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 having a total moan tonight. One of the worst weeks ever and all I wanted was a bit company and a cuddle but nope | |||
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"No action.... I know I know many a thread regarding this however more and more of late I get badgered to meet and then when I say yes or instigate following on from their message they leave it unread or don't reply or all of a sudden develop some excuse or the worst reply "lol" having a total moan tonight. One of the worst weeks ever and all I wanted was a bit company and a cuddle but nope "we could all do with a cuddle now and again, hang in there | |||
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"Big hugs sent from Cloud Cuckoo Land to Never Never Land ((((()))) "Thank you! Bloomin well needed I tell ya | |||
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"No action.... I know I know many a thread regarding this however more and more of late I get badgered to meet and then when I say yes or instigate following on from their message they leave it unread or don't reply or all of a sudden develop some excuse or the worst reply "lol" having a total moan tonight. One of the worst weeks ever and all I wanted was a bit company and a cuddle but nope
we could all do with a cuddle now and again, hang in there
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"No action.... I know I know many a thread regarding this however more and more of late I get badgered to meet and then when I say yes or instigate following on from their message they leave it unread or don't reply or all of a sudden develop some excuse or the worst reply "lol" having a total moan tonight. One of the worst weeks ever and all I wanted was a bit company and a cuddle but nope "Cheer up, the sun will still rise tomorrow  | |||
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"Think your talking to the rong men "All whom exist..... women are as bad btw | |||
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"No action.... I know I know many a thread regarding this however more and more of late I get badgered to meet and then when I say yes or instigate following on from their message they leave it unread or don't reply or all of a sudden develop some excuse or the worst reply "lol" having a total moan tonight. One of the worst weeks ever and all I wanted was a bit company and a cuddle but nope
Cheer up, the sun will still rise tomorrow "It shall followed by the white stuff | |||
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"Think your talking to the rong men
All whom exist..... women are as bad btw "I'm very shor not all women are. | |||
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"Sorry you’ve had a shitty week and I hope it gets better for you. It’s unclear from your post when you said ‘yes’ and how much notice you gave to arrange or agree a meet. If it was a few days ago then it would seem to be very poor form from the guys - if you wanted short notice hugs then it could be that everyone already has plans and can’t drop everything at the last minute? Anyway, all the best to you and I hope your weekend is bright and positive xx " It's been a combination of tbh. The short notice request was to someone who said they'd no plans and was texting. Been like this for weeks which is why I stopped trying to arrange meets.....pretty pointless. Thank you ! Can but try I guess | |||
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"Are you too pleasant up front? I get gruff early on to scare them. Make them post videos of them jumping through hoops on YouTube before you chat further. They don't linger for meets chat. A lot only want to wank of course, so reality is scary for them." Haha should I get my whip out?? | |||
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I don’t want lots of pen pals I want guys with balls  | |||
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"No action.... I know I know many a thread regarding this however more and more of late I get badgered to meet and then when I say yes or instigate following on from their message they leave it unread or don't reply or all of a sudden develop some excuse or the worst reply "lol" having a total moan tonight. One of the worst weeks ever and all I wanted was a bit company and a cuddle but nope "I've had this this week... The guy had chatted/messaged for a couple of months, booked a hotel (I checked - he had!), was going in raptures how excited he was to meet me for real and then in Tuesday gone... And profile hidden on here Does my head in but really doesn't surprise me - although this is the 1st let down I have had who actually booked things... Hey ho  | |||
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"Are you too pleasant up front? I get gruff early on to scare them. Make them post videos of them jumping through hoops on YouTube before you chat further. They don't linger for meets chat. A lot only want to wank of course, so reality is scary for them." Sophie that's where I'm going wrong!! Thanks for that! Lol OP I feel your pain! There's been a couple of times this last month where I nearly sacked fab! I thought I was pretty good at ferreting out the guys just wanking, but my radar has been wonky and let me down!! I had a no show at a pub last week. And 2 hotel meets a few weeks ago who went silent on the day! It's not you, its them!! Grrr! | |||
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"Yeah we are finding there’s a lot of guys who message well but come D day
I don’t want lots of pen pals I want guys with balls "A big 'hell yer' to that sister!! | |||
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"Are you too pleasant up front? I get gruff early on to scare them. Make them post videos of them jumping through hoops on YouTube before you chat further. They don't linger for meets chat. A lot only want to wank of course, so reality is scary for them. Haha should I get my whip out?? " I have a bendy ruler?  I think we can all relate to your original comment though. | |||
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"Are you too pleasant up front? I get gruff early on to scare them. Make them post videos of them jumping through hoops on YouTube before you chat further. They don't linger for meets chat. A lot only want to wank of course, so reality is scary for them. Sophie that's where I'm going wrong!! Thanks for that! Lol OP I feel your pain! There's been a couple of times this last month where I nearly sacked fab! I thought I was pretty good at ferreting out the guys just wanking, but my radar has been wonky and let me down!! I had a no show at a pub last week. And 2 hotel meets a few weeks ago who went silent on the day! It's not you, its them!! Grrr! "LITERALLY their loss! | |||
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"Are you too pleasant up front? I get gruff early on to scare them. Make them post videos of them jumping through hoops on YouTube before you chat further. They don't linger for meets chat. A lot only want to wank of course, so reality is scary for them. Sophie that's where I'm going wrong!! Thanks for that! Lol OP I feel your pain! There's been a couple of times this last month where I nearly sacked fab! I thought I was pretty good at ferreting out the guys just wanking, but my radar has been wonky and let me down!! I had a no show at a pub last week. And 2 hotel meets a few weeks ago who went silent on the day! It's not you, its them!! Grrr!
