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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does A guy have to be 10/10 in looks or doesnt looks matter to you??

And does someones age affect things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I think is 10/10 another girl might think is a 3/10.

We all have different tastes and connect with people differently.

That's what it's about, that spark. Someone you click with.

There's no winning formula, there's no rules to follow. Just be yourself and see what happens. If there's someone you're compatible with then you'll both know.

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

Bitch has both, Twat sadly only has twatish charm to rely on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about us that have neither!?!

My zero verifications beginning to make a lot of sense now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charm and banter all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks for me and then charm.

Age doesn't matter to me if they have everything I'm looking for.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"What I think is 10/10 another girl might think is a 3/10.

We all have different tastes and connect with people differently.

That's what it's about, that spark. Someone you click with.

There's no winning formula, there's no rules to follow. Just be yourself and see what happens. If there's someone you're compatible with then you'll both know. "

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Both. A good looking dull bloke is no good for us, just as a charming plain bloke is no good for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say on fab it's more about looks first as lots will judge on that soon as they look at the profile, in public/club charm would help as it's not unknown to get lucky from charm.

Saying that you could be a looker but have the charm of a pissed off ant doesn't mean you'd get laid.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Fab....the website where average people get to be picky lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks for me and then charm.

Age doesn't matter to me if they have everything I'm looking for. "

That's not what your filters say....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does A guy have to be 10/10 in looks or doesnt looks matter to you??

And does someones age affect things?"

I've had plenty of success with ladies in my 55 years so must have something going for me, but FAB has brought me very few results in 3 years.

The real me was far more successful than the keyboard me.

Sadly I'm not in a position to socialise in the real world at the moment so I have to try in internet land.

There's nothing quite like good old fashioned face to face hair twiddling and sparkly eyes and cheeky winks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice bum beats all

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Looks are an essential part of attraction but the personality is key. Age is important to me and if you're outside someone's age range, look elsewhere.

You just need to be good enough for someone, not 10/10, which most people will not be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both to be honest to a degree but would say average people with great personalities top our preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being ourselves is the best any of us can do, because there’s no one who can be a better me than myself.

Then it’s simply a matter of whether they find who you are attractive

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I think being ourselves is the best any of us can do, because there’s no one who can be a better me than myself.

Then it’s simply a matter of whether they find who you are attractive"

Nail, head and hit!!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Speaking from the other side.

Looks will make me go ooooshh.

Charm will make me go wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to find a man attractive, which includes his personality and how he looks.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What I think is 10/10 another girl might think is a 3/10.

We all have different tastes and connect with people differently.

That's what it's about, that spark. Someone you click with.

There's no winning formula, there's no rules to follow. Just be yourself and see what happens. If there's someone you're compatible with then you'll both know. "

Exactly!

Don't understand why people can't be themselves and think there's an universal formula to attraction or there's an either/or to everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about if you look charming?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Fab....the website where average people get to be picky lol...."

Lmao! I looked at a woman's profile only this morning, and she stated about how picky she is. She's only 4 months in here now, but displaying 23 meet verifications

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Fab....the website where average people get to be picky lol....

Lmao! I looked at a woman's profile only this morning, and she stated about how picky she is. She's only 4 months in here now, but displaying 23 meet verifications "

And?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab....the website where average people get to be picky lol....

Lmao! I looked at a woman's profile only this morning, and she stated about how picky she is. She's only 4 months in here now, but displaying 23 meet verifications "

If u have an issue grab a tissue

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Fab....the website where average people get to be picky lol....

Lmao! I looked at a woman's profile only this morning, and she stated about how picky she is. She's only 4 months in here now, but displaying 23 meet verifications

And?!! "

Meeting so many people who meet her high standards in such a short time must be very lucky.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Fab....the website where average people get to be picky lol....

Lmao! I looked at a woman's profile only this morning, and she stated about how picky she is. She's only 4 months in here now, but displaying 23 meet verifications

And?!!

Meeting so many people who meet her high standards in such a short time must be very lucky."

These could be people she's known previously who've verified her. She could have attended a social/party/gangbang...who knows.

All these people she found to her liking. I might not touch any of them with someone else's barge pole.

I just find snooty attitudes to how others use the site...and whether we meet one a year or 100...we're here looking for sex with strangers. It's akin to Lewis Hamilton berating Valentino Rossi for riding his bike too fast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does A guy have to be 10/10 in looks or doesnt looks matter to you??

And does someones age affect things?

I've had plenty of success with ladies in my 55 years so must have something going for me, but FAB has brought me very few results in 3 years.

The real me was far more successful than the keyboard me.

Sadly I'm not in a position to socialise in the real world at the moment so I have to try in internet land.

There's nothing quite like good old fashioned face to face hair twiddling and sparkly eyes and cheeky winks...

"

I think this is 100% true.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Fab....the website where average people get to be picky lol....

Lmao! I looked at a woman's profile only this morning, and she stated about how picky she is. She's only 4 months in here now, but displaying 23 meet verifications

And?!!

Meeting so many people who meet her high standards in such a short time must be very lucky.

These could be people she's known previously who've verified her. She could have attended a social/party/gangbang...who knows.

All these people she found to her liking. I might not touch any of them with someone else's barge pole.

I just find snooty attitudes to how others use the site...and whether we meet one a year or 100...we're here looking for sex with strangers. It's akin to Lewis Hamilton berating Valentino Rossi for riding his bike too fast!"

You know what. That is a bloody brilliant analogy!

I just got what the other guy meant. I didn't find him snooty.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Fab....the website where average people get to be picky lol....

Lmao! I looked at a woman's profile only this morning, and she stated about how picky she is. She's only 4 months in here now, but displaying 23 meet verifications

And?!!

Meeting so many people who meet her high standards in such a short time must be very lucky.

These could be people she's known previously who've verified her. She could have attended a social/party/gangbang...who knows."

Nope; none of the veris were the 'met at the party/social/gangbang' type, neither were they the 'glad my old mate is back again' type either. She has just been lucky to find so many guys who meet her exacting requirements so quickly I guess , and good for her

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Fab....the website where average people get to be picky lol....

Lmao! I looked at a woman's profile only this morning, and she stated about how picky she is. She's only 4 months in here now, but displaying 23 meet verifications

And?!!

Meeting so many people who meet her high standards in such a short time must be very lucky.

These could be people she's known previously who've verified her. She could have attended a social/party/gangbang...who knows.

All these people she found to her liking. I might not touch any of them with someone else's barge pole.

I just find snooty attitudes to how others use the site...and whether we meet one a year or 100...we're here looking for sex with strangers. It's akin to Lewis Hamilton berating Valentino Rossi for riding his bike too fast!

You know what. That is a bloody brilliant analogy!

I just got what the other guy meant. I didn't find him snooty."

Cheers fella! It just made me smile tbh; 23 meets in 16 weeks membership, how many could she have had if she wasn't 'picky'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little of both would be good

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