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"Do you greet the lady with a hug or a handshake?" Neither. Just _ello. | |||
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"Do you greet the lady with a hug or a handshake? Neither. Just _ello." I had you down as someone who would fist bump. | |||
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"I bow and kiss the back of their hand " had this before | |||
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"Do you greet the lady with a hug or a handshake?" depends what the lady does | |||
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"Do you greet the lady with a hug or a handshake? Neither. Just _ello. I had you down as someone who would fist bump." Oh how misguided you are young man. | |||
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"I'd like a kiss on the cheek" Me too. And a friendly smile. | |||
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"Some very mixed opinions . We only started chatting yesterday, I think a kiss might be too much." Handshake and a big smile then | |||
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"Some very mixed opinions . We only started chatting yesterday, I think a kiss might be too much." Being serious now, the best greeting will be determined by how long you have been chatting with the lady plus how familiar you have become with her. A gentle hug is usually socially acceptable but make sure to study her body language in order to gauge that which she is comfortable with. Have fun | |||
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"Do you greet the lady with a hug or a handshake?" Cockshake. Her hand on my cock.. pleased to meet you sir. | |||
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"So handshake, a hug or just a smile for the greeting, I'm panicking already " Don't panic, she may go in for a hug on the day and surprise you.. Or failing that how about asking her beforehand how she would like to be greeted? | |||
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"Some very mixed opinions . We only started chatting yesterday, I think a kiss might be too much. Being serious now, the best greeting will be determined by how long you have been chatting with the lady plus how familiar you have become with her. A gentle hug is usually socially acceptable but make sure to study her body language in order to gauge that which she is comfortable with. Have fun " Good point on body language. Personally I think a hug is too familiar, but a continental greeting or a very quick kiss to the back of the ladies hand would be acceptable. You need to deliver in a Respectful and non cringey way, unless encouraged further. The end of the date of course is quite another thing. Giggling now remembering how mine and FTs first date went | |||
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"So handshake, a hug or just a smile for the greeting, I'm panicking already " Smile. Hug. And tell her something nice. | |||
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"So handshake, a hug or just a smile for the greeting, I'm panicking already Smile. Hug. And tell her something nice. " say 'nice of you to make an effort' in a sarcastic voice | |||
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"Argh more mixed opinions! This is going to be a very awkward greeting " Stand and wave in the doorway | |||
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"So handshake, a hug or just a smile for the greeting, I'm panicking already Smile. Hug. And tell her something nice. " | |||
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"Last time I went out and met someone for a date, I had agreed in advance that I’d do a rooster hand move to indicate I wanted to kiss. Do not follow my example. I bomb at dates. " Rooster hand move ? | |||
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"So handshake, a hug or just a smile for the greeting, I'm panicking already Smile. Hug. And tell her something nice. say 'nice of you to make an effort' in a sarcastic voice " | |||
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"Last time I went out and met someone for a date, I had agreed in advance that I’d do a rooster hand move to indicate I wanted to kiss. Do not follow my example. I bomb at dates. Rooster hand move ?" Hand with fingers extended upwards from head. Like a rooster. I’m so fanciable. | |||
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"Argh more mixed opinions! This is going to be a very awkward greeting " Where will you be meeting her? | |||
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"I met someone outside Canary Wharf station. I rang him because I wasn't sure which entrance he was at, and there were a lot of people outside. We were talking on the phone as we spotted each other, laughed and smiled. When I got to him he kissed me on the cheek, took my hand and led me around the wharf, to look for the bar he had chosen for us. I like a man who takes charge like that; it is a terribly hot aphrodisiac to me." Yes but can all men carry this off ? It’s a fine line from gentlemanly to too touchy too soon in my opinion. | |||
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"I met someone outside Canary Wharf station. I rang him because I wasn't sure which entrance he was at, and there were a lot of people outside. We were talking on the phone as we spotted each other, laughed and smiled. When I got to him he kissed me on the cheek, took my hand and led me around the wharf, to look for the bar he had chosen for us. I like a man who takes charge like that; it is a terribly hot aphrodisiac to me. Yes but can all men carry this off ? It’s a fine line from gentlemanly to too touchy too soon in my opinion. " I think it's either natural to them or not. I'm not one for walking around hand in hand, but I felt very comfortable holding his hand. | |||
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"Definitely a pick on the cheek, i think if i didn't get that on a first meet then the person wasn't attracted to me." You are large/fat/ample/curvy perfection!! (It's how she describes herself on her profile, to whom it concerns) I tend to give the peck on the cheek and a big smile if I'm attracted and for the very reason that attraction is unclear until you do, usually. | |||
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" Rooster hand move ?" A cock grab? | |||
