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"I think you may regret it when you are older..." If I’m playing with lots of bbc not sure I will | |||
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"I think you may regret it when you are older... If I’m playing with lots of bbc not sure I will " Oh, is that what it represents...I thought you just liked snap... | |||
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"Hi just got the queen of spades tatoo on me wondering what’s people’s opinion on this " Not sure what to think. This might be the first time I've ever heard of anyone doing this... | |||
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"Where did you have it? " Just above pussy so can be seen in a bikini etc | |||
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"Where did you have it? Just above pussy so can be seen in a bikini etc " I have a couple of sexual tattoos planned...but they'll be hidden. Each to their own...if you like it, cool  | |||
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"Where did you have it? Just above pussy so can be seen in a bikini etc " To be honest they look like transfers to me in your pictures. 
IF they are real they could be described by some perhaps as a sign of submission. They may also be viewed as potentially racist (anti-white) in an odd way. 
I like black guys and white guys equally and see no difference about them. But each to their own...  | |||
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"Where did you have it? Just above pussy so can be seen in a bikini etc To be honest they look like transfers to me in your pictures.
IF they are real they could be described by some perhaps as a sign of submission. They may also be viewed as potentially racist (anti-white) in an odd way.
I like black guys and white guys equally and see no difference about them. But each to their own... "Yes very real hurt as well lol . And it does mean a preference for black guys oppose to white . And was hoping it would attract guys more in clubs etc | |||
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"And the ones on tits are there one pic gone the next? The plot thickens "those look like stickers . OP I had sex with my first black guy last Saturday ! Really enjoyed it! But I will keep my options open!!! If you like the tattoo do it ! Your body your choice ! X | |||
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"And the ones on tits are there one pic gone the next? The plot thickens "they look like the ones free with bubble gum and they move from boobs to bum to bikini? | |||
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"I have queen of spade panties lol. But we both did get matching cuckold symbol tattoos months ago (message if you wanna see) I figured it's commitment to the cause plus after 11 years I think we know what we want" I’d like to see yours | |||
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"I have queen of spade panties lol. But we both did get matching cuckold symbol tattoos months ago (message if you wanna see) I figured it's commitment to the cause plus after 11 years I think we know what we want I’d like to see yours" uploading now | |||
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"I have queen of spade panties lol. But we both did get matching cuckold symbol tattoos months ago (message if you wanna see) I figured it's commitment to the cause plus after 11 years I think we know what we want I’d like to see yours uploading now" What is? | |||
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"Ones before we’re temps yes but just got the one above pussy done for real now others are gone as they were temps. Think it shows my commitment to giving myself to BBC’s " good on ya | |||
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"I have queen of spade panties lol. But we both did get matching cuckold symbol tattoos months ago (message if you wanna see) I figured it's commitment to the cause plus after 11 years I think we know what we want I’d like to see yours uploading now What is?" our picture of matching cuckold tattoos | |||
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"Hi just got the queen of spades tatoo on me wondering what’s people’s opinion on this " Many know the American symbol represents a white woman who likes black men. However, the word spade is also a derogatory term used to identify black people during the early 1900’s. Personally, I don’t think you need a tattoo to show you like a specific race and certainly not one that has a derogatory meaning. Like anything in life, research before doing. | |||
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"Hi just got the queen of spades tatoo on me wondering what’s people’s opinion on this Many know the American symbol represents a white woman who likes black men. However, the word spade is also a derogatory term used to identify black people during the early 1900’s. Personally, I don’t think you need a tattoo to show you like a specific race and certainly not one that has a derogatory meaning. Like anything in life, research before doing." This  | |||
