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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gonna get stick for this but what's with 'overweight' women stating they only want athletic hunky men. And then getting the arse when the feeling is not reciprocated. Think this has something to do with the lack of women on here making them get a million times more attention than they would in a bar so it goes to their heads. Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tin hat time

Sounds like you’d be better off in a bar op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get plenty of attention when out and about never had a problem with pulling it's all about confidence and attitude no matter what size or shape you are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they only want to fuck men they're attracted to the same as everyone else?

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By *lackitncoCouple
over a year ago

brownhills


"Gonna get stick for this but what's with 'overweight' women stating they only want athletic hunky men. And then getting the arse when the feeling is not reciprocated. Think this has something to do with the lack of women on here making them get a million times more attention than they would in a bar so it goes to their heads. Rant over"

Not only that can’t believe there are people that vet the pictures and how some of them get published.

That’s in general though not just babe,s

Buckle up it’s gonna b a bumpy ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you wouldn't stand in a bar or restraunt and shout that out so probably best not to here either.

After all nobody is going to agree with you male or female one wouldn't of thought .........

Rant over.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I'd like to hope that only a minority (and not all) of 'overweight' women get arsey when they're rejected. Of course no-one should get arsey simply because they're not what someone else wants.

On the other hand - anyone here is entitled to wish for whatever they want - even 'overweight' women. If their stated preference works for them on occasion then why not?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats wrong with an overweight women wanting a skinny guy is it not called preference?

same as there been nothing wrong with it been the other way around.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Some of you guy's are really not happy on here are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a fat one who likes younger fit men, I also find there are lots of younger fit men who are into me.

Am I offended if one isn’t of course not.

We like who we like don’t we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's all very complicated...maybe you could be helpful to us bloated overweight whales, and clarify the exact size and physique of men that it would be acceptable for us to approach without causing any offence to their equally bloated egos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s so not fair. All the fat birds eating up all the super hot guys.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Can assure you I get plenty of attention when I'm out lol .

Plus take anything on here with a pinch of salt . You get people who just want an ego boost everywhere not just on here and it's not just woman who are the offenders. I've found its the guys who kick off if you don't want to meet them as I should be greatfull they are considering me ...well no even fat birds have options .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of you guy's are really not happy on here are you "

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

Fuck sake this thread is going to cost me a lot in popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supply and demand means the ladies (mainly, with a few exceptions) have the pick of the men rather than the other way around so can set the bar very high and still get as many meets as they want. And why wouldn’t you choose your fantasy type if you could?

They are, of course, free to express their preferences and be choosy the same as anyone else.

If they get the arse when politely or respectfully turned down then, yes, they may have an entitlement issue so just block them, just as the ladies do to rude guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck sake this thread is going to cost me a lot in popcorn "

Forms queue.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Fuck sake this thread is going to cost me a lot in popcorn "

Did you not get the memo popcorn is banned in here now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s so not fair. All the fat birds eating up all the super hot guys.

"

Nom nom nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s so not fair. All the fat birds eating up all the super hot guys.

"

I’m greedy sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders in

Reads thread...

*smiles*

It must be Wednesday...

Slips back into the man cave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more. The lack of self-awareness with regards to what they perceive their male equivalent to b is astonishing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beatches

So not fair.

Stomps off to get more popcorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. If larger ladies are not your cuppa, don’t message/reply to them...(:

I get a LOT ago messages of ripped guys and yet I’m way more attracted to the classic “dad bod”/rugby type...

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Oops. ( as I slowly exit this thread )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in

Reads thread...

*smiles*

It must be Wednesday...

Slips back into the man cave "

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Great thread bro

Personally I hate the medium chicks, they are SOOOO medium!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of you guy's are really not happy on here are you "

I am and any overweight women can feel free to cast their gaze, and anything else for that matter, this way. Maybe that's why.

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon


"Fuck sake this thread is going to cost me a lot in popcorn

Forms queue. "
Salted, sweet. Or sweet and salty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder.

I don’t think how I look effects what sort of woman I’m attracted to, which happens to be bbw/curvy/larger women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck sake this thread is going to cost me a lot in popcorn

Forms queue. Salted, sweet. Or sweet and salty"

I like it salty please

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon


"Fuck sake this thread is going to cost me a lot in popcorn

Did you not get the memo popcorn is banned in here now!"
I'm afraid not. I wonder if the reason is due to shortages through fab

Forum threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about all those slender women who only want tall men.

Or the average sized ones who only want well endowed.

Or the guys with beards who just want 'BBW'.

Preferences are just that. You might not get them if you stick rigidly to them. No one should get ratty if they don't get what they want.

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon


"Fuck sake this thread is going to cost me a lot in popcorn

Forms queue. Salted, sweet. Or sweet and salty

I like it salty please "
You can have it salty

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Its upto the person who they choose...big small medium...beauty is in the eye of the beholder....

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london


"What about all those slender women who only want tall men.

Or the average sized ones who only want well endowed.

Or the guys with beards who just want 'BBW'.

Preferences are just that. You might not get them if you stick rigidly to them. No one should get ratty if they don't get what they want. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own. If larger ladies are not your cuppa, don’t message/reply to them...(:

I get a LOT ago messages of ripped guys and yet I’m way more attracted to the classic “dad bod”/rugby type... "

Can you spare a few ripped guys please?

