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By *reston.fabfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

Hey, anyone got any tips for single guys to go to clubs? Not been yet but want to go to one but don't wanna feel like a perv if you know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See if you can find a lady to couple up with?

All the guys I know that have been to clubs as a single guy have hated it

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By *reston.fabfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

Thanks, I think that's the best approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See if you can find a lady to couple up with?

All the guys I know that have been to clubs as a single guy have hated it "

If he could find a single lady he wouldn't need to go to the club lol x

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By *reston.fabfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

Oh I would. Would love some club fun

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Check out club reviews and find one that has good reviews from single guys .

On arrival you will get a tour round and you can ask to be introduced to some regulars.

Aim to enjoy a social evening out. Chat to as many people as you can , swap usernames and you could then get some verifications.

Dress appropriate dependent on the club. Smile and hover by the bar to chat to people. If you get invited to play or ask someone to join you, then that's an added bonus. But just go along to find out what it's all about.

Have fun.

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By *reston.fabfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston


"Check out club reviews and find one that has good reviews from single guys .

On arrival you will get a tour round and you can ask to be introduced to some regulars.

Aim to enjoy a social evening out. Chat to as many people as you can , swap usernames and you could then get some verifications.

Dress appropriate dependent on the club. Smile and hover by the bar to chat to people. If you get invited to play or ask someone to join you, then that's an added bonus. But just go along to find out what it's all about.

Have fun. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See if you can find a lady to couple up with?

All the guys I know that have been to clubs as a single guy have hated it

If he could find a single lady he wouldn't need to go to the club lol x"

Not necessarily lol loads of couples go to clubs?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hey, anyone got any tips for single guys to go to clubs? Not been yet but want to go to one but don't wanna feel like a perv if you know what I mean. "

Don’t behave like a perv then. Get yourself a drink and simply be sociable.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Go out as if you are going to any other type of social gathering - don't build it up into anything extraordinary. Expect to have a tour, chat with a few people. Anything else, such as relaxation in a jacuzzi is extra value for money.

Like many things, building it up into something big is a mistake, since when you have it behind you,it will seem somewhat ordinary.

Don't stay too long or expect to shag.

Some places have open non-members days, so lower pressure.

Or find other single men, just don't behave like hunters in a pack.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"

All the guys I know that have been to clubs as a single guy have hated it "

Not just me then

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Hey, anyone got any tips for single guys to go to clubs? Not been yet but want to go to one but don't wanna feel like a perv if you know what I mean. "

You won't feel like a perv fella, as everyone in there will be hoping to at least look at something

Do a forum search for 'single men' and you'll find lots of previous discussion about single guys in clubs. Good luck

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hey, anyone got any tips for single guys to go to clubs? Not been yet but want to go to one but don't wanna feel like a perv if you know what I mean. "

I been going to clubs mostly by myself for the past 5 years.I honestly enjoy the best Fridays , when the single guys are allowed . Because even being a women sometimes in the couples only nights they ,just want to couple up!

So be respectful , polite , clean and smelling nice is a plus . No means no ! And avoid to have your cock out , really close to someone ! Just be yourself and enjoy . Xxx

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Don't sit there talking to a couple, the lady of which has already decided she wants to shag you, and announce that if you don't get laid soon the club is shit and you are going home.

Yes folks it happened to us. Debs was really fucked off.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Go out as if you are going to any other type of social gathering - don't build it up into anything extraordinary. Expect to have a tour, chat with a few people. Anything else, such as relaxation in a jacuzzi is extra value for money.

Like many things, building it up into something big is a mistake, since when you have it behind you,it will seem somewhat ordinary.

Don't stay too long or expect to shag.

Some places have open non-members days, so lower pressure.

