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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you the same as the persona you project on here???

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Are you the same as the persona you project on here???"

lmfao x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope im quiet and shy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im definitely not like my persona.

Yes I have a warped sense of humour, yes I am a sadistical mare...but the impression you may get, is not the person you would meet.

ooooeeerrr does that make me a fakey!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well have you ever met anyone from one of these sites, even after nattering to them for a while and thought...they are not what you expected?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well have you ever met anyone from one of these sites, even after nattering to them for a while and thought...they are not what you expected?"

Think we are all slightly different i real life x

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

i'm probably more confident on here than i am in real life ..its easier to hide my initial shyness - but i dont think i'm hugely different other than that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well have you ever met anyone from one of these sites, even after nattering to them for a while and thought...they are not what you expected?

Think we are all slightly different i real life x

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agreed, it was more how people project themselves really and if they actually thought they portrayed a true image of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm probably more confident on here than i am in real life ..its easier to hide my initial shyness - but i dont think i'm hugely different other than that. "

Same here lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i'm probably more confident on here than i am in real life ..its easier to hide my initial shyness - but i dont think i'm hugely different other than that.

Same here lol x "

just me then......lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im perhaps as bigger pain in the ass as i am on here pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im perhaps as bigger pain in the ass as i am on here pmsl xx"

bet I could make that ass pain bigger....grins

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im perhaps as bigger pain in the ass as i am on here pmsl xx

bet I could make that ass pain bigger....grins "
....... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half in half really ..

In our forum posts we may appear confrontational, aggressive, rude, abrupt, antagonistic ..... the list goes on.

We really are very nice people - straight talking, but nice Personally we think that most folks appear different on a forum than they are in 'real life'

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"Well have you ever met anyone from one of these sites, even after nattering to them for a while and thought...they are not what you expected?

Think we are all slightly different i real life x

agreed, it was more how people project themselves really and if they actually thought they portrayed a true image of themselves. "

i think there are people like yourself who create a character for the screen.. a conscious choice to present yourself in a particular way - for humour, for provocation, for stimulation

and then there are those who deliberately deceive by hiding or creating parts of themselves ...luckily i've only met one of those people so far and thats only because i didnt trust my gut instinct - i'll listen to it more carefully next time lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Half in half really ..

In our forum posts we may appear confrontational, aggressive, rude, abrupt, antagonistic ..... the list goes on.

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Bollocks....ypu mean your not all of these????

Im gutted.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half in half really ..

In our forum posts we may appear confrontational, aggressive, rude, abrupt, antagonistic ..... the list goes on.

We really are very nice people - straight talking, but nice Personally we think that most folks appear different on a forum than they are in 'real life'

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Illusion shattered now (thought you were nice really) lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half in half really ..

In our forum posts we may appear confrontational, aggressive, rude, abrupt, antagonistic ..... the list goes on.

Bollocks....you mean your not all of these????

Im gutted....."

, sorry to disappoint you - and to think we'd made such a good job of the deceit so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Half in half really ..

In our forum posts we may appear confrontational, aggressive, rude, abrupt, antagonistic ..... the list goes on.

Bollocks....you mean your not all of these????

Im gutted.....

, sorry to disappoint you - and to think we'd made such a good job of the deceit so far

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mwah.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We, (Well I - Bob) just love being devils advocate - Sandie bollocks me for doing it and getting peoples backs up, but hey it's a bit of good old fashioned fun

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

doubt you would recognise me in 'real' life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well have you ever met anyone from one of these sites, even after nattering to them for a while and thought...they are not what you expected?

Think we are all slightly different i real life x

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Hard to say..... I think I am the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doubt you would recognise me in 'real' life "

We would lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doubt you would recognise me in 'real' life "

You got a big tent xx

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


"Well have you ever met anyone from one of these sites, even after nattering to them for a while and thought...they are not what you expected?

Think we are all slightly different i real life x

Hard to say..... I think I am the same.

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Well I hope you are the same xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well have you ever met anyone from one of these sites, even after nattering to them for a while and thought...they are not what you expected?

Think we are all slightly different i real life x

Hard to say..... I think I am the same.

Well I hope you are the same xxx "

I'm pretty sure I am.... I'm told I am so .......... so be it lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'm pretty sure I am.... I'm told I am so .......... so be it lol.. "

You should be an MP Mr Notts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wondered and pondered over this....and pondered some more. then decided its for others to say am i the same on forum as in real life.

so as none of you have met me......well you just wont know

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"doubt you would recognise me in 'real' life

You got a big tent xx"

I'll take that as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm pretty sure I am.... I'm told I am so .......... so be it lol..

You should be an MP Mr Notts "

I considered it...... Seriously did.

I think i'd be an excellent choice for the people with little or no voice..

I'd bring to the table laws the common people relate to..

I'd work hard and untiring to reduce if not eradicate corruption..