The fat birds are devouring them as fast as they can join and us non big and beautiful ones are missing out

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"it's all very complicated...maybe you could be helpful to us bloated overweight whales, and clarify the exact size and physique of men that it would be acceptable for us to approach without causing any offence to their equally bloated egos?

"

Maybe some sort of spreadsheet, that allows you to input your metrics and output whether you should be able to approach someone.

Compare relative height/weights, attractiveness, ages, etc. Probably need to throw in distance as well. Obviously the gender ratios need to be factored in somehow also.

This might get complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about all those skinny women who only want fat guys...Hang on a minute.

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig


"I get plenty of attention when out and about never had a problem with pulling it's all about confidence and attitude no matter what size or shape you are x"

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Couldn't agree more. The lack of self-awareness with regards to what they perceive their male equivalent to b is astonishing."

It's not about only being 'entitled' to aspire to an 'equivalent'. It's about putting what you're looking for out there in the hope you get interest from said type and taking things from there. Presumably if this tactic wasn't working at all for the sort of women who you believe to have ideas above their station, they'd reconsider ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fat woman who has dated primarily skinny guys or slightly built guys so I am attracted to those types of guys sexually but if a guy like that wasn't interested I'd wish him well on here then block him and move on life's to short to throw the toys out of the pram

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they only want to fuck men they're attracted to the same as everyone else?

"

And it's not always physical atteaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gonna get stick for this but what's with 'overweight' women stating they only want athletic hunky men. And then getting the arse when the feeling is not reciprocated. Think this has something to do with the lack of women on here making them get a million times more attention than they would in a bar so it goes to their heads. Rant over"

I think you're right.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Some of you guy's are really not happy on here are you "

Only if I can’t get my ironing done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gonna get stick for this but what's with 'overweight' women stating they only want athletic hunky men. And then getting the arse when the feeling is not reciprocated. Think this has something to do with the lack of women on here making them get a million times more attention than they would in a bar so it goes to their heads. Rant over"

A million times more attention? Statistically impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s easy to pick on the fat birds, it pisses me off.

I had a guy beg to meet me and when I refused got called a fat slag ... go figure.

I am a confidant feisty attractive fat bird, men like confidence in a woman. And the ones who don’t well the average size ladies can have

I can’t have them all can I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of you guy's are really not happy on here are you

Only if I can’t get my ironing done "
I only seem to get irony in here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fat bird that doesn't want hunky, ripped athletic men, so as to avoid being the brunt of a remark just like yours OP.

Just delete messages from those who message you, that you have no interest in. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another body shaming thread. Yawn x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own. If larger ladies are not your cuppa, don’t message/reply to them...(:

I get a LOT ago messages of ripped guys and yet I’m way more attracted to the classic “dad bod”/rugby type...

Can you spare a few ripped guys please?

The fat birds are devouring them as fast as they can join and us non big and beautiful ones are missing out "

I shall redirect them!! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get it op. You don't think much of overweight women. Tell us another story?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get it op. You don't think much of overweight women. Tell us another story?"

And make it something that's actually controversial this time? I was a little disappointed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman. "

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits."

Bullshit

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder.

I don’t think how I look effects what sort of woman I’m attracted to, which happens to be bbw/curvy/larger women. "

Well said,I think some men feel they speak for all men on men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want no seven stone weakling

Or a boy who thinks he's a girl

I'm after a hunk of a guy

An experienced man of the world

There ain't no way that I'll make do

With anything less than I'm used to

If I have a man tonight

He's gotta be right, right, right

So Macho

He's got to be

So Macho

He's got to be big and strong enough

To turn me on

He's got to have, big blue eyes

Be able to satisfy

He's got to be big and strong enough

To turn me on

I'm tired of taking the lead

I want a man who will dominate me

Someone who will love and protect me

And take care of my every need

Now I don't mean to be personal

But a guy like that's more preferable

In my humble point of view

Than any of you ....

.

.

Who the FUCK does Sinitta think she is!?!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits."

odd so many men lie about that then...some men definitely prefer timid shy women, but there is a very good reason for that. Men with an ounce of intelligence and confidence tend to be attracted to women who are also intelligent and confident...some men though are pretty spineless and prefer someone they feel they can bully and see as inferior just to stoke their fragile little egos. Men with an ounce of self- confidence and self respect are not put off by women with the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits."

And means they're more likely to put up with any old crap that the manly man wants to dish out. Yeah. I can see that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gonna get stick for this but what's with 'overweight' women stating they only want athletic hunky men. And then getting the arse when the feeling is not reciprocated. Think this has something to do with the lack of women on here making them get a million times more attention than they would in a bar so it goes to their heads. Rant over"

No its because its about personal preference. I get 'rejected' 95% of the time. I just dont think of it as rejection I think that its only that i'm not what they are looking for. I'm a bigger guy and mostly I happen to prefer larger ladies but not always because it also depends on the personality. I never get arsey when somebody ignores me or says no thank you Its their body their choice and whoever or whatever someone prefers is down to them! Nothing to do with anything going to their heads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No its because its about personal preference. I get 'rejected' 95% of the time. I just dont think of it as rejection I think that its only that i'm not what they are looking for. I'm a bigger guy and mostly I happen to prefer larger ladies but not always because it also depends on the personality. I never get arsey when somebody ignores me or says no thank you Its their body their choice and whoever or whatever someone prefers is down to them! Nothing to do with anything going to their heads."