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"At the start of a social meet he kissed my cheek. I could smell he was a smoker although his profile says "non smoker". A bad start!" Maybe he was holding it for a friend? | |||
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"Hand shake, then swiftly slide your hand up her wrist and grab it with your other hand too and proceed to give her a Chinese burn. She won't know what the fucks going on but you're letting her know that you're edgy and don't respect traditional boundaries, Ladies love an edgy man." love it.. X | |||
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"Hand shake, then swiftly slide your hand up her wrist and grab it with your other hand too and proceed to give her a Chinese burn. She won't know what the fucks going on but you're letting her know that you're edgy and don't respect traditional boundaries, Ladies love an edgy man." Haha! Fantastic! | |||
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"Hand shake, then swiftly slide your hand up her wrist and grab it with your other hand too and proceed to give her a Chinese burn. She won't know what the fucks going on but you're letting her know that you're edgy and don't respect traditional boundaries, Ladies love an edgy man." | |||
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"Say Hi and give her a nice cock pic. That seems to be an acceptable introduction around here!" Framed? I would judge on the choice of frame | |||
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"Say Hi and give her a nice cock pic. That seems to be an acceptable introduction around here! Framed? I would judge on the choice of frame " | |||
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"Say Hi and give her a nice cock pic. That seems to be an acceptable introduction around here! Framed? I would judge on the choice of frame " Laminated. Seriously OP maybe let her make the move. I would say a handshake but then I tend to get nervous and throw myself into a hug which can be awkward and take people by surprise. | |||
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"Last time I went out and met someone for a date, I had agreed in advance that I’d do a rooster hand move to indicate I wanted to kiss. Do not follow my example. I bomb at dates. Rooster hand move ? Hand with fingers extended upwards from head. Like a rooster. I’m so fanciable. " You are actually | |||
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"If they look like their picture - a cheek kiss If not a high five in the face with a brick " | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike " Ah well, on to the next | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike " Oh no. Onwards and upwards? | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike " Did you kiss or handshake? | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike " More importantly - did they resemble their pics? | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike " I take it there was no kiss? | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike Did you kiss or handshake?" Smile. | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike Oh no. Onwards and upwards?" Always | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike More importantly - did they resemble their pics? " Pretty much. | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike Did you kiss or handshake?" Yes do tell | |||
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"I expect you to serenade me with Sheeran when we meet. Just sayin’" Pffff...I expect 7 types of cheesecakes on my arrival! | |||
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"I expect you to serenade me with Sheeran when we meet. Just sayin’ Pffff...I expect 7 types of cheesecakes on my arrival!" I have 12 (one of them is not really a cheesecake, just a promise of one) | |||
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"Id presume some chemistry already if you're meeting. A kiss on the cheek, surely. " I can't tell if I have chemistry with somebody I've never met. | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike Did you kiss or handshake? Smile." Wise move | |||
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"It's done. I probably had more chemistry with my now lost bike Did you kiss or handshake? Smile. Wise move " Considering the outcome yes it was | |||
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"Id presume some chemistry already if you're meeting. A kiss on the cheek, surely. I can't tell if I have chemistry with somebody I've never met. " It’s happened to me a couple of times, last time was with Sir. We messaged intensely for two weeks before we met and spoke most days. So when we met the fire was glowing hot to the point I was worried meeting in person might ruin it. It didn’t of course | |||
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"I met someone outside Canary Wharf station. I rang him because I wasn't sure which entrance he was at, and there were a lot of people outside. We were talking on the phone as we spotted each other, laughed and smiled. When I got to him he kissed me on the cheek, took my hand and led me around the wharf, to look for the bar he had chosen for us. I like a man who takes charge like that; it is a terribly hot aphrodisiac to me." That sound's lovely,suppose it could be a bit of a bugger if you'd have changed your mind when you clapped eyes on him though. | |||
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"Don't handshake. " I agree I'd feel it was too formal like a job interview Hug or kiss on cheek x | |||
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"Just say _ello have a conversation Make sure u listen when asking her questions as there may be a suprise exam later just chill stay calm have a nice chat see what happens worst thing that can happen is you dont meet again That may or may not be in your control" You do realise he’s been and met her and come back again to report? | |||
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"Just say _ello have a conversation Make sure u listen when asking her questions as there may be a suprise exam later just chill stay calm have a nice chat see what happens worst thing that can happen is you dont meet again That may or may not be in your control You do realise he’s been and met her and come back again to report? " No i didnt just read the first one and put my opinion | |||
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