FabSwingers.com forum: Spanking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it that guys get turned on and spank us women with rulers, hand, whips etc and when we try to do it back they don’t like it ??

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I know a few that do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind being spanked. It’s not a turn on but it’s defin not a turn off.

If it means we both enjoy the night a little more then go for it

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

There are plenty that do!

As a sweeping generalisation, you have doms, subs & switches in fet or BDSM terms.

Doms take the dominant role in the play, dispensing the spankings etc

Subs take the submissive role, being spanked, flogged, punished in whatever way

A switch is someone who enjoys both roles.

As someone who leans to the sub side of the fence, I would get no pleasure from giving a spanking. Gomez, who is the dominant half, would get no pleasure from receiving it, as neither of us are switch.

For someone to really enjoy both giving & receiving, they need to be inclined both ways.

If you are indulging in a little bedroom kink, the same will apply.

I get a rush from the endorphin release. G doesn’t. His rush is in giving me that pleasure.

I’m guessing you tend to play more with alpha male types who are dominant natured - maybe why they enjoy giving but not receiving.

If you want to become the dominant partner, you need a more submissive male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband loves me to smack his bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that guys get turned on and spank us women with rulers, hand, whips etc and when we try to do it back they don’t like it ??"

Hubby not playing fair eh

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

Me and my partner indulge and both like it ??

The next step is to go to a fet club/meet and do it in front of others. ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is there not to like when you are in a switchy kinda mood

(K)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is there not to like when you are in a switchy kinda mood

(K)

Stop bloody bragging you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that guys get turned on and spank us women with rulers, hand, whips etc and when we try to do it back they don’t like it ??"

Because they're not into it. Perhaps they are dom not sub.

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By *ary for funMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Hey,although not really into being spanked or caned myself ( probably down to the fact forever receiving the cane many,many,years ago at school) always found ladies backsides proper horny,whether being spanked,worshipped,or just plain ruined!! Grew up with mags such as " swish" Are there any "spanking clubs" nowadays??

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Hey,although not really into being spanked or caned myself ( probably down to the fact forever receiving the cane many,many,years ago at school) always found ladies backsides proper horny,whether being spanked,worshipped,or just plain ruined!! Grew up with mags such as " swish" Are there any "spanking clubs" nowadays??"

Fet clubs, or clubs that have fet nights is probably your best bet

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I love to spank and I'm never short of willing spankees

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