FabSwingers.com forum: So I’m not for you

By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

where

That’s totally fine but don’t go out of your ray to be a total shit!

Yes I’m a bigger fella but I was even larger 12 months ago! I’ve had 7 and half stone off you fucking cretin!

Sorry about this I just had to rant and write the message I would have done had some shit not been a bastard and sent something horrid then blocked me!

Fucktard central at times this place!

Jesus we are mostly here for the same reasons!

Over and out! Anyone else get this type of unwarranted shite sent to them?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Dude, if you're going to get like this every time you get rejected, I think it will be an unpleasant experience here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you're certainly not big now so don't worry about. I,'ve been fked by much plumper men than you. Well done for losing the weight. Don't let whoever sent the message get to you. Suck it up and move on. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a less stressful solution to your problem. Delete the message, block the sender, and give them precisely zero minutes of your time to think, or rant about. It's a waste of energy and mojo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had any abuse like that but if I did I wouldn't care. Says more about them than it does me.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Dude, if you're going to get like this every time you get rejected, I think it will be an unpleasant experience here."

This..

Op rise above it, stay positive and try not to let such things get to you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate. Think of the good its done in losing all that weight.

They're not worth the effort.

Keep fabbing

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You can’t change the way other people behave so you gotta adjust your way of dealing with it.

Zero fucks should be given to some rude stranger who knows nothing about you other than the info you give on your profile.

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"Dude, if you're going to get like this every time you get rejected, I think it will be an unpleasant experience here."

I wasn’t rejected I’d never even messaged the person! All I did was fab a pic I thought was good so I reckon the message I got was unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people can be very mean behind the keyboard

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Ignore them, it reflects on them more than you. Sounds like a lucky escape.

Delete & block!

And well done on the weight loss, I think you look great!

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"You can’t change the way other people behave so you gotta adjust your way of dealing with it.

Zero fucks should be given to some rude stranger who knows nothing about you other than the info you give on your profile.

It was a cathartic post more than anything but you’re right !

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes

"I haven't had any abuse like that but if I did I wouldn't care. Says more about them than it does me. "

Yes, this...not worth your energy.

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"There's a less stressful solution to your problem. Delete the message, block the sender, and give them precisely zero minutes of your time to think, or rant about. It's a waste of energy and mojo. "

Agreed

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes

"Dude, if you're going to get like this every time you get rejected, I think it will be an unpleasant experience here.

I wasn’t rejected I’d never even messaged the person! All I did was fab a pic I thought was good so I reckon the message I got was unfair. "

Yes that is unfair. Report them for abuse?

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"Ignore them, it reflects on them more than you. Sounds like a lucky escape.

Delete & block!

And well done on the weight loss, I think you look great!

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a less stressful solution to your problem. Delete the message, block the sender, and give them precisely zero minutes of your time to think, or rant about. It's a waste of energy and mojo. "

THIS ^^^

Dont let anyone have that much head space...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let anyone get under your skin like that. As previously mentioned it is a waste of your time and energy.

As long as you are happy with your size, that's all that matters. I'm a big lad but few women seem to mind, and if they do then that's their privilege and I like to think its their loss.

I like to consider myself the male equivalent of a BBW lol

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes

"Don't let anyone get under your skin like that. As previously mentioned it is a waste of your time and energy.

As long as you are happy with your size, that's all that matters. I'm a big lad but few women seem to mind, and if they do then that's their privilege and I like to think its their loss.

I like to consider myself the male equivalent of a BBW lol"

BHM? Big Handsome Man...it could catch on you know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you report the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathe in, breathe out

There. All better now?

Delete, block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I occasionally get......you are too fat for me anyway, but I am horny and desperate....then block.

The worse one was something along the lines of.....you old fat granny, bet you have been a right old slapper in your time, spawning hoards of illegitimate kids and grandkids..........A proper testosterone fuelled rant

Just smile and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done on the weight loss. Block and report anyone that’s abusive and give them no more of your energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly OP, try not to let people like that drag you down.

I got from someone that they don't usually go for fat birds, but they'd make an exception for me. I was chuckling as I pressed the block button. On here you have to let things roll off your back. Some can be brutal, but there are others on here who are lovely, so it balances it out.

Congratulations on your big weight loss OP. That is a fantastic achievement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't let anyone get under your skin like that. As previously mentioned it is a waste of your time and energy.

As long as you are happy with your size, that's all that matters. I'm a big lad but few women seem to mind, and if they do then that's their privilege and I like to think its their loss.

I like to consider myself the male equivalent of a BBW lol

BHM? Big Handsome Man...it could catch on you know..."

BHM hmmmm I like that. It could catch on...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Dude, if you're going to get like this every time you get rejected, I think it will be an unpleasant experience here.

I wasn’t rejected I’d never even messaged the person! All I did was fab a pic I thought was good so I reckon the message I got was unfair. "

I'm presuming this was from a straight guy on here? Some can get rather precious about their pics being fabbed by other guys

Either way, as others have said, I'd not waste any more time fretting on it- to go out of their way to send an abusive message for that says more about the other person than it does you

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Don't let anyone get under your skin like that. As previously mentioned it is a waste of your time and energy.

As long as you are happy with your size, that's all that matters. I'm a big lad but few women seem to mind, and if they do then that's their privilege and I like to think its their loss.

I like to consider myself the male equivalent of a BBW lol"

And when cock is in short supply, you'll be just as popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dude, if you're going to get like this every time you get rejected, I think it will be an unpleasant experience here."

