FabSwingers.com forum: You lose power if you get angry...

By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Just read the above quote in an interview and wondered what your thoughts were?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Certainly I believe the second you lose your rag you lose the argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. There's a fine line between being passionate about something and being angry.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It's true! I've lost it on here a few times already this week alone and to be fair it was futile and brought even more trolls out from under the bridge

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Certainly I believe the second you lose your rag you lose the argument"

Depends. If somebody attacked my kids I wouldn't consider losing my rag to be losing the argument.

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I think my take on it would be "Choose your battles"...some things just aren't worth getting riled about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lose your focus when you scream and shout.

You can be angry and not demonstrate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read the above quote in an interview and wondered what your thoughts were? "

I used to think giving a mouth ful gave me a good comeback but reacting gives them what they want.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"You lose your focus when you scream and shout.

You can be angry and not demonstrate it."

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

True..... unless your name is Bruce Banner.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read the above quote in an interview and wondered what your thoughts were? "

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You lose your focus when you scream and shout.

You can be angry and not demonstrate it."

This

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

You certainly lose the ability to reason efficiently in some cases! But anger is usually a defence mechanism anyway.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"You certainly lose the ability to reason efficiently in some cases! But anger is usually a defence mechanism anyway. "

That was my reaction after being called a certain name the other night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i sort of agree as when i get really angry i often get really upset - always have done and will do much to avoid any kind of confrontation - BUT WHEN I DO --- the people around me who know me well realise im being full on serious - rarely shouted at my kids but they even say now they knew how much they had crossed me or gone too far when i shouted the odds - a few months ago at work i felt as though i was banking y head against the wall over a few issues and i gave a short but very loud and ranty speech - i had to follow it up with apologies the next day but without fail they all said - no its was totally justified - and things did change a bit - so - no you dont always lose that power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Anger is an energy”

PiL

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile and walk away....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swearing usually comes with anger and it’s at that point i stop listening.

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes

It’s a lesson that takes a long time to learn. Focus your energy on getting a positive outcome or the least worst outcome. It’s assertiveness rather than aggressiveness.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

This is about your chimp brain taking over... Am reading the chimp paradox, very interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smile and walk away...."

Too many angry people in the world.

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