FabSwingers.com forum: Tell tale signs a profile is fake

By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?"

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a female looking for me.

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Couples profiles where the guy meets alone.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they use naked pictures of Kelly Brook on their profile (not joking)

Tineye bloody everything now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they’ve been on a year with no verifications then it’s a no from me

No pictures also makes me suspect

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Not genuine, crikey, I just thought it was an abnormally large clitoris

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

I save that stuff for private messages

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Professional photos too good to be true. Ok some are real. But I’ve seen some guys photos and the bio just doesn’t wash with the photos. Also couple profiles with just the males photos and stolen photos. One of mine has been used by at least 4 other profiles on here. All reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they’ve been on a year with no verifications then it’s a no from me

No pictures also makes me suspect "

I was the same until I received a random hello from such a profile. Suspicions turned to some of the best sex I've ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples profiles where the guy meets alone..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shadow avatar with one line of text, will meet ages 18-99

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Oh I’ve seen a few ladies who talk like that!

I like to be fucked hard up the arse on occasion too (looks down and checks for rapidly growing willy!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?"
yes you can see say for example in a couples profile all the pics are of the guy and no pics of man and woman together oh and its always the guy chatting she's always doing ironing ,sleeping,working or with her master

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Oh I’ve seen a few ladies who talk like that!

I like to be fucked hard up the arse on occasion too (looks down and checks for rapidly growing willy!)

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"If they’ve been on a year with no verifications then it’s a no from me

No pictures also makes me suspect "

This 1 is not garenteed as i wos on over a year befor i got my 1st very.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Oh I’ve seen a few ladies who talk like that!

I like to be fucked hard up the arse on occasion too (looks down and checks for rapidly growing willy!)

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you could turn a cucumber on though so not a good example

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Dammit. I thought I was well in with Ethel from cleethorpes who said those exact words to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they’ve been on a year with no verifications then it’s a no from me

No pictures also makes me suspect

This 1 is not garenteed as i wos on over a year befor i got my 1st very."

Highly unlikely that a guys profile is fake veri's or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us we’ve found (as we are looking for females only): lack of face pic within the first couple of messages, we have a rule if they can’t provide a live face pic (if they haven’t got one on their verified profile) within the first couple of messages then we move on.

Vulgar language, while a handful of females might use that kind of ‘talk’ I don’t think most women would use that kind of language (if they were real we wouldn’t want to meet them anyway).

Veris if they have been on a long while without one that is a bit ‘alarmy’ for us, we also prefer a site supporter too as they seem a little more serious about it.

Geeky x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing."

How would it?

I’m a single fem so don’t have others to take pics of me very often - ergo the vast majority of my pics are selfies (albeit taken with camera on timer!)

Isn’t the opposite likely to be true? Ie if all pics look terribly professional and posed then there’s a high chance they were nicked from the internet?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"For us we’ve found (as we are looking for females only): lack of face pic within the first couple of messages, we have a rule if they can’t provide a live face pic (if they haven’t got one on their verified profile) within the first couple of messages then we move on.

Vulgar language, while a handful of females might use that kind of ‘talk’ I don’t think most women would use that kind of language (if they were real we wouldn’t want to meet them anyway).

Veris if they have been on a long while without one that is a bit ‘alarmy’ for us, we also prefer a site supporter too as they seem a little more serious about it.

Geeky x"

With you on the site supporter thing! Only site supporters can message me! Keeps the volume down too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vulgar language, while a handful of females might use that kind of ‘talk’ I don’t think most women would use that kind of language (if they were real we wouldn’t want to meet them anyway).

Veris if they have been on a long while without one that is a bit ‘alarmy’ for us, we also prefer a site supporter too as they seem a little more serious about it.

Geeky x

With you on the site supporter thing! Only site supporters can message me! Keeps the volume down too!

Yes that’s one of our filters now, it’s definitely helped!!

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve also found they tell us,

Straight away they are very horny

Won’t discuss a meet

Want to talk dirty straight away.

Obviously this is not 100% but it’s what we’ve found!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Couples profiles where the guy meets alone..... "

Damn, I'm a fake, all this time I thought I was real - oh hum.

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Dammit. I thought I was well in with Ethel from cleethorpes who said those exact words to me

Or Mrs Trellis from North Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Oh please tell me this isn't true?! Called decorum! Some people have no shame! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples profiles where the guy meets alone..... "

Preach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

How would it?

I’m a single fem so don’t have others to take pics of me very often - ergo the vast majority of my pics are selfies (albeit taken with camera on timer!)

