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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

So a lot of us are on fab and also on pof/tinder etc ... however when a person messages on different platforms then asks do you fess up or stay quiet?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

They’re probably on exactly the same and have already scoured for you there also; Merely contacting you on the most ‘polite’ one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they saw me on here but messaged me on a different platform, can't really hide it at that point.

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By *anther PurrrsWoman
over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring

Hide it as neither profile resembles the other

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"If they saw me on here but messaged me on a different platform, can't really hide it at that point.

"

They've messaged on both platforms but only chose to say on here after alluding to it yesterday . I find it a bit creepy.... well more how they phrase it.

When I've said aye they then start pestering to meet even tho not what I'm looking for on any level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only on here

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Hide it as neither profile resembles the other "

I'm pretty distinctive no matter how i try and hide it

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I use POF and Fab differently, so it hadn’t come up.

However, at the end of last year I had been chatting to someone from POF for a while before attending the Manchester Social and we’d been pretty open about all sorts of subjects, so when he asked me what I was doing in Manchester I decided to tell him the truth. That’s when I found out he had a Fab profile too and has been one of my most memorable Fab meets to date

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I use POF and Fab differently, so it hadn’t come up.

However, at the end of last year I had been chatting to someone from POF for a while before attending the Manchester Social and we’d been pretty open about all sorts of subjects, so when he asked me what I was doing in Manchester I decided to tell him the truth. That’s when I found out he had a Fab profile too and has been one of my most memorable Fab meets to date "

Ha, love it!

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I use POF and Fab differently, so it hadn’t come up.

However, at the end of last year I had been chatting to someone from POF for a while before attending the Manchester Social and we’d been pretty open about all sorts of subjects, so when he asked me what I was doing in Manchester I decided to tell him the truth. That’s when I found out he had a Fab profile too and has been one of my most memorable Fab meets to date "

I use mine differently too. I use pof for the potential of finding a date and use fab as a social platform. None of the pics ate the same either .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a lot of us are on fab and also on pof/tinder etc ... however when a person messages on different platforms then asks do you fess up or stay quiet?

"

Im on here and fl only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've only ever been pestered on fab, and I'm pretty sure no one from pof or tinder would know I'm here so that's one less thing I have to worry about as a single male

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I use POF and Fab differently, so it hadn’t come up.

However, at the end of last year I had been chatting to someone from POF for a while before attending the Manchester Social and we’d been pretty open about all sorts of subjects, so when he asked me what I was doing in Manchester I decided to tell him the truth. That’s when I found out he had a Fab profile too and has been one of my most memorable Fab meets to date

I use mine differently too. I use pof for the potential of finding a date and use fab as a social platform. None of the pics ate the same either .

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use pof and fab for the same thing, only difference is the pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use pof and fab for the same thing, only difference is the pictures "

Problem with pof though is the 14 years age gap limit

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We’re only on here....that keeps us busy enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use pof and fab for the same thing, only difference is the pictures

Problem with pof though is the 14 years age gap limit "

Is that a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use pof and fab for the same thing, only difference is the pictures

Problem with pof though is the 14 years age gap limit

Is that a problem? "

Well it doesn't help when you want to flirt with someone older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only use fab as tinder and pic are shit round here lol

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By *eek2findMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Unless confirmed that it is them. Best approaching the question when you are both comfortable with one another..

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By *anther PurrrsWoman
over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring


"Hide it as neither profile resembles the other

I'm pretty distinctive no matter how i try and hide it "

Hot profile huni xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use pof and fab for the same thing, only difference is the pictures

Problem with pof though is the 14 years age gap limit

Is that a problem?

Well it doesn't help when you want to flirt with someone older "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they saw me on here but messaged me on a different platform, can't really hide it at that point.

They've messaged on both platforms but only chose to say on here after alluding to it yesterday . I find it a bit creepy.... well more how they phrase it.

When I've said aye they then start pestering to meet even tho not what I'm looking for on any level "

How would they know it's you if you use different pics? Did they chat to you on the other site with a view to a meet or only on here?

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Hide it as neither profile resembles the other

I'm pretty distinctive no matter how i try and hide it

Hot profile huni xx "

ooh thank you xx

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"If they saw me on here but messaged me on a different platform, can't really hide it at that point.

They've messaged on both platforms but only chose to say on here after alluding to it yesterday . I find it a bit creepy.... well more how they phrase it.

When I've said aye they then start pestering to meet even tho not what I'm looking for on any level

How would they know it's you if you use different pics? Did they chat to you on the other site with a view to a meet or only on here?"

They were chatting 're the social on fab. I had sent a face pic as I do when I confirm attending then 2 days later gets a message on pof and he starts asking around the question then messaged me on fab asking if he has been chatting to me on pof.

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Met a couple of women over the years on Guardian Soulmates who were definitely kinksters. I don't think they were on swingers sites though: they just liked the readership on GS

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