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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m new to all this. I am wanting to visit townhouse as a single male. How was visiting for you on your first time in a club

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hi OP.

I've not been to townhouse yet but have heard very good things about it so it is on my list of clubs to try.

It is always nerve wracking visiting a club for the first time and it is normal to be nervous. It would be strange if you weren't.

The key to having a good visit is to be friendly and sociable. If you can interact in "normal" social situations then you should be ok at a swingers club. The only real difference is people may be wearing less clothing and someone might be having sex somewhere in the building.

Go with no expectations and if you get to play then that's a bonus.

Townhouse do a newbies and notso event. It is aimed a people new to the club scene and would probably be the perfect event to start with. They usually post details in the clubs/events forum and you need to ask to be put on the guestlist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi OP.

I've not been to townhouse yet but have heard very good things about it so it is on my list of clubs to try.

It is always nerve wracking visiting a club for the first time and it is normal to be nervous. It would be strange if you weren't.

The key to having a good visit is to be friendly and sociable. If you can interact in "normal" social situations then you should be ok at a swingers club. The only real difference is people may be wearing less clothing and someone might be having sex somewhere in the building.

Go with no expectations and if you get to play then that's a bonus.

Townhouse do a newbies and notso event. It is aimed a people new to the club scene and would probably be the perfect event to start with. They usually post details in the clubs/events forum and you need to ask to be put on the guestlist. "

Thanks very much. I am quite nervous but will be ok. Thanks for great advice, very nice of you

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Hey OP

You could maybe try the swinging club discussion forum, they may be able to help too. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey OP

You could maybe try the swinging club discussion forum, they may be able to help too. Good luck "

Thanks mate, new to this. Thanks again

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I just realised I didn't answer your original question .

On my first club visit I was bloody terrified .

I put off going for a few months and eventually plucked up the courage to go to my closest club, the attic in derby. I sat in my car for a while before I went in and very nearly changed my mind and drove home!

I decided that i definitely didn't want to play on my first visit, I just wanted to have a look around and get a feel for the place. I told them it was my first visit and they showed me around the club and explained the rules - no means no, if anyone touches without asking to report it etc.

Everyone was very respectful of the fact I didn't want to play on my first visit and I was made very welcome.

The hardest part was just walking through the door because I had no idea of what to expect.

I've been visiting clubs for over a year now, whenever work and homelife allows. I don't always play but I do always enjoy myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just realised I didn't answer your original question .

On my first club visit I was bloody terrified .

I put off going for a few months and eventually plucked up the courage to go to my closest club, the attic in derby. I sat in my car for a while before I went in and very nearly changed my mind and drove home!

I decided that i definitely didn't want to play on my first visit, I just wanted to have a look around and get a feel for the place. I told them it was my first visit and they showed me around the club and explained the rules - no means no, if anyone touches without asking to report it etc.

Everyone was very respectful of the fact I didn't want to play on my first visit and I was made very welcome.

The hardest part was just walking through the door because I had no idea of what to expect.

I've been visiting clubs for over a year now, whenever work and homelife allows. I don't always play but I do always enjoy myself."

Thanks you’re a gem

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