Or find other single men, just don't behave like hunters in a pack. "

Brilliant advice

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"

All the guys I know that have been to clubs as a single guy have hated it

Not just me then "

The club scene is not for everyone, some guys are a bit more nervous .But the single guys I personally meet in xtasia , cupids or Chams , they really enjoy it , not just the clubs but the environment itself . They take advantage of the clubs facilities also sauna , jacuzzi , sauna or steam room and sex is a plus .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go regular as clockwork to a club... loved every visit, there's nothing pervy about going... it's all about being social and making friends... some with benefits... some just bar friends

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

My advice - listen to all this advice and go to one.

You might think it’s the most boring night BUT it’s worth it. Women will respect that you have the balls to do it.

Just be decent friendly, don’t take it seriously.

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

I feel somewhat anxious about visiting a club, I was awful at finding dates in clubs when I was at Uni and the chances then were Skype m so I didn’t feel too bad. As I have got older I have become even worse and Have not been to any club in 15 yrs.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"

All the guys I know that have been to clubs as a single guy have hated it

Not just me then

The club scene is not for everyone, some guys are a bit more nervous .But the single guys I personally meet in xtasia , cupids or Chams , they really enjoy it , not just the clubs but the environment itself . They take advantage of the clubs facilities also sauna , jacuzzi , sauna or steam room and sex is a plus . "

I was in Chams on Friday night, with a female friend, and it was the best club visit I've had so far. Yes, the club does have a brilliant, relaxed atmosphere, and the people on the whole were very friendly, but would it have been the same experience if I had been single guy 51 on the night? I've previously visited Cupids, No.3, Atlantis and Club F, all as a single guy, and can confirm you are treated very differently

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By *reston.fabfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

Well thanks guys. I'm gonna a give it a whirl and will let.you know how I get on. Was just a bit dubious but fuck.it one life live it. Respect one another and can't go wrong

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"

All the guys I know that have been to clubs as a single guy have hated it

Not just me then

The club scene is not for everyone, some guys are a bit more nervous .But the single guys I personally meet in xtasia , cupids or Chams , they really enjoy it , not just the clubs but the environment itself . They take advantage of the clubs facilities also sauna , jacuzzi , sauna or steam room and sex is a plus .

I was in Chams on Friday night, with a female friend, and it was the best club visit I've had so far. Yes, the club does have a brilliant, relaxed atmosphere, and the people on the whole were very friendly, but would it have been the same experience if I had been single guy 51 on the night? I've previously visited Cupids, No.3, Atlantis and Club F, all as a single guy, and can confirm you are treated very differently "
last Friday I went to xtasia , so I was not in Chams. what you mean you are treated differently by whom? Bearing in mind that people who comes out in single night guys is because , they like the contact with them! I know a 52 years old , goes to Chams really fit and hot ! He loves Fridays and Sundays !

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"

All the guys I know that have been to clubs as a single guy have hated it

Not just me then

The club scene is not for everyone, some guys are a bit more nervous .But the single guys I personally meet in xtasia , cupids or Chams , they really enjoy it , not just the clubs but the environment itself . They take advantage of the clubs facilities also sauna , jacuzzi , sauna or steam room and sex is a plus .

I was in Chams on Friday night, with a female friend, and it was the best club visit I've had so far. Yes, the club does have a brilliant, relaxed atmosphere, and the people on the whole were very friendly, but would it have been the same experience if I had been single guy 51 on the night? I've previously visited Cupids, No.3, Atlantis and Club F, all as a single guy, and can confirm you are treated very differently last Friday I went to xtasia , so I was not in Chams. what you mean you are treated differently by whom? Bearing in mind that people who comes out in single night guys is because , they like the contact with them! I know a 52 years old , goes to Chams really fit and hot ! He loves Fridays and Sundays ! "

We had planned on going to Xtasia originally, but were put off when we discovered it was a bmfc event night. Plus we fancied the full dress down aspect. Yep, I think being a regular club goer works better for single guys

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Hey, anyone got any tips for single guys to go to clubs? Not been yet but want to go to one but don't wanna feel like a perv if you know what I mean. "

Take your first visit as a social night, chat to people & get to know them, ladies, couples and other single men. Some confident men get lucky straight away but for most, people need to get to know you & build up trust.

Good luck

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