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"In your profile, you are as such selling yourself Whereas on a post you can be more spontaeous, which I suppose shows your true character" Are you saying there is hope for you and me?;-) | |||
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"What shows your personality ina more accurate way, your profile (where you had time to think about what to write) or your spontaneous posts on here? I thought of this having just observed another thread... Genuine question btw as always " i think both can do the job... the profile can be like your shop window but posts can be like the interior.... | |||
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"I have a profile.........? Bugger......" so... which one is more you?;-) | |||
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"I have a profile.........? Bugger......so... which one is more you?;-)" Erm, can I play the bi-polar card? | |||
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"I would say the forum posts, as a persons sense of humour, kindness and empathy, rudeness ect can be shown in what they reply and how they reply. The profile to me only gives a brief outline of the person and what they are looking for." My experience of people on forums whom I met in person is that their posts really do show their sense of humour and fun... and their love of certain beverages | |||
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"I'd say I've had more contact from posts I've made than my profile on it's own. Although that's not difficult " Awwwwwww xx | |||
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"I have found today that telling people about my new toy has in some cases made them want to strangle me so random post posting isnt really showing me as the fine upstanding member of society I strive to be . Still who cares ive got me new toy to play with Im happy " Hey... you ll wear it out | |||
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"I have a profile.........? Bugger......so... which one is more you?;-) Erm, can I play the bi-polar card? " You can play...lol.. not sure about the bi card...;-)And we still dont know what you are like most...;-) | |||
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"I would say the forum posts, as a persons sense of humour, kindness and empathy, rudeness ect can be shown in what they reply and how they reply. The profile to me only gives a brief outline of the person and what they are looking for.My experience of people on forums whom I met in person is that their posts really do show their sense of humour and fun... and their love of certain beverages" So what you can tell if they like tea or coffee just from their posts??? Wow | |||
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"I have found today that telling people about my new toy has in some cases made them want to strangle me so random post posting isnt really showing me as the fine upstanding member of society I strive to be . Still who cares ive got me new toy to play with Im happy Hey... you ll wear it out " Its ok im cutting back now its wearing me out | |||
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"I would say the forum posts, as a persons sense of humour, kindness and empathy, rudeness ect can be shown in what they reply and how they reply. The profile to me only gives a brief outline of the person and what they are looking for.My experience of people on forums whom I met in person is that their posts really do show their sense of humour and fun... and their love of certain beverages So what you can tell if they like tea or coffee just from their posts??? Wow " yeah... not a clairvoyant but vodka seems to be on the agenda for some...;-) | |||
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"I'd say I've had more contact from posts I've made than my profile on it's own. Although that's not difficult Awwwwwww xx" It's been extremely well received xxx | |||
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"I have a profile.........? Bugger......so... which one is more you?;-) Erm, can I play the bi-polar card? You can play...lol.. not sure about the bi card...;-)And we still dont know what you are like most...;-)" Ok look the aeroplane post was Tongue in cheek, I brought up the specs of each of the aeroplanes in question and then bullshitted the rest..... Damn people think I am a geek, but I just have fast fingers and a 183 IQ, not my fault... | |||
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"In your profile, you are as such selling yourself Whereas on a post you can be more spontaeous, which I suppose shows your true characterAre you saying there is hope for you and me?;-)" There is always hope where there is champagne | |||
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"I have a profile.........? Bugger......so... which one is more you?;-) Erm, can I play the bi-polar card? You can play...lol.. not sure about the bi card...;-)And we still dont know what you are like most...;-) Ok look the aeroplane post was Tongue in cheek, I brought up the specs of each of the aeroplanes in question and then bullshitted the rest..... Damn people think I am a geek, but I just have fast fingers and a 183 IQ, not my fault... " With that IQ... please come and influence my thought processes | |||
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"ooo interesting question, though for me the profile is about us as a couple and sex on the forum im me (the fem) and my opinions! " That is a really good point, I had not thought of that.... that sometimes one partner posts off a couples profiles - I have done it myself. So I guess the posts would only show half the story...lol | |||
