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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Each profile describes , what people looking for. The type for me is a guy who attract me sexually . Not necessary who I want to date.

Is for fun but not with anything who moves .

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

There's nothing 'fun' about having sex with someone I don't find attractive, it would make my skin crawl. .. well I just couldn't. Of course it matters! !!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

People are picky on here because they can be, just like in real life. I only use this site for the forums, to keep in touch with friends and attend socials. If I wanted a date, I would go to a few pubs and use my fancy patter on an unsuspecting victim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the female, I'm less fussy about looks and more interested in sone one who makes me laugh and want to talk to them. However I've had my moments when I just want a pretty face too.

The one thing I'm not into is random sex with any man that offers, doesn't mean I'm looking for a date.

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

I’m not just going to sleep with someone cause they presented me a cock pick and just happened to be free the same time as me! A bit of banter is important and I wouldn’t sleep with someone unless I found them attractive as someone said before it would make my skin crawl if I didn’t at least fancy them a little!

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

So are you saying you don't find the people you meet attractive?

Wow!!!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

What a smooth talker. People use this site how they choose to. I’m sure there’ll be some women who don’t mind anything but my ‘hole’ still has standards and I’m happy to be picky. If you or anyone else doesn’t agree or like this, I don’t care. Just move along to the next profile. My body, my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

Really?!

I can't fuck someone I'm not attracted to....can't understand why anyone would want to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn right I'm picky about who gets to put their cock in me, and I'll continue to be as picky as I like.

I'm not going to fuck someone just for the sake of it. I'd rather just not bother if my only option is any entitled twat who thinks presenting a cock shot means they should get a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

I guess if you're just looking for a hole then you shouldn't be fussy and only want women afterall its just a hole!!

Seriously! Never heard so much drivel in my life, caveman attitudes like that is a reason why women are picky.

Jeese, I'd rather a night with my toys than a guy like you

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Call me old fashioned but I don’t want to be the “lay back and think of England” kinda girl because I’m with someone I’m not attracted to because I’m desperate to have my hole filled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn right I'm picky about who gets to put their cock in me, and I'll continue to be as picky as I like.

"

And that boys, is sexual selection in a sentence. You can't undo the entire history of evolution by projecting your desires onto a website.

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

We have no interest in people we don't fancy.

I think a lot assume because you are swingers you will fuck anything. Some of the men who massage wanting to set a meet up would make shane mcgowen look good. It isn't going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely there has to be a physical attraction even for on here?.. maybe I am just old fashioned

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By *allish blokeMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Surely there has to be attraction for all parties involved. I find it difficult to get excited with someone I don’t fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id fuck anything with a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id fuck anything with a pulse"

I've got some lentils, will I do? XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

Yes there has to be attraction at the very least.

I think you are confusing fab lady's with prostitutes, who fuck any man who asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

Looking for your hole?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

They're looking for people who act their age but instead they find 46 year olds using the word peeps.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there

So are you saying you don't find the people you meet attractive?

Wow!!!"

Lol. Hope everyone he's met sees this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there

They're looking for people who act their age but instead they find 46 year olds using the word peeps.

Good luck"

Well said peeps.. Not 46 yet so can say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id fuck anything with a pulse"

Any'thing' or anyone'?

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

“If your looking for your hole”?

Says it all really...

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"7 verifications in 2 months and the guy is moaning about people getting picky ! I think you are doing extremely well. Amazing considering how your attitude!"

But only the same 4 women....there must be a lack of men in his area so he is getting lucky by default ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there

They're looking for people who act their age but instead they find 46 year olds using the word peeps.

