came downstairs & all total opposite of Profiles. All OAP'S! Reckoned a slight gust of wind would have blown them over!

I made my excuses and got out!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

In the 4 years we've been on here we've only had one that you could consider a bad experience. This would have been in our first year I think.

Arranged a meet with a couple we'd been chatting to, all seemed fine to start with. Then the messages started to get a bit demanding. The message berating me for being on Fab when we'd agreed to meet them was the deal breaker. Cancel meet and block

Not even met them and they were getting possessive ...

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had been talking to a man for quite a while. He certainly talked the talk Came to mine for few drinks and chat. Headed to bedroom and he’s forgot to mention his condition. A micro penis !! No bigger than my thumb nail. I tried to sort of carry on with other stuff but he made out it was usually ok and just wasn’t playing ! All got a bit weird so we said our goodbyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my second only ever meet almost three years ago, I had talked to a guy for a few weeks and he came up to meet me. He looked a hell of a lot older than his face picture, had a lot less hair and he said he was 5'10 when in reality he was shorter than I am. Didn't sleep with him but I felt very creeped out if he touched me. I later, by coincidence, got talking to another woman who'd also met him socially and she was equally as creeped out by him. I was quite naive where fab was concerned at that time, and had originally wanted to just get a hotel room and get on with it. Thankfully I didn't.

Every other meet, socially and otherwise, has been lovely thankfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking to a guy for quite a while, seen lots of photos and face pics so met him for a coffee and he said he'd pick me up (i dont drive so this was great)

Once in the car i then realised he looked very little like his photos as they must have been from years ago, but i think ill give him a chance..

As we drive off he locks the doors and starts telling me how his friends are all waiting for me back at his to have me for "some group fun".

We had never discussed any of this and i only really escape the situation by unlocking the door and getting out the car at a red light.

Been a great time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had been talking to a man for quite a while. He certainly talked the talk Came to mine for few drinks and chat. Headed to bedroom and he’s forgot to mention his condition. A micro penis !! No bigger than my thumb nail. I tried to sort of carry on with other stuff but he made out it was usually ok and just wasn’t playing ! All got a bit weird so we said our goodbyes"

That's why I put up pictures, even though most claim not to want to see it straight away. There are certain minimum standards that must be met and I'm sure most women feel the same, whatever their preferences are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Went to a meet where some Cpls and a few single guys there.

I made my excuses and got out! "

Best thing to do if you're not feeling it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the 4 years we've been on here we've only had one that you could consider a bad experience. This would have been in our first year I think.

Not even met them and they were getting possessive ...

Nita

Berating you for being on Fab, when they were on Fab??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Talking to a guy for quite a while, seen lots of photos and face pics so met him for a coffee and he said he'd pick me up (i dont drive so this was great)

Once in the car i then realised he looked very little like his photos as they must have been from years ago, but i think ill give him a chance..

As we drive off he locks the doors and starts telling me how his friends are all waiting for me back at his to have me for "some group fun".

We had never discussed any of this and i only really escape the situation by unlocking the door and getting out the car at a red light.

Been a great time

OMG! That's something I'd consider reporting to the police.

I knew someone who had an awful experience.. where police had to get involved, forensics also. Very, very sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A micro penis !! No bigger than my thumb nail."

Was that when erect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think common sense can get skewed when horny- I’ve realised in the cold light of day some of the positions I’ve put myself in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had never discussed any of this and i only really escape the situation by unlocking the door and getting out the car at a red light.

Yeah, I'd have phoned the police as well. Massively wrong, that.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed- that could’ve been nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A micro penis !! No bigger than my thumb nail.

Was that when erect?"
yes. Was just skin really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think common sense can get skewed when horny"

It does mate, I wake up with a hangover horn and it feels like I'm going insane, till I sort myself out.

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By *art123Man
over a year ago

Stoke

I sent a message to a girl on here and it was deleted!! Unbelievable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sent a message to a girl on here and it was deleted!! Unbelievable."

OMG you too, i thought I was the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was that when erect?yes. Was just skin really "

Poor bloke and poor you for ending up in that situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Driving onto a random dogdy estate at dark o’clock trying to find an unknown house.

I think for females the main danger is assault but guys it’s being set up for mugging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think for females the main danger is assault but guys it’s being set up for mugging "

That's why I didn't meet that girl last week. When she told me where she lived and wouldn't do a social first, I binned the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was that when erect?yes. Was just skin really

Poor bloke and poor you for ending up in that situation."
yes. I contacted him later that night to see if he was ok but no response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think for females the main danger is assault but guys it’s being set up for mugging

That's why I didn't meet that girl last week. When she told me where she lived and wouldn't do a social first, I binned the idea. "

Years ago on joining fab one of my first meets warned me of some potential scams. Very sage advice given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes. I contacted him later that night to see if he was ok but no response "

Poor bloke was probably devastated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has to be one of the first guys I met, we got on well and met regularly, I then had to go in hospital and was away for 3 weeks. We arranged to meet when I got out, I booked a room and everything.

