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Recruiting more women to swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you suggest swinging to any of your female friends? Why yes?

Why no?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Two of my female friends have joined since I told them about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. They wouldn't be into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not as I don’t really talk about sex with my female friends

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no. i'd assume if they were interested they'd do something about it themselves...it's nothing new..

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Errrrrrrr no Why? They think I’m an

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Most of my female friends are quite straight laced. Plus I like that this is my thing separate from them.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I talk to a few of my friends about it. One joined and left soon after, the others are a bit 'oh nooooo I could never share my man', shame as one of them is quite tasty!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a few 3sums with my friend and her husband and boyfriend. My other friend wouldn't be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's more likely that women would talk more openly to friends or those they trust about it.

I wouldn't even talk to guys about this part of my life... i don't think I'm unique in that.

So even approaching it with female friends I wouldn't know where to start....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got plenty of lovely female friends already in the scene so prefer to keep my work colleagues and real-life friends out of the way and have some privacy in my adventures a couple of very close friends know what I do and think it's bonkers!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Maybe it's more likely that women would talk more openly to friends or those they trust about it.

I wouldn't even talk to guys about this part of my life... i don't think I'm unique in that.

So even approaching it with female friends I wouldn't know where to start...."

The friend of mine who joined fab confessed to me that she had paid for a threesome. When I told her that she needn't of she asked what I meant and that's when I told her about fab!!!

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

Yes, there are one or two that would be open to joining us at a club

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Do you mean actually going swinging? Or just joining fab and talking about it...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean actually going swinging? Or just joining fab and talking about it...?"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No, none of my friends are interested, they all prefer relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of sisters and a few girl friends who would more than likely be up for it, once they got over the shock of me being here before them

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you mean actually going swinging? Or just joining fab and talking about it...?"

My two friends definitely go swinging. They both have plenty of verifications and I have been with one of them to Pandora's and Cupids and seen them play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn’t talk about this aspect of my life with my friends. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of them might be in to it if pretty much all of them weren't in relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not, unless they were fucking me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 female friends of mine have joined fab since I've told them about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a couple of sisters and a few girl friends who would more than likely be up for it, once they got over the shock of me being here before them "

Sounds like the makings of a tag team...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a couple of sisters and a few girl friends who would more than likely be up for it, once they got over the shock of me being here before them

Sounds like the makings of a tag team... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I have to my friend who’ve I dabbled with before, I told her about the club we went to the other day and she said she’d need a whole bottle of vodka before she went and got her clothes off, so no chance lol (although saying that she never used to be shy about sleeping with loads of different people lol)

Geeky x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Can you please only recruit the ones who are stunning and never say no? Thanks

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Those that would be interested already have fwb/fb, partake in swapping etc and the rest are in monogamous relationships.

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"Can you please only recruit the ones who are stunning and never say no? Thanks "

Do they have to be in Bedford and like men in their 40s who run like toddlers chasing a pug too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm. No probably not. It's not their thing I don't think. I've mentioned it to a friend of mine, though, and she was fine with it all. Even said another woman at her job asked her for a threesome but she said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't discuss my sex life or theirs with them.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Would I fuck, I've just been called a whore and I'm a tough bitch, I wouldn't put any of my friends through this shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you please only recruit the ones who are stunning and never say no? Thanks "

10 minutes on here, seeing the choices they'd have, they'd end up being like everyone else on here, regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my female friends knows and we might go to a club together sometime. I think some people you can gauge their sexual side through normal conversations. She and I are very open with each other about sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can you please only recruit the ones who are stunning and never say no? Thanks

10 minutes on here, seeing the choices they'd have, they'd end up being like everyone else on here, regardless "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would I fuck, I've just been called a whore and I'm a tough bitch, I wouldn't put any of my friends through this shit! "

Exactly.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

All my female friends already know

One is a member of fab but only indulges in the forums doesn’t use it for meets at present

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

My best female friends know and two of them joined

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"My best female friends know and two of them joined "

These are lifelong, from school, type friends btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you suggest swinging to any of your female friends? Why yes?

Why no?"

Swinging; yes. I don't hide it if I'm attracted to them.

