FabSwingers.com forum: Compliments

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it me or does anyone else find it hard to take compliments?

I never know what to say and then just say thank you and feel silly.

Teach me how to take a compliment and not come off like I don’t care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or does anyone else find it hard to take compliments?

I never know what to say and then just say thank you and feel silly.

Teach me how to take a compliment and not come off like I don’t care

I think saying thank you is a nice, demure way to receive a compliment? As long as it's not immediately followed by a self deprecating put down? X x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a very British trait. Stiff upper lip, self deprecating.

Most of us do it.

“That dress looks nice on you!”

“Oh this thing, I’ve had it years and it was very cheap ..”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually say "Thank you. Now tell me something I don't know"...I Just love to see their expression change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or does anyone else find it hard to take compliments?

I never know what to say and then just say thank you and feel silly.

Teach me how to take a compliment and not come off like I don’t care

I'm exactly the same. If its hubby I'll tell him he's just trying to get in my undies, he doesn't have to lie. Anyone else I do an awkward thank you, and think I'm a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be classes on it, I’m not good at all taking a compliment. X

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

You have gorgeous red lips and I love the way you handle a lollipop...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have gorgeous red lips and I love the way you handle a lollipop...

Thank you!

Although to be fair, as she started the thread I think you should compliment the OP too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have gorgeous red lips and I love the way you handle a lollipop...

Why thank you

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"You have gorgeous red lips and I love the way you handle a lollipop...

Why thank you

See! Easy peasy!

You’re a natural! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or does anyone else find it hard to take compliments?

I never know what to say and then just say thank you and feel silly.

Teach me how to take a compliment and not come off like I don’t care

Same for me - hate compliments. Can't do my own birthday either!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Just smile, say thank you and move on.

If you try and talk about it more it’s easy to get tongue tied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't get any to say thankyou for haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get any to say thankyou for haha "

I like your sleeve tattoo dude! It’s awesome!

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I just don't get any to say thankyou for haha "

That’s an impressive beard. 50 man points!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Depends on the compliment for me, if it's oh I love the colour of your lipgloss or I love your shoes then I say thank you and enlighten where it's from, if it's a compliment on a pic for example, then it's still a thank you but say something like 'it was taken in good light' which I suppose is a way to play it down, or if it's a compliment of... You give an amazing BJ then it's a hell Yeah Baby.....

lol

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