The day before we were messaging and he said he couldn’t wait.

The day came and I drive to the hotel and got up to the room. Text him the number but the message sat at one tick. Then went to two.

An hour later text again, he read it and then blocked me.

I was distraught.

Two weeks later he appeared on my WhatsApp asking how I was and would I like to meet.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"In the 4 years we've been on here we've only had one that you could consider a bad experience. This would have been in our first year I think.

Not even met them and they were getting possessive ...

Nita

Berating you for being on Fab, when they were on Fab??"

Yup... Nowt as queer as folk

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have had a few bad experiences on here but I do not feel I want to divulge them to the Forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set up a last mi Ute meet on here, went to his (I was nieve). Got there, he was nothing like his pictures, he was d*unk, kept talking about his 'crazy' exes and how he hasn't had sex in no the but had girls chasing him for sex every day, he then started to tell me that he felt like he was falling in love with me and how he was going to look after me. When I tried to leave he blocked the front door and begged me not to leave and tried to demand sex. When I forced my way out I ran to my car and locked myself in the car whilst I tried to call down and drove away...

He then went on to find me on Facebook and try and tell me he loved me!!! Blocked him everyday I could!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only been here seven months, luckily haven’t had any bad meets yet. Although most of these stories are really terrifying!!

Quite. Good to read in one way though, stops me slipping into complacency. Not that I would but just incase

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've started a new thread in the introductions section about saftey advice off the back of this thread.

listed some things I know from armed forces, SIA course and personal experience that may stop any of this happening to you ever again.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Went to a meet where some Cpls and a few single guys there.

I made my excuses and got out! "

Sorry to laugh but this tale has tickled me! Six OAPs....goodness!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've had a few bad experiences, nothing too scary but it was enough to make me more safety aware!

All was going well until it was time for me to leave. We were lying on the bed together, spoony, he was holding me so tight and saying weird things over and over again.

Where have you been?

I want you to be my girlfriend forever.

You are the one.

I'm never going to let you go.

I had to be quite forceful in the end and when I went downstairs I realised he'd been through my handbag. Luckily I didn't have anything with my address on but the fact he would of found out my surname was enough to freak me out. I later got a friend req on Facebook.

This was a guy I'd met for a social as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet at my house which some have said is a safety issue but for me I feel it’s the best place. I know my surroundings,my neighbours are fairly nosey lol. And being single and open,I tell my mother who is coming around and when. Makes me feel safer

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I only meet at my house which some have said is a safety issue but for me I feel it’s the best place. I know my surroundings,my neighbours are fairly nosey lol. And being single and open,I tell my mother who is coming around and when. Makes me feel safer "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a few bad experiences, nothing too scary but it was enough to make me more safety aware!

All was going well until it was time for me to leave. We were lying on the bed together, spoony, he was holding me so tight and saying weird things over and over again.

Where have you been?

I want you to be my girlfriend forever.

You are the one.

I'm never going to let you go.

This was a guy I'd met for a social as well!"

Yes.. all it takes is a phone number or a real name to find out way too much info about people these days.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

What's with the

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What's with the

Surprised at meeting in her own home but each to their own I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's with the

I think if you are comfortable with that and people know what is happening.. when you have company.. your neighbours are within earshot.. it's safer than many other ways.

Lots of people meet in their own homes.. I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, the experience i'm going to relate didn't happen on Fab but another site about 4 years ago.

I had been talking and exchanging messages with a couple for a few months, had talked on the phone with both of them at numerous times as well. We arranged a meet at a hotel and had booked rooms opposite each others. The plan was to meet at a pub down the road from the hotel, have a few beers and we were all happy go back to the hotel. We met at the pub and in my mind we got on very well, lot's of things in common and lot's of laughing. Anyway, a few pint's in and he goes to the toilet and is gone for ages, his wife asks me to go and see if he's ok so i do. On the way to the toilet he is coming back, his fingers pinching his nose and sniffing deeply. I think nothing of it and go to the toilet myself. When i get back to the table i get another round in and sit back down. The conversation moved to cars that we had had in the past, suddenly he raises his arm pointing at me and says "I don't like you, fuck off" very loudly. His wife start's crying and says to him "you've done it again havn't you". At this point the husband was getting very violent, so i picked up my pint and moved to the garden. About 10mins latter i could see both of them walking back to the hotel.

The next day the wife rang me to say sorry. I said i was sorry for her and hoped she was ok. It had crossed my mind afterwards he may have have been violent to her.

In my teens i used to work in the music industry, so i knew that hubby had taken PCP. From her reaction his wife knew it as well.

