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"There's a school of thought which says the only true, unconditional who-would-you-die-for love is a mother's love for her children." Obviously they`ve never met our spawn. | |||
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"When my boy was wee I'd have taken a bullet for him. Now that he's a teenager, I'd take a bullet for him, depending on the circumstances..." I see exactly what you are saying. When my children took driving lessons I was mortified and panicky every time they went out on their own after passing the test. I then thought back to my life at their age and thought I did what I did without a second thought for my own wellbeing never mind what my parnts thought. It comes to a point where you have to let go and accept they dont need a parent dying for them - mostly because they have children they would die for. So as a grandparent who do you take the bullet for - the child or the grandchild? You have to draw the line at being a parent of a child and being a parent and and equal of an adult child. There is a difference. | |||
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"You are right, a mother's love is not always unconditional; my mother only loves my brother and I on the proviso that we pay her back for all those years she looked after us. I on the other hand love both my kids unconditionally and would do anything for them " I think my mum loved me but she prefered my brothers and sister. I only had one kid, but i always said that if ever i had another, i would treat them both exactly the same, no matter what. | |||
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"You are right, a mother's love is not always unconditional; my mother only loves my brother and I on the proviso that we pay her back for all those years she looked after us. I on the other hand love both my kids unconditionally and would do anything for them I think my mum loved me but she prefered my brothers and sister. I only had one kid, but i always said that if ever i had another, i would treat them both exactly the same, no matter what." Was just thinking about that, I could honestly say that I love mine equally but I am sure I have not treated them the same because they are all quite different... not that I would be unfair and knowingly do that.. I just think that I would respond to each one of them in a different way if that makes sense ? | |||
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"Parents and children can move from conditional to unconditional love at any time (once the children reach the age of reason), but most never do. Love for your children and vice versa is generally something that is never mentioned between you, but just is. Smotherly love is called that for a reason. I think some children wallow in it but the majority would be embarrassed by parents who cannot see them as equals and fully independent at some point in the future. I think my offspring are an awful lot older than most forum posters wee ones and I am in a much different place to those who have yet to experience the changes that their ageing and new roles as parents themselves, brings in your mindset, perhaps. I will always love my children thats for sure. " I agree with you (dont you challenge me on that one on teh smotherly love and also on the fact that you go through the different stages with them and the relationships inevitably change... | |||
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"My ex-husband would do anything for our children...he's not unique. There are women that kill their children for a new partner, to spite an ex etc. Impossible to generalise." yup. | |||
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