Isn’t the opposite likely to be true? Ie if all pics look terribly professional and posed then there’s a high chance they were nicked from the internet? "

More referring to 'couples' accounts tbh but same with singles to a degree if they are meeting others. Everyone's a photographer these days! Your 'opposite' proposition isn't anything to do with multiple selfies.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

How would it?

I’m a single fem so don’t have others to take pics of me very often - ergo the vast majority of my pics are selfies (albeit taken with camera on timer!)

Isn’t the opposite likely to be true? Ie if all pics look terribly professional and posed then there’s a high chance they were nicked from the internet?

Okidoke. Let’s agree to disagree!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Old photos!

I was contacted by a couple when I first joined.

Only 2 pics of them together, obviously from a proper shoot, but dated 2013 (since deleted them but reposted them, so show new recent date)

I asked for recent pics, only got pics of him, then excuse wife would send one when she got home from work.

Never happened.

He wanted to arrange a social, then the wife called away with work, could we still meet?

I asked to speak to the wife via phone first, she had left her phone at home by accident!

I'd figured it was fake within a few messages, just wanted to see how far he'd go!

Yes I have a weird sense of humour at times

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Dammit. I thought I was well in with Ethel from cleethorpes who said those exact words to me

Or Mrs Trellis from North Wales

Cheeky bugger! I would never suggest a cucumber. I'm more of a butternut squash kinda gal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

How would it?

I’m a single fem so don’t have others to take pics of me very often - ergo the vast majority of my pics are selfies (albeit taken with camera on timer!)

Isn’t the opposite likely to be true? Ie if all pics look terribly professional and posed then there’s a high chance they were nicked from the internet?

Okidoke. Let’s agree to disagree!

Always a good default result on a forum

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Couples profiles where the guy meets alone.....

Preach"

*couples where the guy ONLY meets alone

We play as a couple & occasionally separately from our couples profile as we aren’t always free at the same time for meets. We have veri’s as a couple & both separately - so the fact that G meets alone from it most definitely doesn’t not make it a fake profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples with really old veris-I tend to think they maybe split up and it's just the guy using the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples profiles where the guy meets alone..... "

Not always the case, a couple I know, the lady loves her other half going out and coming back to tell her what he's been up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Dammit. I thought I was well in with Ethel from cleethorpes who said those exact words to me

Or Mrs Trellis from North Wales

Cheeky bugger! I would never suggest a cucumber. I'm more of a butternut squash kinda gal..."

Girthy

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

I tend to find where there’s no meets, photos or any sembalance of a decent profile it’s generally a fake.

There are exceptions to that but few and far between.

Also love to check the photos people put up. Saw one yesterday where the profile said we want guys only but there were two different women in the photos (did a freckle check) plus US style plugs in the background...

You develop a sense and it’s keep me from wasted meets. Never had one in all my years here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use Google Reverse Image Search to check any suspicious photos.

It's very good and will show you where else on the internet any particular photo is posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use Google Reverse Image Search to check any suspicious photos.

It's very good and will show you where else on the internet any particular photo is posted."

Just used it on your bath picture, it's showing on the Ideal Standard website!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Women offering immediate meets and giving you address details. ..

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Oh jesus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use Google Reverse Image Search to check any suspicious photos.

It's very good and will show you where else on the internet any particular photo is posted.

Just used it on your bath picture, it's showing on the Ideal Standard website!"

Will have to chase them up over unpaid royalties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on over a year and their profile still says "Will fill in later"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples profiles where the guy meets alone..... "

Ohh I don’t know we are a couple and both meet separately. For example MrP is off to a club tonight and I’m dropping him off

MrsK x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m suspicious where the profile is a couple and all female pics but looking for women, I want to see the guy too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it's a silouette

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By *oiretblancCouple
over a year ago

London

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

Oh Dear!

I was thinking of putting this sort of message on our profile to spice things up a little.

Not so sure now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wife away only male playing .

hubby only free today

wife wants to watch hubby get his cock sucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing."

I don't get how having selfies sets alarm bells ringing.

I have to take all my pictures myself. I ain't asking guys I meet to start taking pictures of me. I have to take about 20 to get one decent one to use.

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

How would it?

I’m a single fem so don’t have others to take pics of me very often - ergo the vast majority of my pics are selfies (albeit taken with camera on timer!)

Isn’t the opposite likely to be true? Ie if all pics look terribly professional and posed then there’s a high chance they were nicked from the internet? "

If you ever need a photographer let me know...

