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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, haven’t posted in the forums for a while, but...

Today we redound the block button, having stupidly decided to give single guys the benefit of the doubt.

Why is it people can’t read, or rather why is it that the majority of single guys can’t read.

We ask for ammessage before a friend request, how do we know if we’re going to get on if they don’t send a message. We don’t just become friends with strangers in the street, so why would we here.

If you can’t be bothered to read our profile and make some effort, the base amount of effort we will put in is to BLOCK you.

Felt we needed to rant about it today

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Bad single men . I know what you're saying,but it's not worth getting stressed over.

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

We are not all bad. Just naughty when we need to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vigourous spankings all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block single guys on our profile so cannot say we agree. However we do get a good few couples who do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There does seem to be a big increase in friends requests off random people we’ve had loads the last week. But to be fair it’s not just been single guys it’s been couples and tv/ts as well. We just decline the request. If they keep sending them then we block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel ya! Forever blocking single men. Unfortunately, that’s who I’m after . Winds me up that they cannot take a minute to quickly read my profile before sending a message or adding me as a friend.

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By *r n Mrs NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

eccles

Hey Leo your 1 of the rare single men that can read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block anyone who sends a random friend request if it's a couple and she looks tidy, I wait until they are off line accept it, perv their private pictures and then block them

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

I must be part of a select few who reads what people put on their profile. And message if it’s looks to be both interesting and a potential match.

But I know that majority of men will not do the same.

Their loss I guess.

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

[Removed by poster at 22/01/18 11:01:13]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We block anyone who sends a random friend request if it's a couple and she looks tidy, I wait until they are off line accept it, perv their private pictures and then block them "

Haha glad we’re not the only ones that do this then

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By *r n Mrs NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

eccles

Yes there loss.

But it's not just single men who don't read profiles

X

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

I have my moments. That university education wasn’t for nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't say anything about unsolicited friend requests in your profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to block a single bi guy this morning .

No means No !!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I think all men should be removed from the site... except me

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

I totally agree. Remove every guy except you and me.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I totally agree. Remove every guy except you and me. "

Ermmm OK just you and me, but no more!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So, haven’t posted in the forums for a while, but...

Today we redound the block button, having stupidly decided to give single guys the benefit of the doubt.

Why is it people can’t read, or rather why is it that the majority of single guys can’t read.

We ask for ammessage before a friend request, how do we know if we’re going to get on if they don’t send a message. We don’t just become friends with strangers in the street, so why would we here.

If you can’t be bothered to read our profile and make some effort, the base amount of effort we will put in is to BLOCK you.

Felt we needed to rant about it today"

I envy you if all you have to rant about is men trying their luck.

I'll go back to ranting at the other half as to why I have water coming through the ceiling he can't find the source off. Did I mention he's a plumber?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very funny to be starting a thread to moan about others not reading your profile properly when you haven't read it properly yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send friend requests except to people that send them to me first & i always read profiles, its also very rare for me to send a wink unless the person says it's ok to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never send friend requests except to people that send them to me first & i always read profiles, its also very rare for me to send a wink unless the person says it's ok to."

Do you decline any sent to you then and then send them one??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think all men should be removed from the site... except me "

That means you'll have to fuck me

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"There does seem to be a big increase in friends requests off random people we’ve had loads the last week. But to be fair it’s not just been single guys it’s been couples and tv/ts as well. We just decline the request. If they keep sending them then we block them. "

Tech tip. Don't decline. Just leave it. They can never resend then.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I think all men should be removed from the site... except me

That means you'll have to fuck me "

Yup. I will be on you and in you as soon as it's been ratified.

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you


"We block anyone who sends a random friend request if it's a couple and she looks tidy, I wait until they are off line accept it, perv their private pictures and then block them

Haha glad we’re not the only ones that do this then "

Sneaky sneaky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There does seem to be a big increase in friends requests off random people we’ve had loads the last week. But to be fair it’s not just been single guys it’s been couples and tv/ts as well. We just decline the request. If they keep sending them then we block them.

Tech tip. Don't decline. Just leave it. They can never resend then."

Suspect they can still resend more likely that you just won't receive.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I totally agree. Remove every guy except you and me.

Ermmm OK just you and me, but no more!"

Get a room boys

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester


"I totally agree. Remove every guy except you and me.

Ermmm OK just you and me, but no more!

Get a room boys"

A fine idea. Want to join us????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out recently that I can message myself.... big fingers and small keyboard...