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"I have a profile.........? Bugger......so... which one is more you?;-) Erm, can I play the bi-polar card? You can play...lol.. not sure about the bi card...;-)And we still dont know what you are like most...;-) Ok look the aeroplane post was Tongue in cheek, I brought up the specs of each of the aeroplanes in question and then bullshitted the rest..... Damn people think I am a geek, but I just have fast fingers and a 183 IQ, not my fault... With that IQ... please come and influence my thought processes" Most women would be more interested in the fast fingers! | |||
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" With that IQ... please come and influence my thought processes" Shall I leave the fast fingers at home? | |||
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"I don`t care as I`m only here for my own gratification....... so.... Ner. I sincerley hope you all understand me a little better now. Phew. " No we dont, give us more .... wanna know now... | |||
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" With that IQ... please come and influence my thought processes Shall I leave the fast fingers at home? " are we talking mind or matter | |||
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"My profile and verifications show my personality in a more accurate way than my posts on here." That is another good point, I think you are right that verifications do give an idea of the person... especially in combination with the profile... | |||
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"I don`t care as I`m only here for my own gratification....... so.... Ner. I sincerley hope you all understand me a little better now. Phew. No we dont, give us more .... wanna know now..." No I`m shy. | |||
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" With that IQ... please come and influence my thought processes Shall I leave the fast fingers at home? are we talking mind or matter" Don't get me started, there's already another lady on the forums that suffers 3 hour telephone conversations.... Poor maid is so confused that someone had to give her a new toy.... | |||
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"My profile and verifications show my personality in a more accurate way than my posts on here.That is another good point, I think you are right that verifications do give an idea of the person... especially in combination with the profile..." The only one I have says I am a good cook...... Need to sort that out lol | |||
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" With that IQ... please come and influence my thought processes Shall I leave the fast fingers at home? are we talking mind or matter Don't get me started, there's already another lady on the forums that suffers 3 hour telephone conversations.... Poor maid is so confused that someone had to give her a new toy.... " ok, your mind vs my matter | |||
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"When visible my profile is blunt and to the point. It's designed to attract a certain type of man who is not looking for a fwuffy wuffy girly girl but a ball buster...literally. My forum posts are written after I've counted to 10. I tend to avoid "serious" threads, I'm serious at work, this is fun. That said there are days when I think the Mods and admin should allow an amnesty SD some peoples twattish posts and behaviour should be called. " +1 for the amnesty, i'm sure we could spare 24 hours and a naughty corner. | |||
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"When visible my profile is blunt and to the point. It's designed to attract a certain type of man who is not looking for a fwuffy wuffy girly girl but a ball buster...literally. My forum posts are written after I've counted to 10. I tend to avoid "serious" threads, I'm serious at work, this is fun. That said there are days when I think the Mods and admin should allow an amnesty SD some peoples twattish posts and behaviour should be called. +1 for the amnesty, i'm sure we could spare 24 hours and a naughty corner." Yoyeur! | |||
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"Our profile sucks...I wrote it in a min, on joining the site.... Our attitude is its all smoke and mirrors...tho a well written and pleasant profile is obviously gona work in yer interests... We bumble along....neither the forums or profile represent us...Sharons never been on here, and yer can`t hear our laughter.." Admit it, you re a single woman... posing as a couple ....;-) | |||
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"I would say the forum posts, as a persons sense of humour, kindness and empathy, rudeness ect can be shown in what they reply and how they reply. The profile to me only gives a brief outline of the person and what they are looking for." yup. | |||
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"Our profile sucks...I wrote it in a min, on joining the site.... Our attitude is its all smoke and mirrors...tho a well written and pleasant profile is obviously gona work in yer interests... We bumble along....neither the forums or profile represent us...Sharons never been on here, and yer can`t hear our laughter..Admit it, you re a single woman... posing as a couple ....;-)" I`m ferking fuddled most o the time maiden... I ain`t got a problem with a pink shirt...I carry it of quite well %* | |||
