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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I know this has been talked of many times but, how long after does it kick in for you.

Its only been a few hours and I'm suddenly so grumpy and emotional! I know tomorrow I'll hopefully be fine. Its just not usually so extreme so soon!

Someone needs to re programme my brain I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one normally after about ten minutes I just want more.

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Never had one normally after about ten minutes I just want more."

I do too. But now I literally just want to cry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have one it's usually a day or two afterwards. Usually dancing around the house for the first day. I hate it. It almost stops me meeting when it's really bad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few days. Especially if the sex is shit hot.

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By *un17Man
over a year ago

Ennis


"A few days. Especially if the sex is shit hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be thankful that your getting some in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had one normally after about ten minutes I just want more.

I do too. But now I literally just want to cry!"

What you need is a big hug

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Never had one normally after about ten minutes I just want more.

I do too. But now I literally just want to cry!

What you need is a big hug"

I definitely do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had one normally after about ten minutes I just want more.

I do too. But now I literally just want to cry!

What you need is a big hug

I definitely do!"

Send in you one now would give you one myself if only we were closer to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get it a lot. I wonder if where you are in your cycle has made it worse or maybe you had such great orgasms the drop is more noticeable ?

I’d suggest rest, maybe a bath, some choccie, snuggle under a blanket doing something you enjoy like watching a film or reading. Early night and tomorrow, hopefully you’ll feel much better. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been talked of many times but, how long after does it kick in for you.

Its only been a few hours and I'm suddenly so grumpy and emotional! I know tomorrow I'll hopefully be fine. Its just not usually so extreme so soon!

Someone needs to re programme my brain I think!

"

I've had it within hours too, usually the stronger the orgasm the worse it is. I had to stop seeing someone as the whole experience was too intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this too. Sometimes more than others.

If the sex is amazing I'm normally okay for a couple of days and then it hits me.

It also depends if I'm busy after and don't have time to drop.

I think I'm about to drop now after Friday.

Feeling low now and wished I'd never come on fab today!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t normally get this. I just tend to get frustrated and aggy as I want the next round and the next round.

Actually thought about going doctors to ask is it possible to be this horny ALL the time haha.

(But thought I better not. Didn’t wanna loose my MoJo)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this too. Sometimes more than others.

If the sex is amazing I'm normally okay for a couple of days and then it hits me.

It also depends if I'm busy after and don't have time to drop.

I think I'm about to drop now after Friday.

Feeling low now and wished I'd never come on fab today!!! "

Sorry to hear you’re feeling low. Can you try and do something nice for yourself this evening. And log out if here is making you feel worse today. x

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Hmmmm.....you ladies are highly complex creatures; I don’t believe we chaps suffer from this phenomenon as such. Hugs and chocolates to you all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this too. Sometimes more than others.

If the sex is amazing I'm normally okay for a couple of days and then it hits me.

It also depends if I'm busy after and don't have time to drop.

I think I'm about to drop now after Friday.

Feeling low now and wished I'd never come on fab today!!!

Sorry to hear you’re feeling low. Can you try and do something nice for yourself this evening. And log out if here is making you feel worse today. x "

Aww thank you. I'll log out shortly and then become the family slave for the evening!!!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I know this has been talked of many times but, how long after does it kick in for you.

Its only been a few hours and I'm suddenly so grumpy and emotional! I know tomorrow I'll hopefully be fine. Its just not usually so extreme so soon!

Someone needs to re programme my brain I think!

"

Just a thort op but y not just re meet your larst meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally it happens to me a day or two after. I try and keep busy and do something for myself to help me over it x

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"I know this has been talked of many times but, how long after does it kick in for you.

Its only been a few hours and I'm suddenly so grumpy and emotional! I know tomorrow I'll hopefully be fine. Its just not usually so extreme so soon!

Someone needs to re programme my brain I think!

Just a thort op but y not just re meet your larst meet ?

"

If only it was that easy lovely.

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Hmmmm.....you ladies are highly complex creatures; I don’t believe we chaps suffer from this phenomenon as such. Hugs and chocolates to you all x"
xx

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"I know this has been talked of many times but, how long after does it kick in for you.

Its only been a few hours and I'm suddenly so grumpy and emotional! I know tomorrow I'll hopefully be fine. Its just not usually so extreme so soon!

Someone needs to re programme my brain I think!

I've had it within hours too, usually the stronger the orgasm the worse it is. I had to stop seeing someone as the whole experience was too intense. "

That sucks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this similar to brewers droop but the opposite...and only applies to women...is sex a possible cure...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get post sex munchies, I replace the sex with food and power on through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm.....you ladies are highly complex creatures; I don’t believe we chaps suffer from this phenomenon as such. Hugs and chocolates to you all x"

Why would you think only women experience this?

Its caused by a huge release of 'happy' chemicals in the brain, during intense sex

Certainly not exclusive to women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me it's not just women that get this, I've been fine on the few meet I've had but on one meet I've certainly been hit by a big low...