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"Maybe you should have a tattoo of a hoe next .." Not my fault I love been slutty | |||
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"Not into black man, but I find the fact that you refer to yourself as the the queen of spades extremely racist. Why not just say you are the princess of golly wogs ? It’s disgusting" i was scrolling down this thread wondering if anyone else was thinking the same as me. | |||
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"Not into black man, but I find the fact that you refer to yourself as the the queen of spades extremely racist. Why not just say you are the princess of golly wogs ? It’s disgusting i was scrolling down this thread wondering if anyone else was thinking the same as me." People seem to be more concerned with the fact if they are actually tattoos or not | |||
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"Not into black man, but I find the fact that you refer to yourself as the the queen of spades extremely racist. Why not just say you are the princess of golly wogs ? It’s disgusting" Hmm the problem is that there are many many black guys that indulge this and the BBC term, that it becomes confusing to some people. We personally use it as a filter | |||
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"Hi just got the queen of spades tatoo on me wondering what’s people’s opinion on this " Your body Your tattoo Who cares what peoples opinions are | |||
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"Not into black man, but I find the fact that you refer to yourself as the the queen of spades extremely racist. Why not just say you are the princess of golly wogs ? It’s disgusting Hmm the problem is that there are many many black guys that indulge this and the BBC term, that it becomes confusing to some people. We personally use it as a filter "It may well be acceptable to some people but but I find it bordering on being racist. But maybe that’s just me | |||
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"Not into black man, but I find the fact that you refer to yourself as the the queen of spades extremely racist. Why not just say you are the princess of golly wogs ? It’s disgusting Hmm the problem is that there are many many black guys that indulge this and the BBC term, that it becomes confusing to some people. We personally use it as a filter "As in, you avoid people using the term bbc? Im glad im not alone in that kind of thing as i avoid those using the bbw term. | |||
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"Not into black man, but I find the fact that you refer to yourself as the the queen of spades extremely racist. Why not just say you are the princess of golly wogs ? It’s disgusting Hmm the problem is that there are many many black guys that indulge this and the BBC term, that it becomes confusing to some people. We personally use it as a filter
It may well be acceptable to some people but but I find it bordering on being racist. But maybe that’s just me"Acceptable to some but certainly Not us though. You’ll see we don’t use BBC in our profile and we avoid anyone using QOS, for several reasons actually, race issues been top of the list. At best we might meet a guy describing himself as bbc, (that’s their prerogative), but ideally we’d sooner meet people of a different calibre that give a lot more thought on how they present themselves to others. The OP most certainly falls into that category.  | |||
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"Not into black man, but I find the fact that you refer to yourself as the the queen of spades extremely racist. Why not just say you are the princess of golly wogs ? It’s disgusting Hmm the problem is that there are many many black guys that indulge this and the BBC term, that it becomes confusing to some people. We personally use it as a filter
As in, you avoid people using the term bbc? Im glad im not alone in that kind of thing as i avoid those using the bbw term. "Yes pretty much
We once got invited to a BBC / BBW party. I wasn’t happy .....  | |||
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"Not into black man, but I find the fact that you refer to yourself as the the queen of spades extremely racist. Why not just say you are the princess of golly wogs ? It’s disgusting Hmm the problem is that there are many many black guys that indulge this and the BBC term, that it becomes confusing to some people. We personally use it as a filter
As in, you avoid people using the term bbc? Im glad im not alone in that kind of thing as i avoid those using the bbw term.
Yes pretty much
We once got invited to a BBC / BBW party. I wasn’t happy ..... "I can imagine... I find those kind of labels almost insulting. I dont want to be 'wanted' just because ive got a fat arse!
