FabSwingers.com forum: Looked at me...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Isnt if funny that when you use the looked at me function to see who's been perving at you profile that there are always the few ones that pop up here and there almost everyday who are either not on your friends list or have never chatted to you.....

so you send a message saying 'like what you see?' only to get no reply back, a message saying oh sorry clicked onto your profile by accident or a 'oh sorry was reading it' (but they have looked about 5 times that day?) lol

Anyway just think it's great as im sure most people forget the function is there sometimes

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"Isnt if funny that when you use the looked at me function to see who's been perving at you profile that there are always the few ones that pop up here and there almost everyday who are either not on your friends list or have never chatted to you.....

Anyway just think it's great as im sure most people forget the function is there sometimes

Unless you crafty and hide yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldnt agree more! Just looked at yours for the fifth time since you winked! mmmmmm!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

lol having looked at your profile a few times does it not make you think what about the ones who have their privacy settings to "dont show" lol

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

I went for ages with very few 'looked at me' now get loads each day.

I think its things like changing avatar photo around and updating status, as people just like to perv profiles.

I have mailed a few couples where the looking ping pong has gone on, but generally nothing ever comes back. Then there are the ones who say no single guys, but keep looking, so don't mail them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who look 4 and 5 times a day are usually the ones with no pics on their profile, but are happy to ignore you but still look at your profile/pics

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Never really mail anyone because they have looked. I figure if they wanted to mail they would have. Have had some surprises about who is still looking but to be honest dont often use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway just think it's great as im sure most people forget the function is there sometimes

Unless you crafty and hide yourself

I hide! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me? Why yes! But the whole dont show thing sort of negates itself doesnt it? If we are all doing it what is the point? Apart from non site members - you cheapskates! lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Couldnt agree more! Just looked at yours for the fifth time since you winked! mmmmmm!

Haha we noticed :P x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unless you crafty and hide yourself

A lot of people probly dont hide themselves as they want a reaction off the ones they are looking at maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get absolutely loads of people viewing our profile but hardly any messages! Beginning to think we need to change our profile - or our deodrant!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We get absolutely loads of people viewing our profile but hardly any messages! Beginning to think we need to change our profile - or our deodrant!"

well we was going to say there was a smell around here

hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a memory like a goldfish so why I have to keep perving ahem sorry I mean looking at peoples profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I never send the first message, I tend to look at profiles more than once, that I am interested in meeting. So I would never hide the fact that I am looking. I can imagine that some members in the south west must be saying "ere Vera, that skinny dude has been looking at us again!". But if people tire of me looking without messaging, and they don't wish to contact me, they can always block me, that's never an issue, I don't tend to take offence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or what about the ones that start of by winking at you, so you send a message 'thanks for the wink' etc , you see that it's been read, and they cant even be botherd to reply, whats that all about? lol

(often think we should maybe use photoshop a bit or better still change mr mids ethnic group and change from 8inches to 12inches, then maybe we will get a reply?? lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you crafty and hide yourself

A lot of people probly dont hide themselves as they want a reaction off the ones they are looking at maybe?"

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ops, looked, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the reason why some people hide themselves is because of the "pouncers". Those people that believe because they have been looked at they are immediately going to get some and then get mardy when their immediate response to the view fails.

I think the site is great, but in the search criteria function, it would be good to filter out things like "won't meet smokers" etc, but on the other hand, we have all put ourselves out there to be viewed, the consequences of this action must be accepted for good or ill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that at least 90% of people have chosen the hide when looking option. That's why no one appears on my 'looked at me' list right? RIGHT???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sees thumbnail of cute girl with cock in mouth so obviously I have now peeked at the profile!

Couple of thoughts on why multiple visits to profiles.

1.) bad memory

2.) Just looked at the photos first time

3.) bad memory

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

if you post in forums think you can expect to be looked at by readers who aren't actually interested so the Looked at Me thing isn't really an indicator of interest. Having said that its always funny to see the recurring ones, or guys who we have had to reject in the past keep looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you post in forums think you can expect to be looked at by readers who aren't actually interested so the Looked at Me thing isn't really an indicator of interest. Having said that its always funny to see the recurring ones, or guys who we have had to reject in the past keep looking.

This is why I block people who have either backed out or said a polite no thanks, not my type etc. It's nothing personal, just making sure that we don't go through the same process again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never bother with the looked at me feature and if I did I wouldn't message those that had. If they want to message me they will.

