FabSwingers.com forum: Ever wanted to fuck your ex just so you can have sex with someone you trust?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Manage to keep those pesky feelings at bay?

Is it possible to go back to just sex after having a relationship do you think or is there too many feelings in the way?

Genuine question btw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say most people have

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No there's a reason they are an ex.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Why read the same book twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried it not long ago .not the same something I'd not do again if I can help it think once it's an ex it's for a reason .even tho the attractions still there it didnt feel right .I suppose it depends on what kind of break up tho

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"No there's a reason they are an ex. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say most have but I did with an ex. It was sometime after we split but it happened and for a while was fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv watched aliens 10 times.....get my point?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Ewww no I wouldn't touch him with a shitty stick

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By *ootleCouple
over a year ago

Romford, Essex

"No there's a reason they are an ex. "
exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv watched aliens 10 times.....get my point?"

You love Sigourney Weaver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not If he was the last man on Earth and I was gagging for it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no they're a ex for some reason lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wouldn't be my ex if I trusted them! So no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how dead it is

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Never done it.

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By *ittle earsMan
over a year ago

south oxfordshire

Nope ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I trusted them, it's unlikely they'd be an ex.

Time moves only in one direction, forward.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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My ex FB yes

My ex BF...there is a reason I had a FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah fuck him in the temple with an icicle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After me and my ex husband split we had some great sex.

Geeky x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nope.When it's done it's done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah fuck him in the temple with an icicle!"
Nice, no evidence

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

All depend on the reasons you separate each other I guess.

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

From*

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My ex-husband, father of my children is one of only two people on this planet I trust...the other is my sister.

Would I fuck him again?!! HELL no!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came close with an ex but we decided it was better if we didn’t, we’ve remained friends as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manage to keep those pesky feelings at bay?

Is it possible to go back to just sex after having a relationship do you think or is there too many feelings in the way?

Genuine question btw x"

Yes

really tempted to contact him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my ex ex was a great fuck and we matched perfectly in bed, a shame he was a liar and a manipulative fucker or i would have fucked him again recently

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Manage to keep those pesky feelings at bay?

Is it possible to go back to just sex after having a relationship do you think or is there too many feelings in the way?

Genuine question btw x

Yes

really tempted to contact him "

No! Be strong!

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

No. I'd not trust my ex as far as I could drop kick him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg no way ex for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my ex ex was a great fuck and we matched perfectly in bed, a shame he was a liar and a manipulative fucker or i would have fucked him again recently "

yes same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would if she just sorted out her teeth and bad breath- sorry but oral hygiene is important and her kids turned my stomach!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I would if she just sorted out her teeth and bad breath- sorry but oral hygiene is important and her kids turned my stomach!

Were her teeth nice before you started dating her?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would if she just sorted out her teeth and bad breath- sorry but oral hygiene is important and her kids turned my stomach!

Were her teeth nice before you started dating her?!

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and regretted it as soon as it happened

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"My ex FB yes

My ex BF...there is a reason I had a FB

Actually, would I really? I'm going to consider this again and return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the ex i guess.

I've slept with one of mine since the breakup, and although i was a little concerned about it potentially sparking feelings off again, it wasn't the case at all. Felt very different and just confirmed to me that there would be no going back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no. It was awful sex when I had to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! You only look back if you're struggling to go forward.

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK

It obviously depends on the ex and the circumstances under which you separated.

I'd advise you not to go there and put your energies in to resolving your trust issues, especially if one of the reasons you broke up was an issue of trust.

Trust is a bastard to regain but remember this is swinging and you don't necessarily have to trust guys completely dependent on what you are after.

If it's a relationship that's different but if it's NSA fun then it's just the mutual enjoyment of each other's bodies and skills so relax and go for it in your local club where you should get the protection and safe environment to enjoy yourself.

xxx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That's a really tough question.

It depends on the circumstances on why you split up I think.

It has worked for me in the past.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Wouldnt trust my ex as far as i could throw him. Constant liar

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"That's a really tough question.

It depends on the circumstances on why you split up I think.

It has worked for me in the past."

It's also easy when there's no one else to pine for the things you used to share together.

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely and I have when the feeling was right for both of us (as in we are also both single).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Fab friends I trust more than my ex and they have earned it

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Manage to keep those pesky feelings at bay?

Is it possible to go back to just sex after having a relationship do you think or is there too many feelings in the way?

Genuine question btw x"

They are ex's for a reason........

For me its a "no, I couldnt".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never ever although I'd have a job, he died.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had sex with both my ex partners post relationship , if it works for you then why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er, no. They are exes for a reason. I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn’t for the simple reason I don’t fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely hell no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's a really tough question.

It depends on the circumstances on why you split up I think.

It has worked for me in the past.

It's also easy when there's no one else to pine for the things you used to share together."

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By *he artful todger.Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Never and not a chance!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Definitely not my ex husband no, bleugh!! I only really have a hankering after my first love, he was such a good lover.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would if she just sorted out her teeth and bad breath- sorry but oral hygiene is important and her kids turned my stomach!

Were her teeth nice before you started dating her?!

Yeah, but she had a fear of the dentist and they just fell apart after years of smoking, bad diet and what I’d assume was bad brushing! She used to be stunning, now she has a smile like sugar puffs with a couple of mates missing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it trust though or just familiarity you have?

And no because a cheating ex, isn’t trustworthy sexually or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do it the once for old times sake, if you must.

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