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By *ryme101 OP   Man
over a year ago

wiltshire

Yes last night I was silly and got suckered in

A lady was posting looking for someone to go to a club with, I thought it's Friday Night, it's quiet "why not"

A conversation was struck up and all going well. However she was reluctant to give out her number, which I think is understandable as I could be anyone.

So she gave me the postcode of where to pick her up, approx 40 mins drive away but on the way to the club.

I don't txt and drive, get there, no lady, not replying to messages on here and has out her status 2 mins ago back to looking for someone to take her to the club!

What a numpty eh! So all in all just under 2 hrs driving on a Friday night, still at least i got a maccy d's at the drive thru on the way home!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

What a horrible thing to do.

Sorry to hear this OP.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

That’s awful. I hope you reported her

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Make sure you report her, that's out of order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you report her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw not a school boy, don't beat yourself up about it

Nothing you could have done different to be honest, just mark it up as expericence

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

So what have you learnt OP. How would you avoid this in future ?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Where the hell is the enjoyment coming from when they do this? Really don't understand it at all.

smdh

Like others have said, report the profile, wish there was a definitive solution that would eradicate this type of behaviour. Pfft!

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By *ryme101 OP   Man
over a year ago

wiltshire

Probably learnt to take it slow and be more organised, I just fancied the inclusiveness as had a quiet night, of course welcome to hear anything I've missed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's really shitty behaviour on her part. Hope you reported her... and still went to the club

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By *ryme101 OP   Man
over a year ago

wiltshire

Thanks guys, I guess I should have spotted .....shes not a site supporter and a dubious verification!

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By *ryme101 OP   Man
over a year ago

wiltshire


"That's really shitty behaviour on her part. Hope you reported her... and still went to the club "

Unfortunately I didn't go....it was also going to be first club visit and I wasn't in the mood!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Probably learnt to take it slow and be more organised, I just fancied the inclusiveness as had a quiet night, of course welcome to hear anything I've missed!!"

Nothing is concrete. But we’d want to exchange numbers and chat for a meet like that. She was after all expecting a favour of you. One common thing i see on here are single guys accepting unequal conditions. Don’t!! You are as good as the other person so always play on a level playing field.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not good, if it's any consolation others on here have had similar experience including us.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Don’t beat yourself up. You went for spontaneous and it so happened you were talking to a numpty but it’s one if those things. Onwards and upwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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A conversation was struck up and all going well. "

Really? And it went down hill from there?

Bee there done that too many times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

A conversation was struck up and all going well.

Really? And it went down hill from there?

Bee there done that too many times lol"

Add me to the list.. I never move a muscle with a number but it has happened to me. We had exchanged number when I got there.. nobody answered the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww sorry to hear that op like the others say report her

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By *ryme101 OP   Man
over a year ago

wiltshire

Haha I guess it's all part of the fun of the fair! It was a nice drive out to see somewhere new haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta charge it to the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which club were you going to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha I guess it's all part of the fun of the fair! It was a nice drive out to see somewhere new haha"

I like your attitude

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Haha I guess it's all part of the fun of the fair! It was a nice drive out to see somewhere new haha"

Sorry to hear that. It was probably some sad bloke on a wind up.

I agree it's fair enough a woman not giving her number to a stranger but it that situation I would ask her to phone you and withold the number. If they refuse to do that, it's almost certainly fake.

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By *ryme101 OP   Man
over a year ago

wiltshire


"Which club were you going to? "

AbFab seemed as decent as any!

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By *ryme101 OP   Man
over a year ago

wiltshire


"Haha I guess it's all part of the fun of the fair! It was a nice drive out to see somewhere new haha

I like your attitude "

Thanks Kitty, no point in getting stressed about things I can't control! I'm sure at some point someone will pop my club cherry with me haha

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Thanks guys, I guess I should have spotted .....shes not a site supporter and a dubious verification!"

Hopefully you have learned not to think with your dick on a fri night. Not right what she (more than likely a male wanking off) did but surely all the signs were there. If it's too good to be true .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys have done this to my mrs in the past, it’s not nice and i just don’t get why people do it.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Haha I guess it's all part of the fun of the fair! It was a nice drive out to see somewhere new haha

I like your attitude

Thanks Kitty, no point in getting stressed about things I can't control! I'm sure at some point someone will pop my club cherry with me haha"

You will be waiting along time for this. Best to not rely on people and go it alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

A conversation was struck up and all going well.

Really? And it went down hill from there?

Bee there done that too many times lol

Add me to the list.. I never move a muscle with a number but it has happened to me. We had exchanged number when I got there.. nobody answered the phone "

Without a number***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which club were you going to?

AbFab seemed as decent as any!"

It’s a nice club.

You should go on your own, you’d be fine there on your own

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Report the b*tch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which club were you going to?

AbFab seemed as decent as any!"

Ive not been to that one. Not been to many actually

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Probably learnt to take it slow and be more organised, I just fancied the inclusiveness as had a quiet night, of course welcome to hear anything I've missed!!

Nothing is concrete. But we’d want to exchange numbers and chat for a meet like that. She was after all expecting a favour of you. One common thing i see on here are single guys accepting unequal conditions. Don’t!! You are as good as the other person so always play on a level playing field. "

The joys of being a single guy on fab.

Shame you got messed around can understand people not giving out numbers, but you can still use various apps to verify if someone is who they say they in this day and age ie kik skype snapchat etc..

Too many wierdos and fakes out there who ruin fab for genuine people.

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By *ryme101 OP   Man
over a year ago

wiltshire


"Thanks guys, I guess I should have spotted .....shes not a site supporter and a dubious verification!

Hopefully you have learned not to think with your dick on a fri night. Not right what she (more than likely a male wanking off) did but surely all the signs were there. If it's too good to be true ....."

Well she did have the green tick so was kinda hoping that was good for something. Live and learn, all good Friday night fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes last night I was silly and got suckered in

A lady was posting looking for someone to go to a club with, I thought it's Friday Night, it's quiet "why not"

A conversation was struck up and all going well. However she was reluctant to give out her number, which I think is understandable as I could be anyone.

So she gave me the postcode of where to pick her up, approx 40 mins drive away but on the way to the club.

I don't txt and drive, get there, no lady, not replying to messages on here and has out her status 2 mins ago back to looking for someone to take her to the club!

What a numpty eh! So all in all just under 2 hrs driving on a Friday night, still at least i got a maccy d's at the drive thru on the way home! "

Sorry to hear that OP that is not cool at all.

Not surprised because people have posted many times on similar situations they been in. These things are happening on a regular basis on here.

It is not easy to tell sometimes what the persons true intentions are because even the well verified do it.

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