FabSwingers.com forum: #confidenceissexy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Following several interesting threads about self confidence, how about those of us who can wobble from time to time try the following:

Switch of the inner voice radio (copyright Ye Olde Witch Doctor).

Have a good look through your profile pics and select the one you are happiest with. Make it your profile pic.

And just go for it. Pick someone on your hotlist that you have yet had the courage to message and go for it.

No need to say whether you are in or not. Make yourself happy, be confident in your own appeal.

Be sexy! Be confident! It might surprise you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easier said then done lol

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yussss! Ok. Happening.

ID, that photo of you with your shirt billowing open is fabulous. Do it. Doooo Eeeeeet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yussss! Ok. Happening.

ID, that photo of you with your shirt billowing open is fabulous. Do it. Doooo Eeeeeet!

This one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very small hotlist, and speak to everyone on it. So I’ll just pm someone I like and hope likes me.

But this pic I don’t think is too bad. The one I do like I can’t make public as it’s my face pic. X

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent thread, Infrequent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance!"

very true. The arrogant sort probably have already messaged everyone though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident enough to message but realistic enough to know that it being welcomed is unlikely....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile pic is my favorite.

The rest of it I'll give a miss for today but I'll be back soon in full kick ass mode!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My profile pic is my favorite.

The rest of it I'll give a miss for today but I'll be back soon in full kick ass mode! "

Someone is going to be very lucky when you do message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this how fab works? See someone you like. Message them? Have I been doing it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely message someone first... I need a confidence injection

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

" Isn't this how fab works? See someone you like. Message them? Have I been doing it wrong?"

This is the forum's remember!

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