FabSwingers.com forum: Should we dump our personal preferences to make the PC Police happy

By * and B OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

After seeing several threads saying people are wrong or have double standards having on their profile they won't meet single guys, Bi guys or TV's due to personal preference, should we all just go with it, suck it up and make the PC Police happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, political correctness nowadays has gone to absolute shit. Do whatever you enjoy. Simple as! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, fuck or don’t fuck whoever you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hellz no! We cant tip toe our way through life for fear of a few crybabies.

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

I’ll put the kettle on, where’s the biscuits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. The same as I wouldn't meet someone who on paper matches my preferences. No one should ever feel any pressure to do anything with anyone they don't want to. No matter what the reason is.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Flame throwing so early in the day. Well, it is chilly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After seeing several threads saying people are wrong or have double standards having on their profile they won't meet single guys, Bi guys or TV's due to personal preference, should we all just go with it, suck it up and make the PC Police happy "

No, its only the people not getting meets that are moaning. They just dont belong here, have no understanding of our lifestyle.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

After my thread yesterday I think I better stay quiet

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By * and B OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Flame throwing so early in the day. Well, it is chilly.

Yes it may well get warmer

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Nope, just block those profiles you/they don't match

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

No let them whine it’s funny.

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Not sure which individuals said that but I can assure you that the PC Police (whoever that is) don't say it either.

What people with more progressive views say is that you shouldn't harass or demean Tvs, single guys, gay or bi or people who want to have sex with them.

Thats the reality, but please carry on with your magical thinking if it keeps you warm at night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flame throwing so early in the day. Well, it is chilly.

Yes it may well get warmer

Yay...bring on the chicks (appropriately dressed of course) and the fires

No in answer to your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what your point us.

Are you saying we should have no preferences expressed or be persuaded to whatever is perceived to be correct against your own belief system?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No let them whine it’s funny. "

I'll tell you what's funny...seeing yet another thread whining about how the so-called 'PC Brigade', and how 'Political Correctness Gone Mad' is ruining Fab...

No-one can force to you be attracted to people who you don't find attractive. If you don't find black men attractive, that doesn't make you racist; if you don't find bi men attractive, that doesn't make you homophobic.

However, the reason why people who have statements like 'no blacks' or 'no bi' on their profiles often come in for criticism is because some of them don't STOP at simply 'stating their preferences'.

Instead, they come on the forums and post openly offensive comments about blacks, bi guys, etc., and demonstrate thereby that their preferences are born out of racist/homophobic views...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Not a chance.

Hate anything PC, prefer free will and choices.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To quote NWA,"Fuck the (pc) police!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an illustration:

If I see a profile saying 'no bi guys', I don't regard that as proof that the person concerned is homophobic.

However:

If I come across a forum post wherein the same user claims that bi guys 'fuck anything that moves', 'don't care about their sexual health' or are 'rife with STIs', THEN I'll call them out as homophobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever I chose to meet is between me and them.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

my body..... my rules...... end of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this mean that everybody should start fucking everybody, a straight man having sex with another straight man just because they dont want anybody thinking their homophobic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this mean that everybody should start fucking everybody, a straight man having sex with another straight man just because they dont want anybody thinking they're homophobic"

I refer you to my example above.

You CANNOT be forced to find someone attractive if you're not actually attracted to them.

People are NOT going to think that you're homophobic just because you don't fuck other men.

After all, you're STRAIGHT, so by definition, you don't find other men attractive.

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Does this mean that everybody should start fucking everybody, a straight man having sex with another straight man just because they dont want anybody thinking their homophobic"

No. No it doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Backs out of thread quietly...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Just because someone holds a different opinion doesn't mean you have to alter yours to fit. Just because someone holds a different opinion doesn't make them PC police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone holds a different opinion doesn't mean you have to alter yours to fit. Just because someone holds a different opinion doesn't make them PC police."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this mean that everybody should start fucking everybody, a straight man having sex with another straight man just because they dont want anybody thinking they're homophobic

I refer you to my example above.

You CANNOT be forced to find someone attractive if you're not actually attracted to them.

People are NOT going to think that you're homophobic just because you don't fuck other men.

After all, you're STRAIGHT, so by definition, you don't find other men attractive.

Thanks for clearing this up for me, I was seconds away from choking on dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this mean that everybody should start fucking everybody, a straight man having sex with another straight man just because they dont want anybody thinking they're homophobic

I refer you to my example above.

You CANNOT be forced to find someone attractive if you're not actually attracted to them.

People are NOT going to think that you're homophobic just because you don't fuck other men.

