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By *i winkers OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Just a quick rant about couples who say on their profile no bi men but insist that the female half being bisexual.

Double standards and don't give me all that we all have preferences they are bigots.

Rant over

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Yeah we know. But whatcha gonna do huh?!

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By *hris and SamCouple
over a year ago

at the end of the rainbow

Yes those profiles do make us laugh, all for bi women but no no no to bi men. I suppose they work on the assumption that bi men wouldn't be able to control themselves when they see a naked male body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We not expect any potential meets to be bi what so ever ,which trying to find such couples is extremely rare lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ban them burn them flog them rave about them in the forums write a memo to the management....

Or just accept that people can make their own choices...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

However. I'm a bi playful man. The last person id want to play with is a straight man. So i don't care how bigoted they may or may not be,i know that sexually we will not be compatible. I'll look elsewhere, no matter what the Mrs looks like..

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


" However. I'm a bi playful man. The last person id want to play with is a straight man. So i don't care how bigoted they may or may not be,i know that sexually we will not be compatible. I'll look elsewhere, no matter what the Mrs looks like.."

Gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ban them burn them flog them rave about them in the forums write a memo to the management....

Or just accept that people can make their own choices..."

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


" However. I'm a bi playful man. The last person id want to play with is a straight man. So i don't care how bigoted they may or may not be,i know that sexually we will not be compatible. I'll look elsewhere, no matter what the Mrs looks like.."

I like that description of you.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

When I had a couples profile the female was bisexual and regularly used to fuck women although we never stipulated it.

I am not Bi but We also attended Bi nights where we sometimes found ourselves surrounded by Man on man action which DID not have us reaching for a Sick bucket or bible.

We both used to attend pride and club nights within the LBGT community (Pink punters is the best by the way).

But it was her choice not to knowingly play with Bi guys.

It’s a funny old world.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

I think we have come to a point in history where personal preferences are the whimsical thoughts of narrow minded fools and we should all shag each other no matter what.

Great! Now that’s sorted the lass on hot pics No1 can’t say no now!!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Scared there arse may be torn apart by a cock lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not quite sure how you work out it's bigoted OP?

It IS a preference plain and simple - it's ONLY bigoted if they say "no bi men because they are all HIV infested faggots who can't keep their hands to themselves" or something similarly bigoted.

If they're a couple with a bisexual female and a straight male it makes perfect sense they'd be looking for the combination you describe.

And I say that as a bisexual male who has no problem accepting people's personal preferences so long as they aren't borne out of the kind of bigotry I've described

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Just a quick rant about couples who say on their profile no bi men but insist that the female half being bisexual.

Double standards and don't give me all that we all have preferences they are bigots.

Rant over"

Why are they bigots just because the guy don't want to fuck or be fucked by another guy? OK if they can't accept that a bi guy can play without touching the guy i get that but just because the Mrs likes licking fanny doesn't mean the guy has to like sucking cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined fab because I wanted to try my bi-side, we don't have an issue with bi men and have met them. I love watching lesbian porn but bi/gay men have never been a turn on, if Fred was bi then I'm sure this would be different.

However, there has been times when we've stopped chatting to couples with bi males as the conversation has turned to "what would Fred do if I grabbed his cock?" "I know he's straight but I'd love to suck his cock" The latter I would never dream of saying the equivalent to a straight woman as it's not going to be welcomed and inappropriate.

So whilst we don't feel the need to avoid bi men I can see why some may choose too.

Ginger

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hmm I thought the definition of a bigot was someone who was intolerant of people who hold different views.

I don't feel that being straight and not wanting to meet bi men is intolerant even if your female partner is bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secretly, the man wants his cock sucked by a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm I thought the definition of a bigot was someone who was intolerant of people who hold different views.

I don't feel that being straight and not wanting to meet bi men is intolerant even if your female partner is bi.

"

The OP is a bigot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont get mad about what you cannot change - its just peoples choices thats all and there are plenty of all to go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There does seem to be a lot of bi women in couples, on here. I think their husbands must be crap in bed and they are looking for a woman to satisfy themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this a rather ironic thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick rant about couples who say on their profile no bi men but insist that the female half being bisexual.

Double standards and don't give me all that we all have preferences they are bigots.