A 95% rejection rate means a 5% success rate! Hashtag #WinningAtFab!

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Its not something I request personally but I don't see the harm. I'm here to fulfil my fantasies and if that so happens to be one of them why the fuck not? Especially when some men are happy to fulfill it. Just carry on enjoying yourself and pay no mind to what others do and if someone's rude either report and block and be glad you swerved meeting them!

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Gonna get stick for this but what's with 'overweight' women stating they only want athletic hunky men. And then getting the arse when the feeling is not reciprocated. Think this has something to do with the lack of women on here making them get a million times more attention than they would in a bar so it goes to their heads. Rant over"

It's something called personal choice. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another great thread to use as a filter blocker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not exactly controversial to say that if I was the only man in the world I'd be alot more in demand and therefore probably slightly more picky .

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Some of you guy's are really not happy on here are you "

Indeed. OP seems to have a real problem with this subject.

But damn! It's SO sexy hearing him whinge on about it, don't you think?

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"Another great thread to use as a filter blocker

"

It's what the Forums are for!

;-)

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits."

Bollocks.

I'd say that was only a certain type of man. And I use the term 'man' loosely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone actually understood what he's saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

Bollocks.

I'd say that was only a certain type of man. And I use the term 'man' loosely"

Agreed

The type who like to control a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another great thread to use as a filter blocker

It's what the Forums are for!

;-)"

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I guess it’s a bit like some of the ugly grotty men who message the attractive ladies on here and then get all abusive when they get rejected.

One man’s ‘overweight’ is another man’s fantasy.

One woman’s ‘ugly’ is another woman’s hot.

And vice versa.

Each to their own

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Has anyone actually understood what he's saying? "

Yeah athletic men don't want overweight women and then the overweight woman gets arsy when the athletic guy tells the overweight women to sod off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

odd so many men lie about that then...some men definitely prefer timid shy women, but there is a very good reason for that. Men with an ounce of intelligence and confidence tend to be attracted to women who are also intelligent and confident...some men though are pretty spineless and prefer someone they feel they can bully and see as inferior just to stoke their fragile little egos. Men with an ounce of self- confidence and self respect are not put off by women with the same."

You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it’s a bit like some of the ugly grotty men who message the attractive ladies on here and then get all abusive when they get rejected.

One man’s ‘overweight’ is another man’s fantasy.

One woman’s ‘ugly’ is another woman’s hot.

And vice versa.

Each to their own "

Agree totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not exactly controversial to say that if I was the only man in the world I'd be alot more in demand and therefore probably slightly more picky .

"

If you were the only man in the world you'd be too busy running like f@#k to be picky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your rant just makes you sound butt-hurt, possibly slightly brattish OP.

Been turned down once too often?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your a five on the attractiveness scale and you then reduce all the 10,9 and 8s to practically nothing, its pretty fucking obvious your 5 just became alot more attractive .

I really don't know why people get arsey over human nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

odd so many men lie about that then...some men definitely prefer timid shy women, but there is a very good reason for that. Men with an ounce of intelligence and confidence tend to be attracted to women who are also intelligent and confident...some men though are pretty spineless and prefer someone they feel they can bully and see as inferior just to stoke their fragile little egos. Men with an ounce of self- confidence and self respect are not put off by women with the same.

You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes."

Are you for real?

Confidence does not make you masculine and butch.

Wow Just wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

odd so many men lie about that then...some men definitely prefer timid shy women, but there is a very good reason for that. Men with an ounce of intelligence and confidence tend to be attracted to women who are also intelligent and confident...some men though are pretty spineless and prefer someone they feel they can bully and see as inferior just to stoke their fragile little egos. Men with an ounce of self- confidence and self respect are not put off by women with the same.

You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes."

what a load of crap! you think women are either timid or act like men? really? you must meet some very strange women. and no, Anglo men do not on the whole prefer women from parts of the world where they are much more submissive...some men do, and it usually a very specific type in my experience.

your opinion is your opinion, but maybe stop lumping in all men as being as inexperienced and unintelligent as you seem to be.

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over a year ago


"Your rant just makes you sound butt-hurt, possibly slightly brattish OP.

Been turned down once too often?"

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variety is the spice of life

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"Variety is the spice of life

"

You're thinking of cinnamon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your a five on the attractiveness scale and you then reduce all the 10,9 and 8s to practically nothing, its pretty fucking obvious your 5 just became alot more attractive .

I really don't know why people get arsey over human nature "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He needs to get laid

But not by a fat masculine butch woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your rant just makes you sound butt-hurt, possibly slightly brattish OP.

Been turned down once too often?

My thoughts exactly."