But.. now all the expenses have dried up whats the point lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doubt you would recognise me in 'real' life

You got a big tent xx

I'll take that as a compliment "

ave got a big tunnel here in merseyside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doubt you would recognise me in 'real' life

You got a big tent xx

I'll take that as a compliment

ave got a big tunnel here in merseyside"

So the fact we heard there was two was just a rumour then lol... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I'm exactly as I am online. Not sure if that was a compliment though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

big indeed ,,, i just drove through it 20 mins ago ,,, bang goes another 1.40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

big indeed ,,, i just drove through it 20 mins ago ,,, bang goes another 1.40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doubt you would recognise me in 'real' life

You got a big tent xx

I'll take that as a compliment "

Big tent.......equates to big tent pole lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"big indeed ,,, i just drove through it 20 mins ago ,,, bang goes another 1.40 "

Oh dear mate coffee money dwindling rapidly lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right ,,, am off up the wooden hill , catch u lot later ,,, have a lovely day ,,, ooops ,, i got to put the bin out ,, toodlepip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right ,,, am off up the wooden hill , catch u lot later ,,, have a lovely day ,,, ooops ,, i got to put the bin out ,, toodlepip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doubt you would recognise me in 'real' life

You got a big tent xx

I'll take that as a compliment

ave got a big tunnel here in merseyside

So the fact we heard there was two was just a rumour then lol... x "

you are right i do have two big tunnels easier access and less congestion. the only prob is that as tent willy sez you pay for access and they make ya ears pop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 trips somedays makes ya wallet pop ,,, no wonder i cant afford slap up dinners on me meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 trips somedays makes ya wallet pop ,,, no wonder i cant afford slap up dinners on me meets "

Slap up dinners?.....oh thats where we are going wrong and i thought people liked Mc Donalds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 trips somedays makes ya wallet pop ,,, no wonder i cant afford slap up dinners on me meets "

wot an excuse ya cheapskate.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"6 trips somedays makes ya wallet pop ,,, no wonder i cant afford slap up dinners on me meets "

Nothing wrong with a bag of chips with the right guy

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

i think i am a lot more laid back than i come across on the threads ...dont know how to sort of address that tho ...except to stop telling everyone to fuck off ....pmsl

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone

Me im sweetness and light here.

Right nasty bastard in real life who cusses at grannies and steals rattles from babies prams

Or is that the other way round i forget

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Im mostly the same in real life as I am on here

Can't see any reason to create too different a persona,people meet up from here partly on the strength of how you come across on the forums,what a let down if they were the complete opposite of what you thought

The only difference with me is being a mod I have to remain neutral in certain situations and act as peacekeeper when sometimes I just want to let rip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am same on as offline, the only diffrence is offline i am a bit more softer towards people where online i aint (think cos i cant see them?) but i still a strange bitch on and off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well perhaps am different in real life to the point that I dont swear. ok the odd blow out now and again, or the occasional road rage. but mainly this is when am by myself. so i find it quite theraputic off loading on forum with as many swear words that i can think off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im a bit more relaxed off of here when talking to friends from fabs , i dont know why but i just am and been told alot more of a laugh.

I think i just feel abit of pressure to fit in and end up not being my self which leads to me making mistakes when posting on threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey you were quite eloquent with that post hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hey you were quite eloquent with that post hun "

Why thank you and feel relaxed to day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can think of someone who seems completely different to how they are on the forums, much, much friendlier. It was a very welcome surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm the same on the forums as I am in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can think of someone who seems completely different to how they are on the forums, much, much friendlier. It was a very welcome surprise."

haha no shit sherlock me just went to ya profile to read ya verifications to sus out who. please excuse my bad manners and bored today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Me, that was, me and nobody else. Me myself and I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can think of someone who seems completely different to how they are on the forums, much, much friendlier. It was a very welcome surprise.

haha no shit sherlock me just went to ya profile to read ya verifications to sus out who. please excuse my bad manners and bored today"

i just looked but cant suss who

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Online (well on a forum) all you get are my thoughts. They are my honest thoughts; which does then allow people to understand some of my values and beliefs…. but that’s only one part of a 1000 piece jigsaw which makes up me as a person. I don’t think you can see all of a person just by what they type.

What people type is not always a clear indication of how they behave… in fact it rarely is. Sitting in front of a screen gives a sense of safety, as the only consequence of our choice to type is to deal with a string of one dimensional words flooding back.

It’s easy to type anything and if people want to be careful about what they type to make sure they present an ‘acceptable persona’ (usually for their own gain in one way or another) it doesn’t require much effort. All they have to do is control which letters they tap… and have the luxury of time to think it out.

Our real life choices and the actions which take say so much more about us as people and you just don’t see those things on a forum.

I know one or two people who ‘play the game’ when it comes to their forum persona/posts. On the one hand I think it is deceptive and I’d question what sort of person is happy to manipulate people to increase their chances or gain acceptance/attention… but on the other hand I can’t help thinking it’s not my problem if there are so many guidable people around to swallow the crap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i'm pretty much the same on here as i am in real life, i'm confident enough in who i am, and i don't feel any need to embelish. then again, someone told me i come across as intelligent and articulit.....artyculate....areticlat.... good with words, so i guess i must be putting out a false image without realising it

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I think i'm pretty much the same on here as i am in real life, i'm confident enough in who i am, and i don't feel any need to embelish. then again, someone told me i come across as intelligent and articulit.....artyculate....areticlat.... good with words, so i guess i must be putting out a false image without realising it "

Was that me? ive changed me mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you the same as the persona you project on here???"

No, i'm only looking for certain type of sex fun via here. In the real world I'm quite assertive, tell it as it is and anti stupid.

I have time to waste on here, but not in the real world, so different mind set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 trips somedays makes ya wallet pop ,,, no wonder i cant afford slap up dinners on me meets "

Thought you could buy a pass, then unlimited use?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have chatted via email to a few of the above posters (no names), and their emails are much nicer than the image they portray on forums, apart form one who is just as nice on the forums as in emails. Some use it as an escape from day to day stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have chatted via email to a few of the above posters (no names), and their emails are much nicer than the image they portray on forums, apart form one who is just as nice on the forums as in emails. Some use it as an escape from day to day stuff. "

u cant be meaning me, as am never nice

and if i am it could mean you have just blown my cover...or covers if u have been eating beans

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