Good luck"

Boom... Mic drop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s whatever someone wants it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets face it, this is a site to meet up with like minded people of our own preference..

if you want to "get your hole" then there is probably your female equivalent on here somewhere ..

we all have prefs and choices some more choosy

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

NE


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

And this type of thread my friends is the reason we single men have a bad press on here sometimes,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there

And this type of thread my friends is the reason we single men have a bad press on here sometimes,,, "

I wouldn't worry, I can't think there's many who'd hold all single guys to the same low standard the OP has displayed.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

If being picky is avoiding the kind of entitled men who see women as nothing more than an inanimate 'hole' then I'm proud to be picky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there

And this type of thread my friends is the reason we single men have a bad press on here sometimes,,, "

True, but we ladies can spot gems like you! I’m sure most of us choose who we share our ‘holes’ carefully x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

some funny people come out at night.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there

And this type of thread my friends is the reason we single men have a bad press on here sometimes,,, "

I was going to say you're wrong,but the more I see these kind of thread's the more it puts me off sex.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

But he's got a few meet veris so I might try to be blunt as it obviously works better than being nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If fucking anybody whether or not you actually like them is your idea of fun, then that's your business. Not my idea of fun though.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

Jeez that made me wet! You mate are smooooooooooooth

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By *ougar79Woman
over a year ago

greenwich

When I read the title my thought was it's whatever people want it to be. Different people want different things and we all use it accordingly.

Having read your post I hope that anyone you want to meet looks for your forum posts describing them as 'holes' and decides accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"7 verifications in 2 months and the guy is moaning about people getting picky ! I think you are doing extremely well. Amazing considering how your attitude!

But only the same 4 women....there must be a lack of men in his area so he is getting lucky by default ha ha "
yes and if you look at said women they all seem to fall into a specific type

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"7 verifications in 2 months and the guy is moaning about people getting picky ! I think you are doing extremely well. Amazing considering how your attitude!

But only the same 4 women....there must be a lack of men in his area so he is getting lucky by default ha ha yes and if you look at said women they all seem to fall into a specific type"

I've looked,what type is that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

I’m guessing this is your “coming out” thread?

Do guys keep turning down your hole?

Perhaps try respecting yourself and not just describing yourself as ‘your hole’ and the men you seek may see you in a better light.

Most guys aren’t just looking for a hole. They need at least some attraction.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"If being picky is avoiding the kind of entitled men who see women as nothing more than an inanimate 'hole' then I'm proud to be picky! "

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"7 verifications in 2 months and the guy is moaning about people getting picky ! I think you are doing extremely well. Amazing considering how your attitude!

But only the same 4 women....there must be a lack of men in his area so he is getting lucky by default ha ha yes and if you look at said women they all seem to fall into a specific type"

Perhaps they are all related?

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

Are you flippin kidding me????? You have to be attracted to someone to engage in sex. You clearly aren't a swinger. If you want a hole to fuck with no attraction etc go see a hooked. Fuck sake man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's whatever people want it to be, and whichever it is, they are still entitled only to meet people they find attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "
Haha!! well... most of pof and other dating sites are on here as couples figure that out it's all down to preference thou realistically.It's been said before on here that people who have met on here,they wouldn't meet on a dating site so god knows what that means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my "hole" so I will choose who/what goes in it!

I guess the phrase "any hole's a goal" may work for some of the men on here, but any cock is firmly NOT a goal for most of the women

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By *ougar79Woman
over a year ago

greenwich


"It's my "hole" so I will choose who/what goes in it!

D"

To the tune of it's my party and I'll cry if I want to

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"It's my "hole" so I will choose who/what goes in it!

D

To the tune of it's my party and I'll cry if I want to "

Earworm of the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the swinger Ladies choose exactly what happens, when where, how, who.

1st commandment of of swinging. "no, means, no"

Any hole phrase works for men, cause a large percentage of men don't get much choice in who they have a relationship with.

Out there in the real world Ladies have control of who they choose. In the swinger world, your control is absolute. Lots of guys on this site can't seem to get their heads round that fact. Once the penny drops, it blows their minds.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That's the attitude of a man desperate for sex. Totally unappealing for me and many other women on here I would think OP. Ewwwwwwww!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't think of anything worse than a guy or girl I didn't find somewhat attractive physically and/or mentally up in my face, with their hands on my body. The thought churns my stomach.