Budge over so I can hide with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

odd so many men lie about that then...some men definitely prefer timid shy women, but there is a very good reason for that. Men with an ounce of intelligence and confidence tend to be attracted to women who are also intelligent and confident...some men though are pretty spineless and prefer someone they feel they can bully and see as inferior just to stoke their fragile little egos. Men with an ounce of self- confidence and self respect are not put off by women with the same.

You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes."

That is the biggest load of bollocks I've heard on here for a while...

And that's some achievement!!!

Please do not include me in your generalisation...I prefer women who can think and have their own opinions not some poor woman who gets treated as a doormat by some lout who doesnt deserve her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Variety is the spice of life

You're thinking of cinnamon."

Dammit I thought it was nutmeg

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"If your a five on the attractiveness scale and you then reduce all the 10,9 and 8s to practically nothing, its pretty fucking obvious your 5 just became alot more attractive .

I really don't know why people get arsey over human nature "

Which or who’s scale is that? Who decides who’s attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs to get laid

But not by a fat masculine butch woman.

"

I do though..pretty please

Lol

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well surely fat girls can have preferences to ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

odd so many men lie about that then...some men definitely prefer timid shy women, but there is a very good reason for that. Men with an ounce of intelligence and confidence tend to be attracted to women who are also intelligent and confident...some men though are pretty spineless and prefer someone they feel they can bully and see as inferior just to stoke their fragile little egos. Men with an ounce of self- confidence and self respect are not put off by women with the same.

You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes.

That is the biggest load of bollocks I've heard on here for a while...

And that's some achievement!!!

Please do not include me in your generalisation...I prefer women who can think and have their own opinions not some poor woman who gets treated as a doormat by some lout who doesnt deserve her."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People fancy who they fancy, for a million different reasons. People are also entitled to love themselves and feel confident in their own skin, regardless of anyone else's perception.

I hide my face pics for privacy, and when i share them through messages I often get comments along the lines of "you're too good to be on here"... apparently as a woman, if you're perceived to be "attractive" you can't possibly enjoy no strings sex.

I guess I just wanted to throw into the hat that as someone who might not fall under the umbrella of the "overweight" women being criticised here, I don't fancy so-called "attractive" men with six packs, chiselled jawlines etc. I fancy people with a naughty glint in their eyes, people who i click with. Because we all fancy whoever we fancy for our own reasons, regardless of what we look like ourselves. Isn't this kind of like saying people shouldn't fancy those with a different colour skin? We don't have to be attracted to people who look like us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs to get laid

But not by a fat masculine butch woman.

I do though..pretty please

Lol"

I don’t want to have more than my quota

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"well surely fat girls can have preferences to .."

Don’t be silly... how very dare we try punching below our weight?!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"People fancy who they fancy, for a million different reasons. People are also entitled to love themselves and feel confident in their own skin, regardless of anyone else's perception.

I hide my face pics for privacy, and when i share them through messages I often get comments along the lines of "you're too good to be on here"... apparently as a woman, if you're perceived to be "attractive" you can't possibly enjoy no strings sex.

I guess I just wanted to throw into the hat that as someone who might not fall under the umbrella of the "overweight" women being criticised here, I don't fancy so-called "attractive" men with six packs, chiselled jawlines etc. I fancy people with a naughty glint in their eyes, people who i click with. Because we all fancy whoever we fancy for our own reasons, regardless of what we look like ourselves. Isn't this kind of like saying people shouldn't fancy those with a different colour skin? We don't have to be attracted to people who look like us. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

odd so many men lie about that then...some men definitely prefer timid shy women, but there is a very good reason for that. Men with an ounce of intelligence and confidence tend to be attracted to women who are also intelligent and confident...some men though are pretty spineless and prefer someone they feel they can bully and see as inferior just to stoke their fragile little egos. Men with an ounce of self- confidence and self respect are not put off by women with the same.

You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes."

You’re generalising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has a type then that's fine, accept it and move on. Attractiveness is more than just the physical.

I do think people should be a little more open minded but it's whatever turns you on.

Horses for courses or should that be nags for shags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs to get laid

But not by a fat masculine butch woman.

I do though..pretty please

Lol

I don’t want to have more than my quota "

Awww go on...be a bit greedy for once lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits."

I guess I'm not a typical man then. I always knew that anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gonna get stick for this but what's with 'overweight' women stating they only want athletic hunky men. And then getting the arse when the feeling is not reciprocated. Think this has something to do with the lack of women on here making them get a million times more attention than they would in a bar so it goes to their heads. Rant over"

Well if you don't want them OP I'll happily show them a good time.

Maybe them getting "the arse" has nothing to do with the attention and everything to do with the fact you're an *******

P.S I'm a size 6/8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well surely fat girls can have preferences to ..

Don’t be silly... how very dare we try punching below our weight?! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this just a wind up thread?... Because it looks and reads like a thread thats just been put on here to wind people up and get lots of responses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs to get laid

But not by a fat masculine butch woman.

I do though..pretty please

Lol

I don’t want to have more than my quota

Awww go on...be a bit greedy for once lol "

Are you saying I should be a greedy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this site was supposed to be about fun and sex!

