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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many if you would have a meet/ social without seeing face pics first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me! Got to know if there’s an attraction first

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Not me! Got to know if there’s an attraction first "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. A social isn't a play date. If I connect with the personality I'll be having a coffee with someone I enjoy chatting with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had meets without pics, just a description of body type, sometimes it's not about attraction.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would if the conversation was good and the first meet is just a social..... a blind date/meet can be rather exciting with no expectations.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have very little time so we wouldnt waste time on a social for us not to be attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'd want to know there was a chance of attraction first. Also the fact they won't show me their face makes me suspicious.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. We usually do. We always have a social first unless we have met at a club. We never send face pics so dont expect them too although some do anyway. Its always worked well for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope wouldn’t even entertain past 1-3 messages without face pics. Maybe shallow but if we’re not attracted to someone then it’s pointless all round.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Hell no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done but last time I did it the man was ghastly, I didn't not fancy him, more like found him repulsive. So I wouldn't meet without a pic again XXX

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I have done in the past but would never now. I was younger and sillier then

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip absolute no chance and even with a pic, I need to get on and have a connection just o the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance

Would always require pics first

No pics = no meet , even for a social

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By *ed PlanetCouple
over a year ago

Beautiful East Yorkshire


"Nope wouldn’t even entertain past 1-3 messages without face pics. Maybe shallow but if we’re not attracted to someone then it’s pointless all round. "

Totally agree!

We usually send face pics with first message! Don’t want to waste time if no attraction!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Not a chance in hell, I’m not bored enough to get off my arse to just meet anyone

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

No way! There has to be chemistry through chat and then a physical attraction before I'd meet up even socially.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I wouldn't. I don't even chat without face pics. There is absolutely no point me wasting my time chatting to someone only to find that there is no attraction there at all. I fuck people, not their personalities, so their personality alone will not get a meet from me.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

No chance, I expect and return face pics in the first few messages, I won't continue the conversation if they can't provide a simple face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the once. We were on a different site then.

Never again though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have once, we did speak over the phone and she invited me to her home and promised me I wouldn’t be disappointed..... it was one of my best meets.

I do however like to chat through kik before a meet, build up a little heat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone asked us to travel 30 mile for a social but wouldnt send pics?!..would tavel 30 mile to play not to chat

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've met for socials a few times without pic exchanges. And been pleasantly suprised. They've not run off screaming either so I guess it works both ways too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t and I wouldn’t expect anyone to meet without seeing me. I want them to find me attractive not meet me just because I agreed!! If anyone is willing to meet me without seeing me I think they must be desperate and block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met for socials a few times without pic exchanges. And been pleasantly suprised. They've not run off screaming either so I guess it works both ways too."

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

No - I wouldn't want to potentially waste my time. I have no issue showing my face, in fact it's been public for a few months now so someone unwilling to show me theirs ahead of meeting makes me feel as though they don't trust me which isn't a good start ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must swap pics as to avoid the embarrassment of being turned down face to face

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

100% no chance!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

We wouldn’t. But have met with guys who haven’t seen ours. They just didn’t ask and we didn’t even realise we hadn’t sent one. Would always expect to exchange pics.

All went well though

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve been chatting with a lady on here for months. We have come very close to meeting and will hopefully get together in the future. Still haven’t exchanged face pics. I know her body is amazing but I would like to see her face. She may be the only person I’d meet without a face pic as I feel I know enough about her already to want to meet.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I’ve been chatting with a lady on here for months. We have come very close to meeting and will hopefully get together in the future. Still haven’t exchanged face pics. I know her body is amazing but I would like to see her face. She may be the only person I’d meet without a face pic as I feel I know enough about her already to want to meet.

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My worry would be that if I didn't see one their face might remind me of a chewed wasp (love that expression, thanks fabber) and I couldn't kiss that!! Hence, I like to swap pics fairly early on in tbe chat process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been chatting with a lady on here for months. We have come very close to meeting and will hopefully get together in the future. Still haven’t exchanged face pics. I know her body is amazing but I would like to see her face. She may be the only person I’d meet without a face pic as I feel I know enough about her already to want to meet.