LITERALLY their loss! "What i don't get it is they ask if I've plans.... I said no then they tell me who they're trying to meet.... grrrr | |||
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"Are you too pleasant up front? I get gruff early on to scare them. Make them post videos of them jumping through hoops on YouTube before you chat further. They don't linger for meets chat. A lot only want to wank of course, so reality is scary for them. Sophie that's where I'm going wrong!! Thanks for that! Lol OP I feel your pain! There's been a couple of times this last month where I nearly sacked fab! I thought I was pretty good at ferreting out the guys just wanking, but my radar has been wonky and let me down!! I had a no show at a pub last week. And 2 hotel meets a few weeks ago who went silent on the day! It's not you, its them!! Grrr!
LITERALLY their loss!
What i don't get it is they ask if I've plans.... I said no then they tell me who they're trying to meet.... grrrr
"Now that would pee anyone off...I do try and make it plain from the off my intentions and if they don't match then there isnt much point in arranging as it will fail. | |||
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"Are you too pleasant up front? I get gruff early on to scare them. Make them post videos of them jumping through hoops on YouTube before you chat further. They don't linger for meets chat. A lot only want to wank of course, so reality is scary for them. Sophie that's where I'm going wrong!! Thanks for that! Lol OP I feel your pain! There's been a couple of times this last month where I nearly sacked fab! I thought I was pretty good at ferreting out the guys just wanking, but my radar has been wonky and let me down!! I had a no show at a pub last week. And 2 hotel meets a few weeks ago who went silent on the day! It's not you, its them!! Grrr!
LITERALLY their loss!
What i don't get it is they ask if I've plans.... I said no then they tell me who they're trying to meet.... grrrr
Now that would pee anyone off...I do try and make it plain from the off my intentions and if they don't match then there isnt much point in arranging as it will fail. "I am fed up with it and when I get moaned at for not meeting off fab then make an attempt to do so it never works. It's like handing a starving person a plate of food and then making them watch you eat it. Telling me of the sex or fun or anything and then asking me if I've met anyone is just irritating | |||
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"I feel for you OP. Finding someone available when I am (Saturday nights) is rare. Anybody would think that the single men aren't single! "Hahaha yeah all mouth no trousers or a hidden partner | |||
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"I feel for you OP. Finding someone available when I am (Saturday nights) is rare. Anybody would think that the single men aren't single!
Hahaha yeah all mouth no trousers or a hidden partner "Mostly it's the thrill of the Chase, I think, or maybe just seeking validation? The reality is too much like hard work for them. Women are guilty of this too, but we were discussing men x | |||
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"I feel for you OP. Finding someone available when I am (Saturday nights) is rare. Anybody would think that the single men aren't single!
Hahaha yeah all mouth no trousers or a hidden partner
Mostly it's the thrill of the Chase, I think, or maybe just seeking validation? The reality is too much like hard work for them.
Women are guilty of this too, but we were discussing men x"Oh I know women are just as bad sadly
They like the idea of haha but happy to men bash
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"Sounds like you're going for the wrong men. " I am an expert at that! | |||
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"Sounds like you're going for the wrong men. " This is the worst and most annoying sentence ever. Unless every male is the wrong one then ... ya know | |||
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"Sounds like you're going for the wrong men. This is the worst and most annoying sentence ever. Unless every male is the wrong one then ... ya know " It may be the most annoying thing from your perspective. For me it's less annoying than seeing an endless parade of women complaining they can't find a genuine single male, when I'd spent a decade trying and failing to get any of them to give me to time of day before giving up on the lot of them. The genuine single men are out there, you're just ignoring them in favour of the fakers. | |||
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"Are you too pleasant up front? I get gruff early on to scare them. Make them post videos of them jumping through hoops on YouTube before you chat further. They don't linger for meets chat. A lot only want to wank of course, so reality is scary for them. Sophie that's where I'm going wrong!! Thanks for that! Lol OP I feel your pain! There's been a couple of times this last month where I nearly sacked fab! I thought I was pretty good at ferreting out the guys just wanking, but my radar has been wonky and let me down!! I had a no show at a pub last week. And 2 hotel meets a few weeks ago who went silent on the day! It's not you, its them!! Grrr!