Who cares if one type of person chooses to sleep with another type - can’t we all just get along lol

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

odd so many men lie about that then...some men definitely prefer timid shy women, but there is a very good reason for that. Men with an ounce of intelligence and confidence tend to be attracted to women who are also intelligent and confident...some men though are pretty spineless and prefer someone they feel they can bully and see as inferior just to stoke their fragile little egos. Men with an ounce of self- confidence and self respect are not put off by women with the same.

You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes.

what a load of crap! you think women are either timid or act like men? really? you must meet some very strange women. and no, Anglo men do not on the whole prefer women from parts of the world where they are much more submissive...some men do, and it usually a very specific type in my experience.

your opinion is your opinion, but maybe stop lumping in all men as being as inexperienced and unintelligent as you seem to be."

Oh don’t discourage him, it’s the most I’ve laughed all day!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


" You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes."

Well it’s not for me to criticise your preferences but I think saying that ‘Anglo men prefer...blah blah blah’ because it’s your preference is utter rubbish.

Not to mention the 1950’s rang looking for you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs to get laid

But not by a fat masculine butch woman.

I do though..pretty please

Lol

I don’t want to have more than my quota

Awww go on...be a bit greedy for once lol

Are you saying I should be a greedy girl "

Damn...got that wrong didnt I?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Is this just a wind up thread?... Because it looks and reads like a thread thats just been put on here to wind people up and get lots of responses... "

No, the OP made a similar comment earlier on another thread about there being too many fat birds & not enough hot ones on Fab

Coz apparently they’re mutually exclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

odd so many men lie about that then...some men definitely prefer timid shy women, but there is a very good reason for that. Men with an ounce of intelligence and confidence tend to be attracted to women who are also intelligent and confident...some men though are pretty spineless and prefer someone they feel they can bully and see as inferior just to stoke their fragile little egos. Men with an ounce of self- confidence and self respect are not put off by women with the same.

You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes.

what a load of crap! you think women are either timid or act like men? really? you must meet some very strange women. and no, Anglo men do not on the whole prefer women from parts of the world where they are much more submissive...some men do, and it usually a very specific type in my experience.

your opinion is your opinion, but maybe stop lumping in all men as being as inexperienced and unintelligent as you seem to be.

Oh don’t discourage him, it’s the most I’ve laughed all day!! "

good point! he is very amusing! its like a little Alf Garnett in the making!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


" You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes.

Well it’s not for me to criticise your preferences but I think saying that ‘Anglo men prefer...blah blah blah’ because it’s your preference is utter rubbish.

Not to mention the 1950’s rang looking for you... "

I thought it was Harvey Weinstein’s fab profile?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes."

Forgive me, but you are clearly confusing female confidence with the late 90’s ladette culture...?

If you prefer your ladies more submissive that is fine but that’s nothing to do with confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs to get laid

But not by a fat masculine butch woman.

I do though..pretty please

Lol

I don’t want to have more than my quota

Awww go on...be a bit greedy for once lol

Are you saying I should be a greedy girl

Damn...got that wrong didnt I?

"

Made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this just a wind up thread?... Because it looks and reads like a thread thats just been put on here to wind people up and get lots of responses...

No, the OP made a similar comment earlier on another thread about there being too many fat birds & not enough hot ones on Fab

Coz apparently they’re mutually exclusive "

Wasnt it more there's too many fat women and not wanting only hot one left to not get fat. I just hope none of the women he's met see that comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the style of paddy a la take me out....

*Hands on hips everyone*

#Awkward!

In all seriousness though oreo, it can be very angering when you turn someone down and they then become bratty over it. There's just no need! Plenty more fish in the sea and all that.

Oh, and in the real world, athletic people don't just get with athletic people or "overweight" with "overweight" AND! did you know that overweight people can also be ATHLETIC?? Mind. Blown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs to get laid

But not by a fat masculine butch woman.

I do though..pretty please

Lol

I don’t want to have more than my quota

Awww go on...be a bit greedy for once lol

Are you saying I should be a greedy girl

Damn...got that wrong didnt I?

Made me laugh "

Always a good start at least lol

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"

If you prefer your ladies more submissive that is fine but that’s nothing to do with confidence "

Xactly! The confidence to be yourself, comfortable with all you are (and all you are not) is the most attractive thing anyone can be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, I haven't noticed that.

Maybe their feelings were hurt by the rebuke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own. If larger ladies are not your cuppa, don’t message/reply to them...(:

I get a LOT ago messages of ripped guys and yet I’m way more attracted to the classic “dad bod”/rugby type...

Can you spare a few ripped guys please?

The fat birds are devouring them as fast as they can join and us non big and beautiful ones are missing out

I shall redirect them!! Haha"

Thank you

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

Bullshit "

I agree The question I am asked time and again by the ladies is; "What's your type?" To which I always reply; "A confident woman, who knows what she wants"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's all very complicated...maybe you could be helpful to us bloated overweight whales, and clarify the exact size and physique of men that it would be acceptable for us to approach without causing any offence to their equally bloated egos?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't agree more. The lack of self-awareness with regards to what they perceive their male equivalent to b is astonishing."

Whoa! Steady on there! Are you saying I'm only supposed to fuck 52 yr old, fat men? Have you seen two rhinos trying to get it on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

Bullshit

I agree The question I am asked time and again by the ladies is; "What's your type?" To which I always reply; "A confident woman, who knows what she wants" "

Agreed, I have so many men say my feisty confidence is appealing.

