FabSwingers.com forum: Take Me Out

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most people have probably seen Paddy McGuiness' tv show Take Me Out. If not the principle is one guy comes into the studio in front of 30 girls. Each girl has a light on and turns it off when they decide they no longer fancy the guy. If any girls still have their light on at the end the guy gets to choose one to take on a date.

Along the way the guy reveals more about himself and the girls start switcing their lights off.

This happens for any reason at all - don't like the colour of his shoes, his hairstyle, that he's close to his mum, his unusual hobby etc..

So I put this here to attempt to make comparisons to FAB.

As a guy I am adaptable. Don't like the colour of my socks, I'll change them. I'll change my hair. I'll change my friends. But I still fancy you.

It doesn't matter that I don't like the dress you're wearing in your photo. It doesn't matter that your tits are bigger or smaller than I'd like. I don't care that you're not my perfect age. I still fancy you because I like what you wrote or whatever.

Girls, is this really how you see it?

Guys, correct me if I'm wrong.

This is just a survey - don't shoot me.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why has it gotten so dark on here?

Sounds to me like there's a fine line between being adaptive and trying too hard to please .

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that the show is not relatable to real life, the reasons given aren't always honest and the girls are probably told not to all press their button straight away there would be no show.

With regards to fab then it's a highly competitive place for guys and ladies can be super picky. We get a lot of mail, sometimes we need to be ruthless or we'd end up talking to a whole load of hhhhmmm maybe's instead of the oh yeah he's perfect.

You said you're willing to adapt. Don't. Be yourself and be with someone who wants you not what you could be.

By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I would never change my shoes, hair, clothes, anything for anyone. "

Agreed. Don't like it? Tough shit

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I try to be true to myself. Any hole isn’t a goal.

If someone’s not my type I won’t try to adapt to them and kid myself that they ARE my type just to get a shag.

But I’m also not shallow enough to reject someone just because of the size of their tits etc.