Just as im certain a black man doesnt really want to be objectified by the colour of his skin. | |||
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"It's not the word spade though it's the symbol of a spade and people in the 'scene' know exactly what it means to each other and obviously only her very private 'friends' see this tattoo... In fact it's far form racist.. It's anti racist... Right? " Because the word ‘N*gga’ is used in popular culture, doesn’t mean it’s any different from ‘N*gger’ If the Swastika became popular amongst ever so targeted millennial’s, doesn’t take away the fact of what it was wrongly used for by the Nazis. We’re fortunate to live in a country that allows such freedoms but often those freedoms are taken for granted. | |||
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"It's not the word spade though it's the symbol of a spade and people in the 'scene' know exactly what it means to each other and obviously only her very private 'friends' see this tattoo... In fact it's far form racist.. It's anti racist... Right? Because the word ‘N*gga’ is used in popular culture, doesn’t mean it’s any different from ‘N*gger’ If the Swastika became popular amongst ever so targeted millennial’s, doesn’t take away the fact of what it was wrongly used for by the Nazis. We’re fortunate to live in a country that allows such freedoms but often those freedoms are taken for granted. " One would question if the tattoo is so acceptable and non racist, why it’s in such a hidden place? And do you think black guys would date a girl with this tattoo and take her back to his family / community? What do you think might be said..... | |||
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"Not into black man, but I find the fact that you refer to yourself as the the queen of spades extremely racist. Why not just say you are the princess of golly wogs ? It’s disgusting Hmm the problem is that there are many many black guys that indulge this and the BBC term, that it becomes confusing to some people. We personally use it as a filter
It may well be acceptable to some people but but I find it bordering on being racist. But maybe that’s just me
Acceptable to some but certainly Not us though.
You’ll see we don’t use BBC in our profile and we avoid anyone using QOS, for several reasons actually, race issues been top of the list.
At best we might meet a guy describing himself as bbc, (that’s their prerogative), but ideally we’d sooner meet people of a different calibre that give a lot more thought on how they present themselves to others. The OP most certainly falls into that category. "I see. Then we we are thinking along the same lines. | |||
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"It's not the word spade though it's the symbol of a spade and people in the 'scene' know exactly what it means to each other and obviously only her very private 'friends' see this tattoo... In fact it's far form racist.. It's anti racist... Right? " But it’s aimed at black men. Is she telling people she is great at card games ? No I think not. So there for it’s associated with a derogatory term. Just because it’s well know within the scene it doesn’t make it acceptable. | |||
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"But it’s aimed at black men. Is she telling people she is great at card games ? No I think not. So there for it’s associated with a derogatory term. Just because it’s well know within the scene it doesn’t make it acceptable." I feel this is a case of confusion because you have a group of black men who find the symbols and the names very appealing and some, including myself who are opposed. | |||
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"But it’s aimed at black men. Is she telling people she is great at card games ? No I think not. So there for it’s associated with a derogatory term. Just because it’s well know within the scene it doesn’t make it acceptable. I feel this is a case of confusion because you have a group of black men who find the symbols and the names very appealing and some, including myself who are opposed. " I would query how many of those men morally find it wrong but know that by ignoring their personal opinions heightens their chances of getting sex. Some people will do anything for a leg over | |||
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"But it’s aimed at black men. Is she telling people she is great at card games ? No I think not. So there for it’s associated with a derogatory term. Just because it’s well know within the scene it doesn’t make it acceptable. I feel this is a case of confusion because you have a group of black men who find the symbols and the names very appealing and some, including myself who are opposed. I would query how many of those men morally find it wrong but know that by ignoring their personal opinions heightens their chances of getting sex. Some people will do anything for a leg over "I’m so confused by it all. So I’m staying out of it now. It’s a lovely tattoo Op and I hope it lasts longer than the one on your bum that seems to have rubbed off. | |||
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"But it’s aimed at black men. Is she telling people she is great at card games ? No I think not. So there for it’s associated with a derogatory term. Just because it’s well know within the scene it doesn’t make it acceptable. I feel this is a case of confusion because you have a group of black men who find the symbols and the names very appealing and some, including myself who are opposed. I would query how many of those men morally find it wrong but know that by ignoring their personal opinions heightens their chances of getting sex. Some people will do anything for a leg over
