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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/jan/20/my-boyfriend-kissed-another-man-annalisa-barbieri

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But hurry, they don't keep comments open for long...

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

“He believes his bisexuality is a sign that he is undecided”

I’d love to see more education in school about bisexuality, monogamy, poly and all the other options as I’m sure that would solve a lot of angst, heartbreak and relationship breakdowns years later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"“He believes his bisexuality is a sign that he is undecided”

I’d love to see more education in school about bisexuality, monogamy, poly and all the other options as I’m sure that would solve a lot of angst, heartbreak and relationship breakdowns years later. "

There is also an article about polyamory today, best of all involving someone called "Marc"

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/jan/20/why-i-chose-polyamory-anita-cassidy

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"“He believes his bisexuality is a sign that he is undecided”

I’d love to see more education in school about bisexuality, monogamy, poly and all the other options as I’m sure that would solve a lot of angst, heartbreak and relationship breakdowns years later. "

I totally agree - I’m attracted to bi guys - some are very well adjusted and quite open about their sexuality and others are petrified that others will find out. Many bisexual men who are married don’t tell their partners and they are frightened that mates etc will find out.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"“He believes his bisexuality is a sign that he is undecided”

I’d love to see more education in school about bisexuality, monogamy, poly and all the other options as I’m sure that would solve a lot of angst, heartbreak and relationship breakdowns years later.

I totally agree - I’m attracted to bi guys - some are very well adjusted and quite open about their sexuality and others are petrified that others will find out. Many bisexual men who are married don’t tell their partners and they are frightened that mates etc will find out. "

I struggled throughout my 20’s about my bisexuality. It’s a common issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The title should be "he's a cheating scumbag", it makes no difference if he's gay or not.

Another man that he might be attracted to may just as well be another woman that he's attracted to and he's not sure if he wants to explore his feelings towards her or not.

The only way the poor girl should be facilitating his exploration is by kicking him out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" The only way the poor girl should be facilitating his exploration is by kicking him out."

They could join Fab together? At least they are talking about it. (his d*unken kiss, not joining Fab)

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Would be interesting to see the reaction to the article if it was the girl attracted to women. Calls of 3sum all round I bet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would be interesting to see the reaction to the article if it was the girl attracted to women. Calls of 3sum all round I bet "

On the Guardian?

Hang on, I'll suggest it & report back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" The only way the poor girl should be facilitating his exploration is by kicking him out.

They could join Fab together? At least they are talking about it. (his d*unken kiss, not joining Fab) "

This is true, talking about it is positive, shame they did it in the wrong order. Maybe they'll be posting on here soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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This is true, talking about it is positive, shame they did it in the wrong order. Maybe they'll be posting on here soon! "

I'll keep an eye out for the "My partner is a leftie looney who reads the Guardian, should I dump her?" thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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This is true, talking about it is positive, shame they did it in the wrong order. Maybe they'll be posting on here soon!

I'll keep an eye out for the "My partner is a leftie looney who reads the Guardian, should I dump her?" thread!"

Ha! I would love to read that thread, the leftie loonies would throw a fit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would be interesting to see the reaction to the article if it was the girl attracted to women. Calls of 3sum all round I bet

On the Guardian?

Hang on, I'll suggest it & report back... "

It's not going well, Softie.

So far the suggestion that they should both have an MMF has 1 vote,

the suggestion that she bin him off & come & have an FFM with the wife & me also has 1 vote.

They're not as liberal as they like to think over there: you should see some of the things the mods have to delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another reason to be single!!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Would be interesting to see the reaction to the article if it was the girl attracted to women. Calls of 3sum all round I bet

On the Guardian?

Hang on, I'll suggest it & report back...

It's not going well, Softie.

So far the suggestion that they should both have an MMF has 1 vote,

the suggestion that she bin him off & come & have an FFM with the wife & me also has 1 vote.

They're not as liberal as they like to think over there: you should see some of the things the mods have to delete

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Oh dear. Have you suggested he have a 10 man gang bang with her directing so she feels incolved? It would definitely decide whether he like some men or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Oh dear. Have you suggested he have a 10 man gang bang with her directing so she feels involved? It would definitely decide whether he like some men or not "

Good Lord, I'd never go that far - I can't afford to get kicked off the guardian website too, what on earth would I do with my time?

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


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Oh dear. Have you suggested he have a 10 man gang bang with her directing so she feels involved? It would definitely decide whether he like some men or not

Good Lord, I'd never go that far - I can't afford to get kicked off the guardian website too, what on earth would I do with my time? "

Perve on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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what on earth would I do with my time?

Perve on fab "

If only life were that simple

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


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what on earth would I do with my time?

Perve on fab

If only life were that simple "

Perve. Fap. Sleep. Repeat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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what on earth would I do with my time?

Perve on fab

If only life were that simple

Perve. Fap. Sleep. Repeat "

That's all very well, but I find inevitably some bright spark throws down the gauntlet of "I bet no-one can copy my picture" & one spends the whole day trying to work out how to do it with only 2 people, and how on earth I could pass myself off as Mrs SB!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


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what on earth would I do with my time?

Perve on fab

If only life were that simple

Perve. Fap. Sleep. Repeat

That's all very well, but I find inevitably some bright spark throws down the gauntlet of "I bet no-one can copy my picture" & one spends the whole day trying to work out how to do it with only 2 people, and how on earth I could pass myself off as Mrs SB!

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Yeah it’s difficult with just 2 people. The ones she’s in on mine have loads more women in them

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