My worry would be that if I didn't see one their face might remind me of a chewed wasp (love that expression, thanks fabber) and I couldn't kiss that!! Hence, I like to swap pics fairly early on in tbe chat process "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never would meet anyone for social unless recent pics and spoken on phone.

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’ve been chatting with a lady on here for months. We have come very close to meeting and will hopefully get together in the future. Still haven’t exchanged face pics. I know her body is amazing but I would like to see her face. She may be the only person I’d meet without a face pic as I feel I know enough about her already to want to meet.

My worry would be that if I didn't see one their face might remind me of a chewed wasp (love that expression, thanks fabber) and I couldn't kiss that!! Hence, I like to swap pics fairly early on in tbe chat process "

Me too. She won’t send a face pic so what can I do? I can’t make her send one if she doesn’t want to.

She seems really cool. If there’s no attraction we can just hang out.

Doggystyle is always an option too!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No,never.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Not bloody likely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have with one in the past. We just got on too great for me not to meet him. 5 years later and he's one of my closest friends. I adore the bones of him

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Have in the past, disasterous meet!

Never again.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I won't even talk without pics!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do find it strange that some people are happy to meet without..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find it strange that some people are happy to meet without.."

Pesonal choice I guess. Maybe I'm just a trusting soul.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do find it strange that some people are happy to meet without..

Pesonal choice I guess. Maybe I'm just a trusting soul.

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Its not about trust..more about being attacted or not..the couple that wanted to meet us without sending pics have veris so are genuine but we still wouldnt meet without swapping pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done a few without face pics, most have been a bit ‘hmmm’ one was ‘mmmm’. We would never do it as a couple, mind you the amount of things I did on my own id never recommend lol.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance!

How you supposed to recognise them for starters?

Plus there needs to be an attraction there.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I’ve been chatting with a lady on here for months. We have come very close to meeting and will hopefully get together in the future. Still haven’t exchanged face pics. I know her body is amazing but I would like to see her face. She may be the only person I’d meet without a face pic as I feel I know enough about her already to want to meet.

My worry would be that if I didn't see one their face might remind me of a chewed wasp (love that expression, thanks fabber) and I couldn't kiss that!! Hence, I like to swap pics fairly early on in tbe chat process

Me too. She won’t send a face pic so what can I do? I can’t make her send one if she doesn’t want to.

She seems really cool. If there’s no attraction we can just hang out.

Doggystyle is always an option too! "

Haha.....Id only go ahead if I didn't have to go too far out of my way tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never yet met anyone without swapping pics first but I would consider it if someone really attracted me in other ways. It's partly about visual attraction, although photos aren't always a good measure of that. Largely it's just about me wanting to see who I'm chatting with, and if someone is very reluctant with face pics then I'd be wondering why.

Sending pics is a bit nerve-wracking I find. I'm quite vain/insecure and can go right off people depending on how they respond. Flattery isn't compulsory (though always nice of course) and a polite "I/we don't fancy you" I can cope with no problem. The worst is sharing pics and getting no response or reaction at all, that usually has me cancelling meets or terminating conversations. Possibly I'm over-sensitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. They could have a face like arnold schwarzenegger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a social then a pic is not really necessary because you will be seeing them anyway..We do not do socials we go directly to meet ..we have met a few people without seeing pics and just having a description..We get a thrill from the unknown ..people do get a bit hung up on looks..for us it's the body we are more interested in and the personality of the person .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a chance!

How you supposed to recognise them for starters? "

Under the clock at the station, red carnation in lapel.

#oldschool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had meets without pics, just a description of body type, sometimes it's not about attraction."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If I lose my eyesight, it'll not matter as much, unless I have a carer who'll screen photos for relatives etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, even for a social I want to see who I am meeting! They can see me so it is only fair

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Definitely not, there's a saying "body from Baywatch, face from crimewatch"

Just the same as my chops aren't for everyone either and I'd hate to see a look of disappoint appear on her face upon meeting

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