I’m so confused by it all. So I’m staying out of it now. It’s a lovely tattoo Op and I hope it lasts longer than the one on your bum that seems to have rubbed off." | |||
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"But it’s aimed at black men. Is she telling people she is great at card games ? No I think not. So there for it’s associated with a derogatory term. Just because it’s well know within the scene it doesn’t make it acceptable. I feel this is a case of confusion because you have a group of black men who find the symbols and the names very appealing and some, including myself who are opposed. I would query how many of those men morally find it wrong but know that by ignoring their personal opinions heightens their chances of getting sex. Some people will do anything for a leg over
I’m so confused by it all. So I’m staying out of it now. It’s a lovely tattoo Op and I hope it lasts longer than the one on your bum that seems to have rubbed off."She mentioned earlier that she had several transfers in her pics. I used to put butterflies on as transfers until I planned the ones I have now. | |||
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"Hi just got the queen of spades tatoo on me wondering what’s people’s opinion on this " Think it's ridiculous since you asked, but you obviously like it and that's all that matters. | |||
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"But it’s aimed at black men. Is she telling people she is great at card games ? No I think not. So there for it’s associated with a derogatory term. Just because it’s well know within the scene it doesn’t make it acceptable. I feel this is a case of confusion because you have a group of black men who find the symbols and the names very appealing and some, including myself who are opposed. I would query how many of those men morally find it wrong but know that by ignoring their personal opinions heightens their chances of getting sex. Some people will do anything for a leg over "No different to guys who prefer slim and single but will lower their standards for the attached and fat. When pussy is on offer needs must! | |||
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"Hi just got the queen of spades tatoo on me wondering what’s people’s opinion on this " My opinion? In my opinion it looks like a club rather than a spade but it’s hard to see as an avatar. | |||
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"You love BBC that much you get a QoS tattoo but your Veris show only one from a black guy ( from Sept last year) and one from a mixed race guy (Dec last year). All the rest are white guys? Yes you are definitely devoted. A great tattoo to have. " | |||
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"Hi just got the queen of spades tatoo on me wondering what’s people’s opinion on this Think it's ridiculous since you asked, but you obviously like it and that's all that matters." if they want another brutally honest opinion.... here it comes.... as the apparent "target audience".... i think people who do this may be turning off as many of the very people they are aiming it at as it turns on.... there are better ways of saying you are attracted to black guys than this..... if i saw it on someone I'd be questioning if that person is seeing me for me, or seeing me for nothing more than a fetish or a niche...... | |||
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"Hi just got the queen of spades tatoo on me wondering what’s people’s opinion on this Think it's ridiculous since you asked, but you obviously like it and that's all that matters. if they want another brutally honest opinion.... here it comes.... as the apparent "target audience".... i think people who do this may be turning off as many of the very people they are aiming it at as it turns on.... there are better ways of saying you are attracted to black guys than this..... if i saw it on someone I'd be questioning if that person is seeing me for me, or seeing me for nothing more than a fetish or a niche......" well here's the only real person to ask I guess lol. But I get it and I genuinely think the op is racist (far from it) maybe we all watched too much porn as I see this tattoo in alot of cuckold movies too. For us it was the actual task of getting the tattoos that was a turn on and yes it's permanent but it tells a story of what we like. | |||
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"Hi just got the queen of spades tatoo on me wondering what’s people’s opinion on this Think it's ridiculous since you asked, but you obviously like it and that's all that matters. if they want another brutally honest opinion.... here it comes.... as the apparent "target audience".... i think people who do this may be turning off as many of the very people they are aiming it at as it turns on.... there are better ways of saying you are attracted to black guys than this..... if i saw it on someone I'd be questioning if that person is seeing me for me, or seeing me for nothing more than a fetish or a niche......" What a wonderful answer. But as a mixed race lady, I know calling people of colour 'spades' has derogatory and therefore demeaning connotations. I can’t help but find it offensive. | |||
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"If you love bbc so much to the point you'd get a tattoo stating it why don't you have a black bf?" I often think this | |||
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