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By *hris 62 OP   Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD

Whats best chat ouer cpffee,get nsked and play or get rigth it to the sex

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats best chat ouer cpffee,get nsked and play or get rigth it to the sex"

Tea

Keep it bloody tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy for you to say!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Don't go straight to the fristing

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Whats best chat ouer cpffee,get nsked and play or get rigth it to the sex

Tea

Keep it bloody tea

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Tea, yes tea 100% works

Oh and OP, I often have fat finger syndrome when typing on my phone too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go straight to the fristing "

Or fisting

K

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It depends on your partners, how well you know them, as well as your tastes. A club meet gives lots of options

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's clear what the guy means! Can we keep it to answering the op please.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Op, it's best to find out what the person you're meeting wants. Chat first and find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I tell you if I ever get first meet as don't know yet

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There is no "best" way OP other than what you and your prospective meet agree beforehand - you need to understand and agree between you if it's just a social meet first, with no plans to play, or a social meet that if all goes well play may be involved if You're both happy to take that step.

Or if it's a play meet, whether you want to have a drink first or get straight to it.

Either way only you and your meet can decide what's "best"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever works for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Posts removed. As I said above, please stick to answering the op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you have spoken about doing

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By *iSexGeordieMan
over a year ago

North Shields

It entirely depends on the both of you or the three of you if you’re meeting a couple.

I often find that relaxed folks who aren’t jumping straight into the sex stuff as though they’re machines to be the best and easiest to talk to... it also depends on how comfortable you each are about sharing your own experiences and stuff.

Sometimes I can manage a good conversation about what it is I do in life, where I enjoy travelling, how naughty American taxi drivers can be whilst visiting California... and it flows like a great convo but doesn’t give away too much detail I.e. your job title or where it is you work etc.

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By *hris 62 OP   Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD


"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here

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im sorry if my post upset some poeple on here with my spell ,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here

im sorry if my post upset some poeple on here with my spell ,"

You don't need to apologise. Please continue to post in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no best way OP. All of those are valid meet options. Do whatever you both/all feel comfortable with. A first meet can be a little nerve wracking. If you have discussed perhaps having sex straight away, try not to expect it. Chemistry cannot be truly gaged until you meet facertain to face. Therefore you are both well within your rights to change your mind. Good luck OP

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By *iSexGeordieMan
over a year ago

North Shields


"There is no best way OP. All of those are valid meet options. Do whatever you both/all feel comfortable with. A first meet can be a little nerve wracking. If you have discussed perhaps having sex straight away, try not to expect it. Chemistry cannot be truly gaged until you meet facertain to face. Therefore you are both well within your rights to change your mind. Good luck OP "

Agreed. Social meet ups are designed to see if you click or not... and also allows people a chance to less awkwardly and politely say thanks but no thanks. Plus it gets a lot of nerves out the way too.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Decide amongst yourselves what you both want from the first meet.

Social meets are good to see if the chemistry is there but sometimes the attraction is clear, (im thinking if maybe you've chatted a while and cammed etc)in which case get straight down to it

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By *hris 62 OP   Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD


"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here

im sorry if my post upset some poeple on here with my spell ,

Thank you ,i know poeple laugth about it ,its something i had to put up all my life ,and happy fabbing to all that can undtamd and not

You don't need to apologise. Please continue to post in the forums. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here

im sorry if my post upset some poeple on here with my spell ,"

Hey you don't have to apologise to anyone Hun

It's the others who should be apologising to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Posts removed. As I said above, please stick to answering the op."

Someone with autism or aspergers for example may have commented about the poor spelling, then if you'd have removed that you'd have discriminated against another affliction /illness by removing the comment.

Defending against dyslexia because O.P may or may not have it at the expense of a comment potentially made by someone with aspergers is a little hypoctitical I think.

I hope all comments made by members with other unseen illnesses that don't conform to moderator ideologies don't get removed in future.

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By *acy69Woman
over a year ago

Letterkenny

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Whatever you both or all decide as everyone is different and needs or even fantasy can change so someone may want a social first where they may just want a quick meet and go the next , so as said just discuss it before and have fun

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By *acy69Woman
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Well you wouldn't walk straight up to a woman in a bar and straight off put ur hand in her panties or up her jumper... ud expect a hard slap.... well if ur not going to at least offer her a drink well she's gone.... it's no different in here ladies deserve respect xxx Tea for me x (see not even an expensive drink)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt it funny,when seeside post we know hes dyslexic and knowbody bats an eyelid,stop with the shitty remarks about his OP,some pathetic people on here

im sorry if my post upset some poeple on here with my spell ,

Thank you ,i know poeple laugth about it ,its something i had to put up all my life ,and happy fabbing to all that can undtamd and not

You don't need to apologise. Please continue to post in the forums. "

Some of the greatest minds were dyslexic OP. Please don't let it put you off posting in the forums.

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