(I think we've met socially btw. so not quite the random offer...)

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth

"Women offering immediate meets and giving you address details. ..

Miss"

Yes. Not so much on here but on dating sites i see women who give their town as somewhere I know is basically a hamlet of 3 houses. They're immediately ringing alarms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

I don't get how having selfies sets alarm bells ringing.

I have to take all my pictures myself. I ain't asking guys I meet to start taking pictures of me. I have to take about 20 to get one decent one to use. "

I'd be lost without a mirror!!

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By *iSexGeordieMan
over a year ago

North Shields

Have had a lot of experience recently of couples profiles where the normal rule of addressing both people in messages hasn’t been applied and it turns out that it’s a single guy pretending to be partnered... there’s even some profiles where it used to be a couple who have broken up and the single guy uses the profile now...

That’s why being careful who we verify as genuine on here is important.

In general though if there are profiles that don’t contain much... have totally blank sets in terms of images or are very demanding for your KIK/Whatsapp then they’re usually fake or time wasters or people only looking to satisfy and gratify their own sexual desires.

Unfortunately, this is largely an issue with men.

Don’t assume that because a woman won’t immediately sent pictures or meet up or give out her number that she’s fake. The very real reality for women in these spheres and circles is that violence against women happens. Abuse of women happens. Leaking of women’s personal details on forums happens. Attempted shaming of women happens. Bullying and intimidation of women happens.

It’s understandable therefore that women would be very cautious on the site and needing to ensure a person is genuine before they even give out their number... let alone meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any profile that look suspect I tend to message them saying they are fake, if they reply with ‘why’ or on over reaction then they are definately dodgy

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I use a mirror and send full nude of me including my face, body parts photos are not showing who ya talking too, are they fake or just very shy and hiding thier activities from someone???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a few things haha! No photo veri no meet veris after being on the site a year!maybe one veri from a guy using cam who's profile is hidden to name a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

I don't get how having selfies sets alarm bells ringing.

I have to take all my pictures myself. I ain't asking guys I meet to start taking pictures of me. I have to take about 20 to get one decent one to use. "

You missed out the word 'all' which is quite important by context. Maybe if someone else was taking them you could get it down to one decent one in ten?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any profile that look suspect I tend to message them saying they are fake, if they reply with ‘why’ or on over reaction then they are definately dodgy

That’s rude and has no logic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any profile that look suspect I tend to message them saying they are fake, if they reply with ‘why’ or on over reaction then they are definately dodgy

So someone asks 'Why?' when subjected to an out-of-the-blue accusation and you assume they're fake?

If someone said that to me I'd probably give them a piece of my mind, and I can assure you I'm perfectly real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any profile that look suspect I tend to message them saying they are fake, if they reply with ‘why’ or on over reaction then they are definately dodgy

That’s rude and has no logic!"

Getting to the point has got to be logical!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I always think a profile is a bit suspect when every single veri has a hidden profile. Amongst other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any profile that look suspect I tend to message them saying they are fake, if they reply with ‘why’ or on over reaction then they are definately dodgy

That’s rude and has no logic!"

It is logical, it works for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any profile that look suspect I tend to message them saying they are fake, if they reply with ‘why’ or on over reaction then they are definately dodgy

That’s rude and has no logic!

Getting to the point has got to be logical!"

I get messages frequently saying you’re fake even when I have my profile active and veris showing. I assume it’s just desperate men seeking attention and trying to get a message regardless of the content.

So if someone’s questions your reasoning then they are fake?! How is that logical? Just nasty men abusing women for no reason, happens all day he time on here and it shouldn’t be condoned!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any profile that look suspect I tend to message them saying they are fake, if they reply with ‘why’ or on over reaction then they are definately dodgy

So someone asks 'Why?' when subjected to an out-of-the-blue accusation and you assume they're fake?

If someone said that to me I'd probably give them a piece of my mind, and I can assure you I'm perfectly real!"

It works for me, and let’s be honest, your profile doesn’t look fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any profile that look suspect I tend to message them saying they are fake, if they reply with ‘why’ or on over reaction then they are definately dodgy

That’s rude and has no logic!

Getting to the point has got to be logical!

So if someone’s questions your reasoning then they are fake?! How is that logical? Just nasty men abusing women for no reason, happens all day he time on here and it shouldn’t be condoned!!"