LITERALLY their loss!
What i don't get it is they ask if I've plans.... I said no then they tell me who they're trying to meet.... grrrr
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"I hear you on the needing a hug. Here’s a virtual hug from me! I’m hidden at the moment just due to loads of stuff going on and quite frankly quite a rubbish selection of men and women on here. Best meet I’ve had recently was going to a private party! I only knew the organiser. Xx " That's cos you're in Fife one of the reasons i left.
Thanks for the hug! Def needed xx | |||
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"Sounds like you're going for the wrong men. This is the worst and most annoying sentence ever. Unless every male is the wrong one then ... ya know It may be the most annoying thing from your perspective. For me it's less annoying than seeing an endless parade of women complaining they can't find a genuine single male, when I'd spent a decade trying and failing to get any of them to give me to time of day before giving up on the lot of them. The genuine single men are out there, you're just ignoring them in favour of the fakers." No and I hear that a lot from people I'm not interested in meeting. Usually people who have been told to read profiles a gazillion times and have th3 wrong attitude of "it's a sex site" .......it really isn't | |||
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"Sounds like you're going for the wrong men. This is the worst and most annoying sentence ever. Unless every male is the wrong one then ... ya know It may be the most annoying thing from your perspective. For me it's less annoying than seeing an endless parade of women complaining they can't find a genuine single male, when I'd spent a decade trying and failing to get any of them to give me to time of day before giving up on the lot of them. The genuine single men are out there, you're just ignoring them in favour of the fakers. No and I hear that a lot from people I'm not interested in meeting. Usually people who have been told to read profiles a gazillion times and have th3 wrong attitude of "it's a sex site" .......it really isn't " I always read profiles, which is why I never tried to contact 95%+ of the people I was interested in. | |||
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"I do feel for you as after checking out your profile and verifications you’re obviously a genuine swinger who likes but the social side as well as the play. There’s quite a few of us now who have on our profiles only club meets beceause of the reasons you’ve given. Most weekends a few of us get together at one of the Leeds clubs it’s not all cliquey and there’s a mixture of the sexes etc feel free to PM me and I’d be happy to give you details" Thank you. A couple of us go clubbing when we can . Was at cupids last weekend and enjoyed it and go to pandoras when we can | |||
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"There must be some crazy guys in the North East if they're standing you up!
Hope you feel better soon "I think some of them are broken | |||
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"No action.... I know I know many a thread regarding this however more and more of late I get badgered to meet and then when I say yes or instigate following on from their message they leave it unread or don't reply or all of a sudden develop some excuse or the worst reply "lol" having a total moan tonight. One of the worst weeks ever and all I wanted was a bit company and a cuddle but nope "Has happened to us too. Fantasists. Seem to love the idea until reality becomes too much for them  | |||
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"I do feel for you as after checking out your profile and verifications you’re obviously a genuine swinger who likes but the social side as well as the play. There’s quite a few of us now who have on our profiles only club meets beceause of the reasons you’ve given. Most weekends a few of us get together at one of the Leeds clubs it’s not all cliquey and there’s a mixture of the sexes etc feel free to PM me and I’d be happy to give you details Thank you. A couple of us go clubbing when we can . Was at cupids last weekend and enjoyed it and go to pandoras when we can " Funny you said Pandora’s that’s where a few of us are heading tonight unfortunately I’m out of your age range so I can’t PM you but if you message me I’m happy to reply and let you know what’s happening and when.Once the weather improves I’ll also be organising some road trips to Chams maybe Club F and Cupid’s.As I said it’s a friendly bunch all ages and preferences but all genuine | |||
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"Are you too pleasant up front? I get gruff early on to scare them. Make them post videos of them jumping through hoops on YouTube before you chat further. They don't linger for meets chat. A lot only want to wank of course, so reality is scary for them. Haha should I get my whip out?? " Experiment a bit - mention your 48'' xxxxwide strap-on, be a bit opinionated and mouthy. And definitely get them to record/post themselves jumping through a few dozen hoops to youtube, before you'll chat any further. | |||
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