So we have preferences, we're not looking for dates, we're happily married and we intend to be with each other till were old, we don't expect to be wined/dined/gifts from people we meet - we have that. We are looking for people who make us laugh, who we enjoy talking to, who are engaging enough for us all to want to jump in bed. There has to be a mutual attraction.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"All the swinger Ladies choose exactly what happens, when where, how, who.

1st commandment of of swinging. "no, means, no"

Any hole phrase works for men, cause a large percentage of men don't get much choice in who they have a relationship with.

Out there in the real world Ladies have control of who they choose. In the swinger world, your control is absolute. Lots of guys on this site can't seem to get their heads round that fact. Once the penny drops, it blows their minds."

Everyone has a choice.... You gonna screw someone cos they message you or you bump into them in a club??? Standards

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*pops in*

*looks for hole*

*leaves*

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there

We have no interest in people we don't fancy.

I think a lot assume because you are swingers you will fuck anything. Some of the men who massage wanting to set a meet up would make shane mcgowen look good. It isn't going to happen "

How true. I cannot understand the "why not?" mentality.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" some funny people come out at night."

I was thinking weekend looks bleak for some as not had a shag all week so venting their frustrations.

Worrying how many entitled men there are around.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

OP I note that on your profile you have an age limit at 60, and don't want to meet TV\TS or Males.

Why not? Because you make a choice not to.

Hopefully that answers your question...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not just going to sleep with someone cause they presented me a cock pick and just happened to be free the same time as me! A bit of banter is important and I wouldn’t sleep with someone unless I found them attractive as someone said before it would make my skin crawl if I didn’t at least fancy them a little! "

Totally agree. Attraction is a must X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*pops in*

*looks for hole*

*leaves*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a choice.... You gonna screw someone cos they message you or you bump into them in a club??? Standards "

That's the point, most men on here don't even get replies, let alone messages in the first instance from a Lady. Doesn't happen on here.

This place is darwinian sexual selection on crack.

I've only been to one club day ,so far. Of the single ladies that were there, one didn't play at all, the other two played with one guy each and no one else. So most of the guys had no choice at all to have a 1 on 1. I'm going to start using clubs to build my confidence hopefully build new friendships and relationships and see what happens from there.

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By *pl4moreCouple
over a year ago

oldham

All the lovely ladies on here get thousands of guys messaging them per day. Do you really think they are going to shag the whole site. Sorry but be realistic or course they will be picky who wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id fuck anything with a pulse

I've got some lentils, will I do? XXX"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer to be attracted to my hole thankyou

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I'd prefer to be attracted to my hole thankyou "

I’m attracted to your hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

Thank you soooo much for reminding me it's not a dating site. I would have never guessed...

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"I'd prefer to be attracted to my hole thankyou

I’m attracted to your hole "

We’d rather be attracted to someone’s whole

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Definitely need to find the person attractive to consider meeting up.

Yes I'm very picky. I definitely don't meet because, according to some, this is a sex site, so you should just have sex with everyone who gets in touch. I stay well clear from people with an attitude like this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the lovely ladies on here get thousands of guys messaging them per day. Do you really think they are going to shag the whole site. Sorry but be realistic or course they will be picky who wouldn't."

Ladies out in the real world exercise sexual selection, anyway. Ladies are selective because of evolution. They are picky because they have choice. They don't behave like men wish they could, if they could get away with it. Cause they don't have to.

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

By the way OP, how do you think it’s going?

OP? Hello?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair a date is usually a meeting up for a fun time out in public for dinner/drinks etc, with only the possibility of any fun afterwards, not expected.

The nearest Fab equivalent is a social. Who in their right mind would have sex with anyone they didn't even want to have a social with?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

Your attitude is disgusting, people have a choice about who they allow to touch their bodies, most of us are looking for mutual fun with someone/s they are attracted to.