Just block them then, why would you question someone who thought you were fake?? That has no logic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently your fake if you don't answer all your messages and get wet by fancy a fuck babe messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently your fake if you don't answer all your messages and get wet by fancy a fuck babe messages! "

You mean to tell me those don't work? Dammit!!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"When it's a silouette

They’re dodgy those silhouettes, especially cave dwelling ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really don't care if anyone thinks I'm a fake. I can't change the often distorted perceptions of reality that others indulge in..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently your fake if you don't answer all your messages and get wet by fancy a fuck babe messages!

You mean to tell me those don't work? Dammit!!

Must try harder babes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it's a silouette

They’re dodgy those silhouettes, especially cave dwelling ones

Well that's my cover blown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to avoid people who’ve been on for a year with no verifications, no photos, wanting to talk about sex in the first message, there’s a few things we look for.

We’re both pretty good at sniffing out the fakes

Also reverse image search photos when they look suspicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently your fake if you don't answer all your messages and get wet by fancy a fuck babe messages!

You mean to tell me those don't work? Dammit!!

Must try harder babes!

Others: Fancy a fuck?

Me, an intellectual: Would you care to partake in some amorous activities involving a period of cunnillingus, followed by penile vaginal penetration culminating in mutual satisfaction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any profile that look suspect I tend to message them saying they are fake, if they reply with ‘why’ or on over reaction then they are definately dodgy

That’s rude and has no logic!

Getting to the point has got to be logical!

So if someone’s questions your reasoning then they are fake?! How is that logical? Just nasty men abusing women for no reason, happens all day he time on here and it shouldn’t be condoned!!"

Think you might be over-reacting a tad. We think it is quite funny when someone accuses us of being fake.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"When it's a silouette

They’re dodgy those silhouettes, especially cave dwelling ones

Well that's my cover blown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing."

Don't get this one?!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

Don't get this one?!"

Me neither

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Photos apparently of several people who show huge signs of body and face morphing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

Don't get this one?!

Me neither "

Me neither, mine all are

maybe they think they’re stolen off Facebook or something!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

I don't get how having selfies sets alarm bells ringing.

I have to take all my pictures myself. I ain't asking guys I meet to start taking pictures of me. I have to take about 20 to get one decent one to use.

You missed out the word 'all' which is quite important by context. Maybe if someone else was taking them you could get it down to one decent one in ten?"

How do you tell a selfie from one taken by someone else?! Mine are a mix of both but it's only me in the picture!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend some time viewing profiles but how do you know if the profiles are fake? Any tips?

If it's a female using vulgar language ....this is unlikely to be female, although there are the occasional rudey rudey out there.

Onjly if you ask nicely

Just checked your profile and it's fine. You aren't a rudey dudey!

It's the ones who write I want someone to fuck me hard up the arse and stick a cucumber in my sopping cunt that tend not to be written by a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on a different site you would get site generated messages supposedly from other members but if you replied to them more often than not you would get a ear bashing back

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By *ooyouwhoreWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Messages just off the "girl" saying that she is just organising a meet for her partner/boyfriend/husband. And there is no pictures of him on her profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing.

Don't get this one?!"

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messages just off the "girl" saying that she is just organising a meet for her partner/boyfriend/husband. And there is no pictures of him on her profile. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The have writing on them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures that are photo shopped to death.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?"

Not if both of them were in the pic

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By *voryChickforEbonyCockWoman
over a year ago

Home or Away

[Removed by poster at 19/01/18 18:40:09]

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By *voryChickforEbonyCockWoman
over a year ago

Home or Away

"If the pictures are all selfies that should set alarm bells ringing."

Why would that set alarm bells?! All of my pics are self taken

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By *voryChickforEbonyCockWoman
over a year ago

Home or Away

"[Removed by poster at 19/01/18 18:40:09]"

Soz forgot to reply and quote hence the delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic"

And if they weren't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic

And if they weren't?"

I have 20 years worth of pics with my ex, ever since smart phones I’d say 100% of them were selfies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic

And if they weren't?

I have 20 years worth of pics with my ex, ever since smart phones I’d say 100% of them were selfies

'Weren't'!

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

When there’s a non standard uk plug socket in the background! Little things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic

And if they weren't?

I have 20 years worth of pics with my ex, ever since smart phones I’d say 100% of them were selfies

'Weren't'!"

Were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic

And if they weren't?

I have 20 years worth of pics with my ex, ever since smart phones I’d say 100% of them were selfies

'Weren't'!

Were"

Ffs, it's like having teeth pulled sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic

And if they weren't?

I have 20 years worth of pics with my ex, ever since smart phones I’d say 100% of them were selfies

'Weren't'!