Just very very glad i wasn't balls deep in his wife when he took the PCP, a lucky and timely escape for me i think.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes.. all it takes is a phone number or a real name to find out way too much info about people these days."

I googled a no once after getting an anonymous text that made me go cold. It took me straight to a fb account of a guy who I met for coffee 18 months earlier but didn't want to take it any further.

Hence, I no longer give out my mo no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" In my teens i used to work in the music industry, so i knew that hubby had taken PCP. From her reaction his wife knew it as well.

Just very very glad i wasn't balls deep in his wife when he took the PCP, a lucky and timely escape for me i think."

Angel Dust? WTF!

Ladies, get your shit together and fuck these lunatics off.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

What's with the

Surprised at meeting in her own home but each to their own I suppose

I've done the same,you just concentrate on how you meet and leave others to meet how they choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be honest, the experience i'm going to relate didn't happen on Fab but another site about 4 years ago.

The next day the wife rang me to say sorry. I said i was sorry for her and hoped she was ok. It had crossed my mind afterwards he may have have been violent to her.

In my teens i used to work in the music industry, so i knew that hubby had taken PCP. From her reaction his wife knew it as well.

Just very very glad i wasn't balls deep in his wife when he took the PCP, a lucky and timely escape for me i think."

I know the feeling.. have encountered this before and don't like it one bit

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

What's with the

I think if you are comfortable with that and people know what is happening.. when you have company.. your neighbours are within earshot.. it's safer than many other ways.

Lots of people meet in their own homes.. I do. "

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What's with the

I think if you are comfortable with that and people know what is happening.. when you have company.. your neighbours are within earshot.. it's safer than many other ways.

Lots of people meet in their own homes.. I do. "

Each to their own but if they turn out to be a nutcase they know where you live and how can neighbours help if there are any safety issues inside the home? It’s up to the individual but I would never have a Fab man in my home but I’m not meeting people so it will never happen thank goodness!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

What's with the

I think if you are comfortable with that and people know what is happening.. when you have company.. your neighbours are within earshot.. it's safer than many other ways.

Lots of people meet in their own homes.. I do.

Anything can happen anywhere if it's going to,whether it's in your home,a hotel or on the street's!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What's with the

I think if you are comfortable with that and people know what is happening.. when you have company.. your neighbours are within earshot.. it's safer than many other ways.

Lots of people meet in their own homes.. I do.

Anything can happen anywhere if it's going to,whether it's in your home,a hotel or on the street's!"

Fair point and as I said each to their own re what they do. I wouldnt want strangers in my home that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's with the

Surprised at meeting in her own home but each to their own I suppose

as I said,it suits me "

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

Oh my god.. some of you really only have 1 or 2 stories...

You lucky fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found out this other lady had used my verifications to contact friends telling them i had all sorts of STIs and was pregnant with their child etc.

Blocking and reporting her didnt help as she was a chat admin!

Finished up shutting my account."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We arranged to meet a girl who belle had met previously for a social at a club ,we met her and later started playing I was having sex with her from behind while she gave belle oral when she turned and said “ fuck me in the ass “ as this is something we have agreed not to do on meets I kindly declined. At that point she went berserk and started shouting that we were trying to drug her and belles pussy tasted of speed and we had covered it in speed to drug her. She then proceeded to grab all her clothes and some of ours And run through the club naked shouting that we had tried to drug her I ran after her semi erect with condom still on to get my clothes back she stopped threw my clothes at me and ran out of the club naked leaving me in the middle of the club looking rather embarrassed and rapidly shrinking. I went back to the room and got dresssed and we came back into the club looking rather sheepish proclaiming our innocence. After much explaining we were told that she had history for this sort of behaviour and making false accusations when she didn’t get her own way. Though several very hot women and men did ask to taste belles pussy just to confirm there were indeed no drugs present so it didn’t end too badly in the end !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1: Speaking to a couple who when I arrived for the meet, it turned out the missus had no idea. He'd not told her at all.

2. A fem friend off Twitter arranged a meet with a guy, he declared his undying love, she asked him to leave. He returned days later, kicked in 2 doors, she grabbed a shotgun and missed killing him by a whisker as he burst in the bedroom. They had to taser him.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"1: Speaking to a couple who when I arrived for the meet, it turned out the missus had no idea. He'd not told her at all.