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"Our profile sucks...I wrote it in a min, on joining the site.... Our attitude is its all smoke and mirrors...tho a well written and pleasant profile is obviously gona work in yer interests... We bumble along....neither the forums or profile represent us...Sharons never been on here, and yer can`t hear our laughter..Admit it, you re a single woman... posing as a couple ....;-) I`m ferking fuddled most o the time maiden... I ain`t got a problem with a pink shirt...I carry it of quite well %*" hey, pink is the new power stripe...;-) | |||
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"Our profile sucks...I wrote it in a min, on joining the site.... Our attitude is its all smoke and mirrors...tho a well written and pleasant profile is obviously gona work in yer interests... We bumble along....neither the forums or profile represent us...Sharons never been on here, and yer can`t hear our laughter..Admit it, you re a single woman... posing as a couple ....;-) I`m ferking fuddled most o the time maiden... I ain`t got a problem with a pink shirt...I carry it of quite well %*hey, pink is the new power stripe...;-)" I agree!! | |||
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"Our profile sucks...I wrote it in a min, on joining the site.... Our attitude is its all smoke and mirrors...tho a well written and pleasant profile is obviously gona work in yer interests... We bumble along....neither the forums or profile represent us...Sharons never been on here, and yer can`t hear our laughter..Admit it, you re a single woman... posing as a couple ....;-) I`m ferking fuddled most o the time maiden... I ain`t got a problem with a pink shirt...I carry it of quite well %*hey, pink is the new power stripe...;-) I agree!! " | |||
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"I would say the forum posts, as a persons sense of humour, kindness and empathy, rudeness ect can be shown in what they reply and how they reply. The profile to me only gives a brief outline of the person and what they are looking for. yup." Agreed. Anyone got a tin hat I can borrow??? | |||
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"Our profile sucks...I wrote it in a min, on joining the site.... Our attitude is its all smoke and mirrors...tho a well written and pleasant profile is obviously gona work in yer interests... We bumble along....neither the forums or profile represent us...Sharons never been on here, and yer can`t hear our laughter..Admit it, you re a single woman... posing as a couple ....;-) I`m ferking fuddled most o the time maiden... I ain`t got a problem with a pink shirt...I carry it of quite well %*hey, pink is the new power stripe...;-) I agree!! " xxxxxxxxxxxx | |||
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"Our profile sucks...I wrote it in a min, on joining the site.... Our attitude is its all smoke and mirrors...tho a well written and pleasant profile is obviously gona work in yer interests... We bumble along....neither the forums or profile represent us...Sharons never been on here, and yer can`t hear our laughter..Admit it, you re a single woman... posing as a couple ....;-) I`m ferking fuddled most o the time maiden... I ain`t got a problem with a pink shirt...I carry it of quite well %*hey, pink is the new power stripe...;-)" Oh !!! Shiiiiiiit !!! I ain`t no follower of fashion munchkin.... I`ll wait awhile %* | |||
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"Our profile sucks...I wrote it in a min, on joining the site.... Our attitude is its all smoke and mirrors...tho a well written and pleasant profile is obviously gona work in yer interests... We bumble along....neither the forums or profile represent us...Sharons never been on here, and yer can`t hear our laughter..Admit it, you re a single woman... posing as a couple ....;-) I`m ferking fuddled most o the time maiden... I ain`t got a problem with a pink shirt...I carry it of quite well %*hey, pink is the new power stripe...;-) I agree!! " haha..does look kinda cool chap | |||
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"Our profile sucks...I wrote it in a min, on joining the site.... Our attitude is its all smoke and mirrors...tho a well written and pleasant profile is obviously gona work in yer interests... We bumble along....neither the forums or profile represent us...Sharons never been on here, and yer can`t hear our laughter..Admit it, you re a single woman... posing as a couple ....;-) I`m ferking fuddled most o the time maiden... I ain`t got a problem with a pink shirt...I carry it of quite well %*hey, pink is the new power stripe...;-) I agree!! haha..does look kinda cool chap " Why thank you | |||
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"It's safe to say that neither a profile nor posts reflect anyones personality accurately. My profile is a no nonsense algorithm of sorts. I don't see the point in dressing things up further. Forum posts only portray a moment in time, a fragment in context of a personality. More importantly each post is a reaction to a poster and the person who posted first should always be taken into account when analysing responses - as should :- the time of day, emotional state etc. Too much is read into posts and profiles. I fail to see how they are comparable. One is an insular piece of text designed to set out needs , wants and offers. The other is a dynamic response on a variety of topics. It's quite possible to contribute seriously and somberly to one thread and then be totally idiotic on another as that is the intended vein of the thread. No person is so monofaceted that they can be read through a swingers forum site. Sometimes it serves equally as well to 'see' what is not said by people. I don't believe for one moment that anyone who has read my posts knows anything about me at all. There is so much left unsaid. Simply amazes me that people come down so easily on one side or the other. See....... I'm tired right now. I might not be in the morning when I post. Ubiquitous smiley coming up " granny you too tired to have a play with my new toy | |||
