FabSwingers.com forum: Loud aggressive people

By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I find this a really ugly characteristic in people, especially if they also happen to be in love with themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny when others see it but they don't .Think we all know someone we could just slap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lady at my work, she’s getting married about a month and a bit after us, she asks me questions most days how I’m getting on, I literally open my mouth to say something and she butts in and talks over me and doesn’t shut up!! I’m standing there like ‘you asked me the fucking question!’

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my pet peeves in people....have some bloody decorum for goodness sake

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

there are plenty on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)"

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scary people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life. "

You never know.

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life.

You never know. "

Even if you are the most amazing con artist (like sneaky Pete) there are some personality traits that will always be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's Pete?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are plenty on here lol

Only plenty!

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

BEING LOUD AND AGGRESSIVE.. I DON'T SEE WHAT THE FUCKING PROBLEM IS

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"there are plenty on here lol

Only plenty!

Have you got Fab sound?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life.

You never know.

Even if you are the most amazing con artist (like sneaky Pete) there are some personality traits that will always be there."

Bat shit crazy doesn’t hide itself for long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life.

You never know.

Even if you are the most amazing con artist (like sneaky Pete) there are some personality traits that will always be there.

Bat shit crazy doesn’t hide itself for long

Nope and there's always some guy that knows exactly how to unleash it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find this a really ugly characteristic in people, especially if they also happen to be in love with themselves."

You would probably Hate me then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are plenty on here lol

Only plenty!

Have you got Fab sound?

And very sensitive hearing.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life.

You never know.

Even if you are the most amazing con artist (like sneaky Pete) there are some personality traits that will always be there."

I am always this hideous

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life.

You never know.

Even if you are the most amazing con artist (like sneaky Pete) there are some personality traits that will always be there.

Bat shit crazy doesn’t hide itself for long

Nope and there's always some guy that knows exactly how to unleash it!"

Mostly the ones who pretend to be all nice are the fruit loops.

I don't pretend

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life.

You never know.

Even if you are the most amazing con artist (like sneaky Pete) there are some personality traits that will always be there.

Bat shit crazy doesn’t hide itself for long

No, no it does not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life.

You never know.

Even if you are the most amazing con artist (like sneaky Pete) there are some personality traits that will always be there."

If we all write exactly how we speak, and exactly what we are thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone seen my camel?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Ive no time for aggressive, loud, overbearing or pushy people.

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

People wait to talk, rather than listen these days. In fact they don't wait ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life.

You never know.

Even if you are the most amazing con artist (like sneaky Pete) there are some personality traits that will always be there.

Bat shit crazy doesn’t hide itself for long

Nope and there's always some guy that knows exactly how to unleash it!

Mostly the ones who pretend to be all nice are the fruit loops.

I don't pretend

I think my 'nice' circuits are starting to short out.

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By *egWorshipperMan
over a year ago

Gods Country

"Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit". Desiderata, Max Ehrmann (1872–1945)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find this a really ugly characteristic in people, especially if they also happen to be in love with themselves."

That's just like my brother

I don't tend to get on with those sort of people myself

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

"there are plenty on here lol

Only plenty!

Have you got Fab sound?

And very sensitive hearing."

As someone as said personality normally shows through on a message or profile

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't really like to judge people by how they act on a screen on a website where folk flash their naked bodies, write about the way someone fucks them and basically acts false and such.

But then that is just me.

Carry on as you were folk, with class and decorum (I like that word)

I don't think an online persona is completely the opposite of how a person acts in the real life.

You never know.

Even if you are the most amazing con artist (like sneaky Pete) there are some personality traits that will always be there.

Bat shit crazy doesn’t hide itself for long

Nope and there's always some guy that knows exactly how to unleash it!

Mostly the ones who pretend to be all nice are the fruit loops.

I don't pretend

I think my 'nice' circuits are starting to short out.

Nice is such a nondescript word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People wait to talk, rather than listen these days. In fact they don't wait ..."

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"Nice is such a nondescript word."