Second one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We arranged to meet a girl who belle had met previously for a social at a club ,we met her and later started playing I was having sex with her from behind while she gave belle oral when she turned and said “ fuck me in the ass “ as this is something we have agreed not to do on meets I kindly declined. At that point she went berserk and started shouting that we were trying to drug her and belles pussy tasted of speed and we had covered it in speed to drug her. She then proceeded to grab all her clothes and some of ours And run through the club naked shouting that we had tried to drug her I ran after her semi erect with condom still on to get my clothes back she stopped threw my clothes at me and ran out of the club naked leaving me in the middle of the club looking rather embarrassed and rapidly shrinking. I went back to the room and got dresssed and we came back into the club looking rather sheepish proclaiming our innocence. After much explaining we were told that she had history for this sort of behaviour and making false accusations when she didn’t get her own way. Though several very hot women and men did ask to taste belles pussy just to confirm there were indeed no drugs present so it didn’t end too badly in the end !!"

omg that'd upset me a lot if it happened to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1: Speaking to a couple who when I arrived for the meet, it turned out the missus had no idea. He'd not told her at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1: Speaking to a couple who when I arrived for the meet, it turned out the missus had no idea. He'd not told her at all.

She grabbed a shotgun?

I'm not detracting from the man's behaviour but please tell me this happened in America or somewhere else with gun laws far more relaxed from ours? Otherwise I assume she no longer has a licence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was her shotgun, in her gun cabinet. He was kicking her doors in to get to her. Hes lucky she missed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"......almost getting arrested at Norwich airport in 1997 aged 17 for smuggling hardcore porn magazines into the country illegally... I had no idea it was a crime at the time

Is it? Were they 'confiscated'? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called so boring in the throes of a passionate clinch....

He claimed I misheard him.....something about actually calling me really horny.... think boring probably more accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got called so boring in the throes of a passionate clinch....

How could Minxy, be boring? shurely shome mishtake.

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over a year ago

"......almost getting arrested at Norwich airport in 1997 aged 17 for smuggling hardcore porn magazines into the country illegally... I had no idea it was a crime at the time

Is it? Were they 'confiscated'? ??"

It was at the time. Hard-core porn "Anything that showed a man's erect penis and worse" Was a crime in the UK until relatively recently, shocking I know.

They didn't confiscate them, they humiliated me infront of all the passing wrinklies disembarking from their winter sun holiday to Benidorm. One old dear almost tripped over her walker.

I hadn't opened them, had no idea what was in them, it was half porn, half Dutch swinger contacts. They opened it up, slapped it down on my case, with the centre-fold poster being a very attractive, very passable, feminine, massively hung transsexual! I almost died.

She (security guard) asked if They were for personal use or did I intend to sell them on. I was beyond being embarrassed now and simply held my hand up and said "Personal use, I am a wanker".. I thought it was a hilarious joke, given the circumstances. Rather than laugh, she told me "You can keep them - you obviously need them"

What a cunt! Excuse my French. But c'mon, how much humiliation do you have to put a 17yr old boy through?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got called so boring in the throes of a passionate clinch....

He claimed I misheard him.....something about actually calling me really horny.... think boring probably more accurate

You got called boring? That's a bit cruel.

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over a year ago

"I got called so boring in the throes of a passionate clinch....

He claimed I misheard him.....something about actually calling me really horny.... think boring probably more accurate

You got called boring? That's a bit cruel. "

I've been called worse over the years to be fair!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got called so boring in the throes of a passionate clinch....

He claimed I misheard him.....something about actually calling me really horny.... think boring probably more accurate

You got called boring? That's a bit cruel.

I've been called worse over the years to be fair!

I've been called, boring, fat and unpassionate.. by my ex.. nothing like having someone else's feats about themselves projected onto you

You don't come across boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""You can keep them - you obviously need them" "

That's cold. Damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's with the

I think if you are comfortable with that and people know what is happening.. when you have company.. your neighbours are within earshot.. it's safer than many other ways.

Lots of people meet in their own homes.. I do.

Anything can happen anywhere if it's going to,whether it's in your home,a hotel or on the street's!

Fair point and as I said each to their own re what they do. I wouldnt want strangers in my home that’s all. "

If you are meeting at theirs, then you are happy for them to have a stranger in their house but not a stranger in yours... not very equal is it?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Twice being stood up for socials; never knowing whether the person had bottled it last minute and just couldn't let me know, or if they were close by watching and giggling to themselves

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Going to a guys house that was like the house of horrors (actually I didn’t meet him here it was on a diet dating site).

Crap up the walls of the bathroom (no light in the bathroom and only took a torch on my second visit)

Geeky x"
Have I read this right.....you went back a second time?

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By *oukevCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Before I met Lou and joined this site I had a fwb. At the start we agreed that it was purely physical and if anyone of us started to have feelings all bets were off. So a few months later she admitted getting feelings for me and I ended it as promised, that's when the fun started. She Facebook stalked my female friends threatening them and even messaged my ex and asked her if she was a victim of domestic violence. She would message and call me randomly for a full night and even got her daughters boyfriend to threaten to "get me". Only backed off when I told her I'd screen shot all her messages and so had my friends and ex and I was going to the police if she didn't leave me alone.

The things you get yourself into!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

We burst out laughing at that point, before hanging up."

