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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be fit as fuck and hold my interest. That's all.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out"

yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be fit as fuck and hold my interest. That's all. "

Kinda doesn't give me much to go on lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out

yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)"

Rolls eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out

yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be funny and confident without being cheesy and cocky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out

yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)"

Eek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be funny and confident without being cheesy and cocky.

"

What’s the best thing about Switzerland?

I don’t know, but the flag is a big plus!

Fancy a coffee?

That sort of thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be unique, no cheese, no one worded messages. Show you’ve read her profile. It is too tough on here for men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out"

Know yourself well and be articulate enough to put it into words. In short, be yourself, not the false version you think people want you to be.

That way, when the time comes, you can be confident in everything you say and do.. Confident, not arrogant.

Spelling, grammar, face pics, creativity, humour and honesty still go a long way.. with the kind of women I like to meet at least.

Stick to your own standards and be respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out"

Your profile pic grabs my attention

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

to be constructive for ones- your profile looks good. I like it

be nice and polite and funny- that's at least the way into my knickers...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sometimes people stand out for all the wrong reasons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*hides*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that many women look at a man's profile, before opening a message, you already stand out OP. I think it's difficult to give message advice, because so many want different approaches. I would go with the basics... Funny, respectful and showing signs that you've read a profile, are usually positive things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a nice opening message, not to short or too long, just a nice simple message.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put flowers in your hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been noticed

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By *eek2findMan
over a year ago

Wigan

OP you got the body, I'm sure you have the banter. If so then you are already a 3rd of the way there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be fit as fuck and hold my interest. That's all.

Kinda doesn't give me much to go on lol"

Well I can only speak for what gets my interest. Sorry

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out

yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)"

Owned! Brutal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be fit as fuck and hold my interest. That's all. "

Funny you should say that...

I’m a marathon running bank manager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be fit as fuck and hold my interest. That's all.

Funny you should say that...

I’m a marathon running bank manager "

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

You have had quite a bit of success looking at your verifications. Keep going to club's and meeting people that way.

Write polite, friendly messages and mention something from the person's profile to show you are interested in meeting them, not just any woman will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be fit as fuck and hold my interest. That's all.

Funny you should say that...

I’m a marathon running bank manager "

Swoon!!!! My hero

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex

not being dreadfully rude and thinking you are above others on previous threads would be a start?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone makes me laugh I always reply

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out

Know yourself well and be articulate enough to put it into words. In short, be yourself, not the false version you think people want you to be.

That way, when the time comes, you can be confident in everything you say and do.. Confident, not arrogant.

Spelling, grammar, face pics, creativity, humour and honesty still go a long way.. with the kind of women I like to meet at least.

Stick to your own standards and be respectful."

Boom got it in one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think you need to do anything OP...i think you already stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always attach a good face pic with your message. Some guys spend a lot of time creating a nice message but don't attach a pic. Most women will then look at the profile and if there is nothing there visually... the delete button usually is hit.

It's not easy for guys on here to get meets because of the number ratio. This week I've deleted hundreds and hundreds of messages, some lovely ones, but only communicated with 2 new people. Unfortunately we only have one body and limited time, we can't meet you all.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I guess women get thousands of messages on here. Just wondering for any tips on standing out

yes they do, even the overweight unattractive ones that would not get a second look in the real world if they were in a bar(to quote your own post from last week)"

And i for one love that fact! But there's no need to troll the op just because he doesn't like big women. He's allowed a preference just like anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what u can its impossible to stant out just dont be too much of a dick

Im absolutley no expert at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me is difficult the ratio to men to women on this is very difficult to stand out

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