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What to wear...I’m really stuck

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By *uss in bootsxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Tonight at quest first time know nothing what to wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am interested to see the response here, outer and under wear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it might take some time for some sensible adult answers though.

A totally valid post OP.

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By *uss in bootsxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

I know it’s a daft question but as we’ve never been and relatively new to the scene just don’t want to look a twat turning up in something...I can look a twat Monday to Friday at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it might take some time for some sensible adult answers though.

A totally valid post OP."

Are you always that premature?

He only posted it 3 minutes before you complained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the dress code..you can not go wrong with a shirt and trousers and shoes..not jeans track bottoms or trainers and so on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it might take some time for some sensible adult answers though.

A totally valid post OP."

Always take a sense of humour with you to a club.

Swinging may be for grown ups but we’re a right silly bunch. It breaks ice and gets the party started.

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

Gold lamè suit and silver winkle pickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the dress code..you can not go wrong with a shirt and trousers and shoes..not jeans track bottoms or trainers and so on "

Interesting do they provide lockers for hanging suits and ties and so on, or is all the nookie in a separate room?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know Quest specifically, but I always wear smart trousers, a smart freshly-ironed shirt, and shoes.

Couples tend to make an effort and we like those men who do the same.

We often post a pic of our outfit to help people recognise us and find this often breaks the ice

Good luck.

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By *uss in bootsxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Cheers for the advice guys n girlys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know Quest specifically, but I always wear smart trousers, a smart freshly-ironed shirt, and shoes.

Couples tend to make an effort and we like those men who do the same.

We often post a pic of our outfit to help people recognise us and find this often breaks the ice

Good luck. "

I imagine it’s hard to miss that shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the dress code..you can not go wrong with a shirt and trousers and shoes..not jeans track bottoms or trainers and so on

Interesting do they provide lockers for hanging suits and ties and so on, or is all the nookie in a separate room?"

Never been to Q ..but most if not all clubs provide lockers in the changing room area that are separate to the meet and play areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I imagine it’s hard to miss that shirt "

Hush you, or I'll wear it to next week's Tea Party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it might take some time for some sensible adult answers though.

A totally valid post OP.

Always take a sense of humour with you to a club.

Swinging may be for grown ups but we’re a right silly bunch. It breaks ice and gets the party started. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I imagine it’s hard to miss that shirt

Hush you, or I'll wear it to next week's Tea Party

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You better had now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight at quest first time know nothing what to wear "
a dressing gown will be fine ......really it will x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight at quest first time know nothing what to wear a dressing gown will be fine ......really it will x "

He can’t just wear that....

He’ll need a pipe and slippers too

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By *uss in bootsxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Got a pipe and flip flops

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Wear something that you feel comfortable in, otherwise it's impossible for you to feel as good as you could. But feel free to wear something that is also as sexy as you dare. You can always take a second outfit to change into if you are feeling that an outfit might be too revealing to wear at the beginning of the night

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Dress to impress

That means iron your willy warmer

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

wear what you feel comfy in and smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a pipe and flip flops "

That’ll do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual in quest on a friday. Lockers are provided. Have fun. Great club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good post as myself and maybe some others might think, you turn up and everyone gets naked and moves around the different parts of the club without a stitch on or lingerie for the ladies.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Mankini borat style

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight at quest first time know nothing what to wear "

nice shirt trousers shoes and smell good

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By *uss in bootsxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford


"Tonight at quest first time know nothing what to wear

nice shirt trousers shoes and smell good "
will do

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By *ingdangdoo82Man
over a year ago

sheffield/Derbyshire border

Just a bow tie??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby usually wears a nice shirt, jeans and shoes or even a polo style t shirt ...just think the better you look and smell more chance of getting noticed . The lockers are provided at £5 deposit that's with a towel . You have to dress down when going in the playroom/ wet area so down to towel or boxers for guys and underwear or towel for ladies . Don't forget to take your own drinks as they dont have a license but do sell soft drinks . We have been a few times ....be confident but don't stalk people lol ( trust us guys do and it's off putting ). If your interested approach politely And ask if theywant to chat ....this is the type of thing we look for in guys in clubs so just our preference of course but would imagine it's the same for most people . Also go with no expectations then if nothing happens it's a bonus ....and have fun . ( Mrs) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mistake on last post ....

If anything happens it's a bonus lol xx

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By *uss in bootsxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford


"Hubby usually wears a nice shirt, jeans and shoes or even a polo style t shirt ...just think the better you look and smell more chance of getting noticed . The lockers are provided at £5 deposit that's with a towel . You have to dress down when going in the playroom/ wet area so down to towel or boxers for guys and underwear or towel for ladies . Don't forget to take your own drinks as they dont have a license but do sell soft drinks . We have been a few times ....be confident but don't stalk people lol ( trust us guys do and it's off putting ). If your interested approach politely And ask if theywant to chat ....this is the type of thing we look for in guys in clubs so just our preference of course but would imagine it's the same for most people . Also go with no expectations then if nothing happens it's a bonus ....and have fun . ( Mrs) xx "

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By *uss in bootsxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Thanks for that guys that’s a help having never been so little unsure and nervous. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for that guys that’s a help having never been so little unsure and nervous. X"

Hope you have a great night xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Quest is a lovely club. Im sure you will have a great night. If you choose you can spend all evening in the bar, fully clothed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight at quest first time know nothing what to wear

nice shirt trousers shoes and smell good will do "

enjoy and relax x

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By *uss in bootsxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Hope your there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope your there "

me no, weekend in for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby usually wears a nice shirt, jeans and shoes or even a polo style t shirt ...just think the better you look and smell more chance of getting noticed . The lockers are provided at £5 deposit that's with a towel . You have to dress down when going in the playroom/ wet area so down to towel or boxers for guys and underwear or towel for ladies . Don't forget to take your own drinks as they dont have a license but do sell soft drinks . We have been a few times ....be confident but don't stalk people lol ( trust us guys do and it's off putting ). If your interested approach politely And ask if theywant to chat ....this is the type of thing we look for in guys in clubs so just our preference of course but would imagine it's the same for most people . Also go with no expectations then if nothing happens it's a bonus ....and have fun . ( Mrs) xx "

Wonderful informative reply, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tonight at quest first time know nothing what to wear a dressing gown will be fine ......really it will x

He can’t just wear that....

He’ll need a pipe and slippers too "
lol ok you have to have warm feet on these occasions

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