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"I would say the forum posts, as a persons sense of humour, kindness and empathy, rudeness ect can be shown in what they reply and how they reply. The profile to me only gives a brief outline of the person and what they are looking for.My experience of people on forums whom I met in person is that their posts really do show their sense of humour and fun... and their love of certain beverages" ooooh what beverages can i have one? | |||
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"It's safe to say that neither a profile nor posts reflect anyones personality accurately. My profile is a no nonsense algorithm of sorts. I don't see the point in dressing things up further. Forum posts only portray a moment in time, a fragment in context of a personality. More importantly each post is a reaction to a poster and the person who posted first should always be taken into account when analysing responses - as should :- the time of day, emotional state etc. Too much is read into posts and profiles. I fail to see how they are comparable. One is an insular piece of text designed to set out needs , wants and offers. The other is a dynamic response on a variety of topics. It's quite possible to contribute seriously and somberly to one thread and then be totally idiotic on another as that is the intended vein of the thread. No person is so monofaceted that they can be read through a swingers forum site. Sometimes it serves equally as well to 'see' what is not said by people. I don't believe for one moment that anyone who has read my posts knows anything about me at all. There is so much left unsaid. Simply amazes me that people come down so easily on one side or the other. See....... I'm tired right now. I might not be in the morning when I post. Ubiquitous smiley coming up granny you too tired to have a play with my new toy " Dunno ........ does it vibrate ? | |||
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"It's safe to say that neither a profile nor posts reflect anyones personality accurately. My profile is a no nonsense algorithm of sorts. I don't see the point in dressing things up further. Forum posts only portray a moment in time, a fragment in context of a personality. More importantly each post is a reaction to a poster and the person who posted first should always be taken into account when analysing responses - as should :- the time of day, emotional state etc. Too much is read into posts and profiles. I fail to see how they are comparable. One is an insular piece of text designed to set out needs , wants and offers. The other is a dynamic response on a variety of topics. It's quite possible to contribute seriously and somberly to one thread and then be totally idiotic on another as that is the intended vein of the thread. No person is so monofaceted that they can be read through a swingers forum site. Sometimes it serves equally as well to 'see' what is not said by people. I don't believe for one moment that anyone who has read my posts knows anything about me at all. There is so much left unsaid. Simply amazes me that people come down so easily on one side or the other. See....... I'm tired right now. I might not be in the morning when I post. Ubiquitous smiley coming up " Exactly (well ok I can be lazy occasionally lol) | |||
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"It's safe to say that neither a profile nor posts reflect anyones personality accurately. My profile is a no nonsense algorithm of sorts. I don't see the point in dressing things up further. Forum posts only portray a moment in time, a fragment in context of a personality. More importantly each post is a reaction to a poster and the person who posted first should always be taken into account when analysing responses - as should :- the time of day, emotional state etc. Too much is read into posts and profiles. I fail to see how they are comparable. One is an insular piece of text designed to set out needs , wants and offers. The other is a dynamic response on a variety of topics. It's quite possible to contribute seriously and somberly to one thread and then be totally idiotic on another as that is the intended vein of the thread. No person is so monofaceted that they can be read through a swingers forum site. Sometimes it serves equally as well to 'see' what is not said by people. I don't believe for one moment that anyone who has read my posts knows anything about me at all. There is so much left unsaid. Simply amazes me that people come down so easily on one side or the other. See....... I'm tired right now. I might not be in the morning when I post. Ubiquitous smiley coming up granny you too tired to have a play with my new toy Dunno ........ does it vibrate ? " Nope but it makes me very wet and hurts my belly | |||
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