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The old she’s messing me about story!

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By *appy_days83 OP   Man
over a year ago

newport

Afternoon all! Just thought I would share my story with you since you lot have been there and can tell me what you think.

So I met this girl on here and we started speaking on a daily basis, she even went off this website because she said she was happy to just chat to me. Bare in mind we’ve only spoken on the phone and FaceTimed but never met face to face, so after a while we arranged to meet up. She’s saying all these things she looking forward to doing and then last minute she cancels! I said my bit to her but she kept on and by this time I knew it wasn’t going to happen, then she arranged another date and same again she cancelled last minute. By this time I had enough and just said do one you’re obviously messing me about.

After that we didn’t speak for a while and then she messaged me about a week ago! Saying how she’s missed me and wants to meet up! I knew it wasn’t going to happen but I thought I would play along, so we arranged to meet up and about 4 days before it she’s saying she’s not feeling well so I knew she was building up to cancel our date again so I said get well and we will meet when she’s better.

So now here comes the kick to the teeth. Didn’t hear from her for about 4 days then she messages me out of the blue apologising for not messaging me. I’ve already given up by then and wasn’t even bothered but it was a Tuesday so she kept me entertained. So she was talking to me and then she sends me a message saying she has something to tell me and I said shoot let’s hear what you have to say. She then goes on to tell me that she met some bloke the other night for a fuck, by this time I thought what the fuck! I just laughed because I couldn’t believe she told me that, we carried on arguing because she was giving the world sketchiest story and now I’ve just ignored her but she keeps messaging me.

What do you lot think?! Is she a little crazy?! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell her to fuck off, block her and be done with it

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

It sounds like your getting your chain pulled mate, probably by a bloke too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a bit? Lol totally playing u bud picking u up and dropping u when suited but i bet she'd freak if u told her u had a meet though id avoid her if it was me

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah just a wee bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she's a fruit short of a fruit basket...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also missing the basket as well

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By *appy_days83 OP   Man
over a year ago

newport

It hasn’t stopped me meeting other women and I’ve kept going on with my social life but the cheek of her sending me that message! Always attract the crazy ones! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either a bloke or a loon, get rid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds too dodgy. I wouldn't waste your time an energy on her anymore, I certainly couldn't be done with that pish.

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By *appy_days83 OP   Man
over a year ago

newport


"Either a bloke or a loon, get rid!"

She’s a loon pal, we’ve FaceTimed! But at least she kept me entertained on a boring week day lol. You know what they say about loony people! They tell the best stories lol

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Block and move on my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've given her way more of your time than she deserves.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My opinion is that you should have cut contact after the first cancellation and that you shouldn't be calling someone's mental health in to question when you facilitated the exchange.

You say you continued with it for your own enjoyment...time to stop.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

You were bored, she was bored , whatever , you both used each other for your own ends.

All a bit daft.

If someone messes you around, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're just as daft as her for entertaining the looney tune

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By *r n Mrs NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

eccles

Yep she crazy haha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't interact after you have decided it is not a relationship to pursue. Stop it dead.

You were also playing games op, so question yourself.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Welcome to Fab. Tell us a story we don’t know!

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