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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do straight guys. (And it says strictly not looking for guys on their profile). Comment after men on hot or nots. The answer is always a not.

They obviously have some sort of bisexual tendencies to make a judgement!? why not wait until there's a female to comment after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they were going to comment after a woman but a man commented quickly after her so the first man was knocked down the list...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's OK to recognise if a man is handsome or not. Doesn't mean anything other than a recognition of what, in this society, is deemed attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe... Thanks. Maybe rules should be having to put the username of the person you're commenting on?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

So a guy can't acknowledge that another guy is attractive without being bi?

Sorry if I've read that wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's OK to recognise if a man is handsome or not. Doesn't mean anything other than a recognition of what, in this society, is deemed attractive. "

Its not handsome or not. Its hot or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe... Thanks. Maybe rules should be having to put the username of the person you're commenting on?"

Maybe. Most people on those threads tend to quote the ones they're replying to. No big deal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So a guy can't acknowledge that another guy is attractive without being bi?

Sorry if I've read that wrong."

I would say if a guy.is good looking or not. But I wouldn't go up to a guy and say you're hot!

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage


"I think it's OK to recognise if a man is handsome or not. Doesn't mean anything other than a recognition of what, in this society, is deemed attractive.

Its not handsome or not. Its hot or not. "

Are you afraid of catching the gay by someone saying hot or not?

Most of them are just trying to get there hot or not result from someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly say pint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a guy can't acknowledge that another guy is attractive without being bi?

Sorry if I've read that wrong."

I say ‘hot’ for some women, cos I think they are, even though I’m not interested in them myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's OK to recognise if a man is handsome or not. Doesn't mean anything other than a recognition of what, in this society, is deemed attractive.

Its not handsome or not. Its hot or not.

Are you afraid of catching the gay by someone saying hot or not?

Most of them are just trying to get there hot or not result from someone else"

Catching the gay? Is that the same as catching a cold?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe... Thanks. Maybe rules should be having to put the username of the person you're commenting on?"

It's only a stupid forum game, does it really need rules. The person either finds you hot or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So a guy can't acknowledge that another guy is attractive without being bi?

Sorry if I've read that wrong.

I say ‘hot’ for some women, cos I think they are, even though I’m not interested in them myself. "

Its different for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe... Thanks. Maybe rules should be having to put the username of the person you're commenting on?"

Nah, there's enough rubbish forum rules as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mostly say pint."

That says more about your alcohol dependency .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do straight guys. (And it says strictly not looking for guys on their profile). Comment after men on hot or nots. The answer is always a not.

They obviously have some sort of bisexual tendencies to make a judgement!? why not wait until there's a female to comment after? "

Ah do you feel you’ve missed out on being judged hot or not OP?

Of course some of them will comment just to get on the list in the hope that an unsuspecting female will come along and say hot...then they can swiftly message her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do straight guys. (And it says strictly not looking for guys on their profile). Comment after men on hot or nots. The answer is always a not.

They obviously have some sort of bisexual tendencies to make a judgement!? why not wait until there's a female to comment after?

Ah do you feel you’ve missed out on being judged hot or not OP?

Of course some of them will comment just to get on the list in the hope that an unsuspecting female will come along and say hot...then they can swiftly message her "

Not really because I know I'm not hot. I'm average at best. just the first comment made more sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also I think you're over thinking it OP. It's just a silly game on the forums of a swinging site. There's plenty more important things in the world to concern yourself about.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It’s most likely because the man is desperately trying to push the other chap behind him in the line so as to hopefully get a female commenting on themselves (Oh please say a lady replies to me!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry. Just in one of those moods today.

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's sunny outside....jus sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do straight guys. (And it says strictly not looking for guys on their profile). Comment after men on hot or nots. The answer is always a not.

They obviously have some sort of bisexual tendencies to make a judgement!? why not wait until there's a female to comment after? "

cos youd be waiting hours on end ,maybe days lol

i guess there following the rules , comment on the poster above , nothing to do with tendencies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And also I think you're over thinking it OP. It's just a silly game on the forums of a swinging site. There's plenty more important things in the world to concern yourself about. "

Yeah you're right. I'll keep.it to myself next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's sunny outside....jus sayin "

Not here. It’s drizzling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's sunny outside....jus sayin

Not here. It’s drizzling. "

Half and half here. Sunny and drizzle

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"It's sunny outside....jus sayin

Not here. It’s drizzling. "

It was absolutely weeing it down here this morning

Not on after bath night on a sunday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's sunny outside....jus sayin

Not here. It’s drizzling.

Half and half here. Sunny and drizzle"

Tell you what op.

I’ll say ‘hot’.

Does that feel better now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's sunny outside....jus sayin

Not here. It’s drizzling.

Half and half here. Sunny and drizzle

Tell you what op.

I’ll say ‘hot’.

Does that feel better now? "

Thanks. It dont bother me really. Just having a moan lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Whoever it is at the bottom as I come into the thread I won't ever say not. If they are hot they get a hot. If not then I will leave it for someone else to come along who does think they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's sunny outside....jus sayin

Not here. It’s drizzling.

Half and half here. Sunny and drizzle

Tell you what op.

I’ll say ‘hot’.

Does that feel better now?

Thanks. It dont bother me really. Just having a moan lol"

Oh. Wasted a ‘hot’ there.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If a guy can't tell where he or another stands on the pecking order, he must be fairly stupid or has lived in isolation.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Pecking order ???..... aren't we all equal .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we should rename it to make it simpler for all involved that take it so seriously.

Here goes...Hot, Not, Wot, Wot not hot, Hot not not, Wots he got that I have not, Wots she got that I have not, Wot rot...this is of course a shortened version.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it says hot or not. If they think not, they say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoever it is at the bottom as I come into the thread I won't ever say not. If they are hot they get a hot. If not then I will leave it for someone else to come along who does think they are."

That's not playing the game though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of guys on here who say they are straight have veris on fabguys. Any woman who wants sex with a straight guy only should open an account on fabguys because many of them use the same pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe we should rename it to make it simpler for all involved that take it so seriously.

Here goes...Hot, Not, Wot, Wot not hot, Hot not not, Wots he got that I have not, Wots she got that I have not, Wot rot...this is of course a shortened version. "

That is brilliant

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