FabSwingers.com forum: A ex dilemma

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I finished with an ex 4 years ago after a few years of an up and down relationship,I'd often think about her more them my previous ex's as the sex was the most amazing I've ever had with anyone before or since..

At the start of last summer out of no where I received a message from her out of the blue asking if I was okay and would I like to meet up for a brew and a catch up..

Since we split she's moved on and had a baby with her new fella,but the relationship had broke down and was now a single mother,we got on as if we was nether apart and we've been meeting up and chatting loads for months now,when all of a sudden out of no where last night l received a text..

It went along the lines of are you free Friday do you want to come for dinner as her baby is at her fathers,l responded in yes sure,then out of no where she said we could have a quickly as she's child free and I've not had sex for 2 years...l didn't know how to take this and one thing lead to another with texting back and fourth about how good out sex life used to be..

The question is when I go around on Friday should I bring the subject up straight away or just pretend we never talked about it,or just see where the night leads us...She has said that she would love a cuddle in bed aswell,ln the past I've always crashed on the sofa when I've been around. .

Thoughts please

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Depends. Do you want to have her back in your life?

If not then a clean break and no contact might be easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think she'll be clear what her intentions are I would think of the consequences of what happens next if it goes that far.

I'd think carefully as although it may be great it may open a can of worms.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Think with your big head, not your little one

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Well what do YOU want? ... if its jusr to be friends with no sex involved , you need to tell her.

Or maybe you want to try again ....its up to.you .

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think she's single and horny. She knows she can get what she wants from you and would rather "scratch the itch" with someone she knows instead of going out on the pull.

She may be just using you, but are you happy to be used?

There is potential here for both of you to get hurt and it sounds like you still have feelings for her.

I would suggest some open and honest communication between you would be the best way to go. Is it just sex? Are either of you looking to re-kindle a proper relationship? Are you both looking for the same thing?

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