If you're asking about suggesting to join fab; not anymore. The women I've told about fab and joined have mostly been swamped with abusive guys after sayimg a polite good intentioned no thanks. It's destroyed a couple of friendships I had "because I'd suggested it". I now show any woman I know who thinks about joining fab exactly where the filter settings are and the block button.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Would you suggest swinging to any of your female friends? Why yes?

Why no?

Swinging; yes. I don't hide it if I'm attracted to them.

If you're asking about suggesting to join fab; not anymore. The women I've told about fab and joined have mostly been swamped with abusive guys after sayimg a polite good intentioned no thanks. It's destroyed a couple of friendships I had "because I'd suggested it". I now show any woman I know who thinks about joining fab exactly where the filter settings are and the block button. "
A difficult one I have a good female friend who would be ideal but as an earlier poster asked would it be to be a proper swinger or a keyboard warrior who just talks about it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there's a fairly high percentage of the population who don't actually know that swinging exists.

I remember a friend describing in detail how her friend had been taken to a club by her boyfriend that was clearly a swingers venue. She and the other people she was telling quite obviously thought the friend had made it up. The subject of dogging came up with the same group of people, they didn't believe that either.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

A couple of my friends know, and I know they're curious... It's only a matter of time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there's a fairly high percentage of the population who don't actually know that swinging exists.

I remember a friend describing in detail how her friend had been taken to a club by her boyfriend that was clearly a swingers venue. She and the other people she was telling quite obviously thought the friend had made it up. The subject of dogging came up with the same group of people, they didn't believe that either. "

Great point.

I've heard that some people have sex for fun. But it was just an urban myth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you suggest swinging to any of your female friends? Why yes?

Why no?

Swinging; yes. I don't hide it if I'm attracted to them.

If you're asking about suggesting to join fab; not anymore. The women I've told about fab and joined have mostly been swamped with abusive guys after sayimg a polite good intentioned no thanks. It's destroyed a couple of friendships I had "because I'd suggested it". I now show any woman I know who thinks about joining fab exactly where the filter settings are and the block button. A difficult one I have a good female friend who would be ideal but as an earlier poster asked would it be to be a proper swinger or a keyboard warrior who just talks about it "

Why would she be ideal?

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By *atrina30Couple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I did tell a work mate few years back, she was always up for a laugh, but she looked at me gobsmacked, I felt embarrassed, wish I'd said nothing.

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By *eyser400Man
over a year ago

manchester

More young lauds swinging I think we need more mature hedonists

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Would you suggest swinging to any of your female friends? Why yes?

Why no?"

I have done and she's on here now!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think there's a fairly high percentage of the population who don't actually know that swinging exists.

I remember a friend describing in detail how her friend had been taken to a club by her boyfriend that was clearly a swingers venue. She and the other people she was telling quite obviously thought the friend had made it up. The subject of dogging came up with the same group of people, they didn't believe that either.

Great point.

I've heard that some people have sex for fun. But it was just an urban myth. "

sex for fun!? Next you'll be telling me women enjoy sex and some people actually leave the light on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's a fairly high percentage of the population who don't actually know that swinging exists.

I remember a friend describing in detail how her friend had been taken to a club by her boyfriend that was clearly a swingers venue. She and the other people she was telling quite obviously thought the friend had made it up. The subject of dogging came up with the same group of people, they didn't believe that either.

Great point.

I've heard that some people have sex for fun. But it was just an urban myth.

sex for fun!? Next you'll be telling me women enjoy sex and some people actually leave the light on."

Now you're just being silly

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think there's a fairly high percentage of the population who don't actually know that swinging exists.

I remember a friend describing in detail how her friend had been taken to a club by her boyfriend that was clearly a swingers venue. She and the other people she was telling quite obviously thought the friend had made it up. The subject of dogging came up with the same group of people, they didn't believe that either.

Great point.

I've heard that some people have sex for fun. But it was just an urban myth.

sex for fun!? Next you'll be telling me women enjoy sex and some people actually leave the light on.

Now you're just being silly"

I know sorry. I'm just glad I'm with a considerate guy who always pulls my nightie down afterwards

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