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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do many couples here have missed matched sex drive with their partners? Does one of you want a lot more sex than the other. Do you use this site as a way to get around it? Or is everyone here purely because they enjoy the lifestyle? Interested to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my mrs is having a bit of a low moment but that’s mainly down to work and a hectic life in general, i’m not here without her knowledge of course, we have a couples profile and she has her own profile too.

my sex drive used to be a lot higher than hers but mine have come down quite a bit in recent months now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so you would say you use this as a tool for those times one of you is on a low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have high sex drives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so you would say you use this as a tool for those times one of you is on a low "

no, i would say that this site has actually lowered both our sex drives, desensitised us if ya like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both have high sex drives "

So this just keeps you both satisfied ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" so you would say you use this as a tool for those times one of you is on a low

no, i would say that this site has actually lowered both our sex drives, desensitised us if ya like."

Oh right

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Currently one of us is out of action due to surgery so we're just using the site to chat and for the forums. The site is an addition to our sex life not a substitute.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Currently one of us is out of action due to surgery so we're just using the site to chat and for the forums. The site is an addition to our sex life not a substitute."

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did once,I was on the rebound from my first marriage.

I got into a relationship with a lady who initially, and grudgingly agreed to have sex, as the relationship went on, I / we ignored the warning signs, and things just got worse.

In the end she admitted she hated every aspect of sex, thought it dirty and perverted, and we parted.

Rea was in a similar relationship, no sex for years - I kid you not - on end from her former hubby.

Then I came along and the rest is history.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Currently one of us is out of action due to surgery so we're just using the site to chat and for the forums. The site is an addition to our sex life not a substitute.

Ok "

It's unlikely that any couple is going to say that they use fab because one of them isn't as into sex as the other. I think that would cause a few upsets if expressed publicly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did once,I was on the rebound from my first marriage.

I got into a relationship with a lady who initially, and grudgingly agreed to have sex, as the relationship went on, I / we ignored the warning signs, and things just got worse.

In the end she admitted she hated every aspect of sex, thought it dirty and perverted, and we parted.

Rea was in a similar relationship, no sex for years - I kid you not - on end from her former hubby.

Then I came along and the rest is history.

"

Wow guess it shows you how some thing are just not meant to be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Currently one of us is out of action due to surgery so we're just using the site to chat and for the forums. The site is an addition to our sex life not a substitute.

Ok

It's unlikely that any couple is going to say that they use fab because one of them isn't as into sex as the other. I think that would cause a few upsets if expressed publicly "

That’s a good point! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would literally have sex with Mr 24/7. Actually crave him when he works away. Hate it. Don't get me wrong he loves it but I want it way more than him x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would literally have sex with Mr 24/7. Actually crave him when he works away. Hate it. Don't get me wrong he loves it but I want it way more than him x"

See that’s what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would literally have sex with Mr 24/7. Actually crave him when he works away. Hate it. Don't get me wrong he loves it but I want it way more than him x

See that’s what I mean "

What lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would literally have sex with Mr 24/7. Actually crave him when he works away. Hate it. Don't get me wrong he loves it but I want it way more than him x

See that’s what I mean

What lol x"

One half wanting it a lot more than the other. So how do you get around it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would literally have sex with Mr 24/7. Actually crave him when he works away. Hate it. Don't get me wrong he loves it but I want it way more than him x

See that’s what I mean

What lol x

One half wanting it a lot more than the other. So how do you get around it? "

Ah ok lol

I just enjoy the sex we have. No special formula. Just that way when it ends I can still feel him type thing. Oh toys and foreplay....lots and lots of foreplay x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would literally have sex with Mr 24/7. Actually crave him when he works away. Hate it. Don't get me wrong he loves it but I want it way more than him x

See that’s what I mean

What lol x

One half wanting it a lot more than the other. So how do you get around it?

Ah ok lol

I just enjoy the sex we have. No special formula. Just that way when it ends I can still feel him type thing. Oh toys and foreplay....lots and lots of foreplay x"

Ahh ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has no interest in sex with me on anyone else. I have no idea why we even joined this site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My wife has no interest in sex with me on anyone else. I have no idea why we even joined this site "

really

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm sure they do. And libido is not a constant (for most) throughout a lifetime for many reasons. The chances are there will be times of mismatch. But true love transcends sex and depending how you play in your relationship the freedom to fullfil your sexual needs with others is truly a beautiful and unselfish gift.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do many couples here have missed matched sex drive with their partners? Does one of you want a lot more sex than the other. Do you use this site as a way to get around it? Or is everyone here purely because they enjoy the lifestyle? Interested to know "

Also I'm not sure how using fab would solve mismatched sex drives unless one partner didn't join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife has no interest in sex with me on anyone else. I have no idea why we even joined this site

really "

Yep! Too caught up with life and hasn't got the time for me

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