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"So a lot of people on here seem to be hung up with labelling your sexuality. I would prefer it didn't rate your sexuality as it's very loose to interpretation I would say I'm straight, I don't find men attractive, I don't fancy men, and have no interest in kissing or cuddling a man. However I would let a guy fuck me. I know some people will say I'm gay some will say I'm not but surely it's up to me Rant over" Definately gay. | |||
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"Don't think anyone would suggest you are gay considering you're looking for women as well as being open to having sexual contact with men, not to mention your profile pics!! They may suggest you are bi-curious or bisexual though which would be more accurate dependent on whether you've acted on that curiosity or not. As to how you choose to label yourself, that's entirely up to you - think Fab only provides those categories to allow for easier searching facilities. Don't however fall into the trap of thinking that identifying as straight increases your chances of meeting ladies - as some do. For every person that won't meet guys identifying as bi, there are just as many that actively seek them so by opening one door, you're closing another. " Think you've nailed it there | |||
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"Don't think anyone would suggest you are gay considering you're looking for women as well as being open to having sexual contact with men, not to mention your profile pics!! They may suggest you are bi-curious or bisexual though which would be more accurate dependent on whether you've acted on that curiosity or not. As to how you choose to label yourself, that's entirely up to you - think Fab only provides those categories to allow for easier searching facilities. Don't however fall into the trap of thinking that identifying as straight increases your chances of meeting ladies - as some do. For every person that won't meet guys identifying as bi, there are just as many that actively seek them so by opening one door, you're closing another. " | |||
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"Why are there so many threads from guys on the topic of being Bi, straight, gay or even fab straight. Paranoia about labels or lack of self belief." Labels prove very handy for guys finding us. Some want to over complicate the system | |||
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"I think when it comes to gay or straight it's about the heart not the c#ck." Yes, we agree. The emotional and the physical are different things entirely. But labels encourage stereotypes (and consequently prejudice) and sexuality is more complex than that surely...we think the rainbow is an excellent symbol of the LGBT movement as it emphasises the whole spectrum rather than just discrete categories. Live as you want to live, don’t hurt people (intentionally anyway!), be kind and tolerant of others, defend others who are being abused. What does it matter to anyone else if you like being fucked? If it does, they are the ones with issues and certainly not you OP. Have fun! | |||
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"I think when it comes to gay or straight it's about the heart not the c#ck. Yes, we agree. The emotional and the physical are different things entirely. But labels encourage stereotypes (and consequently prejudice) and sexuality is more complex than that surely...we think the rainbow is an excellent symbol of the LGBT movement as it emphasises the whole spectrum rather than just discrete categories. Live as you want to live, don’t hurt people (intentionally anyway!), be kind and tolerant of others, defend others who are being abused. What does it matter to anyone else if you like being fucked? If it does, they are the ones with issues and certainly not you OP. Have fun!" | |||
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