Rant over"
well said.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yes those profiles do make us laugh, all for bi women but no no no to bi men. I suppose they work on the assumption that bi men wouldn't be able to control themselves when they see a naked male body. "

This happens no matter if bi men take umbrage or not.

We met a man who was bi who made us very uncomfortable with how he was acting,so much so we ended the meet and as much as we know not all bi men would act the same, as we had limited time to arrange meets and didn't want to waste time we didn't meet with any ( known ) bi men after that

To balance it out, we did have meets before that with bi men who didn't do go against what we were looking for

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just a quick rant about couples who say on their profile no bi men but insist that the female half being bisexual.

Double standards and don't give me all that we all have preferences they are bigots.

Rant over

"

I am not sure I get this, do you mean they can't say the women are bi but the men are not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been put off in the past from meeting bi men as after chatting with a couple they did say in the throes and mingle they might not be able to 'not touch' - so to avoid damage to home and people just dont go there again personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick rant about couples who say on their profile no bi men but insist that the female half being bisexual.

Double standards and don't give me all that we all have preferences they are bigots.

Rant over"

I don't understand why you can't accept other people preferences!?

There are plenty of bi couples, and singles that want to play with no couples, so just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick rant about couples who say on their profile no bi men but insist that the female half being bisexual.

Double standards and don't give me all that we all have preferences they are bigots.

Rant over

I don't understand why you can't accept other people preferences!?

There are plenty of bi couples, and singles that want to play with no couples, so just move on. "

*bi couples!

Is this the only phone in the world that continually changes the word bi to either no, or go!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick rant about couples who say on their profile no bi men but insist that the female half being bisexual.

Double standards and don't give me all that we all have preferences they are bigots.

Rant over"
sorry but its not bigotry but then we don't demand the other woman is bi.. And although we have bi in here as I would only touch another woman as part of group play I'd say I was bi playful.

But we are not into bi men. And therefore will do our best to play with straight guys. Of course people lie.. And sorry but it is personal preference.. and seeing as not wanting bi guys seems to be the minority. I don't get why people get so stressed about it.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

We hold regular parties for couples and singles most are bi, some straight and some guys are gay. Never had a problem as everyone respects eachother, I am bi and wouldn't dream of imposing myself on someone who showed no interest. It all depends on the attitude and social skills of the couple or singles involved. Admittedly their are some over zealous and aggressive people, but they can soon be sussed out when you chat to them.

This is just my opinion and iam sure everyone has there's too. I don't think personal preference is bigoted necessarily, but tolerance is the way forward.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just a quick rant about couples who say on their profile no bi men but insist that the female half being bisexual.

Double standards and don't give me all that we all have preferences they are bigots.

Rant over

I don't understand why you can't accept other people preferences!?

There are plenty of bi couples, and singles that want to play with no couples, so just move on.

*bi couples!

Is this the only phone in the world that continually changes the word bi to either no, or go!?!"

Yes because mine changes it to hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick rant about couples who say on their profile no bi men but insist that the female half being bisexual.

Double standards and don't give me all that we all have preferences they are bigots.

Rant over"

Aah, so it's OK for you both to like shagging people of the same sex, but it's not OK for other people to not want to?

Glad that's cleared up. Can you possibly come over to my house and change my preferences on who I choose to fuck or not please, so that I may fit in with your ideologies of what I can and can't do with my life?

Many thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as though we play with guys but if we did we would probably put on our profile no bi men because even though I imagine most are respectful of the fact Ads isn’t bi, we would want to make it clear from the get go, just like other preferences are on people’s profiles. Yes I am bi but had I have been straight and we were to play with couples we would also put on our profile no bi females, again most would be respectful of this but again, it clears things up from the start. Isn’t it better to be clear and upfront from the start? It’s not be bigoted it’s being upfront, just like other profiles that say ‘they aren’t attracted to black men or Asians’ etc, it doesn’t seem very pc in today’s world of course but it’s a preference and it’s being clear and upfront and hopefully cutting down on messages etc.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick rant about couples who say on their profile no bi men but insist that the female half being bisexual.

Double standards and don't give me all that we all have preferences they are bigots.

Rant over

I don't understand why you can't accept other people preferences!?

There are plenty of bi couples, and singles that want to play with no couples, so just move on.

*bi couples!

Is this the only phone in the world that continually changes the word bi to either no, or go!?!

Yes because mine changes it to hi. "

At least that's positive!

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