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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard on here to find a meet??

i whould hope i was a good looking guy,

i hope i dont come across as a twat i never ask for sex in my 1st message

can anyone help me out please xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you've been verified, so you have had meets.

Go to a club, or a couple of socials.

Other than that, just hang on in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could maybe spell check what you write.....silly mistakes don't make you look like a winner. Likewise, upper case letters where appropriate. It sounds from your profile, that you are looking more for a sort of relationship, that might not be so suited to a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Why is it so hard on here to find a meet??

i whould hope i was a good looking guy,

i hope i dont come across as a twat i never ask for sex in my 1st message

can anyone help me out please xx"

Bless hun its not easy for some guys. I hope you have some better luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea have a few meets mate but not many!

Yea manybe spell check is a good idea!!

Thanks so fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep at it, it's a long-term thing m8. Swinging is probably the slowest possible way to get laid. If you want something quicker there's always singles sites.

Having said that, once you're established on here you'll have infinitely better fun than you ever would elsewhere, so it's worth sticking around

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get in line fella - behind me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well uve some good pics of urself...nothing inviting on the sexual front, but thats my opinion(and i dont mean u have to have cock pics shagging pics)(they help my profile lol)-but uve nothing sensually appealing there...no chest pics,arse pics...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

Why is it so hard on here to find a meet??

i whould hope i was a good looking guy,

i hope i dont come across as a twat i never ask for sex in my 1st message

can anyone help me out please xx"

let me let you into a little secret...

ready....

Negativity breeds negativity....

why is it so hard to find a meet... because there are loads of single guys and not so many couples and single women... that's it straight

they can be as picky as they want, you have to stand out as much as you can...

do you???? hand on heart would you answer your own profile? if you would, then cool.. if not, why not, what are you going to do to change it?

it took me 6-7 months to get my first meet... time, patience common sense and you get out what you put in....

if you think all it takes for you to get a meet is that you are a "good looking guy" then I think you may need a rethink...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why is it so hard on here to find a meet??

i whould hope i was a good looking guy,

i hope i dont come across as a twat i never ask for sex in my 1st message

can anyone help me out please xx"

Its all in the mind... and the gym. Just avoid being sarcastic with people as the ones who think they are clever get sweet FA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could maybe spell check what you write.....silly mistakes don't make you look like a winner. Likewise, upper case letters where appropriate. It sounds from your profile, that you are looking more for a sort of relationship, that might not be so suited to a swingers site."

This may seem harsh...but I agree with it. You are a good looking man...no doubt...but I got bored with your profile, there's no information for people to know whether you're for them or not. Good looks is not enough here as there are wall to wall handsome men with well crafted, legible profiles to choose from...sorry.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I personally like laid back guys, those that dont sound negative or desperate but just chilled. Try making some friends online through forums perhaps - and hey, best of luck, I m sure you ll be fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In your favour - you're a good looking single guy who can accomodate. Like others have said, a profile revamp would help and some smiley face pics! That one of you smiling is lovely. Some erotic shots that show off your body might help too. Maybe check out some of the successful guys profiles on here to get some ideas. Also, think about going to some socials and clubs to meet people. Good luck on here.

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