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Well fuck me

Chill out precious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't let anyone get under your skin like that. As previously mentioned it is a waste of your time and energy.

As long as you are happy with your size, that's all that matters. I'm a big lad but few women seem to mind, and if they do then that's their privilege and I like to think its their loss.

I like to consider myself the male equivalent of a BBW lol

BHM? Big Handsome Man...it could catch on you know...

BHM hmmmm I like that. It could catch on..."

Profile updated lol

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

Some people need to denigrate others in order to feel better about themselves.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No I haven’t had this. The only person that has been rude to me was a forumite that felt name calling was appropriate. Some people are old enough to join Fab but simply not mature enough to be here unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only had one message like that, and it was someone trying to cause trouble for another forumite. Sadly some people need to get a life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did get "hope your Mrs gets breast cancer" x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Llook at it like jim carey

In dumb and dumber

So your saying theres a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done on shifting the timber. It’s a hard slog.

On Fab I truly believe that it’s a case of the right message to the right person at the right time. It’s a hard code to crack.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't had any abuse like that but if I did I wouldn't care. Says more about them than it does me. "

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes

"Don't let anyone get under your skin like that. As previously mentioned it is a waste of your time and energy.

As long as you are happy with your size, that's all that matters. I'm a big lad but few women seem to mind, and if they do then that's their privilege and I like to think its their loss.

I like to consider myself the male equivalent of a BBW lol

BHM? Big Handsome Man...it could catch on you know...

BHM hmmmm I like that. It could catch on...

Profile updated lol "

That’s a trademarked term you know - TM Twat 2018!

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Quite often, when I have to give someone a polite no thanks, you get another message "why?". If that's what you do as well, you can expect an answer you don't want to hear.

If you don't ask this pretty stupid question, but they feel they need to slag you off anyway, screw them (not literally). They're not worth a single second of your time.

Nobody's perfect and there's nothing wrong with you from what I can see x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't nice...but better to know where you stand..I am rejected daily...sometimes for my facd pic, for my height or lack of it..age...you name it...just block...no dramas...no rant...its life...I would fuck you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite often, when I have to give someone a polite no thanks, you get another message "why?". If that's what you do as well, you can expect an answer you don't want to hear.

If you don't ask this pretty stupid question, but they feel they need to slag you off anyway, screw them (not literally). They're not worth a single second of your time.

Nobody's perfect and there's nothing wrong with you from what I can see x"

I don't even think the OP messaged the woman in question. He just fabbed her picture. That's a whole level of nastiness, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I have ever haf a message that has been offensive enough to make me rant ....apart from a clearly sectarian guy who sent me a ranty txt thst ended with..."we know where you live".

You would have to live here to understand the threat that contains.

But it's simple just delete or block. Remember your achievements. Losing all that weight is a massive success. If others don't recognise your worth... ignore them and just move on. It makes life far simpler and a lot more pleasant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry mate let it pass,I’m 22 stone and got called a reptile on plenty of fish lol I couldn’t stop laughing,there will always be the one odd ball to rock the boat,

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes

"Don’t worry mate let it pass,I’m 22 stone and got called a reptile on plenty of fish lol I couldn’t stop laughing,there will always be the one odd ball to rock the boat,"

Not just laugh,but wear insults as a badge of honour - which is what our profile name is all about.

Plenty of Reptiles? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op it happens to the best of us u read the profile and send a polite message and get a rude reply calling you all the names under the sun and told to read the profile and when you state you did twice to be sure get called a liar and retard then blocked ,that's what you call a lucky escape op

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Quite often, when I have to give someone a polite no thanks, you get another message "why?". If that's what you do as well, you can expect an answer you don't want to hear.

If you don't ask this pretty stupid question, but they feel they need to slag you off anyway, screw them (not literally). They're not worth a single second of your time.

Nobody's perfect and there's nothing wrong with you from what I can see x

I don't even think the OP messaged the woman in question. He just fabbed her picture. That's a whole level of nastiness, isn't it?

Totally unnecessary and extremely nasty. Can you not report people like that and get them kicked off? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t worry mate let it pass,I’m 22 stone and got called a reptile on plenty of fish lol I couldn’t stop laughing,there will always be the one odd ball to rock the boat,"

i dont get why that is so, u seem nice

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Dude, if you're going to get like this every time you get rejected, I think it will be an unpleasant experience here.

I wasn’t rejected I’d never even messaged the person! All I did was fab a pic I thought was good so I reckon the message I got was unfair. "

It was unfair (sorry only just spotted this, so just ignore my previous comment) and nobody deserves to be treated like that. Not everybody on here is like that though. There are decent people as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know what nemisis means?

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"Did you report the profile? "

Yes I did in case they do same to others

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"I occasionally get......you are too fat for me anyway, but I am horny and desperate....then block.

Just smile and block

Arseholes not really sure why this annoyed me much lol

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"Quite often, when I have to give someone a polite no thanks, you get another message "why?". If that's what you do as well, you can expect an answer you don't want to hear.

If you don't ask this pretty stupid question, but they feel they need to slag you off anyway, screw them (not literally). They're not worth a single second of your time.

Totally understand this but I hadn’t messaged I’d fabbed a pic

Nobody's perfect and there's nothing wrong with you from what I can see x"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Report abusive inappropriate messages. Forget and leave it in the past

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"Dude, if you're going to get like this every time you get rejected, I think it will be an unpleasant experience here.

I wasn’t rejected I’d never even messaged the person! All I did was fab a pic I thought was good so I reckon the message I got was unfair.

It would seem so cant quite beileve how many people have commented!

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