FabSwingers.com forum: Converting “Looked @ me” to messages

By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

I seem to be doing something wrong. I get a few “Looked @ me” but they don’t turn into messages. Obviously the lack of verifications is killing me but is there anything else that Dan be done?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Probably they looked at you profile and you weren't for them or vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to be doing something wrong. I get a few “Looked @ me” but they don’t turn into messages. Obviously the lack of verifications is killing me but is there anything else that Dan be done?"

Mate you're doing nothing wrong. People on here like to look but not chat, that's just the way it is. Don't take it to heart, just have lighthearted fun on the forums and don't take it mega seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably they looked at you profile and you weren't for them or vice versa. "

And also this...

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The veri will stop most people. Sort that first.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified

Miss

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We get hundreds of people looking at us daily we go days without getting a message. People look to see if you're of interest to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself.

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified

Miss"

Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.

Keeping my chin up.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP why would they message you?

They had a look and decided you are not for them, if they are interested they will contact you.

Most people don't bother with who's looked at me, it is a waste of their time. Plus the site has a setting you can use where you don't show up on this list so you won't have any idea of the actual numbers who check you out.

Many ladies and couples choose to use the "stealth" feature because it can get rather annoying to receive lots of messages that say "you looked at me, wanna fuck?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many ladies and couples choose to use the "stealth" feature because it can get rather annoying to receive lots of messages that say "you looked at me, wanna fuck?""

this is why i use the stealth feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many ladies and couples choose to use the "stealth" feature because it can get rather annoying to receive lots of messages that say "you looked at me, wanna fuck?"

this is why i use the stealth feature "

Me too.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I’d be interested to see if your views stay at the same level now you’ve changed pic ...

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"I’d be interested to see if your views stay at the same level now you’ve changed pic ..."

Do you think they’ll go up or down?

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Down tbh. First was an intriguing pic which didn’t give much away. Second is just another bum pic.

Happy to be proved wrong !

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"Down tbh. First was an intriguing pic which didn’t give much away. Second is just another bum pic.

Happy to be proved wrong !"

Advice taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tons of people look at us everyday but rarely get messages lol.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many ladies and couples choose to use the "stealth" feature because it can get rather annoying to receive lots of messages that say "you looked at me, wanna fuck?"

this is why i use the stealth feature

Me too.

bugger

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

I'll text you now !

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Tons of people look at us everyday but rarely get messages lol.

Geeky x"

This

I estimate 1 /200 views send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try the chat rooms. It could help with a veri?

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"I seem to be doing something wrong. I get a few “Looked @ me” but they don’t turn into messages. Obviously the lack of verification's is killing me but is there anything else that can be done?"

think of your profile as a shop window laying out what is on offer

Not every one who looks at the display will come and buy,

but the more attractive it is the better your chances

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"I'll text you now ! "

Next stop a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll text you now !

Next stop a verification "

Verifications arent everything

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Maybe add some more photos... your write up is good though

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified

Miss

Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.

Keeping my chin up."

How would you manage a play meet in that case?

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

"I'll text you now !

Next stop a verification "

I could verify you on cam if you have the newspaper of today, a mic and a watermelon ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People look at my profile to find out who it is making a twat of himself on the forum

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I get a handful of people look at me a week!

It's therefore very hard to resist the temptation to try and "follow up" these seemingly vague shows of interest.

However, experience has shown that it is generally a wasted effort.

When someone likes you, they will let you know.

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified

Miss

Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.

Keeping my chin up.

How would you manage a play meet in that case?"

None “drop of the hat” planning. Military precision etc etc

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"Maybe add some more photos... your write up is good though

What would you recommend?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified

Miss

Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.

Keeping my chin up.

How would you manage a play meet in that case?

None “drop of the hat” planning. Military precision etc etc"

You can plan to go to an oraganised social then. If I'm being blunt, you might struggle, you aren't verified and have loads of reasons why you can't do it, this makes people wary.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes drop a little polite thank you for looking at my profile message.

Its worked on another site I'm on..... sometimes have a good chat and on the odd occasion a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tons of people look at us everyday but rarely get messages lol.

Geeky x

This

I estimate 1 /200 views send a message "

If that’s what you get what chance do we have? X

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I sometimes drop a little polite thank you for looking at my profile message.

Its worked on another site I'm on..... sometimes have a good chat and on the odd occasion a meet."

Personally, I dont think that's a good idea. The fact they looked doesn't mean they are interested, it more likely means they aren't, or they would message/wink/fab a pic.

If they were repeatedly looking, maybe.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Many ladies and couples choose to use the "stealth" feature because it can get rather annoying to receive lots of messages that say "you looked at me, wanna fuck?"

this is why i use the stealth feature

Me too.

Wow a single male who’s so inundated with messages he needs to use stealth mode, that’s a first for us? Good for you must be doing something right.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Tons of people look at us everyday but rarely get messages lol.

Geeky x

This

I estimate 1 /200 views send a message

If that’s what you get what chance do we have? X"

Looked at me, tells you next to nothing. I'd say most people look in stealth mode anyway. If someone is interested, they'll message, or if you're interested in them, you send a message. Keep it simple

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

The fact is no one will ever know the ratio of 'looks' that turn into 'messages' because you don't know how many people looked at you in stealth mode. The only person that knows that is Admin and I doubt very much that they will tell us

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified

Miss

Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.

Keeping my chin up.

How would you manage a play meet in that case?

None “drop of the hat” planning. Military precision etc etc

You can plan to go to an oraganised social then. If I'm being blunt, you might struggle, you aren't verified and have loads of reasons why you can't do it, this makes people wary.

Good luck."

Blunt is fine. But being a single dad brings challenges when there is no support network but that is a whole different forum post.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified

Miss

Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.

Keeping my chin up.

How would you manage a play meet in that case?

None “drop of the hat” planning. Military precision etc etc

You can plan to go to an oraganised social then. If I'm being blunt, you might struggle, you aren't verified and have loads of reasons why you can't do it, this makes people wary.

Good luck.

Blunt is fine. But being a single dad brings challenges when there is no support network but that is a whole different forum post."

I get that, but if it's impossible to get to a social, or a club that's open day and evening, surely the same logic means it's impossible to meet?

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"How about a club or social op?.good way to meet new people and get known or verified

Miss

Being a single working dad makes anything other than a social (non-club) tricky.

Keeping my chin up.

How would you manage a play meet in that case?

None “drop of the hat” planning. Military precision etc etc

You can plan to go to an oraganised social then. If I'm being blunt, you might struggle, you aren't verified and have loads of reasons why you can't do it, this makes people wary.

Good luck.

Blunt is fine. But being a single dad brings challenges when there is no support network but that is a whole different forum post.

I get that, but if it's impossible to get to a social, or a club that's open day and evening, surely the same logic means it's impossible to meet?"

Point taken. But a coffee is surely easier as a first social and less pressure.

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Be yourself.

I agree xx we are nothing but honest and ourselves x- best way x

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