To be fair

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"......almost getting arrested at Norwich airport in 1997 aged 17 for smuggling hardcore porn magazines into the country illegally... I had no idea it was a crime at the time

Is it? Were they 'confiscated'? ??

It was at the time. Hard-core porn "Anything that showed a man's erect penis and worse" Was a crime in the UK until relatively recently, shocking I know.

They didn't confiscate them, they humiliated me infront of all the passing wrinklies disembarking from their winter sun holiday to Benidorm. One old dear almost tripped over her walker.

What a cunt! Excuse my French. But c'mon, how much humiliation do you have to put a 17yr old boy through?"

Absolute classic!

Made me laugh, I’m sure you didn’t at the time but a wry smile must come now when you think back!

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By *ittysWoman
over a year ago

Island

I've been called worse over the years to be fair!

I've been called, boring, fat and unpassionate.. by my ex.. nothing like having someone else's feats about themselves projected onto you

Why would anyone do that! I’ve had fall outs with ex’s sure but that’s just cruel

sorry you had to experiance that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of these are crazy!! Only two I've had is one woman I met looked NOTHING like her pics! I mean, it was her but damn was there a difference!! And another time I went to a woman's house, everything seemed good until we got to it and I got my head down there and the smell was something else, like she hadn't washed in a fortnight. I didn't go back!

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over a year ago

Drove an hour to meet someone. I was given a false address and their profile was deleted when I tried to message them. Sat in my car crying and fell asleep until 5 in the morning.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Some of these are crazy!! Only two I've had is one woman I met looked NOTHING like her pics! I mean, it was her but damn was there a difference!! And another time I went to a woman's house, everything seemed good until we got to it and I got my head down there and the smell was something else, like she hadn't washed in a fortnight. I didn't go back! "

Careful, you'll get the golden vagina crew telling you that the fanny is self cleaning and that's what a real woman smells like - rotten fish apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Careful, you'll get the golden vagina crew telling you that the fanny is self cleaning and that's what a real woman smells like - rotten fish apparently "

Definitely not what they're supposed to smell like!! Honestly smelled like she'd had a bareback gangback three days ago

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Drove an hour to meet someone. I was given a false address and their profile was deleted when I tried to message them. Sat in my car crying and fell asleep until 5 in the morning.

You sat in your car crying? Oh dear how terrible.

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over a year ago

"Drove an hour to meet someone. I was given a false address and their profile was deleted when I tried to message them. Sat in my car crying and fell asleep until 5 in the morning.

You sat in your car crying? Oh dear how terrible. "

Yeah, i had been on fab about 7 months by then and that would have been my first meet. Would have lost my virginity and finally enjoyed myself. It's hard to explain what a lifetime of involuntary celibacy does to a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy crap, this is awful and absolutely terrifying. I hope he never succeeded in doing that to anyone ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to check that out. Some of these stories make you realise how crazy some people really are!

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By *..TheCurvyPetrolHead...Woman
over a year ago

St Helens

Couple of weeks ago I was chatting to a guy on here. All going well. Moved chat to WhatsApp for a couple of days. Daily messaging. Organised a social meet for one evening. We decided on a meeting place and time. On the morning; I messaged to confirm all good for the meet. But he didn't even read message or reply. I'm glad I always message to confirm.

His loss I guess. Haha.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Drove an hour to meet someone. I was given a false address and their profile was deleted when I tried to message them. Sat in my car crying and fell asleep until 5 in the morning.

You sat in your car crying? Oh dear how terrible.

What's going wrong do you think?

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over a year ago

"Drove an hour to meet someone. I was given a false address and their profile was deleted when I tried to message them. Sat in my car crying and fell asleep until 5 in the morning.

You sat in your car crying? Oh dear how terrible.

What's going wrong do you think?"

I'm unattractive and women have all the power when it comes to selection. Though I assume you will reduce my lack of success to "negativity", which isn't true. Most of my time spent here and elsewhere I have been nothing but positive and up-beat. Now I realise personality means nothing so it doesn't matter.

Unfortunately looks are paramount and I don't have what it takes to meet women. I think there are lots of men in the same boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had quite a few dodgy meets: One guy (post sex) had me trapped in a hotel room whilst he ranted and raved about his ex-wife who had him arrested for setting fire to her front door. He foamed at the mouth demonstrating how the (shorter than him) policewoman handcuffed his hands behind his back and had him bent forward with his nose near his knees to make him behave. Then after a stupid remark in the police station about 'topping himself' he was on 2 days of suicide watch, having to go to the toilet and being watched.As he ranted, I slowly dressed and as he moved away from the door, I bolted for it. He shouted after me to wait for him to walk out together and could he see me again.

