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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was recently talking to a woman on here, I asked for a friend request so she said sure , then she asked for a face pic so I send one and then I'm blocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing weird about that...she obviously felt you weren't what she was looking for...dont take it personally, just move on..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

She might know you or you might not be her cup of tea.

We sent face pictures once and the guy immediately left the site . Its not worth worrying about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was recently talking to a woman on here, I asked for a friend request so she said sure , then she asked for a face pic so I send one and then I'm blocked? "

Maby she doesn't think there will be any chemistry or you might not be her type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not weird at all. It’s a regular occurrence. My face has launched a thousand blocks

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Yeah she probably recognised you and is in the process of exposing you to everyone you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Man but blocking feels a bit extreme like I would understand if I was sending harnessing messages but I was so friendly lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Man but blocking feels a bit extreme like I would understand if I was sending harnessing messages but I was so friendly lol"

Harrasing*

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Man but blocking feels a bit extreme like I would understand if I was sending harnessing messages but I was so friendly lol"

Blocking is a site tool that people use in various ways and for various reasons. It might sound harsh but if you just take it as one of those things your experience of fab will be much more pleasurable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would say normal reaction for a ot to seeing someone you arent going to take it further with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Huh did one of my posts get deleted lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"She might know you or you might not be her cup of tea.

We sent face pictures once and the guy immediately left the site . Its not worth worrying about "

That made me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking is easier than saying not what I'm looking for sorry.

You're not what she's looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She probably felt that you wasn't her physical type. Some block, because it's easier than having that awkward conversation, especially if you've been chatting for a little. Personally I would have preferred to have been honest. Blocking feels brutal if you've been nothing but friendly. It's just how some do it on here.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Polite way of saying no

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Ive had messages stop suddenly after sending a face pic. I often wonder if the next message would have been asking if I was the hunchbacks twin lol

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Totally normal on here. Try send photos with maybe a fig leave covering your face or important bits that way you might get second message to see more lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah but like what if it was a bad pic or something or could at least say not my type just blocking is cold haha but I suppose tis the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing weird going on there matey, a million other women to be nice to, your only a week in, get used to it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Yeah but like what if it was a bad pic or something or could at least say not my type just blocking is cold haha but I suppose tis the game "

It is indeed - and often people will block to save the trouble of sender messaging either to try and change their mind ask why (if a "thanks but no thanks" type message has been sent) or purely to stop further contact from that person at some point in the future.

It's the way of Fab - wouldn't let it worry you at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She might know you or you might not be her cup of tea.

We sent face pictures once and the guy immediately left the site . Its not worth worrying about "

I can picture the scene .. ‘Mum!? Dad!? Nooooooo!!! ’

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"She might know you or you might not be her cup of tea.

We sent face pictures once and the guy immediately left the site . Its not worth worrying about

That made me laugh!"

Made us laugh too. Still we do have faces that suit us perfectly for radio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She might know you or you might not be her cup of tea.

We sent face pictures once and the guy immediately left the site . Its not worth worrying about

That made me laugh!

Made us laugh too. Still we do have faces that suit us perfectly for radio "

Might have been your vicar

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"She might know you or you might not be her cup of tea.

We sent face pictures once and the guy immediately left the site . Its not worth worrying about

That made me laugh!

Made us laugh too. Still we do have faces that suit us perfectly for radio "

You should do the friday face pic swap. I am intreagued lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to sound harsh, I know I’m no oil painting but when I was single as you can imagine I had tons of messages a day. I blocked a fair few number of men in my single days based solely on their face pic they sent, it sounds awfully mean but if I didn’t fancy them then I knew they wasn’t for me and call it the cowards way out but I would instantly block because in my head it felt better doing that way instead of saying ‘I’m really sorry but you just aren’t my type’ even if we had exchanged some nice messages before face pics (which is why I insisted on face pics in first messages but didn’t always get them).

It’s a horrible thing to do but the same happens to women too.

Geeky x

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