Got the message read it... cheeky sod...i hadn't read my own profile...

I'll not do it again...

I just blocked myself

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"There does seem to be a big increase in friends requests off random people we’ve had loads the last week. But to be fair it’s not just been single guys it’s been couples and tv/ts as well. We just decline the request. If they keep sending them then we block them.

Tech tip. Don't decline. Just leave it. They can never resend then.

Suspect they can still resend more likely that you just won't receive."

Ooo. Not sure. But end result works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love reading profiles (after a pic perv of course)..

There seem to be loads of couples who rant n rave about single blokes contacting them when they dont want singles!

There is a facility to block single guys... use it ... its not rocket science..

I think its a case of they doth protest too loudly.... i.e they secretly love the attention and love a bit of woe is me action..

carry on peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love reading profiles (after a pic perv of course)..

There seem to be loads of couples who rant n rave about single blokes contacting them when they dont want singles!

There is a facility to block single guys... use it ... its not rocket science..

I think its a case of they doth protest too loudly.... i.e they secretly love the attention and love a bit of woe is me action..

carry on peeps"

I agree with this, same has guys who complain about guys messaging them, just block single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete. Move on. Don't even bother reading the majority of random messages, or bother looking at the profiles of the majority of random friend requests.

Works for us!

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By *inandRussianCouple
over a year ago

lymm

Most single men don't understand they are coming I to our sex life we are not there for them to get of telling their mates and notch the bed post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single men don't understand they are coming I to our sex life we are not there for them to get of telling their mates and notch the bed post "

Jeez, you must have met a hell of a lot of single men to come to that conclusion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont bother with friends requests unless we have done a meet or social. Normally use the hot list button so can see whats being posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The single guys we have chatted to on here have mostly been brand new. No complaints from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think all men should be removed from the site... except me

That means you'll have to fuck me

Yup. I will be on you and in you as soon as it's been ratified. "

I'll get a petition going, posthaste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single men don't understand they are coming I to our sex life we are not there for them to get of telling their mates and notch the bed post "

Why are you so sure most do that?

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Well it appears to be my day for the gross, indecent and down right illegible messages today - but I'm having fun replying in the same vein

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only takes 5 minutes to read a profile. It benefits the reader too. How do we know if we like the person?

Its just horny guys who Dont have patience.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Most single men don't understand they are coming I to our sex life we are not there for them to get of telling their mates and notch the bed post "

Whilst I agree with you on the crassness of kiss and tell, I feel it's as important to remember you are coming into his sex life just as much.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Most single men don't understand they are coming I to our sex life we are not there for them to get of telling their mates and notch the bed post

Whilst I agree with you on the crassness of kiss and tell, I feel it's as important to remember you are coming into his sex life just as much."

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We rarely have need to block.

Cant remember the last unsolicited friend request.

We rarely get messages so they must be reading our profile.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Most single men don't understand they are coming I to our sex life we are not there for them to get of telling their mates and notch the bed post "

I always thought of it as the single men were helping us fulfil a fantasy rather than a toy to be used

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Im sorry so many single men are not able or willing to read peoples profiles. It annoys me as being a single male who does read profiles before even thinking about sending a message,that we all get tarred with the same brush

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Im sorry so many single men are not able or willing to read peoples profiles. It annoys me as being a single male who does read profiles before even thinking about sending a message,that we all get tarred with the same brush"

It isn't just single men , women and couples have mailed us before now when our profile has had looking for single males on it

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Most single men don't understand they are coming I to our sex life we are not there for them to get of telling their mates and notch the bed post

Whilst I agree with you on the crassness of kiss and tell, I feel it's as important to remember you are coming into his sex life just as much."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sorry so many single men are not able or willing to read peoples profiles. It annoys me as being a single male who does read profiles before even thinking about sending a message,that we all get tarred with the same brush

It isn't just single men , women and couples have mailed us before now when our profile has had looking for single males on it"

It's true some couples are just as bad when it comes to reading profiles. My winner today though is four successive friend requests from an individual I politely turned down after the first message.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I just think alot of them go along the lines of.. if I message 100 profiles surely 1 will accept.

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester


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I just think alot of them go along the lines of.. if I message 100 profiles surely 1 will accept.

"

Is that a bad thing if the messages they send are ok???

It’s just an opener to start a conversation and see where that goes.

Anyway never mind 100. I’m on 199. I just need that last one to go lol

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