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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maid is considering opening a profile on fab, so I said when she comes over next to have a brows about on mine see if she likes it.

I've never seen anyone so shocked in my life, she said that most blokes won't even let you look at their phone let alone full access to their social media account.

Would you mind your partner looking at your single profile on fab? If you don't have anything to hide why would it bother you?

Your thoughts please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can hand on heart say it is something that would never bother me. I have nothing to hide

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can hand on heart say it is something that would never bother me. I have nothing to hide "

I know, I just don't get it

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

We know each other's passwords.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We know each other's passwords."

Trust, it's a big word for 5 letters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I wouldn't mind. I set Marc's single profile up anyway.

As for our phones...again, no. We use eachother's phones on a regular basis (we use whichever is closest to hand when a have to look something up or make a call).

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm an open book but I can see that at times you might want to have a private space, within the trust of the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. I wouldn't mind. I set Marc's single profile up anyway.

As for our phones...again, no. We use eachother's phones on a regular basis (we use whichever is closest to hand when a have to look something up or make a call). "

I'm guessing you have to be super careful when buying a surprise gift though

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

If a girl ever found the all the filth I have on my phone it would be game over. Unless she liked it then it might be game on!

I wouldn’t give a girl access to my phone unless I was planning on marrying her and had a chance to do a lot of deleting first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm an open book but I can see that at times you might want to have a private space, within the trust of the relationship.

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I'm open and honest enough to say if I need space

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No problem in a relationship, nothing to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby quite often types out my sexts for me if I'm driving, so no I wouldn't mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See, I just think a lot of vanilla guys are always up to something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lacey has full access to everything and vice versa, our phone accounts are linked so our phones share pictures/ contacts / call history, everything really.

Only thing we don’t share is WhatsApp but any pics or vids are immediately shared by our phones.

We have nothing to hide from each other.

We don’t have any social media accounts apart from fab

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"See, I just think a lot of vanilla guys are always up to something "

I agree.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"See, I just think a lot of vanilla guys are always up to something "

On fab as single men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See, I just think a lot of vanilla guys are always up to something

On fab as single men?"

No I mean guys that maid has dated before me.

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

All open here, we both know each other’s passwords for different sites and share what people are saying and how we reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have full access to my OH's phone, social media and fab, as he does mine... Unless I specifically say to not look until I say he can again, usually he then knows i'm up to mischief and want to surprise him

We have no secrets between ourselves, always open and honest... you have to be in this lifestyle.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Nope. When I was in a relationship I would have happily let him have free access to my phone. I have nothing to hide.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

These vanilla's can't be trusted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t bother me!

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our phones are always open to each other. I set up misters account on here and we often sit going through mine x

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Nothing to hide so he can look at all he likes except my photos (secret wedding stuff in there)

My ex was very secretive with his phone & it became his downfall

B x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Wouldn't bother me the slightest, I've got nothing to hide.

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"These vanilla's can't be trusted "

Leaning towards particular sexual tastes have nothing to do with whether a person is trustworthy or not.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Wouldn’t bother me in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"These vanilla's can't be trusted

Leaning towards particular sexual tastes have nothing to do with whether a person is trustworthy or not. "

Just by sheer numbers, there being more people not into swinging, and the very nature of swinging, there must be more cheats in the vanilla world than the swinging world, but I was just having a bit of banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

We both have shared passwords but discuss what's happening all the time. Nothing to hide, don't see the need for it on here or elsewhere. Wouldn't share my phone with anyone else though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both have shared passwords but discuss what's happening all the time. Nothing to hide, don't see the need for it on here or elsewhere. Wouldn't share my phone with anyone else though "

Ooh I want to see now

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Nope.... Never had an issue with a partner seeing anything on my phone. Openness and trust always. Aside from the obvious relationship/trust thing though, its also good to be able to discuss experiences, concerns, opinions, etc., with partner or even a close fwb. I think its tough enough having to keep a secret lifestyle hidden from friends and family, without feeling like you would have to hide aspects of it from a swing-friendly partner too.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Great sketch about a guy having a suspected heart attack “call an ambulance!”

She grabs his phone to dial 999 “what’s your password?”

He looks up mortified “don’t bother “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know each other's passwords.

Trust, it's a big word for 5 letters"

So is LARGE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs N uses my phone more than her own, the cheeky minx. There's nowt to hide from her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only reason I've stopped partners looking at my phone in the past, is because I maybe having a text conversation with a friend and I don't want to betray their confidence.

Other than that I don't care.

I do gave a folder of apps on my phone that gets moved to its own page before I go and see my mum or something. So it's hard to find. Means I can have fab, dating and kik without family etc knowing lol.

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