Unless they think I’m a fat masculine butch loser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

Bullshit

I agree The question I am asked time and again by the ladies is; "What's your type?" To which I always reply; "A confident woman, who knows what she wants" "

I agree wholeheartedly! A confident woman who knows what she wants, and is going to fucking get it!

Pick up those toys you threw out of the pram OP. Its time to adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this site was supposed to be about fun and sex!

Who cares if one type of person chooses to sleep with another type - can’t we all just get along lol "

I like hairy men.

Just saying.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I only want to fuck fat ugly bald men with hairy toes.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"Couldn't agree more. The lack of self-awareness with regards to what they perceive their male equivalent to b is astonishing.

Whoa! Steady on there! Are you saying I'm only supposed to fuck 52 yr old, fat men? Have you seen two rhinos trying to get it on?

"

Hi, did you call me?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Sorry, what did I miss? I just popped off to cancel a few upcoming meets with muscly guys I’m obviously punching above my weight with (no pun intended ). I’ve also told Gomez to stop running & going to the gym in case he becomes too athletic & we have to split up.

My actual preference is a dad bod, but generally broad & hairy will suffice for my perfect guy

But when it comes to it, it’s personality that attracts me more than anything, which is why I prefer club meets. Arrogance is the ugliest trait of all. Closely followed by misogyny.

There’s at least 2 ‘men’ on this thread that have displayed both & wouldn’t be welcome at any of my events!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

Bullshit

I agree The question I am asked time and again by the ladies is; "What's your type?" To which I always reply; "A confident woman, who knows what she wants"

I agree wholeheartedly! A confident woman who knows what she wants, and is going to fucking get it!

Pick up those toys you threw out of the pram OP. Its time to adult."

White knighting to try and get women to like you is pretty embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

Bullshit

I agree The question I am asked time and again by the ladies is; "What's your type?" To which I always reply; "A confident woman, who knows what she wants"

I agree wholeheartedly! A confident woman who knows what she wants, and is going to fucking get it!

Pick up those toys you threw out of the pram OP. Its time to adult.

White knighting to try and get women to like you is pretty embarrassing "

To be fair, he's quite a nice chap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point. "

And your point was...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only want to fuck fat ugly bald men with hairy toes."

Will shave my head immediately

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point. "

There was a point?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point. "

I get your point. Another point is that people like who they like and you shouldn't think it's wrong for a fat woman to only want athletic, hunky men. Them crying about being turned down by athletic, hunky men is them feeling the hurt that fat men feel when hot, slim women turn them down. Some people don't like getting a refusal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point. "
So it's not about Joe brand seeking Tom hardy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point.

And your point was...?"

Fat women who only want fit men throwing their toys out of the pram when they are turned down by the fit men. I think he's saying it's hypocritical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point. "

maybe you could explain it a little more simply...some of the words you used were quite long, and thats sometimes a bit difficult for us to get, what with our tiny kitten-filled brains...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point.

And your point was...?

Fat women who only want fit men throwing their toys out of the pram when they are turned down by the fit men. I think he's saying it's hypocritical. "

yes, i think people got that quite clearly...and have replied to that..its just back pedalling to claim he's been misunderstood..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the style of paddy a la take me out....

*Hands on hips everyone*

#Awkward!

In all seriousness though oreo, it can be very angering when you turn someone down and they then become bratty over it. There's just no need! Plenty more fish in the sea and all that.

Oh, and in the real world, athletic people don't just get with athletic people or "overweight" with "overweight" AND! did you know that overweight people can also be ATHLETIC?? Mind. Blown."

I've said it once I'll say it again... I do agree that it's not nice when someone gets bratty about being rejected OP.

You have dug yourself a massive hole now putting the extra fluff around what you wanted to say. We live and learn.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point. "

Not sure what point exactly you think has been missed?

The one where you generalised and suggested that women getting attention on here goes to their heads?

Or the one where you generalised (again) and suggested that 'overweight' women get the arse if they're rejected?

I think both 'points' have been more than adequately got and countered to be honest - especially as you didn't provide anything at all to back up your ludicrous claims

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I only want to fuck fat ugly bald men with hairy toes."

Does a 'combover' count as bald?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody can list a preference for anything they like surely. If they get what they want then good luck to them, if they don’t then it’s nobodys concern but theirs. I don’t know why people get hung up on what other people are looking for, just concentrate on those that are looking for what you can offer.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point. "

Ah yes... that old chestnut!

Misunderstood you say... right, explain your point in basic terms, you know just so there’s absolutely no doubt in our pretty little minds as to what you mean.

Hurry up though, I need to be back in the kitchen in exactly 3 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people do think that we should stick to our own class/standard of people.

If I did that I wouldn't have had much sex in the last 8 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point. "

Oh I read it and got the point.

I just totally and absolutely disagreed with it.

Any woman...