I had been chatting one Saturday morning to a guy from another site (he lived near Leicester a good couple of hours drive away) and he insisted on coming to meet me. I told him that I never promise to play on an initial meet, but agreed to meet for a social in a pub not too close to where I live. He arrived and was a good 10+ years on his profile age and a couple of stones heavier too. He reeked of stale cigar smoke (the nastiest you could imagine) and he promptly ordered a pint of Magners and downed it in two gulps then ordered another. As I was driving too, I had a . We chatted for a bit and I realised that even without the cigar smell, he wasn't someone I was going to play with, so when he started on his third pint, I made an excuse that since we had last chatted, something had come up and I had to dash. So as I got up to leave, he finished his pint, and trotted after me into the car park. He pressed me up against my car and ground his crotch into mine in full view of everyone and breathed heavily in my face trying to kiss me. I ducked my head and tried to get away from him and he panted in my ear, was I sure I had to go, and if I hadn't had to go, would I have wanted to play? I managed to wriggle away and got into my car and sped off before he got into his.

I had another strange meet where I was supposed to meet him in a hotel bar. He was en-route back from some meeting and as it was late in the year, it was dark at 6pm. I got a text at 6pm, just as I pulled into the car park, asking where I was. I told him and he said to wait in my car. So I did and this bloke, who was nothing like his photos either age or size, came over to the drivers door and tapped on the window. When I put the window down, he stuck his cock through it, into my face! I laughed, moved back, and wound the window up. So he came round to the passenger side and got in (with difficulty!). He then asked me to go into the bushes that surrounded the car park, for a 'quickie'. I refused, and also pointed out the sodium lights and cctv cameras to him. He then asked if we could go back to mine, I explained that that would not be possible, for various reasons. We never got to the bar, he then started to rant about the 'slags' on the site and how he would never let any of them into his place. Anyway, we parted without any playing or intention to meet again and by time I got home, he had left the site.

I have had a couple of other 'interesting' meets, mostly involving the guys lying about their age, and/or posting photos that are decades out of date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*scans thread as I AM probably that worst meet*

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"*scans thread as I AM probably that worst meet*

No you're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*scans thread as I AM probably that worst meet*

No you're not. "

Awww xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*scans thread as I AM probably that worst meet*

The ceiling moved on our meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Careful, you'll get the golden vagina crew telling you that the fanny is self cleaning and that's what a real woman smells like - rotten fish apparently "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*scans thread as I AM probably that worst meet*

The ceiling moved on our meet...

ha, so it did!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decided to meet a woman based on one grainy photo. Looked decent. Turned up, had aged 20 years, had no teeth.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Had quite a few dodgy meets: One guy (post sex) had me trapped in a hotel room whilst he ranted and raved about his ex-wife who had him arrested for setting fire to her front door. He foamed at the mouth demonstrating how the (shorter than him) policewoman handcuffed his hands behind his back and had him bent forward with his nose near his knees to make him behave. Then after a stupid remark in the police station about 'topping himself' he was on 2 days of suicide watch, having to go to the toilet and being watched.As he ranted, I slowly dressed and as he moved away from the door, I bolted for it. He shouted after me to wait for him to walk out together and could he see me again.

I have had a couple of other 'interesting' meets, mostly involving the guys lying about their age, and/or posting photos that are decades out of date."

Jesus!

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By *enny86Woman
over a year ago

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By *enny86Woman
over a year ago

east

Careful, you'll get the golden vagina crew telling you that the fanny is self cleaning and that's what a real woman smells like - rotten fish apparently "

Cant beat the smell of grimsby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh pick me pick me!

so I met a girl off here, this was on christmas day and she was desperate to meet but no tfl of course - so she arranged an uber to hers. I'm thinking okay, that's really nice of her. Get in and I'm waiting for her to warm herself up a bit before I get undressed - we spent about an hour sitting there when I asked if she wanted to actually start doing something - one of my first meets so I was a bit nervous. she basically gave me the cold treatment ("if you want to" etc etc.)

so after an awkward half hour of her watching youtube on her ipad I decide to just go and get undressed, we fuck, and I remember that I'm a good 3 hours from my house (would have been half an hour if tfl was operating) so she offers to call me a cab - I'm thinking wow okay that's really kind of her - so I go get in, and the money she's given me is enough for half the journey - I try to whatsapp her and find she's blocked me and isn't picking up my calls (she's up in her flat and I'm outside), so I just tell the driver to take me as far as he can and I'll jog the rest of the way (about an hour jog lol)

driver was a really nice bloke though honestly, really understanding about the whole situation when I explained it to him

then a week or so ago she tried to whatsapp me asking for another meet and when I asked her about the cab situation she says "you organise meet, you should have money" when she was pressing me and offered to call a cab when I was fully understanding if she wanted to meet another time.

I'm sure you don't need me to tell you what I did next.