You really need to rethink if this is the site for you.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Everyone has a choice.... You gonna screw someone cos they message you or you bump into them in a club??? Standards

That's the point, most men on here don't even get replies, let alone messages in the first instance from a Lady. Doesn't happen on here.

This place is darwinian sexual selection on crack.

I've only been to one club day ,so far. Of the single ladies that were there, one didn't play at all, the other two played with one guy each and no one else. So most of the guys had no choice at all to have a 1 on 1. I'm going to start using clubs to build my confidence hopefully build new friendships and relationships and see what happens from there."

Very few single women go to clubs. You should look to play with couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think after 70 odd replies telling him exactly the same thing, he's probably figured out that the site is more than a rent your home out facilitator.

I love this place....makes me feel normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By the way OP, how do you think it’s going?

OP? Hello? "

Yeah, looks like he's leaving me to try and analyse the situation.

Hang on, WTF am I doing? Why should I be a martyr for someone else's thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I have the perfect hole here waiting for you

The one I've just dug out underneath my patio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

" You shouldn't have to be attracted to them"

I love Fab. Fucking gloriously funny every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op I have the perfect hole here waiting for you

The one I've just dug out underneath my patio "

What are you gonna do? Bury him alive? Taphephilia is bit hardcore for a Friday morning isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I note that on your profile you have an age limit at 60, and don't want to meet TV\TS or Males.

Why not? Because you make a choice not to.

Hopefully that answers your question..."

Don’t know why not as they have holes too!

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"Op I have the perfect hole here waiting for you

The one I've just dug out underneath my patio "

Don’t worry, he dug his own hole

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"All the lovely ladies on here get thousands of guys messaging them per day. Do you really think they are going to shag the whole site. Sorry but be realistic or course they will be picky who wouldn't."

No they don't...lord I wish this myth would debunk itself. Very few get thousands of messages. I am a single woman I go clubbing.... on my own and with friends. I also send men the first message (holy shit - best pinch to see if I'm real)

Men need to get rid of the martyr BS and also the belief that any hole is a goal. A lot of the time it comes down to standards and if someone is happy to fuck any old thing *not age specific btw then it will continue to exist as will attitudes like the OPs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sex with men I don't want to fate. I still have to be attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there

Really?!

I can't fuck someone I'm not attracted to....can't understand why anyone would want to! "

Because we can!

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over a year ago


"surely there has to be a physical attraction even for on here?.. maybe I am just old fashioned "

Why?

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

I wouldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't attracted to. Or with anyone who refers to sex as 'their hole'. Not heard that phrase since I was at school

V

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

NE


"It's my "hole" so I will choose who/what goes in it!

D

To the tune of it's my party and I'll cry if I want to "
Bloody song in my head all day now,, thanks

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

And so you thought you'd make it harder for yourself on here and post that. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick quote from someone who is able to articulate what is going on, better than I can.

“The dominance heirarcy is a selection mechanism mediated by female choice.”

Jordan Peterson

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"lets face it, this is a site to meet up with like minded people of our own preference..

if you want to "get your hole" then there is probably your female equivalent on here somewhere ..

we all have prefs and choices some more choosy

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there's a hole in the wall over there good luck

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

It's both

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


" some funny people come out at night."
others come out during the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think that you can't really tell from potos weather your going to shag them or not, we find a nice meet a few drinks and laughs, 99 percent of the time, everybody is up for sex by the end, simple, that's called swinging, we have a saying which we find to be very true, it's, we want to fuck you not marry you.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I get alot your not my type i would date so not sure what peeps are really looking for on here if your looking for your hole u shouldn't have to be attracted to them so many picky people out there "

So you're saying you would & you'd expect other people to have sex with a person they're not actually attracted to?

I'll stay being picky thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"surely there has to be a physical attraction even for on here?.. maybe I am just old fashioned

Why? "

I need physical attraction because I don't want to spread my legs on a bed to get my hole filled. For me, sex is more than just a cock inside me. If I only needed filling I would use a dildo on myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself to a club op

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