Of course my profile has been looked at by far more who hide their status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a stalker I hide myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never bother with the looked at me feature and if I did I wouldn't message those that had. If they want to message me they will.

Of course my profile has been looked at by far more who hide their status

Thats the thing to be fair, why should we bother sending a message to someone that has looked at us if they dont message us first,

surely if they have looked and nothing more then that means they either dont like what they see, just into perving, or they are simply not interested in us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a stalker I hide myself

Is t possible to stalk with that noisy mobility scooter of yours? I am so dead right now.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a stalker I hide myself

So your the secret stalker then :P

hehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a stalker I hide myself

Is t possible to stalk with that noisy mobility scooter of yours? I am so dead right now.......

When I stop laughing you are def going to be so dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a stalker I hide myself

So your the secret stalker then :P

hehe x"

Sssshhh don't tell everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a stalker I hide myself

So your the secret stalker then :P

hehe x

Sssshhh don't tell everyone

Ok it's our little secret :P

hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a stalker I hide myself

Is t possible to stalk with that noisy mobility scooter of yours? I am so dead right now.......

When I stop laughing you are def going to be so dead

Can I outrun a mobility scooter..........again?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I have never looked at any of you or wanked over your pics on 'Funky's lunch time wank-time'. Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a stalker I hide myself

Is t possible to stalk with that noisy mobility scooter of yours? I am so dead right now.......

When I stop laughing you are def going to be so dead

Can I outrun a mobility scooter..........again?"

Bogof you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never looked at any of you or wanked over your pics on 'Funky's lunch time wank-time'. Ever."

And I'm the queen of Sheba

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could be another reason:

There are so many profiles (most I have read to be honest) that start with a list of negatives and updates that conclude with 'we will block you'. You kind of get the impression that as a single guy if you so much as think about sending a message to anyone you'll get run out of town.

I know that's not the case with yours OP (I just had a peek, will send a message that you can ignore on my fifth visit today) but it could be one reason why messages aren't sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check back on people's profiles to see if they have taken up smoking..... Life can be so stressful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I check back on people's profiles to see if they have taken up smoking..... Life can be so stressful"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never looked at any of you or wanked over your pics on 'Funky's lunch time wank-time'. Ever."

phew, thats a relief, I would HATE to be anyones' wank fest!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Anyway just think it's great as im sure most people forget the function is there sometimes

We have a few that look at our profile a few times a week.

Wouldn't email them as if they wanted to get in contact with us, then they would have by now.

Do like having a nose through who has had a peek at us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never looked at any of you or wanked over your pics on 'Funky's lunch time wank-time'. Ever.

phew, thats a relief, I would HATE to be anyones' wank fest!

I'll get me coat.......

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I have never looked at any of you or wanked over your pics on 'Funky's lunch time wank-time'. Ever."

Shit was I late for that again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I check back on people's profiles to see if they have taken up smoking..... Life can be so stressful"

Totally agree I went thro 20 the other night after 3 hrs of the worst stress I have had in ages, still at least I know where reverse is on my scooter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we always get the odd few women that have a look quiet a few times and me and mr mids often like to guess who they are looking at or if it's both of us lol, silly i know but it's fun lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I check back on people's profiles to see if they have taken up smoking..... Life can be so stressful

Totally agree I went thro 20 the other night after 3 hrs of the worst stress I have had in ages, still at least I know where reverse is on my scooter

3 hours of "whut!" and "eh!". If I recall....... And there is nothing wrong with my briefs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I check back on people's profiles to see if they have taken up smoking..... Life can be so stressful

Totally agree I went thro 20 the other night after 3 hrs of the worst stress I have had in ages, still at least I know where reverse is on my scooter

3 hours of "whut!" and "eh!". If I recall....... And there is nothing wrong with my briefs!"

Omg you had to go and mention your briefs , its taken a day and half to get image out of my head and now it's back! I need a lie down in a dark room now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't even realise people could look at who has viewed their profile, oops i guess i better give up lurking

In all honesty i sometimes don't message people for months who i have an interest in, not because im shy, but because i understand the impact of first impressions. A lazy or badly written message can get you instantly deleted as easily as someone simply not being interested. So i tend to wait until i think i have something interesting,cheeky,witty to say in first contact.

And then there is the fact people update their profiles, plus i have memory retention issues so i often recall being interested in someone and then forget specific things i was going to mention in first contact for example.. at the end of the day, some people will be interested and never make contact, others will.

Oh and the obvious... nothing wrong with window shopping.