Fat Thin

Tall Short

Pretty Plain

Or anywhere in between or in any combination is entitled to choose who they like and in my experience I've never known a woman get arsey

That unfortunately is usually the province of us men I'm ashamed to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody can list a preference for anything they like surely. If they get what they want then good luck to them, if they don’t then it’s nobodys concern but theirs. I don’t know why people get hung up on what other people are looking for, just concentrate on those that are looking for what you can offer. "

I think he's saying that women are complaining when the men they like don't like them.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point. "

This was a 'controversial' slant on the classic 'Look at me' thread OP, well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP was making the point that overweight women don't like being turned down by toned men and get ratty about it.

I think that point was missed OP because it's not the experience of most of the people on here. We're all adults and are on here knowing we could be rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without evidence of these women getting arsey it's just another forum story.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Sellers market.

If a lady can have a casual shag with someone they desire then good luck to them.

Don’t see it that often in real life as per the Moped analogy.

But you do see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only want to fuck fat ugly bald men with hairy toes."

I knew we were a match made in heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only want to fuck fat ugly bald men with hairy toes.

I knew we were a match made in heaven "

I’ll throw in my hairy ears, nose, back and arse in for free too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone getting lots of attention that they don't usually get in the 'outside world' may get a massive ego and become rude and obnoxious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread went as predicted. No one really reading what I put and most of those that did missed the point. So it's not about Joe brand seeking Tom hardy. "

I don’t think Tom Hardy is anything special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't agree more. The lack of self-awareness with regards to what they perceive their male equivalent to b is astonishing.

Whoa! Steady on there! Are you saying I'm only supposed to fuck 52 yr old, fat men? Have you seen two rhinos trying to get it on?

Hi, did you call me?

"

Ummm if she didn’t, I will.. you are so my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't agree more. The lack of self-awareness with regards to what they perceive their male equivalent to b is astonishing.

Whoa! Steady on there! Are you saying I'm only supposed to fuck 52 yr old, fat men? Have you seen two rhinos trying to get it on?

Hi, did you call me?

"

You're too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone getting lots of attention that they don't usually get in the 'outside world' may get a massive ego and become rude and obnoxious."

I think that is a good way of describing the important question in the OP. Unfortunately he framed it in a way that has proven to be inflammatory and seen as derogatory. Without really understanding his intention the meaning of his communication of the question is in the response he has got.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone getting lots of attention that they don't usually get in the 'outside world' may get a massive ego and become rude and obnoxious.

I think that is a good way of describing the important question in the OP. Unfortunately he framed it in a way that has proven to be inflammatory and seen as derogatory. Without really understanding his intention the meaning of his communication of the question is in the response he has got."

Exactly. But no-one ever bothers to clarify what the OP meant on threads like this, they just leap in angrily.

A man regularly posts a thread about his love for fat women and he always gets abuse for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone getting lots of attention that they don't usually get in the 'outside world' may get a massive ego and become rude and obnoxious.

I think that is a good way of describing the important question in the OP. Unfortunately he framed it in a way that has proven to be inflammatory and seen as derogatory. Without really understanding his intention the meaning of his communication of the question is in the response he has got.

Exactly. But no-one ever bothers to clarify what the OP meant on threads like this, they just leap in angrily.

A man regularly posts a thread about his love for fat women and he always gets abuse for it. "

That’s the incongruous nature of the Fab forum *shrugs*

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Someone getting lots of attention that they don't usually get in the 'outside world' may get a massive ego and become rude and obnoxious.

I think that is a good way of describing the important question in the OP. Unfortunately he framed it in a way that has proven to be inflammatory and seen as derogatory. Without really understanding his intention the meaning of his communication of the question is in the response he has got.

Exactly. But no-one ever bothers to clarify what the OP meant on threads like this, they just leap in angrily.

A man regularly posts a thread about his love for fat women and he always gets abuse for it. "

Perhaps the lesson learned would be that the OP should have picked his words more carefully then? Especially as by his own admission and the thread title he knew what he was saying was likely to be contentious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone getting lots of attention that they don't usually get in the 'outside world' may get a massive ego and become rude and obnoxious.

I think that is a good way of describing the important question in the OP. Unfortunately he framed it in a way that has proven to be inflammatory and seen as derogatory. Without really understanding his intention the meaning of his communication of the question is in the response he has got.

Exactly. But no-one ever bothers to clarify what the OP meant on threads like this, they just leap in angrily.

A man regularly posts a thread about his love for fat women and he always gets abuse for it. "

Oooh come on. The op knew exactly what response he was looking for and he got it. You only have to look at the thread title and the wording of the op. He thinks he's being all controversial by calling out women with over inflated egos and how dare they because have they seen how fat they are? What were they expecting going after fit hunky men. Blame the site for their inflated egos that match the size of their arses. I'm pretty sure that's what he meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone getting lots of attention that they don't usually get in the 'outside world' may get a massive ego and become rude and obnoxious.

I think that is a good way of describing the important question in the OP. Unfortunately he framed it in a way that has proven to be inflammatory and seen as derogatory. Without really understanding his intention the meaning of his communication of the question is in the response he has got.

Exactly. But no-one ever bothers to clarify what the OP meant on threads like this, they just leap in angrily.

A man regularly posts a thread about his love for fat women and he always gets abuse for it.

