FabSwingers.com forum: Depression

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many, of you guys just chat because your lonely and not in a good place x

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By *andyrainbowWoman
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Quite a lot to be honest. An adult conversation about anything and everything can do a lot to a person's mood. It's a good distraction from the crap that wizzes around in our brains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not why we chat on here but I (Him) am always happy to chat with anyone regardless of sexuality, after all, as Bob Hoskins said, "It's good to talk"

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

If I’m not in a good place I don’t chat.

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By *andyrainbowWoman
over a year ago

Mid Wales

"If I’m not in a good place I don’t chat."

Sometimes it's far too easy to isolate yourself from the world isn't it. I have a couple of people I talk to when I'm in a really bad place but quite a lot get shut out. Fortunately I have some good friends who understand so they don't take it personal if they don't hear from me for weeks on end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had depression for donkeys years. Long as I can remember. I’m on meds but I do find chatting here and getting compliments etc a bit of a boost definitely. I also hate the rejection and take it badly so swings and roundabouts so to speak.

It’s always good when you meet other like minded people though. I’m very lucky now to be part of a couple and he really understands my mental health which is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this may sound silly.. but my daughter has broke up with her long term partner today, and I'm feeling really sad about it. They met at uni 5 years ago and they seemed so well suited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know this may sound silly.. but my daughter has broke up with her long term partner today, and I'm feeling really sad about it. They met at uni 5 years ago and they seemed so well suited

Awwh that sucks. Just be there for her and make sure she feels supported it’s not easy to loose someone you’ve been together with for a while.

Failing that tell her all men are barstards and get her d*unk that’s what my old man did when I broke up with my ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I felt content knowing she was in a relationship and happy.. but then I met my ex (Her dad) young and that didn't work out, so maybe she needs a few relationships before she settled down for good?

I just feel really upset about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine this would be the worst place for a lonely depressed single male haha!

On a more serious note, i think staying indoors on the internet would just feed depression. If you're depressed, get yourself out in nature. Preferably naked!

Ok, the naked bit probably isn't necessary, but you never know, it might help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depression is a demon that we shouldn't let win. But it is hard. If you ever need to talk. I will listen, no matter how trivial it may seem.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

I had a really bad week last week loads of bad stuff has been going on for me in the last 12 years and a lovely forumite took the time out of her day to send me a few messages.

It was good to tell someone else and it really helped me

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I had a really bad week last week loads of bad stuff has been going on for me in the last 12 years and a lovely forumite took the time out of her day to send me a few messages.

It was good to tell someone else and it really helped me

I am sorry to hear about your last week. The thing about Fab, is that there are a lot of good people here, for whom the social/ communication element is as important as thw swinging bit x

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"I had a really bad week last week loads of bad stuff has been going on for me in the last 12 years and a lovely forumite took the time out of her day to send me a few messages.

It was good to tell someone else and it really helped me

I am sorry to hear about your last week. The thing about Fab, is that there are a lot of good people here, for whom the social/ communication element is as important as thw swinging bit x"

There certainly are all it takes sometimes is one message to snap someone out of it I’ve messaged a few privately and now we are friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suffer from PTSD and with it being particularly bad, over the last month I find, coming on Fab chatting to friends and immersing myself in the fantasy world is a distraction unfortunately as the Verve sang " the drugs don't work they just make you worse " is bloody true x

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By *eardeddriverMan
over a year ago

Northumberland

Been depressed for past few years now, still have a cpn coming out to my house weekly for "a chat" but like others I find it helps to chat on here aswel, even if it's just about utter shite. That's why I tend to reply to anyone even if they are miles away and absolutely not what I'm looking for, but aslong as everyone knows that and they are just there to talk with it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had depression

Of nice

It changed me as a person

But I am a better rounded person now, less agressive. But the medication I was on had estrogen in it. That I think is what changes you!

Since I had this is how I became a tv

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Sometimes a stranger is the best source of comfort. Many a time I have been able to detach from everything and everyone and speak to someone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work solo, my husband works nights. Most days being on here is my only source of adult conversation.

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