I have never really used the who's looking at me function.. i don't even know if i can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just to hijack ofr a minute, Sorry OP, how far back in time does your looked at me go?

Mine is currently 15 hours, what are yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So just to hijack ofr a minute, Sorry OP, how far back in time does your looked at me go?

Mine is currently 15 hours, what are yours?"

2009

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So just to hijack ofr a minute, Sorry OP, how far back in time does your looked at me go?

Mine is currently 15 hours, what are yours?"

where do you find out how far back it goes, it dont have a time :s x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go to the bottom of the page and look at the time that person looked at you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just go to the bottom of the page and look at the time that person looked at you!"

we have last person on our list (well person at the very bottom) looked at us 2 hours ago x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

lol man in demand 3 weeks ago !!!! oh well need to go n cut n paste some male model shots

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I have never looked at any of you or wanked over your pics on 'Funky's lunch time wank-time'. Ever.

Shit was I late for that again?"

You always miss it!

Canada Room was flooded with my internet jizz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people "

Phew Im glad about that I thought I was the only secret stalker

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people

Phew Im glad about that I thought I was the only secret stalker

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shhhh dont tell everyone

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people

Phew Im glad about that I thought I was the only secret stalker

Stalk, stalk, stalk lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your all just a bunch of bloody pervy stalkers :P!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people

Phew Im glad about that I thought I was the only secret stalker

Stalk, stalk, stalk lol"

Im going to shoot them blooming birds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people

Phew Im glad about that I thought I was the only secret stalker

shhhh dont tell everyone

Hoo hoo too late now!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people

Phew Im glad about that I thought I was the only secret stalker

Stalk, stalk, stalk lol

Im going to shoot them blooming birds

I see you baby, shaking that ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Members of the secret stalking society

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people

Phew Im glad about that I thought I was the only secret stalker

shhhh dont tell everyone

Hoo hoo too late now!"
hee hee but ah would take it off for you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people

Phew Im glad about that I thought I was the only secret stalker

Stalk, stalk, stalk lol

Im going to shoot them blooming birds

I see you baby, shaking that ass

Long as its not me belly all will be good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we think you need to set up your own page 'secret stalkers' lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people

Phew Im glad about that I thought I was the only secret stalker

shhhh dont tell everyone

Hoo hoo too late now!hee hee but ah would take it off for you lol

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Well its no good on your avatar, I can't enlarge that pic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we think you need to set up your own page 'secret stalkers' lol x"

Long as I can write in invisible ink Im in

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

[Removed by poster at 04/10/11 15:47:28]

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"You won't see me appearing on any looked at me lists keep myself hidden and sneak up on people

Phew Im glad about that I thought I was the only secret stalker

shhhh dont tell everyone

Hoo hoo too late now!hee hee but ah would take it off for you lol

Well its no good on your avatar, I can't enlarge that pic lol

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lol changed just for you

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"we think you need to set up your own page 'secret stalkers' lol x

Long as I can write in invisible ink Im in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 04/10/11 15:47:28]"

now that is a secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple that continuously request friendship; in fact one weekend it was four times, never ever have they sent me a message so I've blocked them now and used my status to inform them that they didn't read my profile or maybe they just cannot read

and no I didn't name them but they hopefully will know it was aimed at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about those ones who dress in combat gear and black their faces, then climb over the fence and slip the back door latch. Then they go into your bath and fill it neck deep and leave the wet black smudged towels for you to clean up. They must be dead annoying.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I did say hello to someone the other day who often looks at my profile.

Maybe there just knocking one out to your pictures.

One of my friends texts me to tell me when hes knocked one out to the pictures hes got of me on his phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got really excited the other day by one guy in particular looking at me and I waited :D .....and waited

....and waited

nuffin

pooh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about those ones who dress in combat gear and black their faces, then climb over the fence and slip the back door latch. Then they go into your bath and fill it neck deep and leave the wet black smudged towels for you to clean up. They must be dead annoying."

Yeah sorry about that... i mean yeah that must be really annoying.

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By *anny.Man
over a year ago

Coventry

I cant talk for the others but I only go on your profile to knock one out to your photos.

Thanks for putting them up.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The ones who look 4 and 5 times a day are usually the ones with no pics on their profile, but are happy to ignore you but still look at your profile/pics"

Do you honestly think that people shouldn't look at pictures ? They are displayed publicly. People don't prize open your desk draw with a knife.

Nice trainers btw .... x

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