Oooh come on. The op knew exactly what response he was looking for and he got it. You only have to look at the thread title and the wording of the op. He thinks he's being all controversial by calling out women with over inflated egos and how dare they because have they seen how fat they are? What were they expecting going after fit hunky men. Blame the site for their inflated egos that match the size of their arses. I'm pretty sure that's what he meant. "

Spot on, I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gonna get stick for this but what's with 'overweight' women stating they only want athletic hunky men. And then getting the arse when the feeling is not reciprocated. Think this has something to do with the lack of women on here making them get a million times more attention than they would in a bar so it goes to their heads. Rant over"

You're spot on mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this just a wind up thread?... Because it looks and reads like a thread thats just been put on here to wind people up and get lots of responses...

No, the OP made a similar comment earlier on another thread about there being too many fat birds & not enough hot ones on Fab

Coz apparently they’re mutually exclusive "

Ah, right. Does the OP not want to meet anyone from the forums in future then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my.... There's sweeping generalisations all over the place on this thread!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I guess it’s a bit like some of the ugly grotty men who message the attractive ladies on here and then get all abusive when they get rejected.

One man’s ‘overweight’ is another man’s fantasy.

One woman’s ‘ugly’ is another woman’s hot.

And vice versa.

Each to their own "

Haha, well said. And what about all those rich obese men in those bars with Barbie dolls on their arm huh, I hope the OP will be giving them a lecture on justice too!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


" men like confidence in a woman.

That's a feminist lie. The majority of men actuallt prefer a woman to be timid and shy, as they are typically feminine traits.

odd so many men lie about that then...some men definitely prefer timid shy women, but there is a very good reason for that. Men with an ounce of intelligence and confidence tend to be attracted to women who are also intelligent and confident...some men though are pretty spineless and prefer someone they feel they can bully and see as inferior just to stoke their fragile little egos. Men with an ounce of self- confidence and self respect are not put off by women with the same.

You're generalizing. I prefer timid women as I perceive them as "cute" and "feminine", whereas loud-mouthed brash women come across masculine and butch. This is why Anglo men tend to prefer women from more traditional parts of the world, where the women don't behave like blokes.

That is the biggest load of bollocks I've heard on here for a while...

And that's some achievement!!!

Please do not include me in your generalisation...I prefer women who can think and have their own opinions not some poor woman who gets treated as a doormat by some lout who doesnt deserve her."

Ha, well said that man!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Oh my.... There's sweeping generalisations all over the place on this thread! "

Twas ever thus..

Not even Thursday..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it’s a bit like some of the ugly grotty men who message the attractive ladies on here and then get all abusive when they get rejected.

One man’s ‘overweight’ is another man’s fantasy.

One woman’s ‘ugly’ is another woman’s hot.

And vice versa.

Each to their own

Haha, well said. And what about all those rich obese men in those bars with Barbie dolls on their arm huh, I hope the OP will be giving them a lecture on justice too!!"

It must be a pheromone given off only by vast amounts of money! Or those chaps may have a wealth of personality too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone getting lots of attention that they don't usually get in the 'outside world' may get a massive ego and become rude and obnoxious.

I think that is a good way of describing the important question in the OP. Unfortunately he framed it in a way that has proven to be inflammatory and seen as derogatory. Without really understanding his intention the meaning of his communication of the question is in the response he has got.

Exactly. But no-one ever bothers to clarify what the OP meant on threads like this, they just leap in angrily.

A man regularly posts a thread about his love for fat women and he always gets abuse for it.

Oooh come on. The op knew exactly what response he was looking for and he got it. You only have to look at the thread title and the wording of the op. He thinks he's being all controversial by calling out women with over inflated egos and how dare they because have they seen how fat they are? What were they expecting going after fit hunky men. Blame the site for their inflated egos that match the size of their arses. I'm pretty sure that's what he meant. "

But we still have to make the assumption that’s what he meant. What’s the real shame is the exploration of an important question has got distorted by the perjorative way he framed his question and his perceived dubious derogatory intent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone getting lots of attention that they don't usually get in the 'outside world' may get a massive ego and become rude and obnoxious.

I think that is a good way of describing the important question in the OP. Unfortunately he framed it in a way that has proven to be inflammatory and seen as derogatory. Without really understanding his intention the meaning of his communication of the question is in the response he has got.

Exactly. But no-one ever bothers to clarify what the OP meant on threads like this, they just leap in angrily.

A man regularly posts a thread about his love for fat women and he always gets abuse for it.

Oooh come on. The op knew exactly what response he was looking for and he got it. You only have to look at the thread title and the wording of the op. He thinks he's being all controversial by calling out women with over inflated egos and how dare they because have they seen how fat they are? What were they expecting going after fit hunky men. Blame the site for their inflated egos that match the size of their arses. I'm pretty sure that's what he meant. "

Did he say that's what he meant? Does being 'pretty sure' get people sent to jail now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gonna get stick for this but what's with 'overweight' women stating they only want athletic hunky men. And then getting the arse when the feeling is not reciprocated. Think this has something to do with the lack of women on here making them get a million times more attention than they would in a bar so it goes to their heads. Rant over"

I'm guessing a fat lady has tried to get into your underpants then got the hump coz you said no......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part 2 anyone?

I’m closing this one now ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you not get the memo popcorn is banned in here now!"

Why? What were you doing with it?

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