After all, you're STRAIGHT, so by definition, you don't find other men attractive.

Thanks for clearing this up for me, I was seconds away from choking on dick"

Ahh...I see that I'm in the presence of the world's greatest comedian...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

"Does this mean that everybody should start fucking everybody, a straight man having sex with another straight man just because they dont want anybody thinking they're homophobic

I refer you to my example above.

You CANNOT be forced to find someone attractive if you're not actually attracted to them.

People are NOT going to think that you're homophobic just because you don't fuck other men.

After all, you're STRAIGHT, so by definition, you don't find other men attractive.

Thanks for clearing this up for me, I was seconds away from choking on dick"

lol

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By * and B OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Exactly all of the above. Preference is a good way to filter out people who are not what you are looking for without prejudice. Thought I'd throw this discussion the other way round to other threads as people say it's double standards. Preference is just that and not judgemental in any way.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Others can call it what they want, but I have preferences, and I'm sticking to them.

If it offends someone, then that's not my problem.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Others can call it what they want, but I have preferences, and I'm sticking to them.

If it offends someone, then that's not my problem. "
^ Here Here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Others can call it what they want, but I have preferences, and I'm sticking to them.

If it offends someone, then that's not my problem. ^ Here Here

I can honestly say I've never seen a post on Here indicating that anyone shoukd forego their preference? Is it just me?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Others can call it what they want, but I have preferences, and I'm sticking to them.

If it offends someone, then that's not my problem. "

Exactly this

we all have our likes, opinions and preferences. It that offends someone else, that's their problem, not mine.

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By * and B OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Others can call it what they want, but I have preferences, and I'm sticking to them.

If it offends someone, then that's not my problem. ^ Here Here

I can honestly say I've never seen a post on Here indicating that anyone should forego their preference? Is it just me? "

We have not either. We were reading a thread where if female is bi and guy is straight and on their profile it says don't meet with bi males it is wrong. And some even go to the extreme of saying that must make folk homophobic. Homophobic with a Bi partner, confuses us too. We won't play with straight women so does that make us hetrophobic.... Hetrophobic, now that could be an interesting thread

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Nope, I don't want to have sex with gay or bi men, transgenders, cross dressers or overweight women. Absolutely no reason why I wouldn't be good friends with all of them, but sexually no thanks. That's my preferences and I'm sticking to them

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Others can call it what they want, but I have preferences, and I'm sticking to them.

If it offends someone, then that's not my problem. ^ Here Here

I can honestly say I've never seen a post on Here indicating that anyone should forego their preference? Is it just me?

So one incongruous profile leads you to think there is some wide- spread conspiracy to stifle free speech and action?

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By * and B OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Nope, I don't want to have sex with gay or bi men, transgenders, cross dressers or overweight women. Absolutely no reason why I wouldn't be good friends with all of them, but sexually no thanks. That's my preferences and I'm sticking to them

That's exactly the same view we have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the same as gay/bi but constantly getting told I'm shallow because I have a type is so annoying

Surely on a site where I'm looking for sex partners I'm allowed to only meet men in sexually attracted to?

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By *he devil and his loverCouple
over a year ago

Boston

Surely we all have the right to personal preference? Just because you are in a swingers site doesn’t mean you have to do or accept people and things you are not comfortable with or you don’t fancy . Surely as long as people have some respect than what’s wrong with putting your preferences in your profile ? I much rather someone told me I’m not what they are looking for rather than waste my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely as long as people have some respect than what’s wrong with putting your preferences in your profile?

I much rather someone told me I’m not what they are looking for rather than waste my time "

Exactly.

Nothing wrong with being clear on your profile that you aren't looking for X/Y/Z...as long as you don't start posting derogatory comments about X/Y/Z...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your looking to employ somebody, you would of course, have to be PC. For sexual preferences, that is a personal thing, and therefore has nothing to do with being sexist, ageist, or whatever else these idiots are ranting about in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your looking to employ somebody, you would of course, have to be PC. For sexual preferences, that is a personal thing, and therefore has nothing to do with being sexist, ageist, or whatever else these idiots are ranting about in the forums."

Personally, most of the 'ranting' seems to be coming from the people complaining about the alleged 'PC Brigade'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In short, no

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By * and B OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Not the same as gay/bi but constantly getting told I'm shallow because I have a type is so annoying

Surely on a site where I'm looking for sex partners I'm allowed to only meet men in sexually attracted to?

An honest and great profile. It explains everything you are and not looking for. Why on earth people would call you shallow. We think honesty is the best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've really got to stop pandering to the fringe extremists who seem to relish in using emotional black mail

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