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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Just reading through statuses and threads this morning and the amount of dating and associated dating things are erm well i am a bit disappointed really. Someone would ignore a POF message if they recognised the pic from fab?! Talk about double standards. You wouldnt know it existed on fab if you weren't on it yourself

Also why do ppl get so hung up with the "I wouldn't date someone who has been on fab?" Why if you are? What if they never met anyone? Or why woukd it not be a great common interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are hypocrites basically x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never underestimate the power of self interest to override the comments any one may make elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it boils down to psychology! I think there are still a lot of guys who want 'a nice girl they can take home to meet mother'.

It hasn't occurred to them that we are all nice! And all once came from vanilla world!

They want you to be a whore, but don't want to hear how you got the experience to be one!!

These are guys who really don't know themselves! Perhaps they are the fucked up ones you should be avoiding anyway, so they are actually doing you a favour??

There are still some fantastic guys on here who have sorted their shit out, and go on to have great loving relationships with fellow fabsters!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn’t surprise me if a lot who say : “I wouldn’t date someone from Fab.” aren’t single anyway. Plus, having been on POF it’s worse than Fab for oddballs and those seeking sex, but dressing it up as seeking dating. Honesty is what’s missing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general there's more integrity on Fab than on other dating sites. People are open about why they are here and that shouldn't prevent them for dating. It's those who aren't honest you have to watch.

If someone is honest you know where you stand and make your choices.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

I don't come here looking for a date, but I have to like people to meet them so down the years I have met a few single women through swinging that I have gone on to see as more than just "playmates."

And yes, they have met people from my vanilla world (inc family) though we don't say how we met. But there again does anyone discuss their sex life with the world - away from here.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

I have long since dissassociated peoples sex drive and how i value them as a person.

If they have fucked half the country but we get on..then so be it.People are too worried about ticking boxes to ensure a relationship.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Just beggars belief is all. Humans are a funny breed

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Just beggars belief is all. Humans are a funny breed "

I was about to say people are stupid but you’ve phased it in a much nicer way!

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"Just beggars belief is all. Humans are a funny breed

I was about to say people are stupid but you’ve phased it in a much nicer way!

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lol always worth waiting for somebody else's take on the crazy world!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Funny I actually messaged someone from POF the first time they popped up on the forums - there are far fewer male fakes on here!!

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'd date someone from here if the chemistry felt right and we liked each other enough. Everyone has a past, it wouldn't bother me.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Funny I actually messaged someone from POF the first time they popped up on the forums - there are far fewer male fakes on here!!"

I don't see the issue with being on both .... too many labels and unmentioned crap on both.

Live and let live. Life is too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys of here often rant that they get laid easier from POF than from FAB so I can't see any difference between these sites.

When I first joined fab I was not looking for dating, but it's happened and I'm glad for it because nobody's ever made me feel the way Cute does.

Kitten

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