Praying I don't get crucified if she sees this

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over a year ago

Met this woman at a pub for a drink and a meal and all she did was try and touch me up under the table constantly and people were noticing and then she started making sexual comments to the waitress and was very very forward to the point of just being embarrassing and rushed the meal down got out to the car and made my excuses lol as she kept trying to put her tongue down my throat in the middle of the car park,lucky escape me thinks lol

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"oh pick me pick me!

driver was a really nice bloke though honestly, really understanding about the whole situation when I explained it to him

I'm sure you don't need me to tell you what I did next.

Praying I don't get crucified if she sees this

What did you do next? Why did you expect her to pay for a 3 hour taxi ride?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Met this woman at a pub for a drink and a meal and all she did was try and touch me up under the table constantly and people were noticing and then she started making sexual comments to the waitress and was very very forward to the point of just being embarrassing and rushed the meal down got out to the car and made my excuses lol as she kept trying to put her tongue down my throat in the middle of the car park,lucky escape me thinks lol

Ha ha some guys on here would love that!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh pick me pick me!

driver was a really nice bloke though honestly, really understanding about the whole situation when I explained it to him

I'm sure you don't need me to tell you what I did next.

Praying I don't get crucified if she sees this

What did you do next? Why did you expect her to pay for a 3 hour taxi ride? "

well it was a 10 min taxi ride (2 hour walk from where I got out which I turned into an hour jog lol)

I offered to pay but she was all "no no don't worry I'll pay"

not sure if she was being passive aggressive or if my youthful ignorance is showing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't on here, but when I was about 23 me and the lass I was with broke up so I went looking for fun, as you do lol.

Got a message from a woman in her late 40's, she looked okay in her pics so I thought what the hell... I've always kind of had a thing for older women.

Met up with her and she seemed pretty cool, we liked a lot of the same music and she asked to check out my vinyl collection when she dropped me off at home. I knew exactly where it was going lol.

Put on some Poison and she asked if she could touch my hair. Any long haired guy can back me up that it's a dangerous thing to do :P.

We ended up fucking for the next couple of hours, and she had to go.

A few days later she called and said she was visiting friends in my area, and if I was busy. By the time we were finished it was late so I let her stay over.

This went on for about a week, and we both agreed it was just a bit of fun because of the age difference.

Fast forward a few weeks, and she is calling me at 8am every morning, randomly showing up at my house, waiting outside for hours when I pretended not to be in, going through my facebook friends asking if they knew where I was... at one point she told my neighbour she was a support worker and thought I'd topped myself so he tried to kick my door in. They didn't really know me that well at the time and believed her.

Not wanting to have to pay for a new front door, I opened it and lost my shit and told her to fuck off and leave me alone (in a lot more words). Feel a bit bad, but I was genuinely getting freaked out and expecting to come home to find my kitty simmering away in a pan or something.

Luckily my neighbours were cool, and when I told them the crack they pissed themselves laughing and called me a silly twat. I still get the piss ripped out of me to this day when we're drinking.

I was young and naive and thought only women had to worry about that kind of shit. I'm a lot more careful who I meet now lol.

It's true what they say though, the crazy ones are always great in bed :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually not had one, only had one though, but it was okay.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

met a woman locally for a social meet just a coffee and chat,she had a bit of money and proceeded to try and belittle me for being "working class" telling me about her many sun holidays and holiday home etc,I made my excuses went to the counter paid for our coffees ordered her a bitter lemon and asked the waiter to point out the bitter lemon was something for me to remember her by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is a massive eye opener! Don't get me wrong, I'm the first person to do all I can to protect myself and my privacy, but it goes to show you never know who you're going to meet!

I've thankfully had no bad experiences on here... yet!

Treat others as you expect to be treated, people.

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By *ambornemanMan
over a year ago

In your town now

"Drove an hour to meet someone. I was given a false address and their profile was deleted when I tried to message them. Sat in my car crying and fell asleep until 5 in the morning.

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haha unlucky

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over a year ago

"oh pick me pick me!

driver was a really nice bloke though honestly, really understanding about the whole situation when I explained it to him

I'm sure you don't need me to tell you what I did next.

Praying I don't get crucified if she sees this

What did you do next? Why did you expect her to pay for a 3 hour taxi ride?

well it was a 10 min taxi ride (2 hour walk from where I got out which I turned into an hour jog lol)

I offered to pay but she was all "no no don't worry I'll pay"

not sure if she was being passive aggressive or if my youthful ignorance is showing

"
i think she just wanted you out of there ASAP

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By *eejay111111Man
over a year ago

london

"oh pick me pick me!

driver was a really nice bloke though honestly, really understanding about the whole situation when I explained it to him

I'm sure you don't need me to tell you what I did next.