Were

Ffs, it's like having teeth pulled sometimes!"

Well make your point then and stop being arrogant!

My point is since smartphones all my pics with my ex were selfies taken on said smartphone. Your comment of “weren’t “ shed no light on what you were trying to say other than contradict my statement that all my pics WERE selfies since the purchase of my first smartphone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t we all just get along?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Can’t we all just get along?

I'm not feeling the love in this thread!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

You go for reverse psychology and put a post up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic

And if they weren't?

I have 20 years worth of pics with my ex, ever since smart phones I’d say 100% of them were selfies

'Weren't'!

Were

Ffs, it's like having teeth pulled sometimes!

Well make your point then and stop being arrogant!

The speech marks around weren't indicated it was a quote ie something previously said. Read back and it should make sense.

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic

And if they weren't?

I have 20 years worth of pics with my ex, ever since smart phones I’d say 100% of them were selfies

'Weren't'!

Were

Ffs, it's like having teeth pulled sometimes!

Well make your point then and stop being arrogant!

The speech marks around weren't indicated it was a quote ie something previously said. Read back and it should make sense."

No that's not how it reads at all. The quotes don't imply that. It reads like you are saying the previous 'were' is untrue.

If that's not what you meant here's a novel idea: explain clearly instead of getting defensive and obnoxious.

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"Can’t we all just get along?

I'm not feeling the love in this thread! "

The reason for this thread was really just to get advice as to which people to invest time with and those to avoid. The purpose was not to start a witch hunt.

Life is too short to spend time on those people that don’t enrich it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic

And if they weren't?

I have 20 years worth of pics with my ex, ever since smart phones I’d say 100% of them were selfies

'Weren't'!

Were

Ffs, it's like having teeth pulled sometimes!

Well make your point then and stop being arrogant!

The speech marks around weren't indicated it was a quote ie something previously said. Read back and it should make sense.

No that's not how it reads at all. The quotes don't imply that. It reads like you are saying the previous 'were' is untrue.

If that's not what you meant here's a novel idea: explain clearly instead of getting defensive and obnoxious."

What would be the point of the speech marks if I was just disagreeing with a post.

Here's a novel idea for you, only stick your nose in if you've got something sensible to add. Or do you want me to be clearer?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Problem with these threads is, they also act as a guide for the fakes to make their profiles less obvious....

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic

And if they weren't?

I have 20 years worth of pics with my ex, ever since smart phones I’d say 100% of them were selfies

'Weren't'!

Were

Ffs, it's like having teeth pulled sometimes!

Well make your point then and stop being arrogant!

The speech marks around weren't indicated it was a quote ie something previously said. Read back and it should make sense.

No that's not how it reads at all. The quotes don't imply that. It reads like you are saying the previous 'were' is untrue.

If that's not what you meant here's a novel idea: explain clearly instead of getting defensive and obnoxious.

What would be the point of the speech marks if I was just disagreeing with a post.

Here's a novel idea for you, only stick your nose in if you've got something sensible to add. Or do you want me to be clearer?"

The point of the quote marks would be to suggest you were disagreeing with the specific choice of word. With no other context offered this is a reasonable and valid interpretation of your post.

You could have followed up by explaining but no, you got insulting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they’ve been on a year with no verifications then it’s a no from me

No pictures also makes me suspect "

Unfortunately some of us not right age or status is wrong for most to meet I'm real looking to meet but I've been here over year with no verify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked at a couples profile and all the pictures were selfies. wouldn't you question that?

Not if both of them were in the pic

And if they weren't?

I have 20 years worth of pics with my ex, ever since smart phones I’d say 100% of them were selfies

'Weren't'!

Were

Ffs, it's like having teeth pulled sometimes!

Well make your point then and stop being arrogant!

The speech marks around weren't indicated it was a quote ie something previously said. Read back and it should make sense.

No that's not how it reads at all. The quotes don't imply that. It reads like you are saying the previous 'were' is untrue.

If that's not what you meant here's a novel idea: explain clearly instead of getting defensive and obnoxious.

What would be the point of the speech marks if I was just disagreeing with a post.

Here's a novel idea for you, only stick your nose in if you've got something sensible to add. Or do you want me to be clearer?

The point of the quote marks would be to suggest you were disagreeing with the specific choice of word. With no other context offered this is a reasonable and valid interpretation of your post.

You could have followed up by explaining but no, you got insulting. "

The point of quote marks is to quote, there is a massive clue in the words.

You must have a different interpretation of the word 'insulting', to most as well.