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Instantly if it's good sex. Been so long since I had any no wonder I'm grumpy and emotional

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I get this sometimes as soon as when I'm on my way home! I try and keep occupied to take my mind off it and I stay off fab for a bit too.

Hope it passes soon op x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel a bit empty after sex. Thought it was just me. Didn't know it was a thing that happened. It explains a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my!! I can’t believe this is a thing, I thought it was just me.

Happens me too, OP. Usually the day after and it lasts for a few days. Total downer.

Big hugs for you xx

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Ah.....a probable serotonin related come down is ostensibly the cause from what is being reported. I’m going to definitely prescribe dark chocolate for everyone, males and females alike therefore - it has been scientifically validated to increase the levels of this neuro transmitter. Or....have sex again of course. I would of made a great doctor me

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Oh my!! I can’t believe this is a thing, I thought it was just me.

Happens me too, OP. Usually the day after and it lasts for a few days. Total downer.

Big hugs for you xx"

Thanks, I used to think it was just me too! Its basic chemistry, the rush of hormones, all that oxytocin and then it subsides. Its where that empty feeling comes from.

I think a lot of people experience it, they maybe just don't want to talk about it in case someone assumes they might be catching feelings!

I know he doesn't experience it and finds it a little un nerving that I do.

I guess its a compliment when it happens.

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"I just get post sex munchies, I replace the sex with food and power on through "

I get hungry too!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I've had it within hours too, usually the stronger the orgasm the worse it is. "

I’ve got an idea how to market myself - guaranteed no sex drop!

It’s a winner for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had it within hours too, usually the stronger the orgasm the worse it is.

I’ve got an idea how to market myself - guaranteed no sex drop!

It’s a winner for sure "

You might have found a gap in the market there

Or maybe not

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Never had one normally after about ten minutes I just want more.

I do too. But now I literally just want to cry!"

Go on then, if it puts a smile on your face again, I'll fuck you..........

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Is that the bit where you get hungry and fancy a cuppa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always feel a bit empty after sex. Thought it was just me. Didn't know it was a thing that happened. It explains a lot. "

I agree...I also feel a bit empty after sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never heard of this before, interesting read.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

For me it's fuck and fuck off. Staying around us just toooo depressing.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It varies, within the hour or up to around 6/8 hours later.

Anticipation and recognition are key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because you were loved, and the love has gone, we all crave love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread. I've never heard of this before and don't recall ever feeling low after sex. Maybe I just didn't notice, or didn't connect the two!?!

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Never had one normally after about ten minutes I just want more.

I do too. But now I literally just want to cry!

Go on then, if it puts a smile on your face again, I'll fuck you.......... "

A sympathy shag! Lucky me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be thankful that your getting some in the first place"

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ugh - I hate this. I find the more intense the meet, the harder I drop and the longer it takes to kick in. I’m still trying to shake one off from last weekend.

I find planning another meet helps - helps kick the endorphins off again

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Op you need to find a memory of a time and place you felt safe and warm, the memory, if strong enough, will bring back the chemical in balance.

Give yourself a little you time.

Drop for either sex is my a nice thing.

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By *witch4Fun24Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

This is a thing in BDSM too, we call it subdrop although can affect all parties whatever their role. We combat it by keeping in contact with each other afterwards for a few days either via phone or WhatsApp, communicating clearly and for me some funny films, a soak in the bath, a generous amount of cake or icecream and plenty of sleep

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Ah.....a probable serotonin related come down is ostensibly the cause from what is being reported. I’m going to definitely prescribe dark chocolate for everyone, "

I always prescribe myself a pain au chocolat after a meet - dark chocolate and a dose of carbs seems to help. I usually need nurturing for a day or two after a good meet.

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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"It's because you were loved, and the love has gone, we all crave love. "

This is the crux of it.

It wasn't some nsa encounter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search for it on the Internet. It's a real thing.

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The day after the day after.

I wonder if we are just junkies, constantly searching for that high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The day after the day after.

I wonder if we are just junkies, constantly searching for that high."

I think the high can be very addictive. I'm learning to cope with mine but I used to go looking for the next meet before the drop kicked in. That is very unhealthy for the body and mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's because you were loved, and the love has gone, we all crave love. "

I think if the cause of the high, sexual partner stays and nurtures you. The drop is far less intense. If they live with you, it’s even less. Cuddles and being cared for really help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone has mentioned it sounds very somiliar to sib drop.

It os caused by your hormone and endorphin levels building up to a higher than normal level. Your body and brain become accustomed to these higher than normal levels and When the whole thing is over those levels suddenly drop causing depression that can last a from a few hours to a few weeks.

Maybe you be better suited to longer term fb or friends with bennefits situation where you could feel emotionally supported but still remain outside of a full relationship.

Just my thoughts and of course opinions will vary.

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By *orruptedAngelCouple
over a year ago

norwich

When I was meeting as a singleton I found the drop the day after awful so much so, I found myself a fella to keep as my own!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was meeting as a singleton I found the drop the day after awful so much so, I found myself a fella to keep as my own!! "

Love this ......

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