Praying I don't get crucified if she sees this

What did you do next? Why did you expect her to pay for a 3 hour taxi ride?

well it was a 10 min taxi ride (2 hour walk from where I got out which I turned into an hour jog lol)

I offered to pay but she was all "no no don't worry I'll pay"

not sure if she was being passive aggressive or if my youthful ignorance is showing

i think she just wanted you out of there ASAP "
hahaha y u up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy early last week (I was feeling horny). He looked great in his pictures but could've been his much older, smaller, thinner and less good looking brother when he turned up. He also made zero effort to begin with. I left after 30 mins and made do with a vibrator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had met a guy socially got on great, even had a convo about fake profiles.

We then met at a hotel he'd booked, as was checking in I saw his card and that had a completely different name to what he'd told me.

Challenged him on way to room where he admitted he had lied and then blurted out he had a girlfriend.

I turned around and left

Glad he had paid for room lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a couple of other 'interesting' meets, mostly involving the guys lying about their age, and/or posting photos that are decades out of date."

You have a way with words

You owe me a new keyboard

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Going to a guys house that was like the house of horrors (actually I didn’t meet him here it was on a diet dating site).

Geeky x"

"Second visit"

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over a year ago

"Going to a guys house that was like the house of horrors (actually I didn’t meet him here it was on a diet dating site).

Geeky x

"Second visit"

Have to admit, I though exactly that

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Going to a guys house that was like the house of horrors (actually I didn’t meet him here it was on a diet dating site).

Geeky x

"Second visit"

Have to admit, I though exactly that

Glutton for punishment. It's why I'm always nervous about going to someone's home,if I don't feel like I can take my shoes off I don't feel comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going to a guys house that was like the house of horrors (actually I didn’t meet him here it was on a diet dating site).

Geeky x"

This.

And it was a house party, dog mess everywhere. Me and my mates never entered the house, dog mess up the inside of the door, up the hallway walls, everywhere.

and the smell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread fills me with dread! I’ve had nothing but good meets and pleasant times with lovely people so far. It makes me wonder what’s around the corner...

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

wieredst meet [my be not worst].house meet in brum with couple .that had room all kitted out like the console and interior of the star ship enterprise .and where dressed like trekies.no mention when sorting meet.greeting with some silly hand shake .our male half just said no way .not for us .we more into doctor who tardiss .we left and belly laugh while driving away.even now a few years later if we some where and they got old star treak on tv.we start giggling like little kids .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I daren't commment I’ve dont want another thing your not allowed to discuss on here

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"wieredst meet [my be not worst].house meet in brum with couple .that had room all kitted out like the console and interior of the star ship enterprise .and where dressed like trekies.no mention when sorting meet.greeting with some silly hand shake .our male half just said no way .not for us .we more into doctor who tardiss .we left and belly laugh while driving away.even now a few years later if we some where and they got old star treak on tv.we start giggling like little kids ."

That's funny as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet off here never met him before so met in a pub it was going great and then he asks for my kids names and where they go to school

He Couldnt understand why i wouldn't answer the question and rolled his eyes when i said sorry thats 2 personal. We left pretty quickly after that and ran for the hills!

Miss s x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A social meet off here never met him before so met in a pub it was going great and then he asks for my kids names and where they go to school

He Couldnt understand why i wouldn't answer the question and rolled his eyes when i said sorry thats 2 personal. We left pretty quickly after that and ran for the hills!

Miss s x"

Fuck that - i never ask beyond the person and situation in front of me until I know them well enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess my worst was a guy i met and for 4 months we had so much fun.. i fell for his charm and charisma but little did i know that was cos he is a sociopath! He then became controlling and violent and the court trial is next month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy claimed it be 38 when he was more like 58. Was so crap between the sheets that i had to bootycall someone else to finish the job off

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess my worst was a guy i met and for 4 months we had so much fun.. i fell for his charm and charisma but little did i know that was cos he is a sociopath! He then became controlling and violent and the court trial is next month"

Whaaaaa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Al of mine have been bad in some way.. first one was a male for a threesome with my then partner. Refused to verify us unless we sent him a video of me that had been taking during the meet showing my face, and kept pushing for more meets. Sex wasn’t even great.

Next one was my first time with a woman, planned to see her regularly, ghosted me after the first meet then messaged me six months later wanting to go for a drink

Another one with a couple was okay but my then partner got up early in the morning to play with one of them without my consent...

Why am I still on here

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Al of mine have been bad in some way.. first one was a male for a threesome with my then partner. Refused to verify us unless we sent him a video of me that had been taking during the meet showing my face, and kept pushing for more meets. Sex wasn’t even great.

Next one was my first time with a woman, planned to see her regularly, ghosted me after the first meet then messaged me six months later wanting to go for a drink

Another one with a couple was okay but my then partner got up early in the morning to play with one of them without my consent...

Why am I still on here

Because it can only get better?

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