You called

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Mostly the ones who pretend to be all nice are the fruit loops."

Not me though

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

" As someone as said personality normally shows through on a message or profile

Poor personality does not automatically equate to being loud though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quietly confident.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I may have been loud & aggressive at the weekend.

But he was an arrogant arse, upset a good friend, and that's something I can't abide.

I have no problem voicing an opinion when justified

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

" As someone as said personality normally shows through on a message or profile

Poor personality does not automatically equate to being loud though

It doesn’t no you are right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't tell what someone is like from a profile and if they are sociopaths or psychopaths it's hard to tell in person until you get to know them better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly the ones who pretend to be all nice are the fruit loops.

And some are mad as a...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never really know what’s happening with someone. Can’t we all just give each a little break and have some compassion?

Talk to the person. And if they’re finding it hard to explain, have patience. Even the loud aggressive people are hurting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who talks very loudly and animated. He comes across as aggressive but he's not really.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Aggressive is never really attractive .

Respectful people will always find a bigger welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a loud, sometimes agressive (not fighty just ‘calls a cunt a cunt’) person I must say some of you are quite unfair. The world needs people who won’t sit back and take shit. Loud agressive people get stuff done. You only need fear us if you’re scared of holding a mirror to yourself. We’ll tell you if you piss us off. Plus there’s no shame in loving yourself. Crikey it’s better than self loathing.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"As a loud, sometimes agressive (not fighty just ‘calls a cunt a cunt’) person I must say some of you are quite unfair. The world needs people who won’t sit back and take shit. Loud agressive people get stuff done. You only need fear us if you’re scared of holding a mirror to yourself. We’ll tell you if you piss us off. Plus there’s no shame in loving yourself. Crikey it’s better than self loathing. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps. I’m loud because I’m deaf. Not everything is easy to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don’t judge people, not met anyone yet without a flaw.

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

People seem to be conflating assertiveness with Aggression. I mean: dictators get stuff done; offfice bullies get stuff done. It doesn't mean it's acceptable behaviour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People seem to be conflating assertiveness with Aggression. I mean: dictators get stuff done; offfice bullies get stuff done. It doesn't mean it's acceptable behaviour..."

I don’t think anyone said dictators and office bullies were acceptable.

My point was not all loud aggressive people are gobshites. Others have the opposite point. Funny thing about debates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aggressive is never really attractive .

Respectful people will always find a bigger welcome "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best not to have any opinion or thoughts on anything ever, or someone will cry about being judged.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

To my mind (and what I have always been taught) is that anger, jealousy, aggression and that kind of behaviour all boils down to someone wanting to take something away from you because they believe there isn't enough to go around.

Not enough time, not enough money, not enough love etc etc and yet there is enough. There's enough for everyone.

Often those that behave like this feel that they don't have enough (of something) and yet it's there. It's everywhere.

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Ps. I’m loud because I’m deaf. Not everything is easy to see. "

What complete utter nonsense.

If you think the way to go thru life is calling everyone a cunt and being loud and aggressive to get stuff done is the way forward then good luck.

Being confrontational will lead to more shouting and issues.

As for people like this being the only way to get stuff done.absolute twaddle.

You have only got to listen to a parliamentary broadcast in the house of lords to realise shouting achieves nothing other than one person trying to be louder than the other.

To get stuff done you need organised leaders who lead by example not going around shouting at everyone.

But hey if this is your way crack on,but I warn you your in for a very stressful life.

On the note of hearing issues.well that's a personal issue that I wouldn't know about other than,there is plenty of equipment out their to aid hearing.

If this is not possible then communication is the way forward,inform people rather than just shouting.

As for your last point.

Give me someone who knows their flaws and is self critical anyday over a narcissist who never thinks they are wrong and their opinion is the only opinion that matters.

As a builder I have spent my entire working life around egomaniacs and loud aggressive people let me tell you no one thinks highly of them other than themselves!

These guys were usually the school bully, most act like spoilt children everytime things don't go their way.

Shouting and being aggressive is bullying if you can't see that then your probably the bully!